₦airaland Forum

why do I have this feeling that when you feed this our local dog with the right amount of food, they look better than the way we look down on them,

I have one I am currently training at home, I want to see the experimental difference, I avoid he from moving around during d day time time, while from 7pm I release him, and when it's 7am I take him for a walk round d hux, and he looks lively,

he has the body coloration of a rottweiler but I believe he is a local dog, pls who has a local dog with d color strips of a rottweiler

franchasng:
Marriages and relationships should be made open so everybody will be free to sex whoever he or she feels attracted to without any condemnation, that's how we can have total peace in the world and anybody that contracts STDs or STIs dies cheerfully without any fuss about it

and before dieing u too get infected wat do u do, u too die for nothing,

banio:
Who cheating epp.

It is just a cash wastage adventure filled with regrets and sorrows

nice one, it's a complete waste of money and waste of emotions, just focus on one, and see hw ur life becomes peaceful, freedom to drop ur phone any where, without password, pick calls without stammering

pocohantas:
I don't know why he got that angry. For every/most cheating men, there is a cheating woman somewhere. The only exception is if most cheating men are fcking other men or animals. The married man's side chick is another man's main chick. To his wife, he is a husband. To the side chick, he is a maga, sponsor or sugar daddy.

Please o, lets be more tolerant and do this for the culture...

does culture exist in 9ja again when we see the western life as the best to follow,

Davash222:
"Why should I leave...when am cheating too"

Typical Nigerian girl, Cheating is now competition. Fish brains!!!

but it's d truth, most ladies later regret their actions after leaving the marriage, only to find out all men are the same, some over up their tracks while others get caught easily, then y did I now leave d marriage,

will they also advise their daughter in laws to leave their husband (child)when he cheats too?

atoleybaba:
I guess it is true that once you start a poultry, there is every possibility of attracting various snakes....few weeks ago it was a cobra, now a python and unfortunately, it had swallowed 2 of our 5 turkeys and killed one of the turkey sitting on it egg

get someone to fumigate d farm for u every 2weeks oru can get d chemical at the market urself and do it,

I kw snake not like calbad smell, u can sprinkle that round the cage u must provide more safty measures for ur business ooo,na hustle we day o

if u kw u got bushes around your home get a dog, that will keep u at alart,
though it's raining season, I will not b surprise to see lots of snakes been killed,

we are just too nice in Africa in general, we sabi day accomodate people, just the other day I watch a tv reality show called "judge juddy"and a similar case like diswas brought to her, and she been a lawyer fined someone like ur cousin about 5000$ ,,,,after accommodating u, u didn't pay a dime,and u still get the power to day select watin u wan eat,

as I grow old ,i dont blame people who choose not to help, that ur cousin was just been ungrateful, that's d plain language I will use,


because he got a marine job, so u guys are now disposable to him see life,
loyalty they say is rare

uboma:
Really!

Your gullibility is legendary.

it's normal to b gullible bro, if others are unlucky towards women that doesn't mean others wouldn't be lucky when it comes to women,

if u are unlucky towards spiritual leaders that doesn't mean others wouldn't be lucky,

one man's meal is another ones trouble,

kayzat:
So churches now cure leukemia Get sense please

my brother somethings are beyond the physical eyes,make d woman go the church, if no miracle take place, then they can assist her financially, ,,,african na spiritual ground, every day is a battle

Angy55:
I said there are some of us.. not all ladies.
Here is the thing even working class ladies earning make demands, they even make demands more than some jobless ladies out there. It is about personality and when I mean personality it has nothing to do with ego.

It is left for you to search deeply.

There are still good ladies out there just as there are still good guys out there. Search deeply!

my dear
am still searching oo,e no easy for Ezekiel for bible,
actually it's more aobut personality, u are right sha,but with dis era we are living it's hard to even meet them,

ericsmith:
My kind of gurls are the amazons ladies, most guys find hard to crack, @times i wonder what kind of fate i get self buh i enjoy d challenge n how much they inspire me tho... we go don date for long, one day they'll just be like eric did you know u did not even toast me or stress @all ,OYa do the toasting now . when last i don hear westlife or MLTR ..head empty

I like it when day say na juju I use, becus I kw even toast them, I go ask them back oya make I start to toast u since na toast u like,lol na after I don chop I day tink of toasting, while some go say why I kw get to know them first b4 Chopin them, na long journey to know u no vex?

for the past couple of years my credit have been so so saved,

Angy55:
I disagree. Because I'm using myself as an example. There are some of us all we need is loyalty and that care(attention) not choking though. It's left for the guy to use his heart and not take the lady for a fool.

I just laugh while i read ur reply, babe na becus u day online dats y u have the strength and voice to say some of us are not like dat o,
are u trying to tell me, u haven't put a guy on trial before or put him in a financial test b4, come on babe u and I kw how the babes in 9ja behave am surprised u are saying some are not like dat,

so the guys complaining online everyday na female ghost they day meet?


I hear, like u said u are different, same story every day

Angy55:
But when you guys meet the ones that don't demand you take them for granted.. you see such is life.

it's just a matter of time b4 she start demanding,

ericsmith:
Cannt the gurls just overlook his mistake n treat him like a real baby.
talking of "woo" i cannt even rmember d last time i toast woman, i think wen men get to certain age/level r/ship just happens from all direction. ALOL !

u are just a Carbon copy of me, the last time I toast woman, should b d time I was in my final year, why should I born my credit call on u, when I kw say u fit gree, u fit no gree for me, I just direct my talk to how we fit get down together, who mr nice guy help, it oly made him look like a fool after all the I can't sleep without u or I keep seeing u everyday in my dream,

Lemskey:
Dear Nairalanders,sincerely,I am really tired of our babes in Nigeria.I think the economic situation of the country has made most of them loose their proper state of reasoning and dignity.

I ended a toxic relationship some months ago as it was obvious that the babe I was dating was just after my pocket but never loved me.

Just b"cos I am a nice person and was willing to provide for her,she took advantage of it and turned me to her Central Bank.

Thank God I was able to summon d courage from d advise of experienced Nairalanders to break up with her.

However,in the last two months,I ve been trying to go into another relationship but it seems all these 9ja babes are d same.

The first babe I met,whom I was still trying to get used to did not hesitate to ask for a new phone just within a week that we re started seeing each other.Not that I demanded for sex or was even in a rush to as my aim is to have a girl that we both can love each other and ve a last lasting relationship.She has a Tecno phone already but was complaining that she was tired of the phone and needed an iPhone x.I just avoided her since then.

Last Friday,I met another one that is even worse.
We went to d movies and had some refreshment at an eatery and we ve been chatting until last nite she started demanding for #200k to start clothing biz.

Though she even demanded for data on Saturday, I sent 1.8GB to her and demanded for more on Sunday, claiming that her iPhone consumes a lot of data and I sent her another 1GB b'4 she came up with the demand for capital to do biz.

There is nothing wrong in caring for a woman but I feel a man shld willingly provide and not d woman making demands just within days of meeting a man.

I as a person is ready to provide for my babe but when d babe sees d material provisions as d objective of d affair, it becomes so discouraging.

Our babes shld understand that it is not all men that just wants to sleep with them and dump them.

They are sincere guys who want a genuine lasting relationship,while other things can follow.

In fact,I am just tired.

I wish we guys could just do without them to save our time,energy and money.

They are so frustrating abeg!

u are not alone bro
one even indirectly ask me for membership form b4 dating her,even after having a good time with her, I just suffery move on, not my loss,but hers, money donr truly know the value of money ,thats y when day start working after marriage they hardly drop money as for of assistance to the husband

make I kw talk sha,when d way girls day behave these days u never still learn anything, I wish u best of luck, do medical test bro, HBV is real even more deadly than HIV

pocohantas:
You must be lefulefu 2.0, you seem to have seen it all.

I might not have seen it all, I always move out of my comfort zone and I listen to real stories in d real life and see how they react individually to their different stories

it's better to marry an ugly woman or an illiterate dat has sense than a beautiful one without a sense of reasoning

same goes with a man
4get all dis princes and princess charming stuff,

EkunKekere:
A lesson for all those who want to use marriage to cover up their failures in other aspects of their lives or to fulfill societal expectations
What really amuses me are those married illiterate women who look down on single, well educated women.
I know a case of a married primary school dropout who can barely read and write, looking down on a single woman with a Masters degree.
Africans are truly nature's joke for humanity.

bro been an educated lady doesn't means u will have a happy home bro, it's all about the lady mindset, ,i have seen a market seller(illiterate) whose husband isn't base in 9ja but still goes to the market to sell tomatoes and pepper, and still goes back home to take care of d kids, while most educated lady even though they are working probably in a more comfortable environment can't endure for long without d husband been around them knowing fully well na where man for day work na there he for day chop, ,,,,,

AwkaetitiBabe:
See how a broke lazy husband can push a woman to commit suicide. Women are simply not wired to be bread winners.

She got all the cards, why she didn't dump the lady man beats me. Could be murder

the truth is right from the creation of the world till now, God never made a woman to take the position of been a bread winner, na women just choose to carry their position, compare a man and a woman who works 7-6pm respectively and see their reaction when they are faced with emotional situation, the woman wil mostly not maintain a calm state even after d issue has been trashed she will still keep talking about it,
I don't blame them, it's d society I will point the fingers to, cus they made it look like a competition of what a man can do, a woman can do more better,thats was hw the female brain twisted of indirectly taking the position of being a bread winner, and sometimes women are know to take more miles when given a kilometers, many of them start dictation in the hux,

Women are not bread winners both mentally and religiously, while growing up I was made to understand in both Sunday school (church) and in my primary /secondary school that women are ment to stay @home to take care of the kids and keep d home safe while the man goes out to hustle or hunt but it's the other way around now, ND some men are so lazy/foolish to have given out their position in the hux to a woman,

what a pity

I know of a friend whose wife work in oil company while he works as a contract worker, d man know day get mouth talk for d hux becus the money does come steady,

many women still remain loyal, even when they earn more than their husband, some will even buy a car for d hux but u wouldn't even know it's the wife money, while some the moment small issues breaks out, that will b the hymn song for the whole day and any body who tries to settle them will also learn d hymn song

ednut1:
This is what the society has turned many ladies to . They get married to scum men with their own money just to bear mrs and satisfy the society . In the end depression and death looms . No one changes after marriage take note. U killed ur self now. Your kids will suffer in life as the step mother would make life a living hell for them.Weak woman

now adays now woman day pay bride price for man, I kw long ago, it will come to dat,no matter how woman take do strong head reach, to marry stil day their agenda, so why don u go with who like u whether money day or not, but will day listen no "I can't come and suffer "na em we day so,

but the man fuxk up sha even if u wan cheat no b around ur neighborhood u go take do dat kin matter na

Elexdallas:
Everybody in this country is just greedy,
Most of us here on Nairaland once attempted to do yahoo but failed.
We just want to live flashy,
But wait oo. How person go comot naija go Yankee to do gee��‍♀️

the matter weak me o,
the problem with gee,when u start, u can't stop it,i have a friend who has siblings (blood)in various europe country legally staying some are even citizens, but he chooses to go to Kenya to do yahoo,
the taste of quick money don enter e blood,i just Surry for our unborn kids sha

MicroBox:
Coming back to Nigeria immediately after your studies without oversea experience, is a mistake. You must try and engage yourself in something to have at least 2-years working experience before starting your application from your base. Beside, you can choose to become permanent resident of some countries before coming down.

when village people are calling ur name every day to come back, if u are not strong on ur own, bro forget it,
some of them it is after coming back to9ja they start regretting

mysticwarrior:
dey there make pant dey wear you, there are fake pastors everywhere now if you don't know, some of these pastors sleep with married women and will still use that hand to pray for you, oga wake up.

in as much there are fake pastors around, there are also some genuine ones search properly, if people could come from far and near to tb Joshua church, accommodating both foreigners and locals in 9ja, will u tag him a fake pastor?,
sometimes we don't have to generalize, the government are bad doesn't mean the whole government of every nation is also bad

Blackivy27:
amen. But rather pray for my schooling. Marriage is later.

u b woman o
na d two u go pray for o,both are important,
na marriage people take day respect woman o,no matter d kin money way u get, if u kw settle down my dear,make I no talk again o,

Blackivy27:
I'm not angry.

I love that
ur own celebration day come very soon

Blackivy27:

y u day vex
I understand, na hustle, no vex

Jeferious:
Can you give your own blood brother this same advice?

u ask am well, I don't kw. I have noticed ladies for this particular behavior, all becus of lve way no get meaning they will want u to settle for a relationship dat everybody knows will yield nothing,
a mother of 2 for not same man but different men, I once had a friend like dat in campus, bro these type of lady call single mother sleeps around like hell, make op day deceive himself thinking she is d only one dat she is rolling with,

Some guys are just too dump, u kw see single girl follow na who don born u day eye,

the last time I checked in 9ja society marriage between a guy and a single mother doesn't last ,most times the guy becomes a puppet in the hux, check around and see

Blackivy27:
Nairalanders and sh!tty comments? Mtcheeew
op happy married life. You both look cute. Cant wait to find my mr.right.

to those idiot saying others were sleeping with the lady during those years, take your bullsh!t comments and fu-k yourselves with it.

why e day pain u,? abi are u d op wife sister

mysticwarrior:
yes you are right, you can spend a lot on a wedding and still give to the old, but note that note every old people in your family wish you well, they may not like your spouse and pray for you physically but go behind to use diabolic means to wreck your marriage, family witches na them.

I tire o,
pastor don pray for d wedding, u wan still go meet old people, u like problem sha,except say ur pastor na small boy, no problem u fit meet d old people make day break egg for ur head

it's cool to celebrate a big wedding but pls my father said I should tell u not to borrow even if u wan borrow it should not b more than 5k,

how does that concern us now,
the one way u allow make he do, u no tell us,na the one's way u reject u day announce