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Joystark:
The older the berry...
The sweeter the juice

I've always fancied such relationships, for women tho

meaning that you like younger men? Because your profile says you are a woman

My pastor is on my neck concerning marriage, he's worried more than my people, his reason being that I should be married now as a man of God, that I shouldn't be a single mounting the pulpit, that he's the only one that allows it, other churches don't make you pastor if you are not married (winners does this)

My question is this,there are people of God in the Bible who never got married which Jesus is number one

Where is this belief coming from? Am old enough to marry but decided not to, is that a disqualification to serving God?

saphiere:
Marry her. Ladies open your eyes. Men are just after sex. They always giving fake marriage promise. Once they get in between your legs they now remember that their tribe don't marry people from your tribe. That their mothers say this and that.
Ladies open your eyes. Don't be a used and dump.

as if women don't enjoy sex

FYI a girl has used and dumped me before, telling me she only came for the sex

Can somebody highlight me why she wanted to fight laycon

obicoolnino:
Irrelevant show, there are more pressing matters Nigerians need to voice out and tackle as they threaten our future... The oppression of our govt on we Nigerians is too much and it's high time we stay united as one and not staring at our television.

oga, you people should stop all these rants, am not a fan of big brother naija but this ranting of yours is becoming childish

Since 1914 the foolish Lord lugard and his people created this dungeon and left us in 1960, what have we achieved? Since we been complaining about this pressing issue you guys are ranting about, what has happened?

Bbnaija didn't stop anything, in few weeks the show will be over and we'll see what will happen, if this pressing issues of yours will be taken care of

Evertime pressing issue, pressing issue, as if bbnaija has been here for long, we are always looking for whom to blame for our incompetence

This country didn't work and it's not working, it's time to dissolve it, bbnaija didn't do anything

illicit:
The older women are not sent, they need the stuff for theirselves

the number of older women who need it for themselves is ratio 1 to 10 of young girls on the move

Am speaking from experience based on the level of cases we are treating everyday in the ministry

If you are a God's minister or very close, you'll fear young girls, especially materialistic girls who's looking for Brazilian hair, iPhone and the rest

LINTUNE:
guy u daft o..why should the handkerchief be so important that she has to ask him to bring it to her?, common i believe u are not a teenager!

I dare not leave my handkerchief with a woman that I slept with, out of fear I must go back for my handkerchief

So who knows if the woman is even scared of the guy being a ritualist, though this is my assumption, what the guy think maybe true but it's still under probability

illicit:
Some ov them don't do it for fun, they harvest young guys glory

there are ways people's glory are being harvested which sleeping with older women is not even among the list

Do you know that sleeping with young girls is more risky than their older counterparts?

No spiritual assignment of stealing people's glory will be given to those older women, it's always young girls are on the mission, it's funny that men who are conscious of their destiny not to be taken, feel so liberal with the young girls believing that older ones are the evil when in reality the younger hustlers we call girls are the one doing many spiritual nonsense just to buy iPhone 12

OgunrinolA20:
Hj

where's the atheist? Is this not spiritual? Please answer

Wait... Is this the first position they go for? Because I know that this magun holds you imidiately you entered

Berryli:
Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year, I ran into my Neighbour and we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn't happen.

Fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone. He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship.

He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I'm not attracted to him. We are very different people, socially and even our views about life. I enjoy his company but that's all there is. As a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression.

He stylishly refer to me in future as his wife. What do I do? Is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn't asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people who just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control, which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him.

Do I just go with the flow since I'm currently not in a relationship? But won't that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don't like him in that way. or I'm over thinking the whole thing?

your writing was actually making alot of sense till you asked us if you would go ahead and date the same person you have assured us you don't like

The truth is this, once you don't like a guy, please let me go, Infact if it will hurt him telling him, let it be, the hurt he go through for not getting into the relationship he cherish will be very small to the hurt he will go true in the middle of the relationship when he realizes that you never loved him

Besides, I know that women most times don't know what they want, so there are possibilities that you don't know if you love him or not

The truth is that, since they can't explain how it entered, they had to say it entered through her mouth but that's a lie

When she slept, something happened in the realm of the spirit and the dream was wiped away from her memory, so she woke up and became sick

In summary, what you are seeing there is highly spiritual attack,

it's me speaking , a man with so much life encounters

JidennaJason:
While Wizkid, Naira Marley, Zlatan, Burna Boy and Small Doctor are "Proud" owners of Bentley, and Rolex watch Worth $1.6mil.


"Get money, Get sense"


Good one from 2baba, he's truly a king.

who told you these ones you mentioned don't have investments ?

It doesn't happen to everybody, some people's Joy multiply after sex

No one believes am a man of God because of my dressing

He's already famous, which is the major reason he came

zicoraads:
No one in that house is poor.

Some are only richer than others.

I was thinking laycon is a poor boy from a poor family

Lazyyouth4u:
Okay bro. I understand it may be a good platform. But Efe no get any levels again o. His name don expire and I’m not sure he’s doing any thing in show biz at the moment. We can only tell about Mercy next year after these new guys have come out and started enjoying the one year fame and taking all the endorsements that come with the show. Trust me, if you are really good at whatever you do, you don’t need Big Brother Naija to blow. I know a lot of people will disagree with me but I don’t think anyone has made it big time outside through BBN. Ebuka is the only exception and I think he would have still made it without BBN.

hmmmm I wanted to disagree with you but you made enough sense that shut me up because just like you said, almost all of them are no longer in the limelight

But I still insist that coming out of that place will place you a bit above where you were

zicoraads:
Connection and money.

Know who to give money to. For starters, you may want to send a message to an ex-HM. Nengi is Rico's protege. Although I hear there's a waiting list already. The ones for next year have been picked already and so on.

You might knock one or two off if your connection is solid though.

Best of luck.

This claim look so true, people always debunk the claim that you need cash and connections to be there, they are using laycon as an example saying he's a poor boy

Lazyyouth4u:
What will you gain by being a public figure for one year considering all the insults you will receive from lazy Nigerian youths? Being on the show doesn’t necessarily mean you will come out and blow o. You are better off using your time to focus on a legit hustle o. Go and see the likes of Bito, Nelson, KBrule, Rico, Angel, Vandora, etc. After one year, you are totally forgotten and back to your every day hustle but lazy Nigerian youths will continue trolling and insulting you and your family as that former BBN guy. Think am well my brother. Not sure it’s worth it sha except you are completely broke, jobless and talentless and have nothing to do with your time and life.

my brother I don't totally agree with you, even though they sometimes mess up in the house, this show is a door opner, nobody knew mercy before but today in owerri she got presence

Efe was nobody but Today he can't be addressed as nobody, look at this laycon, immediately he's coming out of that house, record labels will follow him up which is a dream comes true

Even though none of them maintain the level of fame they had in the house but the truth remains that they don't totally fade away

Coldie:
I wonder why some people criticize the show.

Do u know how much the rest of Africa keeps begging DStv almost everyday to bring back big brother Africa...

It became so bad that other countries started there's South Africa tried they couldn't keep up, Angola tried they couldn't keep up, Cameroon tried it's a flop, Ghana just started there's they don't even know how to go about it, the housemates are the ones videoing themselves by theirselves and putting on the internet.

Nigeria has the platform to help our youths and bad Belle's want to wish it away asif bbnaija is the cause of Nigeria's problems.

Bbnaija won't last forever, to me we should enjoy it while we can before it goes away for a long time and they bring back big brother africa

nice one from you

Do you think this bbnaija will ever fade away? I think so though but the way people follow this show I don't think that will happen anytime soon

And do you think bbafrica will ever come back?

Coldie:
Your cousin is a Nigerian so watching it doesn't come as a surprise, a show that is watched in many African countries presently, I was even surprised that despite how much I thought South Africans hate Nigeria they watch the show.

I don't know how they do it, but the fact the people are seriously arguing over then on this thread they tried

Yes of course, I used to think few people are watching because of the critics the show is receiving until I did a research only to discover that even the critics are watching

This bbnaija is a hit, I swear

kingxsamz:
You're the one who's backwards here.
Nairaland is not a religious forum, so why should religious topics be posted everyday?
If the pope dies and they decide to post it on a Sunday, that's their choice. If you're not happy with it, open your own forum and post your religious topics.
You people love to claim right on everything. The Muslims are not even complaining.
Clown.

oga, go back and read my posts on this thread to understand what am saying, what am saying is that nairaland is not a religious forum like you said, so religious topics should be treated like every other topic that make the front page if worthy

They shouldn't make it look like there's something about it that makes it only a Sunday fp worthy, that's religious

Please what's the criteria of being in that house? Because I know thousands of people attended the audition, are you saying these 20 are actually the best among all?

To be sincere, this show is worth going no matter how useless it may look, my cousin called from America telling me how they are watching it

These people automatically turn public figures overnight, I want to try my luck next year

kingxsamz:
You don't have a point.
Like I said, your beliefs are personal, and no one owes you anything.
Religious beliefs don't fit in with reality.
So expecting the mods to push Christian topics to the front page everyday just because they want to satisfy you, is absurd.
Not everyone is a Christian.

if Seun, the owner of nairaland that said no one owes me anything, I would've said he's foolish but you are the one that said it because loosing people on the forum won't matter to you

If any other post can make front page any day, then what's stopping religious posts? Is their anything special to it that ties it on Sunday alone?

So if Pope dies on Monday, we'll wait to see it on Sunday? Africans are backwards I swear

Dufil:
You will.be so stewpid to marry such girl, that game won't end.

such girl can still make a good housewife while the choir mistress turn to be LovePeddler

kingxsamz:
And how is that unprofessional?
It's not useful information to others. Not everyone is a Christian. These are just mere beliefs, and it's a personal thing.
So don't expect Nairaland to satisfy you on that.
Sunday is a day for worship for the Christians, so it makes sense that Christian related posts grace front page only on Sundays.
Same thing with the Muslims.

What if a useful information that could save a soul occurred on Tuesday, and the mods are keeping it for Sunday, when the information must've been useless

Nigerians and their way of thinking, very shallow

kingxsamz:
What's unprofessional about it?

you don't see anything unprofessional about it?

How can someone post a useful information during the week that should be pushed to the front page and the mods are waiting for Sunday to put it up

Religious threads only make front page on Sundays, this is unprofessional on one of the biggest Nigerian websites like nairaland

Quality20:
Ladies and church are 5 & 6. So where will u see any any lady to cohabit with?

so don't you know that some women you see going to church are actually going to a man's house

Olunmercy56:
Are you okay You need a strong deliverance by dear sister. Your village people are at work. If your boyfriend is a good man, what else are you looking for Think twice

don't you know that being good is different from sexual attractiveness

This old man/woman 28 years?