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Let me relate a "situation" where "kneeling to beg" can change a man's mind, even if it was already made-up and where it did not change naada (just laugh over it and move-on) 1.)This elderly man with grey hairs was driving dangerously by my side and l rolled down and informed him to be careful but he answered with a torrent of insults. He kept on aggressively (the typical Lagos Driver ) but l kept my cool, knowing my position is lawful and sound. Eventually, he pulled down my front bumper, broke one head lamp and bruised the paint work as he overtook me dangerously! Even at that, his "shakara" was up to the heavens! Traffic Police came and though it was very obvious, he was told he was in the wrong and has to bear the cost. At the station, I called-in my mechanic for a "cost of repair estimate" (the old man's vehicle no even get comprehensive insurance!). When he saw the Bill, he suddenly fell flat on his face, begging me! he started this story of how he was just hustling to make a living for his family.I refused to b e moved knowing how recalcitrant he has been and how much l warned him. But he would not stop holding my feet (with him prostrating in front of all in the Police Station! At this point, all l could do was look down on him from my standing position. All of a sudden, something inside me "clicked" and l shook my head and asked him to stand up. It was like okay, he appears wretched and what would l do to him now? The Police were willing to seize his vehicle until he could come-up with the money (about 45K plus labor). A lot was going thru my mind and eventually, l succumbed to the "kneeling and begging" even though l was very furious initially. What l am pointing out here is that YES, some act of sincere remorse like"kneeling and begging when you're wrong, can actually melt a spouse heart in a situation where your mind was already made-up, after-all, no one is perfect. You will forgive and eventually with time, you will overcome the grief (assuming the other party is sincere/ honestly remorseful and not "just scheming" ) after which, with time, you will "forget" the incident. To the other part of the question: Any one (man/woman) who is hell-bent on leaving, will leave, no mater the amount of rolling on the floor. The difference between this "state" and the first is that, in the first, your decision to leave was based on "anger for what the other party did" and as such, "kind words and sincere remorse" is the "antidote" you are actually expecting. It is adequate. The second state is such that you have actually "considered" your decision and how the other party will respond (begging) and you have actually zeroed your mind that you will "block your mind and spirit" to its effect (to calm you down) because your "initial goal" was to leave, what happened was just an excuse to actualize your intention in a "justifiable manner". But the begging party does not know your actual intention! In final analysis, if you wrong your spouse, (of it they claim so), be humble for the sake of the relationship, the past good times, the kids if any, and the future; beg seriously, if need be, kneel/prostrate (depending on the severity of the offense) just to bring things back to normalcy. (I have seen where wife was begging husband for a serious offense and husband burst into tears, begging wife also.....and they lived happily thereafter again! )...asked later why he was crying at that moment when he was supposed to be "blowing hot", he said "he realized that his marriage was just "seconds away from crashing beyond repair" and that he appreciated what his wife did to save the marriage at that momentWhether they accept the plea or not, is their prerogative, their choice! But l know that "Love overcomes all mistakes". Except if the love is dead ab-initio Lastpage! |
tanimola22: I don't think it is either lecturer's office. It seems like the office of one of those biological sciences lecturers. I hope the fire is quenched as soon as possible.From the look of things, the fire is actually burning on the second floor (Area around Dr. Edward's office in those days (you know the Baba that "talks and winks at you" at the same time at the lecture theatre! I bet he is no longer around anymore.) but being carried by convection currents, upwards.Its the Biological Sciences Labs that are on the third of that rights sides of the Complex. Physics Lab is actually on ground floor but at the other end. How is Dr. Boyo doing? Is Dr Akinrimisi still in Physics depts? What about the almighty "youngest Prof" in those days (The HOD, Prof Femi something, cant remember now)I heard "Super Ted" crossed to Computer Sciences? Good Faculty, Nice lecturers (only Dr. Ameachi wasn't much liked when he just came-in, back then. l hope they still maintain the standards up till now? Lastpage! |
phizz: You own the fence in your front and right hand side ie your entry and right hand side(when you facing the gate from inside the site)Hi Phizz, Is the above "legally encoded and authoritative" or is it just what YOU think, i.e. your own idea of boundary-issues? Where can l get "reference" to it if its legal, just to confirm myself? Cheers, Lastpage! |
Dipwater: Na laziness to fight 4 our right dey make people wan travel out. if u no like naija carri guns make we go blow up brains. we shuld learn how to change thngs not to run away 4rm challenges my advice to countries of the world pls keep deporting illegal naija immigrants in ur country. Let dem come back and face the music if we all run away who go stand fight 4 freedom. naija is not the only poor country in the world wetin sef. our own done too much funny enuff if u shine ur eyes well and comot shame u go make am 4 naija. Its high time we shun this get rich quick syndromeThank you jare! You gave a good suggestion while ALL the others are just busy insulting one another, thinking they are "forming" here and there! ![]() Make una siddon there they yarn "Grammar" when MEND Boys and Boko Haram Boys are Sharing Billions of Naira for doing what-da-feck? Either become Boko Haram or more 'wisely', take the advice up there and migrate to the NASS compound. SIMPLES! Lastpage! |
Lets just hope they dont in-turn, convert it for their own private use! Lastpage! |
baroong: Good for them because there is no security in Nigeria. |
All these "modern-day women" that do "shakara" all over the place, please dont beg your man when you wrong him, your replacement is already waiting at the door! Anyway, "upbringing" is a major factor in how we reason as adults! I dont expect less in a society where most ladies are brought up by "single mothers", (na the same "arrogance of the heart" cos their Mama to be single mother in the first place naah!) As for me, l will kneel and beg my wife, if that is what it takes to keep our marriage and home intact (and for the well-being of our children) should l wrong her badly! Pride they say, goes before a fall! " A "wise woman" keeps her home (with humility to her husband) while the foolish woman destroys her home (with arrogance and "sharp tongue" !No wonder some women dey end up in Nursing home, dying of loneliness at old age![color=#990000][/color] ![]() Which is better: That l beg "my wife" on my knees (abi l will become a statue in that position for ever?) and we enjoy our life till old age (she sef go kneel-down if need be )Or: that we use arrogance and pride take scatter the family, lock-down our collective progress and destabilize our children's well-being? Anyway sha, some of you Gaals never know "wetin gwan", get married first and come back to tell us "how far"! ![]() Lastpage! (walks into the bedroom to embrace his lovely wife! |
jp philips: my opinion about Sanusi has never changed till he proves otherwiseThank you very much for this piece. Some peeps have wondered why the "Trial Run" is in Lagos and not Abuja where LawBreakers exchange Cash for favors? Others also wondered why he did nt start this in Kano (instead of the Nations economic hub that is Lagos), at least if it fails like most of his "thoughtless policies", its effect will be minimal compared to collapsing the economy of Lagos! *Where is the "stable Broadband" internet to carry the financial data online? Is it the epileptic ...that is sold to us as "Broadband"? *Where is the stable electricity to "power" devices that would sustain this cashless society in Lagos or are we to do it on "i-better-pass-my-neighbor" Generators running expensive PMS and Diesel? *What about the availability of POS, at what additional cost to the Small business man like a bricklayer (Mason) that has to pay workers at the end of the day or the Block-maker, Cement Seller? Must he run the economy on a "Trial-and-Error" basis, like a kindergarten? That Sanusi chose Lagos for this his inept test-run is further confirmation of what everyone has been saying: He is Destroying the economic base of the South of Nigeria. Who owns most of the banks he destroyed? Southerners! (even when his Northern bank has not been stressed-tested at all, he went on air to list Southern-owned banks as distressed!) Though l hate to point it out, but it is becoming impossible to ignore Sanusi's ethnic agenda! Apart from been bereft of any cogent idea that can lift the economy, this man is a "suicide-waiting to happen". As clueless as Jonathan is, even him should be able to at least "observe" that inflation, cost of living, e.t.c is on the rise while infrastructure and any form of development is on the wane or is he not a PhD holder? .This country is really screwed, from all holes! |
violent: Duh! you don't start fighting fire from inside! why should that require a Phd to know?^^^^^^^^Cover your face joor! From the picture, its obvious that the "core" of thefire is inside one of those offices. Now, you could pour all the water you want on the "outside shell" of the building, until you extinguish the core of the fire(inside the building), you are just wasting water. If you've done a fire training and use of Extinguishers, you will have been told that you direct the extinguisher to the "base" (inside) of the fire, inside the office in this case. Bush man! ![]() Think about it again. Lastpage! |
^^^^^^^^Cover your face joor! From the picture, its obvious that the "core" of thefire is inside one of those offices. Now, you could pour all the water you want on the "outside shell" of the building, until you extinguish the core of the fire(inside the building), you are just wasting water. If you've done a fire training and use of Extinguishers, you will have been told that you direct the extinguisher at the "base" (inside) of the fire, inside the office in this case. Think about it again. Lastpage! |
SegzyJoe: Your mistake is to think that academic qualification could substitute for anointing. Unfortunately, God is not looking for the qualified, He only need the available. It is the same way and reason why Jesus looked for the uneducated like Peter and others who were shine lights at the expense of the well read, learned Pharisees, Sadducis among others. God looks for those that make themselves available, the weak, illiterate, even the mr nobody. God likes to use nothing to bring out something. That is why it pleased God to use the simplicity of the gospel to save mankind, instead of subjecting salvation to rigorous academic and intellectual debates. Qualification to be a pastor is not about academic pedigree, it is about the book of life, the bible and the Holy Spirit.Thank you jare, Pastor SegzyJoe! Preach for them and let them hear it. Preach Pastorrr!! They think "academic qualification" is what God needs! Did God not said: I will give whosoever l choose? Did He not say "Jacob l love yet Esau l hate"? See Peter - Fisherman of zero education! Dont count Paul for now, that one was a criminal before he got born-again joor! ![]() Have Faith and Believe, Your miracle is on the way! ;;;;; ;;;;; ;;;;; Hmmm....Problem is that: *Jesus, Peter and the other Apostles did not acquire massive wealth like our "chosen and available" Nigerian Pastors, of modern time! *Peter, John nor Paul did not perform fake miracles! * Emmm...Jesus did not rob from the poor by making them pay him "owo-ile" (like those Lagos Area Boys), he did not threaten them with hell-fire if they dont donate their last dime so that he can live-large! *Jesus nor any of his Apostles did not take advantage of widows or single women! *Unlike Paul or any of the disciples of Jesus, they earned their living by having their secular work! They did not feed-fat on Tithe! Even in the Old testament whence Tithe was ordered, it was eaten in a "celebration in God's presence", by those who brought it! The ones set aside for the "Temple workers" was done for a reason which no longer exists: Animal Sacrifice. But our modern day Pastors are too greedy to let that "income stream" die naturally! They will recite Malachi till kingdom come! ![]() Even Jesus never paid Tithe, but he paid Tax! *The Apostles gave all they have and followed Jesus but our modern day "called and available" Pastors just acquire more and more while fleecing the poor in their congregation. How does a "Man-of-God" stand at the alter and watch a Poor widow give her everything, knowing that it is part of what he uses to live a flamboyant life-style? Dem no get conscience? *Jesus did not threaten that widow that gave her "widow's mite"(she gave it freely without harassment!). Our Pastors of today use fear and intimidation to collect every last penny in the pocket of the foolish members! ![]() *Jesus did not dine with thieves and murderers. Our Pastors of today have this habit of hobnobbing with those who impoverish this country and make millions of children die of preventable diseases! They will "pray for them", lay hands on them and give them "high sits" on the alter, for a share of their loot! Both the Thief and the "receiver of stolen goods", are THIEVES So Bros, l think the comparison did not work! Better Luck next time! ![]() But seriously, 99% of Nigerian Pastors are FRAUDS, especially those abroad! Lastpage! I dey come, make l go "practice-well-well", maybe me sef go fit establish one ATM-Church for my area! Recession no dey reach church, sumbori shout "Ameen"! |
@Daresh: First, no need to get agitated and insulting, try and maintain some decency in your post! Like you, other people are entitled to voice their opinion. By the way, did it ever occur to you that "the part about her 12yr old boy saying what you are "acting on", might just be "MADE-UP", to generate sympathy for her story and paint the husband as a Devil? Did you hear it from "the son" himself or have you heard from the accused husband? if you were a Judge in a court of law, is this how you would sentence a man to death-row, based on "just the word" of his accuser? Think again and factor-in "human nature"! ![]() And l am surprised you suggested you will poison the "father of your children"! First, that makes you a murderer and possibly you get life in Prison or the Gas Chamber. ![]() Secondly, you cant "manufacture" another father for those children and believe me, they would not 'clap for you' in return; it will only convince them that you're the one stoking the trouble all the time! In that case, the children would have lost both parents (through your action: is this in the best interest of such children, who will now be scattered and fostered by strangers?) Two Wrongs will never make a Single Right. Lastpage! |
Another thing l find ridiculous is this: (Time for Expenses on the children)[/color] Wife, to her husband: So you cant provide for YOUR children? YOUR children need this and that! ([color=#990000]When there is a misunderstanding in the family/marriage) Wife, to husband: I will leave with MY children. You must not come near MY children! MY children! MY children!! MY children!!! Question: What suddenly turns "YOUR" children, into "MY" children? I thought the children belonged to both of them and whoever decides to "elope or take a walk", should be the one visiting the family home to see the children? Do l sense a "gender-discrimination" here? Just wondering o! ![]() I have read a few posts up there where peeps advised the woman "to leave with HER CHILDREN so as to protect them"! I ask: protect them from whom? Their FATHER? If there was violence, its obvious its between the "husband and wife", not between "father and children or mother and children". If you talk about the "psychological effect of the violence" on the children then you must concur that all you need to do, to stem that violence, is to remove "one of the parties" to the violence, (wife in this case, if she chose to leave or divorce) but it does not extend to removing the children from the home, as well. Consider a situation where she decides to live separately from the husband ( assuming he is beating her and not the other way round), who then will he fight, once she is out of the equation? NOBODY!Thus, the children would not witness any further violence in that situation and there is no need to pretend that taking them along will protect them from violence. The truth of the matter is that women use "taking MY children" as a weapon, a "psychological weapon" against their husband, to punish and traumatize him further. The result is that a "separation" which could have been possibly reconcilable (when both partners calm down), now becomes a bitter-to-death fight" over custody and assets sharing [color=#990000][/color](since who keeps the children gets to be paid maintenance! ![]() If your children as still with their father, you will get to 'visit them' and men being what they are (easily forgiving), might just throw an arm around you, one day! But if you "punish him" by taking away his children (or even barring him access to them as is the standard practice of "our westernized women" who live abroad), you have deliberately hit him where it hurts and he should be expected to be bitter as long as that situation persists and any possibility of reconciliation is erased! The is one of the reasons that make "Oyinbo men" very "suicidal and desperate" to the point of killing everyone including himself. We should also not forget that in the West, divorce is "two-for-ten cent" to the point that you would wonder if they really loved themselves! How do you explain a man or woman marrying and divorcing five times (Serial Monogamy)? But they see nothing wrong in it, seems it is their culture, just like the African sees nothing wrong in marrying two wives simultaneously! (Polygamy). At the end of the day, each man/woman has conjugated with more than "one spouse" in their life-time. I hope spouses would find a way to iron-out issues, in a mature way that would into result into physical violence. Consider that "TWO cannot 'walk together' (stay married) except THEY AGREE" but how can they agree when each wants to be 'a Captain' of the same Boat? It is common-sense that Airplanes has one Pilot/Captain (and a "supporting" or assistant Pilot), Ships have one Captain, Companies/Corporate entities have one CEO/COO/Managing Director why not the marriage Boat or Institution? Lets sit back and think. Lastpage! |
This idea of "hiding a POST" is really annoying! Who makes that decision? Why cant anyone be allowed to view the post, IF THEY SO CHOSE? At least, we see how it is done in other forums and even on first class sites like Yahoo! and Google! They hide the post but you can still view it by clicking on it, if you so wish. "Naija peeps" things na "over-do", as usual. ![]() Lastpage! BTW: LASMA staff should have removed his Uniform, if he wants to engage in a public brawl, it is disrespectful to his "commission" as a Government Official. But then, what "protection" is he, as an officer of the law, accorded, knowing that he has to face all manner of criminals on the streets? Run-down "system" and very Shameful indeed. |
WHY I DISLIKE COMMENTING ON MARITAL ISSUES ON NAIRALAND? 1.) Read the comments and you will see a pattern of sex-ism in most comments!(women run-down men while defending their folk and vice-versa). 2.) There is a general assumption by MOST WOMEN that ONLY a man is capable of "battering" his spouse but EVIDENCE world-wide proves otherwise. Both Husband and wife are capable of violence in a marriage. 3.) People who have no clue of what marriage looks like, people whose "greatest experience" of what marriage travails are, is "reading it from a book" or doing some "academic" course in school, are suddenly turning into "Marriage Counselors"! . "Walk the Walk" before you "Talk the Talk". Experience is not bought nor read somewhere, it is "EXPERIENCED" in real life! ![]() 4.) Folks have this annoying habit of jumping to conclusions, and it is even worse when they do so, just from hearing from ONLY ONE of the parties involved!. How do you expect a "scorned woman" or a "jealous husband" to give you a true and fair account of events , when they are the ones narrating the story? (l still remember the story of that lady, a few months ago, who came here and ran down her husband and the "counselors" pounced on him like 'Hyena on raw meat'! only for her to realize and apologize for her one-sided story!) Lessons should be learned from such 'experience' now, abi? 5.) Whether you like it or not, CULTURE, (Nigerian Culture for that matter) plays an important part in any marriage. For example, it is the culture of the "White Man" to be driven away from the family home and children taken from him (given o the wife) when the family breaks down, to burn/annihilate the whole family when "he cant take anymore of it, e.t.c. while it is the culture of the Nigerian man to retain the family home, drive the wife away when family breaks down, keep and maintain the children, e.t.c. (l am not condoning either culture, just "laying it on the table" ![]() In each case, it is "how is done in our environment" (our culture) and hardly do you hear (at least not with the same level of occurrence)that a Nigerian man sets fire to himself and his children, simply because his wife denied him access to them. Its just not in our system/culture. In essence, to say culture has no impact in a marriage, is to be very naive. Since there are always "two-sides" to every Coin and "Kind words allays anger", every "marriage complainant" must also tell us their own contribution to the failure of such marriage or what triggers such violence in the marriage and the part they played in exacerbating it beyond repair. If all you want is just a "rubber-stamp" of your "intentions" or you just need that "feel-good" factor when others bash your spouse for you, then Nairaland is your best destination. You are welcome! ![]() Fingers crossed for now. ![]() Lastpage! BTW: I seriously hate this "new page layout" of N.Land, its an eye-sore!. Is it only me? ![]() |
Why on earth would l buy Newspaper, in 2012? When l can read all the Newspaper l want (including Magazines) ONLINE! (Am even surprised that this question was raised!) I hear a lot of Newspapers are running at a loss and closing down nowadays! ![]() The smart ones amongst them have diversified into E-Newspaper and make their money through online adverts, pay-per-click and stuffs like that. Even "Seun" sef dey make money, each time we come here to "vent our spleen" (and possibly waste precious time!). Thats how the world is: The Smart ones and the "Muguns" like me! ![]() Jokes aside, Print Newspaper is archaic right now, and does damage to the "green environment". Lastpage! |
^^^^So you need to "dig-out" all these shyte on OBJ, just to portray Buhari as "A Saint"? ![]() Calm down, this is not a political party debate! ![]() Both of them are "TWO of the same COIN"! Nigerians know them very well, l've know both of them in the last 40years. Calm down, you hear?, except if you are "just doing your job"! Cheers, Lastpage! |
The team was marvelous for all the first half! Second half was still VERY PROMISING until Monsieur Whinger as usual, in his typical "over-sabi attitude", DECIDED IT WAS TIME TO EXHIBIT ONE OF HIS "FOR-SALE" PRODUCTS AT A VERY IMPORTANT OCCASSION! Oxy-Chamberlain was "stretched a bit" but was getting back into the game quickly and a 4th goal look feasible! But trust me, Mr. Whinger chose that moment "to try-out one of his shelf-products, maybe it would perform and command a higher price than he envisaged! I hope l am the only person that noticed how the game nose-dived once Chamak replaced Chamberlain? Once l saw that he was planning to put Chamak, l started crying and lamenting how we have lost the game and yet so close to winning! ![]() I had it said that "You Dont Change a Winning Team" plus "Attack is the best form of defence"! At times whenever he makes those "stewpid changes", l wish l can flog that Arse-Whinger with Koboko! ![]() I really commend Rosicky and Chamberlain for a fine display! Lastpage! |
@GenBuhari: Thanks for putting all those information in the public space though, some see it as "Anti-Obasanjo" and therefore does not merit attention. I must add that the best thing to do will be to have an independent investigation of the tenure of ALL MEN WHO HAVE RULED NIGERIA SINCE 1960 to date. They are all rogues and deserve to be tied and shot at Bar beach. Even General Muhammadu Buhari has not explained the "58 or 68 Suitcases Saga", till date! ![]() One crook is no better than another, a thief is a thief, irrespective of how much or how little he stole! In Nigeria, thievery is so monumental that we have started to "discriminate" between those who stole "trillions of Dollars" and those who stole "Billions of Naira"! Here is the story of "other Presidents/Military rulers we might have missed! http://www.vanguardngr.com/2012/03/derivation-and-deprivation-why-the-north-is-poor/ By Ross Alabo-GeorgeThe context of the story was in light of "low level of development in Northern Nigeria" and the part played by our former rulers, especially Northern Head of states/Rulers. Lastpage! |
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2012/03/derivation-and-deprivation-why-the-north-is-poor/ If our Presidents keep dishing out our "INHERITANCE" to themselves and their cronies/friends/concubines like THIS? How on earth do you expect Shell or any other OIl Company to take us serious, even when they realize we need those things? Why would l pay for it on your behalf, for something l know you can afford? Simply Stewpid! Read it your self and make your own deductions. By Ross Alabo-GeorgeIts not about the "ethnicity" involved, focus on the CRIMINALITY of the whole venture and how it impacts our level of development as a nation! Lastpage! |
he is very smart, relates well and discusses very intelligently. H does not watch cartoons like children his age, he cant remember many things he has learnt in school, but he likes doing things with his hands.Your son would be great in life, if you could have recognized the 'bolded' in him, so early in life! Half of your work is done! Now hat you have identified his "key-speciality and advantage", all you need do is BUILD ON THIS. Get him educational TOYS (vivid colors toys of animals, numbers, letters, LEGOS, Thomas Engine (the type he needs to assemble into an engine; it sis less than $10/ 7Euros at Argos or PowerCity or any other Toy Shop nearest 2u). With time, he will translate into what you expect of him. It is not how we get "there" that matters, it is GETTING THERE, on time that really counts! And l think he will get there so, stop stressing yourself. Cheers. Lastpage! BTW: Children are different, even identical twins learn differently, some by sight first, some by touch first, some by 'sound' first, e.t.c. It depends on which of their "senses" developed fastest, especially amongst the five senses. |
@Concept: You're right to some extent but l should point out that even Westerhof has "some materials" to work with, from the local League! Right now, we dont even have a local League per-see! The Glass House has killed our football completely and that "Egunje-chopping" Sepp Blatter and his "council of thieves" simply rubber-stamps the thieves in Nigeria's football House. He should have allowed GEJ to dissolve the F.A back then! Even GEJ should have stuck to his decision and rode over the 2years ban but guess what? His Liver failed him again! ![]() Lastpage! |
Thanks jare, Area-Fada. Goodhealth, where are you now? No more updates? And that your picture is horrible, its a disservice to your hardwork. Please get a good camera so that your effort will stand out. Lastpage! |
Stewpid IGP! Is this all he has to offer? So "wearing" cloth like a Policeman, makes you a Policeman? Cant this illiterate IGP's copy some small sense from the West? Clothing does not make a Police. For example, why cant this muppet of an IGP design a Police Crest/Badge (some small metallic shield that each Policeman has, with his number on it, kept inside their Purse) unique to each Policeman? You resign/get sacked, you drop that badge! Immediately. What about painting Police cars in a Unique, uniform color? What about using unmarked car which can then be identified by "special and unique" lighting and siren sounds? What about the head-gear? Are people also sewing that one? ![]() What about making a law that says you dont obey anyone claiming to be a Policeman EXCEPT they identified themselves using their badge? That way, IMPERSONATION will be difficult if not impossible. Its only in Nigeria that Army will seize a boys "combat fatigue" or Boots claiming its impersonation? Can you impersonate a U.K Police officer just by wearing "black trousers and white shirts"? Naaah! This people at "the top" are just very daft, walahi! ![]() Lastpage! |
My Friends, have you not heard the Cliche "There is no "abuja" (short-cut) to the Top of a Palm tree"? If you remove the fat salary, even Keshi will not touch that job, he is only doing it for the money; He knows he ant succeed! Having said that, we will only succeed if we start from scratch: Develop foot ball from the Primary/Secondary school level. In five years, we will produce enough "stars" from 150million football lovers, to excel at any competition, even without a Coach! 1.) Lets start organizing competitive football tournament in every LGA in the country (Principals Cup at every Primary and Secondary school, as we do in those good days) 2.) Offer local school scholarships to good sports-men (children) in our schools. 3.) Let us progress this to our tertiary institutions (NUGA GAMES, NIPOGA GAMES, COLLEGE OF EDUCATIONS e.t.c. It will not only produce local stars, it will also keep those idle boyz busy and away from cultism! No be everybody fit be Engineer o! ![]() 4.) Let us dissolve the Football (break the glass house!) Body completely. Those there are THIEVES, they are too corrupt to produce anything good for this nation. Let us put "business men" there, will clear, set objectives that would be evaluated using milestones. No more Quota system in F.A chairman! ![]() Look, its very easy, if we[b] PLAN[/b] well and IMPLEMENT it, less we continue to FAIL. How l wish SiaSia can "plan and implement" and still get sacked? Even Keshi will soon be sacked, 'cos he will also fail woefully. Mark my words Here. Lastpage! |
"If you say your wares (product) is cheapey, others will pay pittance for it". ITS THAT SIMPLE! Our Leaders sold (are still selling) us for free to outsiders. But then, GEJ and our ASSEMBLY-MEN are too concerned about their pockets and fat allowances, to even attempt to "ROCK THE BOAT" in this world where France and U.K are prepared to wage war on a country (using some Human right excuse and some men-of-the-belly accomplices), just to protect their interest and that of their Companies!. Check Libya Check Ivory Coast Check Uganda Check Nicaragua Check, Check, Check, Build Refineries for us! Build Power Stations for us!! Build Hospitals for us!!! Build Roads for us!!!! Wetin sef? Na dem born us? Are we so shameless or are we the "Monkeys" they sometimes call us? Nothing good comes on a platter of gold. Our destiny lies in our hands, its our move! Lastpage! |
^^^^^^Abegii, we don hear this story over and over again! If fuel costs X-naira, investors would come and build refinery! - Babangida (1985) If electricity costs K-Naira, investors would build Power stations allover the place - OBJ (2001) If Diesel price is deregulated, Investors would run to Nigeria - OBJ (2001) Ditto Umaru Yar Ardua Same Story with Jonathan (Subsidy removal) The mistake y'all making is that INVESTORS DONT JUST LOOK AT PROFIT (MONEY TO BE MADE FROM SALES) ALONE, in making investment decisions! Some other "decision elements" taken into consideration are: 1.) Political and "polity" Stability 2.) Transparency and Business Ethics (read Corruption!) 3.) Infrastructures in place (Read no electricity, bad roads, poor internet, e.t.c) 4.) Tax Structure (read fraud and multiple Taxation regimes in Nigeria) and many more! Even if we increase the price of a KWH of electricity and a liter of PMS to #1,000 each, investors will still not come to Nigeria. All you will get is Hyper-inflation and a collapsed economy! BTW: In the UK, electricity does not cost as much as 2.5GBP (about #600). In the U.S, electricity does not cost $4/KWH as well! No where in the E.U does anyone pay 3Euros/KWH But in all these places, electricity is very every stable! So, its not all about inflating the cost. Take a look at how they got to where they are today. Govt invests heavily in Power Plants, once it is stable and functioning, Govt THEN SELLS THE BUSINESS TO PRIVATE INVESTORS (but retains oversight functions (at times using a very advocative consumer rights body) to prevent "exploitation" of the citizens. Remember, some industries like "Power", Military/Weapons Production, e.t.c, have a very "strong bearing" on National Security and must never be completely left in the hands of private investors, to do as they wish. Till today, you will still hear of British Gas, British Electricity Board, e.t.c. They are semi-private, semi-autonomous business with Govt hand. Nigerian Govt (as done in the 60's) should build this Power Stations and then contract Private hands to run it profitably (or sell it out-rightly, under a "tight" arrangement). Until we do that, we will still remain a fourth world country by 2099! Lastpage! |
@Mrs. Chima No, it was the right word. Did you take an offense?Offense ke? How can l take offense, knowing the 'source' of such uncouth yarns! ![]() "Argue not with fools, less you increase their numbers" - Greek Proverb. ![]() Lastpage! @Moodie: Unfortunately, no offense taken and there will be no quarrel, Mrs. Chima knows better! ![]() |
This is what happens when everyone appears to be a thief, from Police, to Politician, to Civil Servants! Everyone is just "Designing their own SCAM" to make money! Such a Shame, for a nation and its people! Lastpage! |
The whole "idea of Language" is as a means of communication. The whole idea of communication is "messaging and understanding" (decoding) Any "Language" that is not "understood" is definitely NOT COMMUNICATING! As far as many people are concerned, he might just be speaking in TONGUES or at best uttering GIBBERISH! ![]() Lastpage! BTW: He may be living is self-delusion, thinking some people are in "awe" of his grammatical tongue-twisters! ![]() |
@mrs. Chima Those epistles sound great, however two people need to first be in agreement with what they want in the relationship.Learn NOT TO use DEROGATORY WORDS to describe someone's post! At least, let such come from someone who wrote something remotely more informative!, I doubt if it is just a case of careless choice of words?! Lastpage! |
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) but l kept my cool, knowing my position is lawful and sound. Eventually, he pulled down my front bumper, broke one head lamp and bruised the paint work as he overtook me dangerously! Even at that, his "shakara" was up to the heavens! Traffic Police came and though it was very obvious, he was told he was in the wrong and has to bear the cost. At the station, I called-in my mechanic for a "cost of repair estimate" (the old man's vehicle no even get comprehensive insurance!). When he saw the Bill, he suddenly fell flat on his face, begging me! he started this story of how he was just hustling to make a living for his family.
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