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youmour:You mean you will kill a man (and ruin your own beautiful life) just for sleeping with your wife..... when she wasn't forced into the act, as in R@pe? ![]() Common, read my first post on this thread. Its not worth it..... just thank God you got to know, and move-on with your life. Babes ten times more beautiful than her will worship at your feet in future, if you remain calm and focused! ![]() Lastpage! |
jrerico1:Even at that, did she ask her husband's "opinion and permission" ...to exchange her body, for shex, in other to save their child? I guess the husband should be given 'a say' in such events that affect both of them critically. Except maybe the wife and the man have been "coochy-cooching" behind the husband's back, even before the child/family needs such financial help! ![]() Lastpage! |
dare2differ:If this is supposed to be "sarcasm", you did a very bad job at it! ![]() I never said men dont cheat..... infact, men have a preponderance to,...and do cheat more, than women! .... because to men, cheating is just an act of "conquest", emotions are not deeply invested. They just do it .....like they "speed" on the Motorway! What l tried to do is point out the difference between " Men cheating" Vs. "Women Cheating". Women cheating goes beyond the "physical act" of "Wam-bang, get-up and go"! Have you ever wondered why "men dont remember" the lady that deflowered them.... .....while Women keep such memory for the rest of their life (even having a soft spot for the man for the rest of their life, whether both are married or not)? ![]() Its got to do with "emotions and the brain". ![]() Lastpage! |
ajalaolanr:Women will quote the Bible ......if it supports the husband forgiving them when caught cheating ...... but will quickly toss the Bible aside and not quote it, where it says "Men are the head of the woman" or where it says "God created them Differently, Male and Female, he created them...! Then, it will be 'equality and feminism'! ![]() That is women for you. ![]() Lastpage! |
Ugoadaba:Go check properly..... any man that "forgives such"....... has something holding him back at the moment (It could be religious standing, fear of an open scandal, finances, secrets in the wife's hands, papers for those relying on her for citizenship somewhere, impotency on his part, bidding his time for revenge , e.t.c ).It is just not in the nature of a husband, to forgive a cheating wife...... the best he could do is to 'ask her to leave', without any rancour! The very "nature of Love" a man has for his wife, makes it impossible for him to forgive such acts. If you are a woman and your husband claims to have forgiven you when caught cheating on him, l beg you to "find your way" ASAP...... it may portend danger! Some men are very crafty in their "planning for revenge". ![]() Lastpage! |
AreaFada2:This is very true....... but women dont want to accept it, just as they dont want to accept that "men and women" though complimentary in nature, are DIFFERENT and therefore NOT EQUAL (two different things cant ever be equal!). I am not saying Men are "superior", mind you, l am saying they are "different" from women. X chromosome is not the same as Y chromosome otherwise, X will be equal to Y! ![]() We just need to observe other living things (especially primates closer to the human race) and see the territorial behaviour of the male, compared to the female. The physiological make-up of women determines how they engage in 'shex', for maximum pleasure while that of men also determine theirs as well. Even Scientist have factually demonstrated that it is a different part of the brain that gets triggered in men when they get the urge, compared to women. There is a reason creation 'recessed' women's shexual organ while that of men is "protruding"! Women take shex more seriously than men! To them, it is an "act of total submission to domination" and a lot of emotion is invested in reaching such decision. For a man, it is an "act of domination and conquer" ...... and like al conquest, it is the "next challenge" that matters! No emotion involved! One party (woman) accepts fluid inside her .....while the other (man) is protected from such violation, by the make-up of his organs, which are external and not receptive to accepting any fluid! Everyone should think about these things for a moment All these "facts of life" are not mere coincidences. Once you are sure your wife is cheating, your best action is to "quietly leave her" for her lover........ if you still love your own life. . Dont even attempt to keep sleeping with her anymore. Just "dash her out" to that person she thinks she loves and engages in shex with, more than you. Dont get annoyed, dont get dismayed but take it as a challenge that some-how, some-where, you are still found 'wanting'! Just take time and work on yourself! But "woe betide that Man" whose wife cheats when he was still "wanting"...... and takes her back when he has stepped-up in life. There are tens of other women, who are "more set" than her and would eagerly marry you, so what's the big deal? As for the kids, l think a time will come when at every birth, a DNA TEST will be a pre-requisite for putting a name on a birth cert. We are getting there..... slowly though. Lastpage! |
McCarlito:So, you want to commit MURDER and ruin the rest of your already ruined life, ......... because of a woman? ![]() The person she cheated-with, has NOTHING to do with You! Except in a situation of "forced intimacy", your wife gave him the go-ahead! There is a Yoruba proverb that says "T'ogiri oba'lanu, alangba ko le ri aye wo'obe". Translate literally for our non-Yorubas: "If the Wall does not open-up, the lizard will certainly not be able to creep inside". So, fi your spouse plotted, arraigned and deceived you ...and went to secretly meet another lover, did not shout for help and then "opened-up" and moaned all day at the pleasure she is receiving from such Man ...... and you still think the mna is at fault and want to kill him for obliging her? C'mmon, only weak and jealous men do that. Just accept your fate that your wife considers you "a lesser man" than the man whom she cheated with. Infact, l will rather congratulate the Man and ask him for "advice" on how to become better in future. As for the woman, l will just advice her to make sure she stays far away from me. Next time she sets her eyes on me, l should be in a position that ensures she regrets her actions and lives in regret all her life. As in better Swagger, an even far-better Babe, plenti-Moni, and looking really handsome and full of life. ![]() Lastpage! |
PureWays:Nothing...... except she promises to go-on Cheating Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat.... so l will consider that "promise", an act of "Honesty and Sincerity"! ![]() Lastpage! |
kikies:"All na BUSINESS"...... Alaba-style! ![]() thats where they get money to buy the whole of Lagos naah! ![]() Lastpage! |
Tekevwe:My take: 1.) He has given you a reason for his "bad mood" - Pressure of catering for the family! Now, different men (and women too), manage PRESSURE in different ways. Some can soak it up while others have it written all over their face! Your husband belongs to the latter category.2.) Courting and Marriage are two opposite sides of the same coin. Men change after Marriage..... just as my own wife "changed' after Marriage! But it does not mean the LOVE is gone....... it just means it is "adapting" to a changing scenario. 3.) Live is not all about "Roses"..... there are "Thorns" as well, even in a beautifully perfumed flower. See "Life" as NEPA! Yes, the proverbial NEPA which they call PHCN nowadays! Like Fela Anikulapo sang in one of his albums, regarding Nepa: "Sometimes, e go bright-much..... then e go bright-small.." 4.) Marriage..... and 'remaining married'.... means being able to "ADAPT" to another person........... a person whose "character and values" have been long-formed, before you even knew them! Think about that statement for a minute. ![]() 5.) Love confuses things, it is good for courtship...... but cannot be extended to Marriage, using the same standards. Marriage is REALITY! .... but Love makes that "reality", more manageable! 6.) Finally, like everything in Life, "There are "Ups' ...and "Downs". It comes and goes". Marriage is Sweet but there are "human-interaction" challenges, which is what yo are experiencing now. It will go away after sometime, if you manage it properly, by "not blowing it" with this your "I feel so angry with my husband" attitude. 7.) Dont forget that the "economic climate' is also harsher on some people, than others. This may be his trying times and all you need do is show "support"..... morally, emotionally and financially Just Relax...and help him relax too! Humans are like NEPA! He wil get over it but the best you can do, to make that getting-over, "quick enough" .... is not to aggravate matter and understand that it is just a phase, that will pass with time. Have you ever wondered-why that close to 50% of marriages fail within the first 12 Months, about 60% within the first 2 years and about 75% fail within the first 5 Years ......... but most Marriages than can survive the first five years, end up being together for Life! I am happy that he is able to "relax" when he wants to be intimate with you ...... because it tells me that "His state of mind" is not caused by extra-marital relationship outside the marriage. So, you have nothing to worry about..... except your own "reaction". Just SMILE at him when he comes in .... then when he looks at you with "curiosity" as to why you have just Smiling at him, then frown your face at him and ask him which one he likes better! ![]() If he says he likes the Smile better, jokingly remind him that you are stressed but even at that, you will stil continue to smile at him and that "you hope he will return the favour"..... even when he is stressed too! ![]() Trust me, he will think about that statement, in his own quiet time, .... if you say it without any show of anger. It will be well with your marriage, IJN. Married about twenty years and counting! Lastpage! |
AntiWailer:This Fayose keeps insulting himself...otherwise, how can he elevate himself to the point od "considering himself being put on a Presidential Ticket"? Or is Ekiti State now a country? ![]() "In a country where Stealing IS NOT Corruption...... the only CRIME is 'being CAUGHT"! ![]() Lastpage! |
Look at it "this way": * A "Selfie" is nothing more than a PICTURE ..... just that you are taking yourself! * A Picture is nothing more than a MEMORY of what a "situation" ........ in this case a dead friend! So, all they did was take a PICTURE of their dead friend, in other to keep his MEMORY in their hearts. Now, can we all put our hands on our heart and say: I have never kept a memory of a "loved one" in my heart? Selfies or not, their friend is dead and their "actions/inactions" cant wake him Up! ![]() "Let him who is without sin, cast the first stone" - Jesus Christ Lastpage! |
kenonze:You are wicked sha! ![]() I actually was about to ask: Mr. Bruce, can you point to one (SINGLE) achievement fo yours, since yo have been elected a Senator of this Republic..... apart from tweeting like a 14yr old who father just bought him a techno Phone! ![]() Talk is Cheap! Lastpage! |
mile12crises: Are running Mad .... or why must you always insult the President for even unrelated issues? I am sorry for the parents that gave birth to you because they really did a bad job on your Upbringing! I am sure if the ask you to show your father now, even you will be ashamed to put him forward. Anuofia! Lastpage! |
Skseries:There is a reason they are called #WAILERS naa! They will #Wail till 2023..... just siddon dey look them! Sai Baba nor send them and their 5%. Lastpage! |
Goke7: Dont mind those "unstable minds"! Well, maybe they will vote him out with their 5%? ![]() Lastpage! |
ijustdey:Its not just Anger! Or is it only "Police" that gets annoyed by their Boss and get ANGRY? 95% of those in our Police farce are "MENTALLY DERANGED people" who should have been on 24-hour lock-down in an ASYLUM HOSPITAL..... but here they are, holding a gun and trying to enforce law, like a Mad person! ![]() Lastpage! |
nwabuwa:It will be difficult without you saying how high the KingPost is going to be. Other things like number of rooms will also affect the number of woods to use. Your floor plan and Roof height will assist others to help you sha, l think. Lastpage! |
kola1930:Two things may be responsible: 1.) She is having it elsewhere and therefore not "missing" it from you 2.) It is a Hormonal Problem (early onset of Menopause!). Short jab in the neck might let you know: Tell her you will have no choice than to seek "gratification" outside with another woman, if your own wife refuses to see it as her duty. (Watch her facial expressions very closely, it will tell you more than she will say with her mouth Tell her in plain, simple, in-your-face manner.... so that it can hit her and she can realize "WhatzUp". *If she is getting it outside, she will simply insult you, dare you to try it and turn it to a fight (at that point, your marriage is dead! and you need to start thinking about your "options" ![]() *If it is hormonal and she is just "not feeling it", she will "break-down" and plead with you to understand her "problem". (At that point, you need to stand solidly with her and seek medical help). BTW: how long was the birth..... before than one month of "fasting"? ![]() Could it be her body is not ready, if its still very close to child-birth? My sympathies. Lastpage! |
cionon:You see! There are certain things you dont do in marriage. Threatening to divorce is one of them, if you dont intend to do it or are not ready to do it. It will always be on the mind of the other spouse and they will always feel INSECURE! How some interpret that "state of insecurity" depends on the individual. *Some would result to fetish things *Some would result to have affairs *Some would immediately put "Plan B" into operation because they dont want to be caught unawares (which might be your own case). *Some would actually just marry another wife/husband .....and call your bluff. Its a sad way to learn a big lesson! It is actually the PAST .....that shapes the FUTURE! And l am married for like two decades now, so l know what l am talking about ![]() I pray both of you can resolve it. Lastpage! BTW: Juju is same as "diabolical" and same as "Magun". I wonder why you are trying to sound like such thing was not discussed with your neighbour? |
ceaser:Most of the things you wrote are good but l want to take exception tot he bolded! There is a Cliche which translates to "Even a singe time, can result in pregnancy"! ![]() Her husband has only one Mistress and you want to attribute her non-conception to "lack of energy and adequate exposure"? May l ask, how do the wives of those that FOUR WIVES at home conceive? Where did the "energy and adequate exposure" of those ones come from..... with all the battalion of children the "one man" sirs with all of them? See, having children is not a function of how many times you are intimate because all it needs is just one, out of a hundred thousand spe#rm and one intercourse. But like you said, "Stress, previous D&C or miscarriage, fibroid, watery and low-spm count, e.t.c are all possibilities. I know someone who has been trying to conceive for the last seven years, after a miscarriage, living under the same roof with the husband, with no "side-chick"! Only God knows how much they wasted, how many tests and drugs, e.t.c. They eventually gave-up and settled to do an "in-vitro" in future.... She just conceived last December!....... when she list expected it! How about that? If there are no known "internal ailments", God will do it when he will do it. Lastpage! |
cionon:There is more to your story that what you shared! Trust me, l know a "one-sided story" when l hear one. You need to get to the root of WHY your husband wants a divorce.......... and let "elders with sense" intervene on it. That he is philandering does not mean he would throw-away his family! "FAMILY" trumps every other thing, especially where it has produced child/ren. He is not leaving you because of his Mistress, he is leaving you because he wants to leave you! Mistress or not, he will still do what he is doing now, for reasons which you and him are yet to let us know. The earlier the better you narrow down on the reason (and stop this moral-grandstanding), the better good people can come to you people's aid so that it can be resolved! As for being diabolic, he might just have seen issues that convince him that what you told him was just a "tip of the iceberg", meant to disarm him and make him feel safe! [b] It appears he does not see it as "You confiding in him" Believe me, some men are not fools and cant be easily fooled. If you still love him, then you need to ask him "one-on-one": What DO WE need to do, to save this marriage? Hopefully, he will open-up and both of you can HONESTLY work at it .....to make it work.[/b] Okay, e nor concern me! Nor vex, abeg. ![]() Lastpage! |
Buttocks: The ban has NOT been lifted yet! They are hoping to get it lifted. Just so we get it clear. ![]() All this "Yam-Eating" #Wailers sef! ![]() Lastpage! |
eljp:The danger here is that most of the beans we produce will now be "exported" while the people in Nigeria will have non to eat! ..or buy it at very expensive rates! Who no won chop "Euro"? ![]() Na so dem do with Garri, wey the thing come cost so much! The QUALITY of Garri l eat whenever l am outside the country (US/Europe in general) is far better than what we get to buy in Nigeria so much so that at one point, l had to buy Garri when l was coming back to Nigeria! Thats not cool at all. ![]() Lastpage! |
BiafraBushBoy:No way! Except you are ready to return the tons of Dollars you took, back then! ![]() we still have the list of "collectors".... so dont feign ignorance! ![]() Lastpage!
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david22uu:4 Your IGNORANCE is so high it defies any form of "Education"..... So l wont even bother to let you know that the host country also benefits from such investments! ![]() Just "Kontinue" ..! ![]() Lastpage! |
sparrowkid:Stop selling this #bullshyt! Jonathan had no choice than to hand-over..... He lost the election! He was FORCED to make the Phone-Call; Even "pig-he@ded" Patience had to be removed to another room as she was pushing the "weak-man" not to agree! But l give him Credit for being "Smart", unlike Laurent Gbagbo...... he chose not to spend the rest of his life in an ICC prison! FREEDOM.........is PRICELESS ![]() Lastpage!
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keyzid:Is it not the same #Wailers like you who are Vandalizing gas pipes and destroying National infrastructure...... just because your "Yam-Eater" lost th elections? Dont worry, keep doing so, "Heaven go fall, no be one man's worry"! ![]() Keep Weeping, that is your lot in life! Your mates are starting-up businesses here and there..... you siddon dey weep! ![]() #Ignoramus that does not know that 'Nuclear Plants' produce Electricity, yet he is complaining of 2hrs electricity! Lastpage! |
makingsense:That what happens when you handover your Governorship office to a Cult-Leader! This one don pass one chance! But seriously, President Buhari is the "C-in-C of this country and the buck stops at his table. He cant just fold his hand and watch Nigerians in Rivers State being killed like Rabbits? He still has the power to declare a State of Emergency and let Soldiers ENFORCE PEACE in that state. The Police as we all know, have been compromised since the days when that mad AIG Mbu was unleashed on them in Rivers. Lastpage! |
...and When Raraye gets out of Hospital, whats he gonna do to Patrick? ![]() over a "girl", for that matter! ***shakes head at the "cheapness" of these boyz*** Lastpage! |
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