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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 1:50am On Apr 05, 2016
youmour:
I cant just imagine another man getting freaky with my woman ubanu blood must flow,on a good day when i be werey for bedmatics you still go yansh outside?it cant happun sef
You mean you will kill a man (and ruin your own beautiful life) just for sleeping with your wife..... when she wasn't forced into the act, as in R@pe? angry

Common, read my first post on this thread.
Its not worth it..... just thank God you got to know, and move-on with your life.

Babes ten times more beautiful than her will worship at your feet in future, if you remain calm and focused! undecided



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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 1:46am On Apr 05, 2016
jrerico1:
the child dies or better still I'll go and steal.. Is she a sex worker?? Its forbidden from my town to see a woman sleep outside marriage no matter the cost..
Even at that, did she ask her husband's "opinion and permission" ...to exchange her body, for shex, in other to save their child?

I guess the husband should be given 'a say' in such events that affect both of them critically.

Except maybe the wife and the man have been "coochy-cooching" behind the husband's back, even before the child/family needs such financial help! grin grin




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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 1:42am On Apr 05, 2016
dare2differ:
If I hadn't seen anything, I would have agreed fully with you

Women CHEAT. It may not be as high as men but they cheat.

I see you are a married man, you must really have high morals if not you would know that married women cheat!
If this is supposed to be "sarcasm", you did a very bad job at it! grin

I never said men dont cheat..... infact, men have a preponderance to,...and do cheat more, than women!
.... because to men, cheating is just an act of "conquest", emotions are not deeply invested.
They just do it .....like they "speed" on the Motorway!

What l tried to do is point out the difference between " Men cheating" Vs. "Women Cheating".

Women cheating goes beyond the "physical act" of "Wam-bang, get-up and go"!

Have you ever wondered why "men dont remember" the lady that deflowered them.... shocked shocked

.....while Women keep such memory for the rest of their life angry (even having a soft spot for the man for the rest of their life, whether both are married or not)? grin grin

Its got to do with "emotions and the brain". undecided undecided



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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 1:33am On Apr 05, 2016
ajalaolanr:
Abeggi, no dey quote Bible. I find it amusing how quickly we are to quote the scriptures as an inference to how we should or would react to certain situations such as this.

When the reverse is what we would do should the situation present itself.

We just like to quote bible, even quote the bible as to why the chicken crossed the road!
Women will quote the Bible ......if it supports the husband forgiving them when caught cheating
...... but will quickly toss the Bible aside and not quote it, where it says "Men are the head of the woman" or where it says "God created them Differently, Male and Female, he created them...!

Then, it will be 'equality and feminism'!
grin grin grin

That is women for you. undecided



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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 1:26am On Apr 05, 2016
Ugoadaba:
forgive
Go check properly..... any man that "forgives such"....... has something holding him back at the moment (It could be religious standing, fear of an open scandal, finances, secrets in the wife's hands, papers for those relying on her for citizenship somewhere, impotency on his part, bidding his time for revenge grin , e.t.c ).

It is just not in the nature of a husband, to forgive a cheating wife...... the best he could do is to 'ask her to leave', without any rancour!

The very "nature of Love" a man has for his wife, makes it impossible for him to forgive such acts.


If you are a woman and your husband claims to have forgiven you when caught cheating on him, l beg you to "find your way" ASAP...... it may portend danger!
Some men are very crafty in their "planning for revenge". undecided




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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 1:18am On Apr 05, 2016
AreaFada2:
When a woman cheats, her man's life is in danger.

Men can casually cheat, no emotion involved. Just a mechanical process. cheesy

But MOST women get emotionally attached.
The guy they cheat with can brainwash her to kill you. Or her lover can even organise killing you.
Both can then take your properties or just to remove you as an obstacle.

Also women cheating I'm marriage could mean your kids are not biologically yours. Like 30% of all kids by the way.
This is very true....... but women dont want to accept it, just as they dont want to accept that "men and women" though complimentary in nature, are DIFFERENT and therefore NOT EQUAL (two different things cant ever be equal!).
I am not saying Men are "superior", mind you, l am saying they are "different" from women.

X chromosome is not the same as Y chromosome otherwise, X will be equal to Y! undecided

We just need to observe other living things (especially primates closer to the human race) and see the territorial behaviour of the male, compared to the female.

The physiological make-up of women determines how they engage in 'shex', for maximum pleasure while that of men also determine theirs as well.
Even Scientist have factually demonstrated that it is a different part of the brain that gets triggered in men when they get the urge, compared to women.
There is a reason creation 'recessed' women's shexual organ while that of men is "protruding"!
Women take shex more seriously than men! To them, it is an "act of total submission to domination" and a lot of emotion is invested in reaching such decision.
For a man, it is an "act of domination and conquer" ...... and like al conquest, it is the "next challenge" that matters! No emotion involved!
One party (woman) accepts fluid inside her .....while the other (man) is protected from such violation, by the make-up of his organs, which are external and not receptive to accepting any fluid!
Everyone should think about these things for a moment
All these "facts of life" are not mere coincidences.


Once you are sure your wife is cheating, your best action is to "quietly leave her" for her lover........ if you still love your own life.
.

Dont even attempt to keep sleeping with her anymore.
Just "dash her out" to that person she thinks she loves and engages in shex with, more than you.
Dont get annoyed, dont get dismayed but take it as a challenge that some-how, some-where, you are still found 'wanting'!

Just take time and work on yourself!
But "woe betide that Man" whose wife cheats when he was still "wanting"...... and takes her back when he has stepped-up in life.
There are tens of other women, who are "more set" than her and would eagerly marry you, so what's the big deal?

As for the kids, l think a time will come when at every birth, a DNA TEST will be a pre-requisite for putting a name on a birth cert.
We are getting there..... slowly though.



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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 12:55am On Apr 05, 2016
McCarlito:
Where is the person she cheated together with
https://static.omgvoice.com/images/2016/03/10123018/buhari-2-300x195.jpg
We just have to discuss
Because he will be explaining to the devil why he arrived early to hell
So, you want to commit MURDER and ruin the rest of your already ruined life, ......... because of a woman? angry angry huh huh


The person she cheated-with, has NOTHING to do with You!

Except in a situation of "forced intimacy", your wife gave him the go-ahead!

There is a Yoruba proverb that says "T'ogiri oba'lanu, alangba ko le ri aye wo'obe".

Translate literally for our non-Yorubas: "If the Wall does not open-up, the lizard will certainly not be able to creep inside".

So, fi your spouse plotted, arraigned and deceived you ...and went to secretly meet another lover, did not shout for help and then "opened-up" and moaned all day at the pleasure she is receiving from such Man ...... and you still think the mna is at fault and want to kill him for obliging her?

C'mmon, only weak and jealous men do that.
Just accept your fate that your wife considers you "a lesser man" than the man whom she cheated with.

Infact, l will rather congratulate the Man and ask him for "advice" on how to become better in future.


As for the woman, l will just advice her to make sure she stays far away from me.


Next time she sets her eyes on me, l should be in a position that ensures she regrets her actions and lives in regret all her life.
As in better Swagger, an even far-better Babe, plenti-Moni, and looking really handsome and full of life.
undecided undecided undecided




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Family › Re: What Can Make You Forgive Your Wife If She Cheats? by lastpage: 12:43am On Apr 05, 2016
PureWays:
I know it can be very painful and frustrating if you find out that your lady cheats on you, but as we all know most cheaters (The men) disagree with double standards when it comes to cheating... Lol..
So, here is my question:

What could make you forgive your wife if she cheats and ask for your forgiveness?
Considering the fact that you ain't no saint, will you forgive her?
Nothing...... except she promises to go-on Cheating shocked shocked

Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat.... so l will consider that "promise", an act of "Honesty and Sincerity"! undecided wink wink




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Crime › Re: Man Steals Ambode’s ‘light Up Lagos’ Project Cable (photo) by lastpage: 12:32am On Apr 05, 2016
kikies:
ANC............food don done oooo
Atimes we seem to b the architect of our misfortunes
cable meant to lyt up the street for all to see,only u one go carry am wan sell for 5k.............dat cable shldnt cost anytin less dan #150k
"All na BUSINESS"...... Alaba-style! angry angry

thats where they get money to buy the whole of Lagos naah! undecided undecided



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Family › Re: I Feel so Angry With My Husband. Help! by lastpage: 11:17am On Apr 04, 2016
Tekevwe:
I got married to my husband a some months ago. Before we got married we dated for a while and my husband was the smiling type, though I noticed he bones a lot with his siblings.

Our courtship was great. He used to give me practically everything I wanted (affection and care) even before I asked. He showered me with so much love that I thought I was dreaming. I saw some other qualities in him and felt he would make a great husband.

The first week of our marriage, my husband changed, started boning round the house and withdrew into himself. His office rent was due that month so I felt that was cause and let him be. Several months down the line and things re d same or even worse. He gets home boning, eats and goes straight to bed. If I try gisting with him he answers in monosylables and you can see the disinterest on his face.

The only time he smiles at home is when he wants to be intimate. That's the only time he's soft with me now and the only time I feel connected to him. I asked him if I offended him in any way and he says no, that the pressure of providing for a new family is getting to him.

I didn't play hard to get cos I don't believe in such so I don't know why the change.

There are some other qualities I discovered in him that I never saw while we were dating. I jokingly told him he has changed and that day he smiled and said he had to give me all I wanted cos he didn't want to lose me since I'm a pretty girl. Now that we re married its like he can't be bothered with trying anymore.

Also deep down I don't tink he loves me and feel he just married me cos he isn't so young anymore (almost 40)
and he's parents were mounting pressure on him. He's snappy with me now which never used to happen.

He also has a wall built around him that I can't seem to penetrate. I feel so depressed each time I'm home, being married to a man I feel no connection to.

I don't know if this is what marriage entails. If it is, then please, married folks should hint me so I can adjust my mindset to this new change.

Also, what can I do to break through and get through to him?
My take:

1.) He has given you a reason for his "bad mood" - Pressure of catering for the family! Now, different men (and women too), manage PRESSURE in different ways. Some can soak it up while others have it written all over their face! undecided Your husband belongs to the latter category.

2.) Courting and Marriage are two opposite sides of the same coin. Men change after Marriage..... just as my own wife "changed' after Marriage! shocked
But it does not mean the LOVE is gone....... it just means it is "adapting" to a changing scenario.

3.) Live is not all about "Roses"..... there are "Thorns" as well, even in a beautifully perfumed flower.
See "Life" as NEPA! Yes, the proverbial NEPA which they call PHCN nowadays! grin
Like Fela Anikulapo sang in one of his albums, regarding Nepa: "Sometimes, e go bright-much..... then e go bright-small.."

4.) Marriage..... and 'remaining married'.... means being able to "ADAPT" to another person........... a person whose "character and values" have been long-formed, before you even knew them! Think about that statement for a minute. undecided

5.) Love confuses things, it is good for courtship...... but cannot be extended to Marriage, using the same standards.
Marriage is REALITY! .... but Love makes that "reality", more manageable!

6.) Finally, like everything in Life, "There are "Ups' ...and "Downs". It comes and goes".
Marriage is Sweet but there are "human-interaction" challenges, which is what yo are experiencing now. It will go away after sometime, if you manage it properly, by "not blowing it" with this your "I feel so angry with my husband" attitude.

7.) Dont forget that the "economic climate' is also harsher on some people, than others. This may be his trying times and all you need do is show "support"..... morally, emotionally and financially

Just Relax...and help him relax too! Humans are like NEPA!
He wil get over it but the best you can do, to make that getting-over, "quick enough" .... is not to aggravate matter and understand that it is just a phase, that will pass with time.

Have you ever wondered-why that close to 50% of marriages fail within the first 12 Months, about 60% within the first 2 years and about 75% fail within the first 5 Years ......... but most Marriages than can survive the first five years, end up being together for Life!

I am happy that he is able to "relax" when he wants to be intimate with you ...... because it tells me that "His state of mind" is not caused by extra-marital relationship outside the marriage. So, you have nothing to worry about..... except your own "reaction".

Just SMILE at him when he comes in .... then when he looks at you with "curiosity" as to why you have just Smiling at him, then frown your face at him and ask him which one he likes better! grin grin
If he says he likes the Smile better, jokingly remind him that you are stressed but even at that, you will stil continue to smile at him and that "you hope he will return the favour"..... even when he is stressed too! undecided undecided

Trust me, he will think about that statement, in his own quiet time, .... if you say it without any show of anger.

It will be well with your marriage, IJN.

Married about twenty years and counting!




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Politics › Re: Fayose: I’m Not Interested In The Presidency by lastpage: 10:40am On Apr 04, 2016
AntiWailer:
he stands no chance.

i don't see any sane south westerner support a Fayose Vice Presidency against an Osinbajo Vice Presidency.
This Fayose keeps insulting himself...otherwise, how can he elevate himself to the point od "considering himself being put on a Presidential Ticket"?

Or is Ekiti State now a country? grin grin


"In a country where Stealing IS NOT Corruption...... the only CRIME is 'being CAUGHT"! undecided undecided





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Events › Re: Guys Pose For Selfie With Their Dead Friend During His Funeral. Photo by lastpage: 10:24am On Apr 04, 2016
Look at it "this way":

* A "Selfie" is nothing more than a PICTURE ..... just that you are taking yourself!
* A Picture is nothing more than a MEMORY of what a "situation" ........ in this case a dead friend!

So, all they did was take a PICTURE of their dead friend, in other to keep his MEMORY in their hearts.

Now, can we all put our hands on our heart and say: I have never kept a memory of a "loved one" in my heart?


Selfies or not, their friend is dead and their "actions/inactions" cant wake him Up! undecided undecided

"Let him who is without sin, cast the first stone" - Jesus Christ




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Politics › Re: Murray-Bruce: List Of Countries Visited By Buhari (Photo) by lastpage: 9:31am On Apr 02, 2016
kenonze:
Ben Bruce should better shut up his dirty mouth.
You are wicked sha! grin grin


I actually was about to ask: Mr. Bruce, can you point to one (SINGLE) achievement fo yours, since yo have been elected a Senator of this Republic..... apart from tweeting like a 14yr old who father just bought him a techno Phone! huh huh huh


Talk is Cheap!




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Politics › Re: Soldiers Attack GOC, Victor Eziegwu Over Food, Water Shortage In Maiduguri by lastpage: 9:18am On Apr 02, 2016
mile12crises:
So the wandering presidiot buhari and his showy Buratai can't even provide food for the soldiers......



So the soldiers are winning the war on empty stomach undecided
No wonder the soldiers now go about setting bushes ablaze so as to hunt for games.

Nigeria no longer different from a zoo

Are running Mad .... or why must you always insult the President for even unrelated issues?

I am sorry for the parents that gave birth to you because they really did a bad job on your Upbringing!

I am sure if the ask you to show your father now, even you will be ashamed to put him forward.

Anuofia!



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Politics › Re: Fuel Crisis: We’ll Vote Buhari Out In 2019 – Enugu Residents by lastpage: 8:55am On Apr 02, 2016
Skseries:
someone promise to give u 10kMGW in 4yrs u are complaining and wailing, PDP barely gave us 4kMGW in 16 and we all sat back and did notin, we all gave pdp 16yrs benifit of the doubt and gave GEJ 6yrs, we have barely giving this man a yr and we are screaming, lets face it we nigeria enjoy suffering and smiling. Make them vote pdp back na, shabi we go all suffer am togeda ni. As if ppl of enugu wanted him there b4. As long as we see our slf as from a state first b4 the country. Then nigeria will never grow.
There is a reason they are called #WAILERS naa!

They will #Wail till 2023..... just siddon dey look them!

Sai Baba nor send them and their 5%.



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Politics › Re: Fuel Crisis: We’ll Vote Buhari Out In 2019 – Enugu Residents by lastpage: 8:53am On Apr 02, 2016
Goke7:
Enugu never voted PMB in 2015 so how will they vote him out in 2019?

Nigerians and their emotions

Dont mind those "unstable minds"!

Well, maybe they will vote him out with their 5%?
grin grin grin



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Crime › Re: Policeman Murders Man He Mistook For His Annoying Boss (pic) by lastpage: 6:43pm On Apr 01, 2016
ijustdey:
see what anger can cause...


because of some misunderstanding..... you want to end your oga life.
now that you have killed another man instead of him, what is necessary is for you to face the same firing squad
Its not just Anger! Or is it only "Police" that gets annoyed by their Boss and get ANGRY?

95% of those in our Police farce are "MENTALLY DERANGED people" who should have been on 24-hour lock-down in an ASYLUM HOSPITAL..... but here they are, holding a gun and trying to enforce law, like a Mad person!
undecided undecided




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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by lastpage: 7:59am On Apr 01, 2016
nwabuwa:
. Please someone should give the wood estimate needed to roof a house that measures 25feet *31ft. Rectangular house, no design, no sit out..
It will be difficult without you saying how high the KingPost is going to be.
Other things like number of rooms will also affect the number of woods to use.

Your floor plan and Roof height will assist others to help you sha, l think.



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Family › Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by lastpage: 6:49am On Apr 01, 2016
kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self grin grin because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences . Am really disturbed
Two things may be responsible:

1.) She is having it elsewhere and therefore not "missing" it from you

2.) It is a Hormonal Problem (early onset of Menopause!).

Short jab in the neck might let you know: Tell her you will have no choice than to seek "gratification" outside with another woman, if your own wife refuses to see it as her duty. (Watch her facial expressions very closely, it will tell you more than she will say with her mouth

Tell her in plain, simple, in-your-face manner.... so that it can hit her and she can realize "WhatzUp".

*If she is getting it outside, she will simply insult you, dare you to try it and turn it to a fight (at that point, your marriage is dead! and you need to start thinking about your "options"wink
*If it is hormonal and she is just "not feeling it", she will "break-down" and plead with you to understand her "problem". (At that point, you need to stand solidly with her and seek medical help)
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BTW: how long was the birth..... before than one month of "fasting"? huh
Could it be her body is not ready, if its still very close to child-birth?

My sympathies.



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Family › Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by lastpage: 6:40am On Apr 01, 2016
cionon:
I think you are not married. If you are, you would understand. People have packs their things and returned. Leave the past behind. February to November is a long way so why go back to February. You acting like a saint now. Like you have no past . I m talking of the present.
You see!

There are certain things you dont do in marriage.
Threatening to divorce is one of them, if you dont intend to do it or are not ready to do it.

It will always be on the mind of the other spouse and they will always feel INSECURE!
How some interpret that "state of insecurity" depends on the individual.


*Some would result to fetish things
*Some would result to have affairs
*Some would immediately put "Plan B" into operation because they dont want to be caught unawares (which might be your own case).
*Some would actually just marry another wife/husband .....and call your bluff.

Its a sad way to learn a big lesson!

It is actually the PAST .....that shapes the FUTURE!


And l am married for like two decades now, so l know what l am talking about undecided

I pray both of you can resolve it.



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BTW: Juju is same as "diabolical" and same as "Magun". I wonder why you are trying to sound like such thing was not discussed with your neighbour?
Family › Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by lastpage: 6:31am On Apr 01, 2016
ceaser:
Now this problem is multifactorial. I don't know for how long you both have been married that you have issues with conception.


Rom your post history, it is apparent that this man does not love you deeply as you love him. For him to try to call off the engagement 4 years into your relationship speaks volume of his "love" for you. But perhaps pleas from several sources including those he wouldn't say no to made him to reluctantly go ahead with the union (remember his heart and mind were already not with yours ever since he threatened to bail out on the engagement). Perhaps he had even met his mistress ever since then. That mistress may be diabolical, she may not be.

Fast forward to now. Some decisions he may have taken, and definitely with the connivance or advice of his mistress is as follows:

*Even if forced into the marriage because he couldn't refuse pleas from some people he held in high esteem, he can however FRUSTRATE you outta the marriage.

*When it became apparent that that may not work because you kept entertaining his excesses and misdeeds without complain (you admitted that you "fight" a lot), the next plan is to bring up trumped up charges and then hinge a divorce on that reason.

You did not err by telling your better half your secrets, but I think he simply needed the flimsiest of excuses to justify his plan to bail out on you so as to have his mistress move in as full housewife.

Please note that your poor chances at conception may not exactly be due to an anatomic or physiologic problem with you. It may actually be due to the frequency of your sexual exposure to your husband. Medically, a couple is said to have the problem of infertility (primary or secondary) if there is no conception after a year of ADEQUATE sexual exposure; adequate in this instance means on the average 3 times in a week.

But what manner of sexual intimacy and exposure do you think you can get from a husband who apparently has no love for you and whose sexual energy is channelled to his mistress outside instead?


The last but not the least. Have you ever conceived before in which case yours will be secondary infertility? Was the conception your husband's and then you had to tell him and he suggested the choice of a voluntary TOP (termination of pregnancy) to you and which you obliged? If this happened while you were dating him or anyone else, being privy to such information may have given him the erroneous conviction that your inability to conceive was due to the procedure that may have "destroyed the womb".

A made up mind like your husband's may be a difficult thing to change. You need to get your medicals to confirm the problem of infertility isn't yours (actually men are responsible for a sizeable percentage of infertility amongst couple but traditionally, the blame is always on the woman). And while you are at the medicals, equally endeavour to get screened for Lenteviral, Hepatitis and other STIs. Your husband has been unfaithful. You need to know your status.
Most of the things you wrote are good but l want to take exception tot he bolded!

There is a Cliche which translates to "Even a singe time, can result in pregnancy"! grin grin

Her husband has only one Mistress and you want to attribute her non-conception to "lack of energy and adequate exposure"?
May l ask, how do the wives of those that FOUR WIVES at home conceive?
Where did the "energy and adequate exposure" of those ones come from..... with all the battalion of children the "one man" sirs with all of them? huh shocked shocked shocked

See, having children is not a function of how many times you are intimate because all it needs is just one, out of a hundred thousand spe#rm and one intercourse.
But like you said, "Stress, previous D&C or miscarriage, fibroid, watery and low-spm count, e.t.c are all possibilities.
I know someone who has been trying to conceive for the last seven years, after a miscarriage, living under the same roof with the husband, with no "side-chick"! Only God knows how much they wasted, how many tests and drugs, e.t.c.

They eventually gave-up and settled to do an "in-vitro" in future....

She just conceived last December!....... when she list expected it! How about that?

If there are no known "internal ailments", God will do it when he will do it.





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Family › Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by lastpage: 6:16am On Apr 01, 2016
cionon:
I confided in my husband when he accused me of listening to people. I then opened up and gave him an instance that if i listen to people i would ne doing what they asked me to do.I told him the advice a former neigbhour of his gave me. Of which I told her I can't do such. Now he uses it against me. I feel bad because he didn't even say what I told him exactly. He changed the story. He lied about it.


My husband goes about telling everyone i am diabolic because I jokingly told him that he should be grateful I don't have a wicked heart[b] if not I will use magun to catch him and his mistress.[/b] Which he even replied that he knows i dont have that mind. That i am still a child.
this was said around march of 2015

Fastward to November he started asking for a divorce because he of his mistress he met online. Telling both his colleagues and family members that I am diabolic which is not true. I feel bad because this same man have also confided in me telling me things about his boss and others. We are currently separated

I just regret everything. I regret confinding in him and opening up to him. With pleas from everywhere, he is still insisting on divorce.
There is more to your story that what you shared!
Trust me, l know a "one-sided story" when l hear one.

You need to get to the root of WHY your husband wants a divorce.......... and let "elders with sense" intervene on it.
That he is philandering does not mean he would throw-away his family!
"FAMILY" trumps every other thing, especially where it has produced child/ren.


He is not leaving you because of his Mistress, he is leaving you because he wants to leave you! Mistress or not, he will still do what he is doing now, for reasons which you and him are yet to let us know.

The earlier the better you narrow down on the reason (and stop this moral-grandstanding), the better good people can come to you people's aid so that it can be resolved!


As for being diabolic, he might just have seen issues that convince him that what you told him was just a "tip of the iceberg", meant to disarm him and make him feel safe! [b] It appears he does not see it as "You confiding in him"

Believe me, some men are not fools and cant be easily fooled.

If you still love him, then you need to ask him "one-on-one": What DO WE need to do, to save this marriage?

Hopefully, he will open-up and both of you can HONESTLY work at it .....to make it work.[/b]

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Politics › Re: Nigerian Beans To Be Allowed Into Europe by lastpage: 6:04am On Apr 01, 2016
Buttocks:
You're a sad, miserable, GULLIBLE ILLITERATE!

Nigeria has been exporting beans to Europe for 20 years now. But it was blacklisted on in June last year for its high concentration of pesticides. The ban was only lifted this year after NAFDAC got down to it.
Majority of you[b] Sai Baba supporters [/b]are the most naive, MENTALLY LAZY and INTELLECTUALLY DEAD creatures I've ever seen.

This country will never progess with gullible knuckleheads like you constituting the majority.

The ban has NOT been lifted yet!

They are hoping to get it lifted.
Just so we get it clear. undecided undecided

All this "Yam-Eating" #Wailers sef! shocked grin grin undecided



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Politics › Re: Nigerian Beans To Be Allowed Into Europe by lastpage: 6:00am On Apr 01, 2016
eljp:
Which one 9ger go chop since our Agricultural sector is performing poorly .....
The danger here is that most of the beans we produce will now be "exported" while the people in Nigeria will have non to eat! ..or buy it at very expensive rates!
Who no won chop "Euro"? grin grin

Na so dem do with Garri, wey the thing come cost so much!
The QUALITY of Garri l eat whenever l am outside the country (US/Europe in general) is far better than what we get to buy in Nigeria so much so that at one point, l had to buy Garri when l was coming back to Nigeria!

Thats not cool at all. angry angry angry



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Politics › Re: Nigerian Beans To Be Allowed Into Europe by lastpage: 5:56am On Apr 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
Marching down to Otuke to collect my Vote back from Jonathan!!! cry
No way! Except you are ready to return the tons of Dollars you took, back then! undecided undecided

we still have the list of "collectors".... so dont feign ignorance! grin grin




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Investment › Re: US Plans $600Million Investment In Nigeria by lastpage: 12:31pm On Mar 31, 2016
david22uu:
Oga i will advice yu get sense at times

A country investing in another country means they are going to make 50 times that amount back...
See for example, Shoprite, DSTV, all the indian and lebanese firms in Nigeria.. They just come and make thier money and go back.
The best form of investment is manpower development.

Why cant America advocate we should come and learn how it is done for free... that is d real investment

As for me, Americans has never been a blessing to any country they invest in, they will rip us off, just watch and see

Dullard Buhamalu - APC _ deceiving Nigerians since 1999
DUllard GEJ - PDP- Preying on our nation since 1999

We need a total reset in the country...

Peace out
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Your IGNORANCE is so high it defies any form of "Education".....
So l wont even bother to let you know that the host country also benefits from such investments!
undecided undecided

Just "Kontinue" ..! grin grin grin


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Politics › Re: Happy Orubebe's Day by lastpage: 12:23pm On Mar 31, 2016
sparrowkid:
As we're celebrating the Orubebelization of Nigerian politics, let's us remember that it took the courage of a man to save this country of avoidable bloodshed. Jonathan may not be perfect just like you and I, he may have his shortcomings just like every mortal, but on this very day, the prayers of Nigerians were answered by God through him. Let's face the truth, were Jonathan one of our die-hard politicians, what is happening now in Syria would be a child play compared to what could have been in Nigeria.

That is why I believe that President Buhari always acknowledged this fact of Jonathan's patriotism anywhere he had the opportunity. To me, on this day of the historical phone call, a new Jonathan was born. No matter what, he would be remembered for this particular feat in African politics for a very long time. The moral of the story is that Jonathan believes in Nigeria and stand up for her when she needed him most. What about you? Do you believe in one Nigeria? Check your conscience my pal.

Cheerio!
Stop selling this #bullshyt!

Jonathan had no choice than to hand-over..... He lost the election!
He was FORCED to make the Phone-Call; Even "pig-he@ded" Patience had to be removed to another room as she was pushing the "weak-man" not to agree!

But l give him Credit for being "Smart", unlike Laurent Gbagbo...... he chose not to spend the rest of his life in an ICC prison!

FREEDOM.........is PRICELESS
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Politics › Re: Happy Orubebe's Day by lastpage: 12:15pm On Mar 31, 2016
keyzid:
How i wish you all listened to this man then! Mr Buhari has had his way and it's not funny at all.
Normally i boast of 14hrs light per day in my area...it's now equally less than 2hrs per day.
No fuel to even power generator.
It's now affecting commuters as there are hype hyke in prices of public transit.
I weep for Nigeria. Every damn thing is high on cost.
Mr Buhari has traveled again for Nuclear summit. wtf?? what business do we gat with that?? im seriously pained...
Is it not the same #Wailers like you who are Vandalizing gas pipes and destroying National infrastructure...... just because your "Yam-Eater" lost th elections?

Dont worry, keep doing so, "Heaven go fall, no be one man's worry"! undecided undecided

Keep Weeping, that is your lot in life!
Your mates are starting-up businesses here and there..... you siddon dey weep! grin grin

#Ignoramus that does not know that 'Nuclear Plants' produce Electricity, yet he is complaining of 2hrs electricity! shocked shocked


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Crime › Re: Man Shot To Death In Buguma In Rivers State This Morning. Graphic Photos by lastpage: 12:08pm On Mar 31, 2016
makingsense:
Wike put an end to this shooting na
That what happens when you handover your Governorship office to a Cult-Leader!

This one don pass one chance!

But seriously, President Buhari is the "C-in-C of this country and the buck stops at his table.
He cant just fold his hand and watch Nigerians in Rivers State being killed like Rabbits?

He still has the power to declare a State of Emergency and let Soldiers ENFORCE PEACE in that state.

The Police as we all know, have been compromised since the days when that mad AIG Mbu was unleashed on them in Rivers.



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Crime › Re: Boy Fights Over His Grilfriend In Sapele, Loses His Arm (Graphic Pic) by lastpage: 12:01pm On Mar 31, 2016
...and When Raraye gets out of Hospital, whats he gonna do to Patrick? huh huh

over a "girl", for that matter! shocked shocked shocked

***shakes head at the "cheapness" of these boyz***




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