 Family › Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by LaudableXX: 5:24pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
EmmaFitBody:
A woman accusing her husband of infidelity when there is ZERO proof warants an angry response. I repeat she started the fight UNPROVOKED... she never anticipated how much damage her utterances would cause.
If my brother accuses me of stealing when there is no proof (and I didn't steal) I would get offended... the same if my girlfriend accuses me of cheating! It was not unprovoked.  There is something he must have said or done, that gave rise to the allegations of cheating. Read the man's story here: https://www.nairaland.com/4629255/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home. He went verbally ballistic, because there was some truth to her comments. If your wife or girlfriend accuses you of cheating, your best bet is not to lose your temper, but to set the records straight. No woman would accuse a man of cheating out of the blue, if something did not provoke it. Basic Psychology 101. Her insults though, went overboard.  |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 5:19pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
kmariko:
Here's the complete quote from the Africanews link the op presented
" initial capital is likely to be in the range of $US 150 to 300 million, invested in tranches over time from start up through the first years of operation,” a government document stated.
It said the government will provide initial capital but did not state the sum or give further details.
The government will “facilitate the process for opening up the capital of the airline to private sector financial investors”, the document stated.
No where was it stated that the 5% was for the initial start up cost.
Secondly, it clearly stated that the government will provide the initial capital.
Third, the estimation left rooms for cost over runs as there was no clear time frame when the government will stop the funding..
Fact remains that the proposal is still murky and lacks transparency.
Chile obi might be right in his initial assessment until the government proves otherwise. Thank you, o!  This is the kind of factual breakdown and analysis, I was hoping to find, but some folks turned it into a gripe fest. |
| Politics › Re: Former AMCON CEO's Tweet About $300m Nigeria Air Is Misleading And Mischievous by LaudableXX: 5:17pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
kmariko:
Here's the complete quote from the Africanews link the op presented
" initial capital is likely to be in the range of $US 150 to 300 million, invested in tranches over time from start up through the first years of operation,” a government document stated.
It said the government will provide initial capital but did not state the sum or give further details.
The government will “facilitate the process for opening up the capital of the airline to private sector financial investors”, the document stated.
No where was it stated that the 5% was for the initial start up cost.
Secondly, it clearly stated that the government will provide the initial capital.
Third, the estimation left rooms for cost over runs as there was no clear time frame when the government will stop the funding..
Fact remains that the proposal is still murky and lacks transparency.
Chile obi might be right in his initial assessment until the government proves otherwise. Thank you, o! This is the kind of factual breakdown and analysis, I was hoping to find, but some folks turned it into a gripe fest. |
| Family › Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by LaudableXX: 5:08pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
EmmaFitBody:
He has NOT abandoned his children. He said he would rent a house and bring his kids. The woman decided START a fight UNPROVOKED not knowing how much damage it can cause, now she is looking for pity... whatever she gets she deserves it.
Read his side of the story. His side of the story has been read and digested. Nothing more for him to add. The woman did not start a fight unprovoked. His conduct gave rise to allegations of cheating, which his wife accused him of. Instead of providing proof to show he was not cheating, or trying to allay his wife's fears, he mishandled the situation. And the wife's insults got out of hand. I agree that the wife went overboard with her insults, but what kind of man just refuses to go back to his home over a property issue?  You claim he has not abandoned his children. Ok, are the wife & children currently living with him, in his new place? Is he the one taking care of them, right now?  Isn't he the one who moved out despite the wife's pleading? He said he would rent a house and bring his kids. When would this activity be carried out? Do you know? What if it takes 6 months, 1 year or 2 years to achieve? Don't forget that he has asked for a transfer to a totally different state, o! |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 4:53pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Firefire:
......Good luck on your enterprise of defense.
“*Air Nigeria/Nigeria Air*
Ordinarily, it should gladdens the heart when plans were set to revive Nigeria air fleet for commercial purpose.
But critical comparison to other countries with national fleets has propounded these questions begging for answers.
One might ask why the rush to unveil a logo when there are no aircraft's, personnel's, websites and other functional apparatus on ground? Is this another gimmicks to score points.
*Time shall tell*
- Who are the owners of the *95%* equity?
- Why is the ownership shrouded in secrecy?
- Why is *5%* equity holder funding the business?
- Where are these fundings *$8m, $300m coming from? Budget? Borrowing*?
- Are the aircrafts under lease agreement? *If yes, for how many years*?
- If it's private investment, why would a *5%* equity holder determine the *name, logo and other trademarks* of the airline?
- Since it's private sector driven, why not adopt any of the existing airlines in Nigeria as the National carrier?
- Are there sinister motives? Sure! Time shall tell.
Facts that you may need to compare notes:
Other National carriers in Africa.
*Kenya*
Fleet size: *40*
Kenya Airways is *48.9%* owned by the Government of Kenya
*Ethiopia*
Fleet size: *100*
Ethiopian Airways is *100%* owned by government.
*Morocco*
Fleet size: *56*
Royal Air Maroc is *100%* owned by government of Morocco
*South Africa*
Fleet size: *47*
South African Airways is *100%* owned by Government of South Africa.
*Rwanda*
Fleet size: *12*
Rwandair is *99%* owned by the Government of Rwanda
*Tunisia*
Fleet size: *29*
Tunisair The company is *74%* owned by the Tunisian government
*Egypt*
Fleet size: *54*
Egypt Air is *100%* owned by the Government of Egypt
*Nigeria Air*
Fleet size: *Unknown*
Nigeria Air is *5%* owned by the government . Even the British Airways was *solely owned* by the British Government until it was privatised in *1987*.
So, where are we?” - copied Sorry, I had to edit your post and transfer it to this thread. These are some of the logical airline comparisons that should be made, which you have just listed here. Yet, someone is telling me that nobody should compare an existing airline's valuation, with that of a non-existing airline whose fleet size, assets and destinations cannot be verified. We should just swallow the valuation being touted around for the proposed Nigeria Air. Abeg, na who be mumu? |
| Politics › Re: Former AMCON CEO's Tweet About $300m Nigeria Air Is Misleading And Mischievous by LaudableXX: 4:47pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
PassingShot:
The plane being planned is 737 and not 777. It costs between $55m and $80m depending on the grade. At launch, just five units will be bought.
Now, swerve since it's obvious you belly-ache about the news. Just 5 units would be bought? Are you sure? Please what is the source of this info? Kindly provide the link or url, so we can read and verify. |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 4:39pm On Jul 22, 2018*. Modified: 6:35pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
obailala:
Good thing you know and acknowledge that you do not have any info about the proposed Nigeria Air. But the question I have is, "if you do not have any details of its fleet size, number of destinations etc, how exactly does it then make any sense to compare a something you have zero info on to Virgin?.... Cant you still see how pointless that comparison is?....
By the way I think I read somewhere that the plan is to have Nigeria Air cover up to 84 destinations; that already is double the coverage of Virgin. You and I still do not know the total number of planes Nigeria Air plans to acquire, but based on this sketchy information, you and Mustafa already proceeded to make economic judgements and comparison between Nigeria air and Virgin. Once again, can you still not see how pointless your comparison is? Oga, you read that Nigeria Air is to have 84 destinations? Where? Please post the url and link, so we can all read and verify. I repeat: No rational, sensible, logical adult would accept the valuation of a non-existent airline whose assets, fleet etc are unknown, especially if it is an entity that has not earned any revenue, when it is compared with those of an existing airline with a balance sheet, whose existing fleet, destinations and assets are well-known. I believe in verifiable facts and figures. You are free to write another long epistle to justify your inane stand. Kindly do not quote me when next you do so. I do not argue with those whose views are based on a flawed premise. |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 4:23pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
obailala:
The simple answer to that question is YES. It all depends on the size or the proposed size of the business. You cannot automatically expect a keke napep to cost more than a brand new BMW simply because the keke napep is currently in operation on the streets and making profits. First question that really should have been asked is, "what is the size of the proposed Nigeria Air in comparison to the current size of Virgin Atlantic?"... It's only when/if it is established that both airlines are of similar size, that is the only time the comparison by Mr Mustafa Obi would be meaningful.
Oga I'm only defending common sense here and trying to promote fact based arguments.
How many planes would be in their fleet? = You do not know.
Would they be a regional carrier or a long-haul trans-atlantic carrier? = You do not know
Virgin Atlantic currently has a fleet size of 39 planes = You do not know the proposed fleet size of the Nigeria Air.
Try and read through everything you wrote again, every single thing you wrote is an ASSUMPTION.
How can you make an assumption in your head, then automatically hold your ASSUMPTION as FACT, and then proceed to make public arguments and condemnations based purely on your assumption?... And then plof course when I or anyone else faults the logic in your argument, you accuse me of "defending Nigeria Air"? ...What ever happened to waiting and sourcing right info first before proceeding to make arguments and condemnations of everything? Oga, there were no assumptions in my posts, only questions. Virgin Atlantic's fleet size, assets and destinations are a matter of public record. Nigeria Air's fleet size, destination and assets are totally unknown, or nowhere to be found. And you expect any rational logical person to swallow that Nigerian Air's valuation, hook, line & sinker? Oga, na wa for you, o! |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 4:02pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
obailala:
The simple answer to that question is YES. It all depends on the size or the proposed size of the business. Oga, stop defending this Nigerian Air valuation, it is not worth it. How many planes would be in their fleet? Would they be a regional carrier or a long-haul trans-atlantic carrier? Virgin Atlantic currently has a fleet size of 39 planes, and is renewing its fleet. It has ordered an additional 17 Boeing 787s. It flies to over 40 destinations world wide. It operates a total of 32 daily nonstop flights between North America and the UK. Do you have proof that Nigerian Air's fleet & destinations would exceed this size? Can a proper valuation be carried out, based on this? |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 3:51pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
obailala:
How exactly is the cost of Virgin Atlantic a proper yardstick to measure the supposed cost of every other airline?... If 31% of Virgin is worth $286m, does that automatically mean the value of 31% of Airline B must also be in the range of $283m irrespective of fleet size?... The comparison by Mustafa is irrelevant. Oh,how would the new Nigerian Air which has not started operations yet and has posted zero revenue, have its shares more highly valued than those of Virgin Atlantic that has been running for years, owns multiple assets and has a large fleet size? Can a business who value is yet to be determined and currently has zero value, be worth more than an enterprise which already exists, and has churned out profits before recording a loss in just one year? |
| Education › Re: LAUTECH Increases School Fees To N300,000 From N120k by LaudableXX: 3:06pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
cezarman:
What are you talking about Do you know the large number of people who don't even have the opportunity to see the four walls of a Uni in Nigeria, compared to the ones who are currently in it?
And they still want to make it hard for the few who're in it so that they'll dropout as well, abi? I'm not even sure you know what quality education means.
How can students pay for 300k for that trash. Even if they want to increase the tuition, it should be gradually, not that someone would just wake up in the morning to hear that he's to pay double of what he use to.
Make them use government money improve the quality first, then people would know they're truely paying for quality education.
You guys should stop that rubbish talk that " education is not for everyone"... Most Nigerians are already illiterates. Make una leave the few wey dey try to learn. Thank you for hitting the nail on da head, my brother. And the same govt making these silly laws to increase fees, has been squandering any money they get, on faulty ill-conceived projects and political gallivanting, all over the place. And they will continue to do so. Instead of them to reduce their wasteful expenditure and pump it into education, dem no go gree. Only the children of the masses will be taxed further, and compelled to pay more fees to support their excesses. |
| Education › Re: LAUTECH Increases School Fees To N300,000 From N120k by LaudableXX: 2:47pm On Jul 22, 2018*. Modified: 3:43pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
divinelove:
Quality education is not cheap.
300k is fair enough provided students enjoy improved facilities
Everyone must not go to school, those who can't afford it should learn handwork.
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300k can't even pay the school fees in a standard primary school in Nigeria for a year and some people are quoting me to to talk nonsense And how much is the salary of their parents who are civil servants? Soo 300,000 naira is fair - let me ask - are you the one going to make the payment for them? How did you arrive at the sum being a fair rate for university students? In your view, "university education is not meant for the poor, it is the preserve of the rich." So the children of the poor, should perpetually be condemned to a life of handwork and penury, isn't that how you think? Many of our elders, parents and grandparent's generation in the 50s, 60s & 70s, were children of farmers and commodity traders, but they enjoyed university education due to the low fees, scholarships and grants in place, during their own time. How many student loans, grants, scholarships etc exist in Nigeria today for those seeking university education? Some of those making these asinine laws went to school, when annual tuition fees were like 10,000 naira per session. Only to turn round and inflict hardship on those coming after them. The same govt that increased the fees, will squander billions on ill-conceived projects at the end of the day, instead of using it to improve the fortunes of the university. Please do not hit your keyboard to type nonsense, if you do not understand the dynamics at play. Nigeriadondie:
In Norway where I live, quality education is free and accessible to all who desires as long as you meet the requirements. Yet you justify increment in fees for shitthole education. Help me tell am, o! |
| Travel › Re: Warning:stay Away From Royal Air Morrocan Airline Worse In Africa by LaudableXX: 2:17pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Cyberknight:
I've flown KQ 4 times, roundtrips to Nairobi from Lagos, to Kigali from Nairobi and to Madagascar from Nairobi. In all honesty, all 4 times the flights went off well even though the Nairobi to Madagascar flight was delayed on both legs of the trip. I'm scheduled to travel to Kenya again in February and I'll definitely fly KQ again.
As someone mentioned above, the East Africans are really doing well in aviation. I've also flown Rwandair from Kigali to Lagos and it was also excellent. All these airlines are all government owned, another lesson we have to learn before we float the so-called Nigeria Air.
It is instructive that there are no major West African airlines to speak of since Arik's demise and the only other airline active internationally in West Africa is Asky, which is operated by Ethiopian Airlines.
We need to get our act together. KQ is great. I have flown them several times to Nairobi and other West African countries. But I once had a bad experience with them in Zimbabwe, on my way to Namibia. I had to take a connecting flight to Zim from Nairobi. I should have spent 2 hours in Jomo Kenyatta Airport before making the connection, but I was surprised when I disembarked and was told the connecting flight was just about to leave, so I should rush and make sure I got on board. It turns out the airline staff were wrong. There was a connecting flight quite alright, but not mine. I got to Zimbabwe, and that was where everything went wrong. The Zim immigration officials were hostile, while the KQ officials were nowhere to be found.  I had to spend the night, lying on a bench within the airport. In the morning, I marched off to the KQ office once they were open, and gave them a good piece of my mind! They were quite apologetic though, and took me to the first class lounge in the airport, offered me free food and drinks, and rebooked my next connecting flight, at no additional charge!  |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Sterling Bank Shades Access Bank, Gtbank, Union Bank And First Bank by LaudableXX: 1:45pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
nwachelsea:
Nigerian banks tweeting about taking customers to space when they can't have functioning ATM's on earth UBA is the worst culprit. They will arrange 5-8 ATMs in their lobby, and only 1 or 2 will be working to issue very dirty notes. And it will not issue more than 20k at a time, even if you are withdrawing a huge amount. If I need new notes, I got to Fidelity Bank's ATM or Wema Bank ATM. I don't mind paying the extra 65 naira charge per withdrawal. |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 1:17pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
RevenGeMission:
Just imagine the level of hate stemming from some region ?
An existing airline was purchased and the cost is being compared to a startup of an airline
The Idiot with suspicious names is living in his father's shadow Did you even understand the comparison being made, before hitting your keyboard?? |
| Family › Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by LaudableXX: 1:12pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Jesusgirl92:
Hope u later got to read the husband's side of the story. Especially the part where he had to fly his sick father abroad for treatment. She conveniently hid that part by saying he used his own part of the money for "his parents". Making light the situation of things just so she'll appear as "the helper". And she also said they had a " disagreement " without telling us how she insulted her husband's background because she came from a rich family... Na this type of woman go call her husband "useless" in the presence of their children. I hope she's enjoying the house now sha. You are just blaming the woman left, right and centre without even offering the couple any single advice, on how to resolve the present situation. Na wa, o! Even the woman has tried to make amends, by offering to change the title deeds of the property to their joint names - Mr & Mrs Somebody. But the man refused, saying it must be in his name alone! Didn't they both contribute to the building of the property? He even moved out, seeking transfer to another state, while abandoning his wife & family, instead of trying to bring the issue under control. Yet you are still busy insulting & blasting the woman. Very few people said her actions were right. She has shown remorse, and is begging the husband. Yet, you are too busy itemising her sins, one by one without doing the same for the husband, too. Even Jesus offered solutions to every problem on earth. He never compounded it. |
| Family › Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by LaudableXX: 12:55pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Yagazie2016:
My initial comment did not deserve the kind of response from you. There is no way issues about a house should lead to a marriage breaking up. It's not worth it.
I know the OP is pained, and rightfully so. I suggested what will make him stronger in the marriage. Leaders are not necessarily rulers or dictators. If his wife is a good woman as I hope, she will respond positively to reconcillations from him. It will even surprise her.
Meanwhile he gets to heal and save his marriage. He also will be able to have peace of mind- this is non existent in a troubled marriage.
He can easily make enough money to buy or build houses within a few years and in an honest way. That's what God can do but it normally works when the marriage front is stable.
Now let me tell you some things, I have been in a successful marriage for over a decade. I have a joint account with my wife and she is a sole signatory also in my business accounts. My marriage has been tested many times and we came out successfully and stronger each time.
It's not good to be dividing funds or to operate different accounts in a marriage- my thoughts.
It's not also good to be exchanging bad words online. Apologies for my coarse words. Guy, you have said it all. And you have said it well. I doff my hat to you.  You see, all those forming Voltron on this thread, would probably take worse crap from their wives after they get married, when the chips are down. If you see a successful marriage, please know they have weathered many storms. That is what some people do not realise. Those advising separation or preaching divorce to the couple, do not wish them well. The man was justified in getting upset, but to move out of the house, abandoning her and his kids, was totally wrong. By the time other members of the family interfere and take sides, things could get worse from there, and it would be difficult to initiate a reconciliation. |
| Family › Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by LaudableXX: 12:48am On Jul 22, 2018 |
kmcutez:
This guy you go sabi nag for real life. Replying and quarreling with every post that you do not agree with. Are you a fish seller? In fact, I just dey laugh since! He is the only guy with time on his hands in this thread, that has taken pains to carefully cut-and-paste everyone's comments, and respond to each one, line by line. I don't know why the matter dey pepper im body like dis.  Or is he the woman's husband? |
| Webmasters › Re: Olumayowa Elegbede Buys Nigeria Air Domain Names, Selling At ₦24 Million Each by LaudableXX: 7:00pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
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| Webmasters › Re: Olumayowa Elegbede Buys Nigeria Air Domain Names, Selling At ₦24 Million Each by LaudableXX: 6:52pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
sparkle6:
make google your friend for just 1min. You had better take your own advice, because your responses so far on this thread, shows that you have not availed yourself of the info, that Google has to offer. |
| Politics › Re: Mustafa Chike-obi Former AMCOM Boss Tweets On The Air Nigeria by LaudableXX: 6:50pm On Jul 21, 2018*. Modified: 3:55pm On Jul 22, 2018 |
Very good question. Now who has the answer, please? Air France made over 1.022 billion Euros, as operating profit last year. Virgin Atlantic earlier recorded a £23 million profit in 2016, before reporting a loss this last year. Nigeria Air is yet to take off, and has not earned any penny as revenue, in any form. Who has been fleeced, or who has been played for a fool? Any guesses? |
| Webmasters › Re: Olumayowa Elegbede Buys Nigeria Air Domain Names, Selling At ₦24 Million Each by LaudableXX: 6:47pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
sparkle6:
so lawyer we should fry beans. nigerians dont know when their rights and privelleges are tossed since the jury can be bought over these days. so u havent seen where someone sues the govt and win the case? its either dey buy the domain or make their own! Sues govt and win case....after how any years?? After a law has been promulgated to forbid such an act? Some of you need to be properly educated, honestly! |
| Webmasters › Re: Olumayowa Elegbede Buys Nigeria Air Domain Names, Selling At ₦24 Million Each by LaudableXX: 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
bakila:
The guy will cry witch-hunt and nobody will pay attention to that law. Is that what you think? Or what you know? You think govt will let a person off the hook, after crying that he is being witch-hunted? How many PDP politicians like Dariye & co, were let off the hook despite their cries? Is your guy as powerful or as connected, as they are? |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Sterling Bank Shades Access Bank, Gtbank, Union Bank And First Bank by LaudableXX: 5:31pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
udo2018:
Sterling Bank is for kids. No, sir! I will take one Sterling Bank any day, over one thousand of UBA. Anytime I do a transaction in UBA branch, I usually get a text from 419 scammers the following day. Is there a correlation? It has happened 6 times, now.... I just dey take corner eye, look dem. And the queues in UBA banking halls in Lagos island, is encyclopedic. |
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| Family › Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by LaudableXX: 5:22pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
CanadianEnginee:
She didn't include the man's first name. The poster you responded to, did so. This is what he said: Pearl05:
Let's say ur husband name is mike and your name is joy, surname Philips.
You can change it to Mr. Mike and Mrs. Joy Phillips. |
| Politics › Re: Nigerian Man Outsmarts FG, Asking For N48m To Sell Domain Names For “nigerian Ai by LaudableXX: 5:08pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
psucc:
Please be sincere, If it is one of the Minister's son or daughter that developed the website, wouldn't FG pay more that that amount? Ask Fashola how much it cost him to "upgrade" his personal website between 2013-2014 - a whooping N72m and if you factor the current inflation rate, you understand how much was involved. He did not develop any website. He just registered a domain name. Do you realise that it takes less than 30 minutes to register a domain name? So please tell us, what major work did he do, to justify the huge amount he is demanding? Oga, stop justifying his greed, abeg. With the cybersecurity law, he will not get anything. Fashola's website was registered when GEJ was in power. He dare not try it, now. PMB is in the saddle now, even though nothing much has changed. Hotfreeze:
Don't be emotional, read the law against acts like this and ensure compliance.
Flipping domains is done everywhere but countries are increasingly criminalising it as a form of cyber opportunism and a criminal attempt to benefit from the Goodwill of another brand. Abeg, help me tell dem! |
| Family › Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by LaudableXX: 5:04pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Rajosh:
https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 this is the link to the story I read. I still can't find where she made mention of those things. she only said he used his money for his parents and gave no details as you said Oga, go back and read through her comments on that thread. She said: HEseesall:
I had to open this account for anonymity
I'm in a dilemma, let me start like this, when i and my husband first got married we did a joint business that fetched us a huge amount of money, the aim was to build a house, when we got the money, he decided to use his' for his parents (i had no problem with that) then mine for what we wanted to use it for
Two weeks ago we had a major misunderstanding, it was soo intense to the extent that he told me to park out of the house, in the heat of things i told him that cannot be possible that the house is in my name, he was shocked, saying it is impossible we built it together that it's in his name, i had to remind him what happened then, he was furious saying it was wrong of me to use my name, that he cant believe he has been staying in a house that does not belong to him, he told his family what i did claming victim, then he packed out saying he wont come home till i change the name to his full name, i begged him to no avail, i dont even know how to tell my people, imagine if it was in his name, i and the kids would have been out of the house by now, he has requested for transfer from his office to another state cos of this, who does that?? He cant expect me to change it to his name.
Pls i need other advise to go about this, he is a good man but he feels his ego has been bruised, i need other options.
MODIFIED For those viewing this, i have made some clarifications down to page (1), She also went further to state that: HEseesall:
When he told me he wants to use his share for his parents, we agreed my share would be used for get a property then we start to build from there and that's what i did, i expected he knows i would use my name cos i keep the documents, now he is saying he wants his own name only not jointly, who says that pls, at least i compromised for jointly, HEseesall:
The property only is in my name but we built it together And also said: HEseesall:
Yes it is not a small money, his dad had an ailment he had to be flown out, he used the remaining to complete their house, he's the first born, now they think i'm evil cos of all he did for them, it's really saddening It is all stated in black & white on her thread. Read it up here: https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home/1 |
| Family › Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by LaudableXX: 4:50pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
CanadianEnginee:
Does this make sense to you? Perfect sense. There is even a legal precedent on this issue, in the Nigerian legal system. Any lawyer that knows his onions will advice you to do the same thing. If first names are not included, then identities cannot be determined with certainty. The man can marry another woman tomorrow, and that woman can start bearing Mrs. Philips. So when a problem arises on the property, which of the Mrs. Philips would be called up? |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Sterling Bank Shades Access Bank, Gtbank, Union Bank And First Bank by LaudableXX: 4:44pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nedumadrid:
Who is even using both banks in Nigeria?
If its not Zenith bank or UBA the rest are just glorified Adashe(akawo). UBA? Is that one a bank? Or a mega-queuing centre, designed to frustrate the living daylights out of people? |
| Health › Re: Imperforate Hymen: For Your Daughter To Menstruate She Must Be Deflowered-Doctor by LaudableXX: 4:33pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Apina:
Since when did twitter become a research institute or medical center? Twitter is a medium of communication. Such info does not have to be shared only at a research institute or a medical centre.... |
| Webmasters › Re: Olumayowa Elegbede Buys Nigeria Air Domain Names, Selling At ₦24 Million Each by LaudableXX: 4:23pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Intelxiii:
9jaAir, Air9ja, 9jaAirways. Airnaija.gov Nigerian have a lots of available names to use bet me after two years that name will be available to host with no cost. Exactly! The guy's move is a no brainer. Too many acronyms exist, that the govt can use. |
