Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer Being Baby Mamas Than Getting Married ? by lavylilly: 9:34am On Jul 02, 2023 |
How to avoid be a single mom Don't do sterotypical crap:
1- Don't touch anyone without a condom. Make sure he bring it and put it on him. It's easy for a guy to stick a pen hole in the tip.
2-Don’t sleep with everyone who wants you or tells you they love you.
3-Don’t ever believe, he will marry you if you have a baby for him.
4-Focus on your education. Get a college degree. Get a good job.
5-After all that, then get in a relationship so you can get to know that person. Get married and then have children.
6-Stop using those words! No woman should be proud to be called a baby momma. It's so ugly! Our people don't even think about how it sounds!
7. Always use protection on "yourself", you are not obligated to tell anyone you are on polls or IUD
In order to avoid a sterotypical lifestyle you have to respect yourself and your parents. You have to always say to yourself, is this what my parents want for me? |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:28am On Jul 02, 2023 |
ahnie: He's never going to contact you,I have told him you re a male slut .
You want to be stupid abii,maybe you think I m amongst those ladies you n your useless lots intimidate on this forum just to shut them up.
You never know me....I will frustrate you till you hang your balls.
You re categorizing me in the same singlemum league like your useless mother abii,the earlier you steer clear from me on this forum,the better for you.
HIV contractor Me ti po we |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:28am On Jul 02, 2023 |
ahnie: What irked me was the stupid mod that hid my response to him then left his there. Funny enough he was raised by a single mum and his mum's sisters are either divorcees or their husbands ran away from them,yet he had the effrontery to open his useless mouth to fabricate lies against me,like he knew me personally,the same way this doofuz also came to my other thread trying to love-vendor me to one of his fellow bastard,I kept him kwayet....make lavylilly try nonsense with me again,maybe he dey think say I be new nairaland that he can peddle lies on,I go use ham set example publicly on this forum,imagine this stupid druggie Isolo Janpka! Wa doh |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:27am On Jul 02, 2023 |
abidem4real: Itan to gun ni oo Lavyllily  Ki Olorun ran yin lowo |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Relocation To Lagos For Better Job Opportunities by lavylilly: 9:26am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Cazzim: how many bedroom?,,, 400k self-contained |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:25am On Jul 02, 2023 |
7arrows: My guy Sis na long story. But never. May God bless your Union. |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:24am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Emeka71: OK my E-mail is emi_739@yahoo.co.uk Sent |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:18am On Jul 02, 2023 |
pongwa: when someone who is in deep shit but refuses help and instead is poised to drag people down with them, the better approach is acceptance. The painful thing was that I got several warnings about the union but formed strong Christian. May God bless your union (Amen) |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Relocation To Lagos For Better Job Opportunities by lavylilly: 11:05am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Cazzim: I don't have a car yet so i don't want were I can be so stressed for traffic and again expenses of transport,,,,is the ajah safe and nice? I don't want getto Ajah is a safe How much do you have? My bestie got 650k green life estate |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 11:02am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Ah  the O's long. Why na? Is not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with ? olorundipe9090: Never ooooooo
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Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:59am On Jul 01, 2023 |
pongwa: capital NO! Take this to the bank I feel the anger as you type this. Would you like if both if your meet a marriage counselor? |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:58am On Jul 01, 2023 |
TheMostComplex1: Is she really divorced? I don't know but it obvious she had a bad experience from the venom she spits in thread as this |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:53am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Emeka71: Hello babe; please can we talk? Hi, yes we can drop your email |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:52am On Jul 01, 2023 |
 Emeraldswt: Yes, I will. He's the only one that cools my temper.. 18years and still counting. |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:51am On Jul 01, 2023 |
TrainPark: Hell NO Damn the no is block letters. You mind talking about it |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:50am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Ki lo sele abidemi abidem4real: No! She's the greatest mistake of my life. Marrying her has made my life a shadow of itself.😭😭😭😭 |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:48am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Floramie: Not at all. You mind explaining so we can learn. |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:47am On Jul 01, 2023 |
 biomi: will not try it [color=#000000][/color] |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:46am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Morizo: Honestly I wont but God has given us the grace to succumb our predicament it is well  |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:45am On Jul 01, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:23am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Villa12: you can imagine another experience. That means this thing happen in private sector too, thinking only government establishment are this corrupt
I believe being poor is not a crime. What else do they want the poor to do now
If ordinary contract staff job is not possible for the poor in this country. Who did the poor offend The most corrupt agencies in Nigeria in o particular order SON Nigerian Customs FIRS Nigerian Immigrations NNPC |
Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:19am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Villa12: how did he lose guard biko? Someone applied for a job and get to the final stage. He did medical. They didn't call him to resume. Even those who did medical together, none of them resume work. It is normal for anyone in his shoe to act that way unless the person is not serious with life. That king is a thief. I believe he has the power to help Op get the job after all he get to the final stage and he has done medical. It's not like he's bringing him from no where. And it's contract staff not a full staff o. The king don't want to help him because he's from a poor background but he can eat a poor man money. Is that not wickedness?
I don't see any lose guard in this one Any interview you attend and the outsourcing manager/ interviewer says he wouldn't condole nepotism and God fatherism. He won't forward the name of those who has someone but couldn't pass the aptitude test and interview. He wants a level playing ground at this stage. Just know you CAN NEVER get the job |
Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:16am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Kylekent59: The outsource manager kept to his word, but the top managers could sack him if he didn't do as requested by them.
I remember as a fresh graduate, I went for an exam in one of the production companies. I was sure of what I wrote. Three mathematical-based questions. After the exam, we were told to go home. After three days, someone in the company told me that everyone failed the exam.
I even gave our first class and one of my lecturers the questions, and they said I solved them excellently.
That was when I knew the company had played with our emotions.
My sister's friend gave me a call and linked me to an international job where I earn about 970k plus a month.
You have to man up and move on Op.  I attended the same interview but you were linked or connected. God dey sha |
Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:14am On Jun 30, 2023 |
hustler2828: Can you imagine the level of corruption, in a so-called private company? And this is just the tip of the iceberg, think of public parastatals like NNPC, Customs, police, etc. Then factor in tribalism and religion. And one person say Naija go better. It will only get worst. The average Nigerian man is corrupt, wicked, and heartless.
In your shoes I will prepare my opsec, do some osint findings on the top management of the company, and call them out publicly on any of their social media pages. In the worst-case scenario, I will tail them online and do all sorts of information gathering to blackmail them. Imagine the nonsense. I would have mentioned 7 companies that I personally experienced what the OP experienced but it not worth it |
Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:13am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Rule 1 Love all trust none Rule 2 Don't forget rule 1 |
Family › Re: Growing Up As A Son Raise By Singlemother. How Has Life Be ? by lavylilly: 3:08am On Jun 30, 2023 |
I believe depending on the mother they are very succesful. My auntie has 3 boys, she had to raised them by herself as the father walked away from them when they were young. The three of them are super amazing, loving and protecting. They are all happily married and raising children, the oldest is a business owner and has a company, the second became a police officer and now he just finished his as Law degree. The youngest is a OBGyn and is planning on opening his own clinic. My auntie worked hard and paid for their studies, as they live in a country where no help, loans or scholarships are available. They are super grateful to my auntie for she was more than enough to raise three succesful men.
Funny though, when my cousin became a doctor, about 30 years after he left, their father showed up and wanted to be part of their lives. They all said no thank you, their mom was both mother and father to them, so they had everything that they needed. |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 3:05am On Jun 30, 2023 |
jaksmillioniar: Yes cos shes d best for me I think if I Neva marry her I wont marry again. How many years is your marriage? |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 3:04am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Capernum: No. Simply put. She doesn't believe in my dreams and aspirations and she doesn't support it one bit. Acrimony comes to mind. |
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Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 3:01am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Skyview01: Responsibilities no dey end. Also, when i go out, i get lots of phonecalls, daddy where are you? When are you coming back.
Sometimes i like to travel and vacation alone which i will start this year. You thought it was easy pizzy, right? |
Sports › Re: Arsenal Reach Agreement To Sign Declan Rice From West Ham For £105m by lavylilly: 12:43pm On Jun 29, 2023 |
RECTEM: let's know your opinion
Who's winning Next Epl Season Like for Arsenal Share for Man city Man city |