ominirajj:

What do u mean am not a saint? Anyways letd addume am not a saint but i know myself and who he is
So do me a favour by not calling names

I am not calling you names. Just a perception of your story and you.
Your manner of response to people here shows you r a nagging, stubborn and a bad wife..and as such a woman that can use mouth to kill a man..fix ur manners, be a submissive woman.

ominirajj:
Hi matured minds
I need an honest advice here. My husband has become a stumbling block for me, whenever i bring any opnion to him he sees the negative aspect only . i told him i want to learn hair dressing he goes against it, there was a time i got a job in airport hotel went against it.
Now why am so depressed and sad is that i have went to field to train because i cannot afford money to attend GYM house what he have to say is that that place is not secure becos of thugs.
This is a kind of man who doesnt contribute to my getting a befiting work, all he does condemn anything i do
Am a Gospel artist , he wont allow me go for outings especially night vigils. Am i not in trouble already or what can i do?
He is also violent and a bully

Hey Woman, I will not judge you but tell you the truth...YOU HAVE COME TO THE WRONG PLACE FOR ADVISE.
You want to crash your marriage already by allowing dem 1999 children to give you wrong counsel on nairaland. An unmarried man or woman will never give you a good advise here.
Do not blackmail your husband with your emotions. Something tells me you are not a saint either. Your last statement says it all.
Both of you need a grounded matured male or female counsellor and not all these end time youth pastors for proper counselling...

prettythicksme:
Manhood must mate?

Sabi Babe

babydioku:
You're a big fool. Get something better to do.

How easy it is to hide behind social media and insult people who could come your way in future. Keep it up

Am not a name checker and do not naturally do this. I will not hurriedly come to a conclusion so that I don't commit falacy of irrelevant conclusion. In this race of US Presidency, most igbos that I have come across in the Nigerian populace tend to support Trump's bid even with all his hate speech about Nigeria and I begin to wonder what we tend to benefit from this. Please share your thoughts if you have ever observed this...

@OP....We r in the same shoes...send me your contact..i have a word for you..treat as important

mrvitalis:

Bro there are training and position a HND holder can't hold unless he has worked for years or did Pgd and masters

That's not true...there's no position a Degree holder will fit into that a HND holder will not fit into...everyone comes out from the higher institutions raw and gets defined by what they do or what an employer wants to make of them. There is no synergy between what we learnt in school and what we do at workplaces...Our absurd and corrupt system has brainwashed us. A diploma holder practices Human Resources in Canada and sometimes can earn more that a Degree holder depending on the company even with the same years of experience and no form of glass ceiling...Na we for naija dey bad belle awasef

ClassCaptain:
:;::: first and foremost; there is no word like disvirgin : the correct word is disflower.:/

And she is claiming Virgin with all these exposed milkshake?

Virgin ko, sosoliso ni

meanwhile

How i foolishly wasted 80k at a Nightclub

https://www.nairaland.com/3247672/how-foolishly-wasted-80k-nightclub :;::: first and foremost; there is no word like disvirgin : the correct word is disflower.

And she is claiming Virgin with all these exposed milkshake?

Virgin ko, sosoliso ni

meanwhile

How i foolishly wasted 80k at a Nightclub

https://www.nairaland.com/3247672/how-foolishly-wasted-80k-nightclub

Gbagaun...Check the checker...it is deflower and not disflower.

I can understand how you feel...your hope was dashed YES! She has definitely found a supposed better guy. Regardless of gender, human beings tend to ditch loyalty when there is a perceived greener pasture. Don't blame her, nature only explained itself. By leaving you, a future disaster might just have been averted. Work more on becoming a better man in life & you will be grateful she left you.

Love is not blind and face reality...As a young man, do you intend to start your married life with a heavy baggage? Love is like conditioning one's mind to a particular item..its so unfortunate that she is in this condition and I pray God heals her but if you do not wish to be an object of ridicule if things go wrong in future, marry a healthy person...Avoid had I known..Avoid attribution error.

EDIPO:
Hey austinosita, let's talk.

Send me your number...

I'm in the USA and I can tell you the way things are. Nothing hidden, facts as they are.

This isn't a promise to help but to tell you few things you need to know. At the end of the day, your decision is yours.

I can however tell you this for free, if you come to the USA with family willing to house you and probably help you get something doing, you're better off.

USA isn't paradise, no doubt but it's far better when you're agile, determined and hardworking.

The more you stay, the more you struggle with frustration as against getting here, settling down and doing something to keep body and soul until you get your self properly settled.

On a lighter note, all those illegal gist na wash.
Come here, keep your head and you'll be fine.

I like your spirit...can I get to talk to you on this issue..incase you don't want to drop your number, can u call me on 08084316265 please...I urgently need to discuss with you sir

aluko360:
0p, which kain jamb question be dis?

Even people wey get well paying jobs are checking out.

Abeg if that free accommodation in Yankee is still 0pen, Holla me.

Cheers

it shall be well with you for this statement I swear...well paying peeps dey checkout...Nigeria has a fundamental problem o

Someone should help count the number of women wey don comment on this thread...Chai I never see higher animal wey be hypocrite like woman...ejade ninu kolofin and condemn this like u guys did for Ronke's alleged husband killer... #SayNoToDomesticViolence be it a man or a woman

D2diff:
I don't do stvpid. Please don't quote me again

I didn't quote you. I only responded to a question you raised...

Question begging for answers: why did your sister marry a dog when she does not want to be spanked tinu teyin?
Does your sister know that her action will force the guy out?
Solution: Let her get a divorce already so that she could get married to a man that has been castrated.

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

That was extreme Josphine....Not all guys are wife beater...pray you get a good one.

makydebbie:
hmmm...so what killed her then?

Epon

D2diff:
Which kin report be this?

Yea, she didn't die from domestic abuse. What did she die from?

She died from the intense doggy she received for 4 nights from her lover..

repogirl:
how?

There is a history of abuse already in the marriage. She had marks on her body. They had a fight the night before and next day she is dead.

This is already enough to hold the man responsible. Then instead of taking his wife to a hospital when he saw her unconscious, the first thing he did was to run. Haba!

Abeg the yeye too smell.... I hope they are not planning on covering it up.

Can you go ahead and hold the man responsible...typical mentality from obinrin abeyin to

Baby food? Mba

0955eb027:
and whats the point in trying to create enmity between father and son cos the father has got issues with the mother? My bro, U no try at all o

It's normal for them to have issues but abnormal start ranting the way he did. All his rants are documented and it's only natural that a child will not be happy to read these kind of things knowing fully well that they are from the father...think about it

Mamatee07:


He showed today that he is selfish and doesn't care about his child
What he wrote will be out there for ever and affect his child. Why didn't tiwa come and rant about him beating her? Because she's a mother who knows attacking him will hurt her child.

I wonder o Mamatee07....he is just a spoilt brat trying to make himself relevant but he missed it totally

Ngoziada592:
I hate to do this, and I know you will kill me. But damnit, the truth must be spoken.
only reason why Tunji is doing this is because Tiwa cut him off. For once, he couldn’t get her to give him everything on a silver platter. He tried to intimidate her and for once it didn’t work so he resorted to emotional blackmail. He wanted to destroy her reputation, because he knows things about her that people don’t. Trust me, that is the truth. And it worked; everyone has fallen for it hook, line and sinker. However, Abe Lincoln said “You can fool most of the people most of the time and you can fool some people sometimes but you can’t fool all the people all the time.”
Tunji, those of us close to Tiwa
Those of us who see what you do to Tiwa
Those of us who, unlike you, truly care about Tiwa
WE ARE NOT FOOLED!! WE KNOW WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT!!
I hesitated to say this because I didn’t want to be perceived as “insensitive”, “callous”, “evil”, even. But then I read all the bullshit people are writing and I knew I owed it to Tiwa to speak up.
Tiwa, we warned you, but you thought we were judging him. You see? You slave day and night to take care of him, his family and his children. And this is how he repays you; by wasting your money on other women, beating you into submission when you don’t and then when you stand up for yourself, he drags your name through the mud, Again, you commenters will kill me, but what yeye depression? Do you REALLY think if Banky W had accidentally pushed Tunji, Tunji wouldn’t have fought for his life? If no one had come, do you REALLY think Tunji would’ve jumped? Haba, Nigerians! WHY ARE YOU SO GULLIBLE?!
Those of us with eyes, we see very clearly. We see through his shenanigans. Unfortunately, Tiwa doesn’t. And she will back down. And it will go back to business as usual; him bullying her and her allowing it. The beatings will continue. The cheating will continue. The lies will continue.
Yesterday, Tiwa released a new song and a new video and got rave reviews. Why would a truly loving husband, a husband who supposedly puts her first, so selfishly chose a period when her career is doing so well to tarnish her image like this? If he was depressed (bullshit), why didn’t he quietly reach out to other people? Does a good husband beat his wife black and blue? Does a good husband defraud his wife? Does a good husband fool the world into believing despicable lies about his wife? Does a good husband go about looking for rich men to sleep with his wife?
MAY ALLAH REWARD US ALL ACCORDING TO OUR ACTIONS ON THIS EARTH

That is what a family friend of theirs wrote on Bella naija and I believe it . This guy just wanted to hurt Tiwa and didn't even care about hurting his own child

For the records, Teebillz's rants should be archived for his son to read by the time he is of age. He has successfully failed his son Jamal and created a sort of unending father-son animosity. What kind of man says all these about his wife even if true. The mother-child bond will definitely stage a future fight against Tunji.

Nollywood at its peak...if he wanted to commit suicide, hin for just close eye enter lekki epe expressway or make hin wait for train take off for agege. Eleregbe wey no wan die. By the way,he should have been arrested for attempting to take his own life

dubemnaija:
If bubu have lived up to expectations by fixing the roads, just maybe, those doctors might still be alive


Since bubu assumed power, he hasn't constructed half a kilometer of road anywhere in Nigeria.
God bless GEJ anywhere he is.

Can we just be objective for christ sake...Can a good road stop an over speeding vehicle not to somersault if one of the front tyres should burst?

Wailer sighted

Classless pretty girl....if I hear say you fine make I no no wetin cause am. See eye pencil wey u draw, see wall wey u snap. Only you will all that

Wannabe, oto oto logun, abeg face your struggle and personalise your calamity. Stop using we we spewing your predicament. Am sure you have never travelled out of this naija before...come see fresh rikaty babes for italy,walahi complex go hold you. One prayer: God will shield you so that boys will never want to relate with you again atleast the peace you have been craving for will come. You have 2 jobs...obviously you r struggling to maintains yourself. Proud bigot

Masochism lo sure ju

The lady only showed who she really is. He should not take her back because she will eventually poison him.

Starieangel:
hmmmmm having read most comments here, IL suggest dt she should watch the movie WAR ROOM. Dis movie moved me to tears on hw to become a better wife and mother. Having had issues wif my hubby days back, i listed all the wrong tyns av said to my hubby and him to me and tabled it b4 God just lyk I learnt in the film and told him to fight my battle and take over my home. He did.While leading the open heavens dis morning with a topic 'LET GOD HELP YOU' ,my hubby took tym to list every tyn I keep doing dt hurts. I smiled and told him I was sorry and dt I had already reported my sef to my maker. He smiled and asked if we cud set aside our differences I said yes. It feels so gud to av peace within.truth is, des a God up dere who is only waiting for u to ask him for help. Pls let ur wife watch dt film. If she really loves u,she'll become a wonderful and prayerful woman. Remember, the devil hates happy homes. God bless you.

Thank you...is the movie on the streets of Lagos

Acidosis:


May God help you bro, you have a lot to do...


By the way, I envy your 'meagre' salary

Lol....thanks all the way bro...we shall get there...send me your pin or whatsapp..we fit dey relate once in a while

Evina:


LOL.

It will get better, I believe.
And 350k is NOT meagre, show gratitude Bros.

Although it's quite sad that we live in times where a man's material worth determines his worth as a person.

All the best Bros.

LOL just kidding, I know it's not meagre Evina