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Can you practically treat the four of them equally?

Squig:
Did you have doubts about your spouse before your wedding?

Did you meet someone amazing and you wanted him but decided to go ahead and marry your spouse?

How do you feel about the marriage now? Do you feel you did the right thing?

I'm in my mid 20s and I'm getting married next month, we've been together for almost 5years. He is the love of my life and I've never doubted my love for him or the fact that I wanted a family with him. He's got everything I want in a man.

The problem is we started having issues about 6 months ago, we stopped talking like before and we are completely disconnected now especially on my end but we're still going ahead with the marriage plan and I still want to marry him.

I met another guy I am really attracted to and we've been talking about a lot. He knows I am having issues with my man and I can't tell him we are planning to get married.

I'm having doubts about my man now, I'm confused, I feel I'll be happier with this new guy, I'm thinking it's lust but it's getting more complicated. Should I go on with the wedding?

Feel free to talk sense into my head, I need to hear hard truths.

I don't have much to tell you OP. You need to see the movie CONFESSION OF A MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR

The simple implication of her attitude is that she'll leave you if she gets a richer man. Though I've not heard from the other party but if what you said is the plain truth, my sincere advice to you is to threaten her with a divorce .

I think they should allow these people go

Why the explanation ?

This is the same solution the previous regime recommended but some bigots scuttled everything

Wonderful writeup my brother, really wonderful@

kstyle2:
This man talks like a jobless fat woman...things may be pretty tough now, but I have a feeling that we'll soon bounce back...all I say is let the best of us, lead the rest of us while d rest of us, support the best of us

You are still nurturing feelings when reality is staring at you in the face and people are being slaughtered on hourly basis. Since you're concerned about feelings, I think you should teleport to romance section. I pity the destiny of people like you

demmy0325:
Still... Their days are numbered...


Rip to the dead...

For how long have you guys been saying this same trash? You've been numbering their days and lives are going. Please number the dead as well and and re-evaluate your comment

[quote author=cramjones post=35409383]President Mohammadu Buhari seems to have made all appointments so for to his northern brothers with the exception of Femi Adesina. Well, that is what it seems like. Secondly, there is a Northen domination already in the House of Rep and Senate - Bukola Saraki (Fulani), Dogara (North), Ndume (North) etc. I can place my bet that the following ministries will be "given" to the North:

- Ministry of Petroleum
-Ministry of Mining and Steel
- Ministry of Finance
- Ministry of works
- Ministry of Power
- Cheif of Army Staff
-Chief of Defense Staff

I can state with 99% certainty that those ministries will be given to the North. Am I worried? Not at all. Though PMB may want to favor those that are loyal and those he can't trust, he can never ever compromise competence for region.

Finally, the most important thing we must note is that these people he is appointed are all Nigerians first before being Northerners. Let us all embrace competence and give PMB and the people he has appointed a chance!

-CramJones[/quote

You are obviously a foolish fool for having such hypocritical opinion

Are these the so called technocrats? IMO, Nigeria is not ready

tempest69:
Is it free services?
How does it intend to pay staff

Are you this dull? Where did they state that services rendered will be free of charge? You and the morons that liked your silly post obviously don't know what a non-profit organization is.
Nigerians and complain, you do them go talk, you no do them go talk. What do you really want ?

redgem:
Give Mr President some space please....

I never for one day supported him but it was just a week ago he was sworn in...let him breath for at least 5mins, he is also a human being

Most people here on Nl if we should give you 20years to rule Nigeria, I can bet that you can't solve quarter of the problems in Nigeria.

Allow him for sometime he can't solve all problems at once cos he is not God...all he needs are you supports and prayers.

I'm sorry to say this, You must be very silly. Do you know how many people have died within the last 9 days? You're here talking about giving someone time to relax while innocent civilians are slaughtered . What did he tell us during campaigns? I dont blame you though, its because you've not lost someone very dear to you through such means.

Wonderful piece man.....really impressive.

tucky200:
I hate wen clueless people quote me
Please don't ever quote me again in ur life

Get a charcoal and write the post on your wall in your room if you don't want to be quoted , idiat! You expect to post a senseless opinion and not get quoted?

adexmuhyi:
i wonder why some pple are just so clueless to the extent of expectin a normal human being to curtail the operations of BH in less than a week in office when someone has done it with no success for 6yrs,,,let's be patient and wait for this old man to carry out his job

Stop spewing thrash young man. In that " less than a week " , over 70 people have died. We aint considering days here, we're considering the level of damage

Nigerians are really hypocrites. It's that simple !

ijustdey:
their days are numbered......






they would soon be a thing of the past, they are fighting with the last paint of blood in their system

Last PAINT of blood?

fako1:
GEj and his cabinets are busy going to the media to say they aint afraid of probe. Underground, they are busy running to abdulsalam and past presidents to plead to buhari on their behalf.

Most people on this forum assume carelessly and you're not excluded. Deizani visited abdulsalami and he outrightly said in public the purpose of her visit and here you are assuming that everyone is paying abdusalami a visit.

Too much children on this forum

This one na SOSOROBIA oh

But seriously speaking, you're not a baby. Be appreciative.

The suppose flog this woman oh, better flog!

What of APC?

There's something that really baffles me with this Igbo-Biafra issue. You(i.e other ethnic groups)condemn the Igbos and always remind them about how they've brought shame to Nigeria as a whole but you seem to cling to her as if she's the air you inhale. I feel they have the right to leave if they'll be better off living in this dungeon where double standard is the order of the day. When it's a northerner, the rule is different. I'm not surprised at the attitude of the yorubas cos they are established cowards and are scared to exist separately. They boast about how buoyant their region is but fail to realise that it's the seaport cargo and airport cargo operations in Lagos with igbos as the major players that gives the region a facelift. Pull the Igbos out of these activities in Lagos and see not just Lagos but other states in the region wallow in shambles. As for the North ,I sincerely feel they'll be fine with their agriculture and later solid minerals. I think they're just scared of the unknown.

bishop4APC:
One of those abuja runs girl must have knocked him out.

I'm suspecting rokiatu, if she rides from the top with that her big yansh, even mayweather can not survive round 3.

Why are you wasting words?

You forgot their most silly attitude/notion

They act/believe that for a girl to be pregnant, she must have had sex several times and they'll be like, "Na only once we straff oh"

I thought they say there's nothing like subsidy?

I have read several comments here, Nigerians are just funny people. What do you people really want? You read meaning to every meaningless occurrence, act as if you're smart but actually dull and never satisfied....smh

niceguy7:
Truth be told....some post doesn't fit front page.

So what kind of post fits front page? Posts like Tonto Dike gets new tattoo? Sometimes I wonder why I keep visiting this forum cos there are too many kids expressing trash.

Topic looks more like an article or newspaper publication than a thesis

@ OP, yes. My aunt had fibroid and she gave birth to her two boys the normal way and not through CS though she usually experience extreme pain throughout the pregnancy period but the pain was fought with a particular medication. She gave birth at Ikeja General Hospital.
NB: I'm not a medical practitioner and I think the location of the fibroid matters

nairalife2013:
The parents may be ashamed of themselves if u speak to them. seeing this befall them , they may feel guilty of failing to lead the kids in the "proper way" and recall it each time they see u. I sugest u have a bit of patience in telling and rather talk to the kids about the enormity of thier shameful action and warn them not to ever do it again or thier parents will certainly be informed. It could be thier parents do it in thier presence, it could be they saw it somewhere else etc. If the girl is the elder, talk to her sternly and paint a picture of public disgrace over such act and let them know satan gets into bad kids minds to perpetuate such morbid act and ask her how she enjoys satan dwelling in her heart. Pray for them.

Good suggestion but I also suggest you record the above conversation with them in case they plan against you and tell their parents that u wanted to rape them. Matter go change within seconds oh guy and na police Cell you go dey for days and there'll be no access to nairaland to beg for suggestions