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Anyway a final and general post:

This is nothing but celebrity news - just informational. But the typical bigot (who by the way has 4 or 5 girl-friends) see it as an avenue to criticize. It's very simple; read and fvck off.

Also from my experience, it's very insecure men (apart from the religious) who usually criticize other men for being "promiscuous". You can criticize the average Yoruba man for one thing - his swag.

This is the envy of many men who spend years accumulating money to get the confidence to speak to the level of women who broke-a$$ Yoruba men talk to. Let's face it; many men are not promiscuous by choice: they have no game. They are not promiscuous because they are religious or focused; they are simply unable to attract women (even with heaps of dough). The typical Yoruba broke-a$$ man will fvck the wives of money bags and take their women. Break their hearts. That I know. So focus on that.

[quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=809273.msg9616694#msg9616694 date=1322059877]Quit whining and crying over nothing. Yoruba men and women are overtly promiscuous and hump around and everybody and his dog knows that so let's leave it at that. Oh and the whole name calling really shows that you are still a child.[/quote]LOL. Who's whining? I am not just name calling. I am calling you by YOUR name. There's a difference. Go figure. But I will advise you move your printing press to Igbo land so you can know your people more. Apparently you need to be closer to them.

[quote author=tit_squeez link=topic=809273.msg9616513#msg9616513 date=1322058535]seems there is a small bone of contention with regards to my findings. Well. i like to sometimes illustrate my point from personal experiences. A married Yoruba girl once came to my office, told me what shewas looking for and i told her what she needed to do. She was not satisfied, she instead started enquring about where i lived and how she would like to come and visit me.
So just to call her bluff, i told her where i stayed, this married yoruba lass came to my house scantily dressed and making advances basically she offered me nyanshing. now am not gonna say if i accepted the nyanshing or not.  As for the yoruba guys they will nyash their best friend's wife in a jiffy, also witnessed that happen. I even know one Yoruba guy who went about telling eveyone that a girl had AIDS simply because the girl refused to nyansh him. Na wa for dem ooo[/quote]From your post I can tell you should simply be ignored (if your moniker is not telling enough).

Funkymallam:
@Op. Its a pity dat Femi @ dis age still behaves lyk a he-goat.

OK. So basically all Muslims married to 4 or more wives are behaving like he-goats. It's his prerogative. I always say it: The only time Nigerians ever truly mind their business is when they see you being attacked by armed robbers.

[quote author=Bandit C. link=topic=809273.msg9616353#msg9616353 date=1322057543]Stop deceiving yourself because it is not a delusion but a well known fact to anyone who has lived among Yorubas. All the Yoruba guys (and there were like 17 of them) that were working at my father's printing press while i was in Nigeria were all promiscuous and had numerous concubines. I would know because they were brazen about it and talked openly of it. These women sometimes come to the office to see them even though we know they are not their wives and that they are all married. It was a common knowledge and all others who are not yorubas were always talking about it. Not saying Igbos and others do not engage in such way of life but it is not as pronounced as with the Yorubas. Most Igbo men who engage in extra-marital affairs often are afraid of the consequences and try all they can to shield their family from it.[/quote]LOL. Educated ignoramus. These men working at your father's printing press; what were their roles? So what's your point if you say Igbos also are promiscuous? Yet again you say Igbo men who are promiscuous usually hide it; so what's your point again after all whether you hide it or not, a promiscuous man is simply a promiscuous man? You sound confused. So their promiscuity is not as pronounced as the Yorubas? Why don't you go site your printing press in Igbo land and come back with the stats of the people you employ there?

[quote author=fresh_dude link=topic=809273.msg9615803#msg9615803 date=1322052829]It's not beef against yoruba people, it's just the wy of the daft like logica posited.[/quote]Or it could be, but it doesn't matter as long as it's obviously a prejudiced opinion. Even in Lagos, except you are a blind Igbo person I don't know why you would begin to state that Yorubas are more promiscuous. It's not like the best of the Igbos converged in Lagos. You don't need to go back to Igbo land to confirm that Igbos are just as promiscuous as Yorubas generally. So making such a comment indicates self-delusion.

And as I pointed out, if a bush man comes from somewhere in Igbo land and lands in Agege and some other slums like Ajegunle and then makes "informed guesses" from his Yoruba neighbors in these slum areas, it's to be expected. Just as it's expected that a bush Nigerian going to America and living in the slums in Brooklyn can make "informed guesses" about African Americans in general. But an enlightened Igbo boy living in some GRA area in Igbo land arriving in Lagos to stay in Gbagada Phase 2 or Ikoyi will not draw the same conclusions.

But the only problem is they seem to be forgetting where they are coming from as they seem to forget all the promiscuous people they left behind where they were coming from. That is a strange kind of amnesia. An informed person will not let his prejudices cloud his judgement.

If rules-of-thumb are anything to go by, conclusions can be drawn from the fact that a sizable number of pros.titutes in Lagos and even Abuja are Igbo. I know this, and I am not making guesses here because I was deep into the club scene. Yet if you go to Igbo land, you won't find a disproportionate number of say Yoruba women or Idoma women into prostitution. Yet an Igbo woman will open her mouth and say Yoruba women are promiscuous? You can draw your conclusions.

Hahaha. So Igbo men don't have a propensity to do "undignified yanshing"? And Tiv/Idoma women don't either eh? Your stats come from where? I know where you are coming from.

aribisala0:
there certainly is a GB alphabet in yoruba distinct from B i assume this to be the case in Ibo/Igbo

Actually the "gb" consonant sound in "Igbo" is between the Yoruba "gb" and the actual "b" consonant sounds. To confirm, ask an Igbo person to pronounce the Yoruba word "gbogbo" and you will see the difficulty they have in pronouncing the Yoruba "gb" consonant sound. (I noticed this in the Imo or should I say Owerri as I only had 2 samples and they both come from Owerri). They pronounced it as a soft "gb" closer to "b".

The way I see it, if I am not comfortable going to Hausa land to conduct business or live, yet a Hausa man can come to Yoruba land and live comfortably and conduct business the equation is not balanced. We shouldn't be together as a country then.

oludashmi:
Heard? You only heard. If you see the level, you go faint .

The fact that this is generally known but the promiscuity criticism is usually in the direction of Yoruba (coming from Igbo which to me is quite comical considering they are generally not immune to promiscuity) should tell you something. Basically turning a blind eye to their own bad eggs while focusing their searchlight on Yorubas who they want to hate. Yorubas call it "a wa wi" - fault finding. Mind you, I know many Igbo people who are not this self-deluding and it's basically because they are enlightened; as opposed to "bush".

afam4eva:
Stop deceiving yourselves. Which new generation Yoruba muslims have one wife. Even the ones that have one wife usually have numerous concubines. As i'm talking to you there's a woman close to where i live that has 7 children from 7 different men. And all the men are married.

Again I speak of enlightenment. ALL the Yoruba Muslim acquaintances I have are monogamous. Well, they may have numerous concubines, but how does that make them different from you or any other Igbo man? I want you to say Igbo men generally don't have multiple concubines (which would be quite comical) so I can introduce you to a few.

With regard to the reference to the supposed promiscuous Yoruba woman with 7 children from 7 men (which bush Igbo people usually use to conclude that Yoruba women are promiscuous), again please tell me if you don't know ANY promiscuous Igbo women. Once you do, I will introduce you to a few Igbo women with just as many children from different men and those without children but even more promiscuous (basically pros.titutes).

afam4eva:
You're right there are Igbo people who have had multiple pregnancies but you don't see such happening in record numbers as it is in the SW(no offense). I think it has a lot to do with culture or religion. It's mostly ramant among Yorua muslims.

I will take this as a semi-retraction. But it doesn't take one to be an astrophysicist to know that Islam APPEARS to support having multiple wives. The new generation Yoruba Muslims usually have one wife. That's the difference between enlightened and "bush". Where did you get the stats indicating this "record numbers"? Or you are making up your stats? I'm sure any stats you come up with will give similar results whether the samples come from Yoruba or Igbo land.

afam4eva:
Will you keep shut. Nobody is beefing Yoruba men. I'm just stating what i've noticed. I'm sure Ileke-Idi is also beefing Yoruba people.

You are a mor0n and I'm not surprised. Whether you are beefing Yoruba men or not is not my business as I did not even indicate such. All I know is you are bush, and you must draw your conclusions from bush Yoruba people you know. As I said, I know enough Igbo people who have had multiple pregnancies, so what do you have to say about that? I have no business with Ileke-Idi who I'm sure is joking.

afam4eva:
2face Idibia's case is an isolated one. It's very rampant among Yoruba men.

It always amuses me when bush people come to Yoruba land, mix up with bush Yoruba people and from them draw stereotypes on Yorubas in general - Yoruba men (and women) are promiscuous. Imagine an Igbo female saying Yoruba women are promiscuous (that too I have heard like this ridiculous post). I know enough Igbo men who have impregnated multiple girls; the only difference is that they ensure the girls have an abortion. I suppose the crime Femi is committing is keeping the kids? Well he's capable of taking care of the children.

C Akomas is the deposed Deputy Governor of Abia state. Who is this person using his name?

Revolution is here my guy

LOL. I didn't know when revolution was ever spear-headed by foreigners. If you want revolution, get your a$$ in the front-line.

LOL. Monkey born con dey expect say hin pickin go be like human-being.

[quote author=tosinaded@ link=topic=806603.msg9585810#msg9585810 date=1321635297]‘The Yak’ himself was also a top scorer in the 1999 season for Julius Berger of Lagos with 9 goals and has taken this step to encourage players who play in the domestic league.[/quote]Hahaha. So he was ONLY 17 that season wasn't he?

jason123:
Cars will definitely need safety inspection agencies which I don't think Nigeria has but the safety of buses can be waived because most, if not all, don't go past the 60km/h mark.

Huh? Do you really know about automobile safety testing and physics at all? Have you ever heard of momentum? What does the size (mass) of a bus tell you about it's momentum even at lower speed? Is the momentum of a car traveling at 60 km/h and a bus travelling at the same speed the same? Do you know the relationship between momentum and the severity of an auto-crash? Do you think a bus which carries more human lives and will cause more damage to all surroundings should be waived when safety is concerned? Do you even believe most buses in Nigeria don't go beyond 60km/h in the first place? Jezuz.

Your posts are usually Igbo-based so I don't know why you are not agitating for sales to Igbo states. Or is it only when you want to sell that "One Nigeria" makes sense?

I have been wondering why people keep saying they never received their 30% bonus. It could be scenarios:

1. You received it but didn't know it wouldn't show up in your balance when you do a *232#. If you check the response, you will see a bonus separate from your main balance.

2. You didn't register your SIM within the period stated. I registered sometime in August when I saw the promo and got the 30% on my top-ups. Then there was another promo (not for registering) not long after and I got that too. Immediately the promo ended, I got an SMS message telling me I would get the bonus soon. I got it 3 days later.

LOL. Are they announcing this so that the beneficiaries can come to beg or settle? If they want to publish what's stopping them? Why announce? They remind me of molue conductors bluffing. I won't be surprised if they had operated as conductors before.

tiwiex:
It won't have cost her muchg to fix it. I won't be surprised if she had insurance. Let us all make an effort to be nice and show mercy. All na vanity. She probably would be alive if she had. Like I said we don't know the extent of her actions and the eventual repercussion. I do support her killing oh. May the perpetrators be brought to book.

Do you have an idea of what the damage was and how much it would have cost? Even with comprehensive insurance it can be difficult to get the insurance company to fix the damage; too much paper work and several months of waiting time, and you may have to abandon the car till it's fixed. Do you know how much inconvenience you face in this kind of scenario? I will never be a supporter of the victim fixing the problem created by a careless, incompetent monkey. If you are human you should be ready to take responsibility for problems you create. It's the exact same reasoning when you get hit by a bus in traffic. Then the baboon starts prostrating and then when that doesn't work it turns into cajoling or even violence. Often he even gets the support from his passengers who many times even before they possibly take to violence make utterances like "you big pass this" or "the damage no too much" (as if they know how much the broken rear light of a Mercedes Benz will cost to fix).

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=802136.msg9559238#msg9559238 date=1321337534]I don't think the girls are as silly as you paint them.[/quote]You see, when we are relatively comfy we begin to see the unfortunate as stu.pid.

As pointed out, some of these girls have been threatened with the death of their relatives if they manage to escape. OK, so you escape and you are granted asylum, what next? You think you and your family are safe?

They may have even witnessed the killing (or disappearance) of the "troublesome" ones amongst them, so how can they doubt the threat to their loved ones?

And if the syndicates are as cunning as some I've heard of, they may send baits to the girls to test them to see if they are willing to escape. Now how do you under the circumstances even identify a genuine help or a trip to your death (and disappearance)?

You may also want to wonder how in this present moment some people can still be conned into being taken away to Italy. It still boils down to ignorance (though a few may actually know what they are up against and may think they are sharp enough to find an escape route). Do not think everybody has access to Cable TV or read newspapers, talk less of Internet.

It's much more complicated than that.

logica:
And you think a girl brought into Italy illegally will have the confidence to go explore Italy? Even worse, you think a girl literally kept under lock and key except when she's dropped off around a corner actually is street-smart enough to know how to plot her escape? Just be grateful that you come from an enlightened background (my assumption). If you come from a background where ignorance is worn like a cloak, you need help; because you can't help yourself. Case closed.

How has my position changed (the same position you have been countering)? Again, be glad you are informed. See it as a privilege.

Kobojunkie:
Well, the few who have been able to beat the chains, were also trafficked from the villages. So I see no reason why more of them cannot them be informed on how the system works for them.

Look, the ones that escaped were HELPED; or just decided to take risks which could easily result in death; and then later got illuminated. Which was my point. You think they were just sitting in their darkened rooms in chains and suddenly had light-bulb moments? Immigration Law is not taught in obscure villages in Edo FYI.

I will also like to point out to you that prostitution even in countries where it is legal is controlled by criminal and brutal syndicates because it is very lucrative. A girl can't just skip along from no where and start hooking in street corners (even in the US); She will disappear very quickly and will be lucky if her body is ever found. That's what these girls face. Now add that to a huge dose of ignorance.

Kobojunkie:
d) Even smuggled girls(illegal slaves)can, in so many western states, use the law to in the land they find themselves to get away from their masters

Jezuz. It's like a dog chasing its tail. We have gone full cycle back to this: how do you expect an ignorant girl to know the law?

Kobojunkie:
I am guessing you are trying to assume that LOGICALLY ALL INDENTURED slaves do not know their right.

No. I am saying ALL girls you find smuggled to Italy are not legal. That is one of the facts with which their handlers blackmail them into submission as a matter of fact. Comply or get deported and disgraced. Even if they have "valid" visas, you should know that visas obtained under fraudulent circumstances are to all intents and purposes invalid.

"Especially if they are legal". Now, which woman brought under the circumstances we have been discussing COULD POSSIBLY be legal? NONE. So I really don't know how you apply logic. I'm sure you are familiar with set theory. Use it.

And what point have you proven? That you traveled to Obodo Oyinbo and now you are back in Nigeria, you own a farm and your kids are in Obodo Oyinbo? See how easy it was to make you "brag"? But who cares about your station in life? Definitely not I. A point has been proven.

PS: Your posting style clearly shows you are not as old as you want us to believe. I will hazard a guess you are in the 4.1.9 youth age range. But then again who or what  you are will not influence my bank balance in any way.

Take care. . .

Kobojunkie:
This is not about being straight from the village. Once one enters any new land, one ought to immerse oneself in discovering what is available, where the exit doors exist, opportunities etc. If the same village girl were to move from the village to, say Lagos, she almost immediately goes out learning what Lagos has to offer etc.

And you think a girl brought into Italy illegally will have the confidence to go explore Italy? Even worse, you think a girl literally kept under lock and key except when she's dropped off around a corner actually is street-smart enough to know how to plot her escape? Just be grateful that you come from an enlightened background (my assumption). If you come from a background where ignorance is worn like a cloak, you need help; because you can't help yourself. Case closed.

Kobojunkie:
Problem I have with the attitude of some Nigerians abroad is they are still so stuck in that Nigerian mindset that they do not realize the authorities/law is there for their good.

You actually think a girl straight from the village can figure this out? Or you actually think someone who believes some mumbo-jumbo she recited while Unclad in front of some effigy will kill her if she reneges on an agreement can figure this out? There is a reason that such people are usually rescued by a concerned citizen informing the authorities or a lawyer: ignorance.