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Nigeria problem no be about capable hands; not in the least. We've always had brilliant people who have excelled at their various fields of endeavor that we have even done the right thing by placing in positions of influence.
Our problem has always been the human will to do the right thing, the will to do the honorable thing; So e no surprise me.

OoniOfIfe:











Please lets not judge her.
Let's save her from committing sexual immortality by forming go fund me account where we can assist her by raising d money nd giving it to her.
Remember what's ever u do d list of my brother that's u do unto me.

If we can do it Tacha,Mercy nd other BBN by voting them with our money we can also do it 4 her.
Please let's help her.
You can pay d money in d account in my prophile
Thanks

How many guys that cried out for help have you saved from stealing or sleeping empty-bellied? If she wants to prostitute, let her prostitute. She's not the first and won't be the last.

These are the same people that tomorrow will say "i worked for my money bitch. Miss independent" and you will think they did an honest day's work. Girls these days are becoming more forward with their slutty tendencies no thanks to the media in our hands.

You are urging them to stand down, yet you are picking sides with one aggressor; is that a joke or what?
Killed a high-ranking official of theirs on foreign soil. I don't hope for war, it's terrible; but don't tell people how they should react, and then pitch tent with their opponent in the same speech.

happinezz110:
Hope that change the poor mentality of some guy's cos i do tell people that not all ladies are after ur money nd is one of the reason y I don't go on a date with a guy if I'm not buoyant.

People say Africa is a poor continent and it's true; yet, inside this same Africa, some people wash down every meal daily with $100 champagnes and have fancy boats.
The reason why these people don't change the narrative of Africa being poor is that they are too small to distort the statistic.
Nigerian girls who open their purses to split bills with guys on first date, that don't feel excessively entitled to the guy's money, or make little or no demands on the guy even after months of dating exist; but they are too small in number to change the narrative that Nigerian girls are billing machines.

Zizza:
If it was a woman, say your wife that creates this thread, complaining that inspite of her being the model wife you don't satisfy her sexually
Will you give her this very same advice?

If she's brought it to my notice severally, complained and pleaded the way most men do, and i am still being insensitive to her needs, then she should by all means seek satisfaction elsewhere or end the marriage. No one has a monopoly of selfishness.

midnighter:
Lol. Maybe theyre used to being extorted by greedy side-chicks.

What youre talking about is deeper than ordinary "I will find a way to sort myself" so its not necessarily to do with money.

Thats like saying that one can only have 1 best friend and if elements of that friendship are lacking, the person will struggle to find them in any other person. But you can connect with people in different dimensions that dont necessarily clash or overlap

Exactly!

midnighter:
I dont even understand what people are arguing with you about lol its not like its impossible for more than one person to love you at a time. We only refrain from indulging them because we are "taken" already.

If at least one person can love you no matter what then so can 1 or 2 other people. Whether you encourage or engage the extra person is a different matter entirely

As in, me i tire o. They just feel because someone is married, that he or she is practically unlovable except they pay through their nose for "love".

lomprico:
will the said lover allow him.have sex for free? yes or no?

Yes,bro. Some no dey spend on their lovers. Just maybe a little on outings and experiences. So yes, the same way some guys get sex for free, men also do. Na just your charisma and aura as a made man be the lure.

lomprico:
so where will he get his fill from if not prostitutes?

How do single guys get women they date and marry? How do people find lovers? are they all prostitutes?

Being married doesn't make you repulsive to girls. Lots of men have had lovers since time immemorial that are very much in love with them and not just for money. People that even call them often just to "hear their voice because they miss them". Na them dey restrict the girl sef from constant communication. Sex can be gotten by any man if he really desires at the cost of mainly his affection.

Girls don't mind putting in some work to gain the affection of an industrious man that dresses good and wears good colognes. Na when nothing dey you go do 100% of the toasting and chasing.

bukatyne:
This is not a solution and defeats the one of the purpose of marriage: which is to prevent fornication/adultery.

I think we need to research harder if partners can be divorced when they shy away from their sexual duties in marriage when all other means to resolve the issue is unfruitful.

Instead of somebody letting me to commit constant sin with dire consequences.

That would be the best. Men should not have to crawl on their knees anytime they want sex only to be rejected as though there's some sort of satisfaction being derived from putting the so called "love of my life" down. If childbirth has made you frigid, just state it so that preparations can be made towards exiting the marriage. I don't support men passing through hell just to have sex with legally-married wives that they still care for most times and that took an oath to stand by each other long term!

viceddy95:
No maam,that's the raw truth,,because I can't see any reason for a married woman to deny her sexual obligations to her husband....

I was listening to a midnight relationship radio programme recently that encourages people to air their relationship problems for possible solution.
One man called that his wife has been denying him sex severally after childbirth. Not long after, about 6-7 other men called and said they were also having the same problem ...sex is regular and exciting before childbirth and then thereafter,once the woman gives birth, she just goes off sexually. They have to beg endlessly and pet till thy kingdom come, and even at that, the sex is like once a month or once in two months.

Even the host of the programme who is a lady with kids couldn't proffer any viable solution except "sit your wife down and talk to her", and lots of the callers said they've done everything under the sun, yet she's still frigid. It happens to a lot of women, and no, they are mostly not cheating.

My take, which is unpopular and might seem controversial, is that if she's a good woman, keep showing her love. Take care of her and the kids, but seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere. If sex starts being a chore every time, and you have to bottle your libido for weeks unending, then it's not worth it. Sex should be spontaneous, it should be fun.

Any man worth his salt can easily get sex. Just keep your woman if that's her only shortcoming, and show her enough care and love, but don't suffer for it. Get sexual satisfaction elsewhere.

crackhaus:
I like this question

Lordswazz, how do you identify prostitutes?

Someone that ALWAYS doesn't give in to sex until it is tied to a financial reward or promise of some material reward. Even in so-called boyfriend/girlfriend relationships and marriages, some ladies don't give in until you promise them a new hair makeover, shopping spree, or some pricey gift.

If it happens from time to time, then no problem. But when e turn habit, say before you go down, you must drop cash or some sort of promise of a materialistic nature to be fulfilled in the near future, then it's prostituting in disguise.

that she dates only you BUT always demands for something before sex doesn't make it any different. Even wives sometimes hold husbands to ransom too in that sense, yet they would still call themselves married. It's actually prostitution in the guise of marriage or relationship. That's how you know a prostitute from a normal chic. One ALWAYS makes materialistic demands before sex, the other does it occasionally or never.

marvel2011:
How will he identify a prostitute? You think they cluster in a particular place. They are virtually everywhere especially this kind of seasons

Then date any girl that catches your fancy. You'll have enough sex. just play safe, that's all. No need begging everyday for what is at your beck and call.

Just as women won't tolerate a broke man, a well-to-do man should not tolerate being sex-starved by his wife. The average comfortable man is a woman magnet. If you can't use it to get as much sex as you want from willing and younger girls, and rather wait for anytime heaven touches your wife to bless your luck, you go die for konji. I am tired of men with ample means complaining of being sex-starved and having blue balls.

No wonder unmarried lovers have more sex on average than married people. Go out and get your fill my brother. The world is at the feet of any man who has the means and knows how to use it. Just stay away from prostitutes sha.

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franchasng:
If you are a lady looking for a man on Nairaland and you want to get positive result, you must be financially buoyant and have big ukwu aka Idilanla for Nairaland guys who are too exposed and wise to consider you lol


I don't think a broke girl can find a reliable partner on Nairaland lol.....


Only foreign based ladies who are citizens of America, Europe, Canada, etc can find love on Nairaland. But if you want sex mate, a guy that will murder you on the bed during romp, then come to Nairaland, Lefulefu and MrCork and co will handle you wella

But if u want a boyfriend that will cherish you and take you serious and also consider you for marriage, then you need to go and make money or find a way to become citizen of America, UK, Germany, France, Canada, Scotland, etc, or else, Na hit and run you go de get nowadays times have changed, Nigerian guys are catching up faster now


You need to go and make money as a girl to find the right guy now in Nigeria oh, Nigeria is changing so fast, Nigerian guys now have learned to also dig gold and even diamond, sister go and make money if you want a financially buoyant guy as a reliable partner

We dey follow una lead now. You guys have been doing it since the creation of Adam. "He must be employed and well to do bla bla bla!" Now guys don dey do am too, mainly for them not to even spend half their salary on you (na why most dey find working class. most don't even need your 1 kobo), una don begin complain. Una neva chicumcin!

If your life is boring, it's probably because you aren't as interesting as you opined in your post. Fix that first alone, instead of always disturbing one young man's life everyday with "i'm bored. make me happy" as if na him job wey them send am come earth to do.

healthserve:
Guy make money make we hear word. Marriage is a scam bla bla bla. Keep your antimarriage crusade to your hateful sef. Yeye boy. How much you get wey a nice woman wan scam sef. Yeye


That Argentina sun wey dey knack your brain Don knack sense comot for ya head. Look how you dey rant on top wetin. Fvck off with your nonsensical bull rap boy

Zip your smelling mouth there. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. If people ask am question, allow am answer as him see fit. Anuohia!

BiafranBushBoy:
I have been Travelling since 3 weeks. Once I get back, I will respond.

Hopefully tonight.

Okay. Thanks

BiafranBushBoy:
Send me your Whatsapp number to

Broadwaymarketingconsults@gmail.com

A very good afternoon to you, and thanks for reaching out. i have sent the number to the above email.

BiafranBushBoy:
I totally understand the challenges.

Thanks for pointing it out.

Good day Bro. I know from a previous thread titled "How Did You Make Your First Million" that you do a bit of KDP as one of your income stream, and you've achieved some level of success with it. I too ventured into self publishing after reading up a thread here about it. i have published four books, and i'm on the fifth. the challenge i'm having is, i am yet to make any tangible sale.

I have made just three sales cumulatively and a handful of KENP readings. i have tried several strategies since my first book, in a bid to boost sales on the platform but they seem not to be working.
Anytime i launch a book and do free promotions, i get maybe 15 - 20 free downloads a day for each of the days, but :

1. They don't leave any reviews after downloading, and
2. Sales go back to what they've been before the free promotion, which is zero.

I even bought Publisher Rocket (KDP Rocket) in a bid to better my keyword research, but i am yet to reap any rewards from all the investments i've made in time and money.

Is it that i haven't been doing proper keyword research? or that i don't format properly?

my last book, i created a landing page and an email list for it, so that i could get some subscribers. I even put a link to my review page on Amazon at the last part of the book, still yet, no reviews, just one subscriber after about 60 free downloads.

Is there any advice you can give to me that can help me increase sales, do better keyword research, and get people to drop reviews?

I should have mailed you instead but i have no access to your email address. Please, I would really be very grateful if you could help me with some experienced advice in boosting sales because right now, my motivation to carry on is at rock bottom, since all of the hard work is yet to reap any dividend.

Here is a link to all my books. Maybe you could just help me spare a little time and check them out to help me fish out my flaws? I would be immensely grateful.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Z8TJ3V7
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YSPCC6V
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YKC1V7Y
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07WVBHPS9

My email address is swazyfrank90@gmail.com. You could reply me on this thread, or you could just send it privately if you so please. Thank you very much.

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eliok:
what's the percentage of plagiarism its saying? Submit it. I think anything from 75 percent is ok

Alright sir. Thanks

Please and please, how do you tweak recipes so that they come out clean during plagiarism searches. I have done all kinds of tweaking, yet it still flags some results during search, though not the exact source i got it from.
Can one go with that? I mean, publishing a recipe book so long as the sources that come up during searches aren't exactly the same as yours?
Or should you only publish when plagiarism searches bring nothing? (Is that even possible? Considering how most recipes for a certain diet repeat ingredients and steps).

Good day eliok. thanks for all the help.
Can you please just drop us a link to one children's short story book on Amazon? I am eager about towing this path, since the regular books take so much time and energy to make because of their size. I would love to just see a good example. Thanks

please, for those that make use of free images from stock image sites - do you credit the source in your eBook before uploading? Or do you just use it like that and let Amazon do the background check themselves instead?

Good afternoon all. I came across this post about a month ago after seeing some other thread about the possibilities that abound in the self-publishing world. I must say a big thank you to the thread creator, mk82, as well as all the other good people that have taken time to contribute.
From lessons learned here and by additional research, i have been able to publish my first book, and it has been put live in the kindle store.
Now the issue is, i am seeing "limited availability" in both the US and UK stores, while it is fully live in other stores. Can anyone please help clarify what that implies? Thank you.

oshe11:
I'm battling with a friend right now

More or less her last hope of survival

Everyday convincing


It ain't Easy

Please do all you can to help her.
She would be super grateful to you when in a better place psychologically and reflecting on her life.

Once you hear the US government say "we have intelligence report", most times, na lie. They had "intelligence report" Saddam had weapons of mass destruction, which was a bloody lie, they had "intelligence report" that Russia manipulated votes in 2016 elections.
It always has the same patterns.

1. They will never release the evidence. They will tell you it is "Classified", "Top secret"
2. The way their news stations will run the story will be like they were present when they gathered the "intelligence".

Good luck to anyone who still believes in these yanks. I have lost faith in these jerkoffs since i started noticing their plenty lies.

I just pray they leave Nigeria and Sub-Saharan Africa out of their "games", cos if they start sending spy drones here, using CIA officials to topple elected governments here, una go know say no country, "world police" or not, should be free to do as they please on foreign territories.
Na because e never reach our backyard we still dey smile sheepishly and pat them for back

grandstar:
Dubai is suffering economically.

Iran used to purchase about $20bn worth of goods yearly from them. Now with economic sanctions imposed, Dubai has lost that massive source of foreign buyers.

Also,the UAE's choice of imposing sanctions on Qatar has also not helped. So many reasons were given why the Gulf States imposed sanctions on their rich neighbour Only one reason stands: The refusal of Qatar to silence Aljazeera. I too wonder what is an absolute monarchy doing with a news channel?

As much as an absolute monarchy has no business with a news channel, i think Aljazeera should be left to continue. The pressure by Saudi Arabia and other Emirati countries is induced, i believe, by the west due to their inability to censor contents there to totally suit them like they do to most mainstream media in US and Europe.
Aljazeera news content has always been so refreshingly different from that of CNN, BBC, and the likes that if it is included in any cable package, i always opt for it. It feels more original, and their documentaries are detailed and fun.