₦airaland Forum

Congratulations lads. You guys played your heart's out all season.

So "the rest of the world" deserves to be given cancer but American lives are sacred abi?

These multinational American corporations always do things abroad that they can't do in their country because they feel they're untouchable. They indulge in full-fledged bribery and utter disregard for safety of lives abroad, then act saintly back home.

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2Odds101:
Thank you,,because I've searched for all to atleast verify somethings...I no see any single one.

I've seen about three. They're not fake; the owners have deleted them out of shame immediately they got wind of the news.

People start calling you that they saw your explicit chats and to save face, you hurriedly delete the account, with hot premium tears rolling down your cheeks.

After these same people will be badmouthing guys that have seen enough to avoid marriage entirely. Na these things wey full-fledged man dance go pay overpriced raw cash on their heads.

As for the so-called pastor, he's an embarrassment to the christian faith.

...And imagine this sick swine dey bring God into the conversation.

ImaIma1:
First and foremost, you have mingled tooo much with low class ladies that it has formed your opinion and mindset. Many men will tell you they meet intelligent Nigerian ladies.

Secondly, do you have a close friend that is married to a foreigner there? I am not talking about all those social media pictures or "guy you dey miss" types. I mean having first hand knowledge of how their relationship is. If they are so perfect, why is there so much divorce even with their men that are more mannered and respectful than our Nigerian men? Their divorce rate is higher than ours.

If there are so good, why do Nigerians who have lived there still opt to marry these "unfit" Nigerian women? Look at Nigerian footballers who have stayed abroad for years, past and present, how many of them married foreigners? What is the percentage?

Didn't you learn the concept of "all that glitters is not gold?" There is more to stuff that meets the eye.

Every woman home and abroad has their flaws, good aspects and peculiarities. No region is better than the other. So all this Ronaldo is better than Messi syndrome should remain in soccer.

Forget matter of low class. Mooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooost naija girls na money for hand back for ground. the few that don't demand are the exception.

What shocks guys about the foreign girls they meet in lots of the countries they travel to after spending so much time here is that the majority of them don't need your kobo; the chemistry and affection is enough. I don't know if it's the culture of lack that causes it in this country or just an innate trait.

MoodyQueen:
Okay.

Since you wouldn't accept your wife as an equal because you paid her bride price, well then you should have no qualms accepting other women.

After all, you only paid your wife's bride price.

So let's take about equality for other women.

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Excuses:
Yes very big,matter of fact the biggest country in Asia but, it's military is living on past glory,although they retained most of the Soviet military assets but as am talking to you now, most assets are obsolete..

The biggest country in the world by land mass.

nisco18ng:
A wife has given all the consent in the world the day she exchanged vows 'with my body,I'll worship you'.
Besides, after marriage, the two has become one flesh, which makes it impossible to rape yourself. Its like saying I raped myself by masturbating or i need my own consent to masturbate.
Even in the greatest misunderstanding, my wife can't deny me that and vice versa. We can lay like log of wood and act like she isn't feeling anything, but never denial.

Truth is, you're fortunate. Don't think that's how it happens for most marriages. If most men open up to you ehnnnnn...

Deoboss:
A man raping a female or vice versa is very bad.

This is my own opinion on marital rape:
It’s an exaggeration from wives as her husband has carnal knowledge of his wife from onset.

Men surfer more in marriages.

Is marriage really worth it? Answer is a capital NO.

All African wives will stop letting their husband sleep with them within time (sure or ask married men this fact).

So if a husband feels like making love to his wife & if she says no and he still goes on to make love to her then it’s called marital rape?

What are the actual conjugal rights of a man in marriage?

Marriage is for companionship, love, procreation & sex. Men don’t enjoy much from marriage at the many rules on lean rights of a husband over his wife.

So why then do men marry? Just to work hard & provide, even the children he trained only remembers & assist their mother (his wife) when they are older & fend for themselves while the man (her husband) who now becomes a retiree enjoys nothing & one day soon he then dies or what else do men enjoy in marriages?

E dey sweet me as more men are now coming to their senses. Marriage does not favor any man. Women pray for it, they fast, do vigils and cry their eyes out for it because it is a lopsided union that favors them greatly.

The only exception for the woman getting the most benefit is if the husband is physically abusive or doesn't carry out his responsibility as the workhorse of the union. Otherwise, you can't enjoy the children's affection more than her when they're young or grown, and you don't even enjoy as much sex as a guy in his early 20s with a healthy relationship. Sex for most women is more of a manipulative tool in marriage than borne out of pure chemistry.

shestrong:
Statistics say married women are the most depressed.

Then they should start turning down marriage. Stamp their feet, show them the stats and shun a life of depression.

But no, they want to give anyone they're dating high blood pressure with their "20-times-a-day" nagging question about "when are we getting married?"

Don't let people lie to you that all voluntarily single people are irresponsible. A number of them are far more responsible than some people wearing gold and silver bands would ever be.

Not everybody likes a regimented and predictable life. No guarantee you'll be happy married; no guarantee you'll be happy single either. Just do what you're comfortable with.

It is the Senate building of Adekunle Ajasin University in Ondo State.

contigiency:
What do you mean by structure? Are you saying that if the structure changes from what it is today, the people of Niger Delta will become saints overnight? Because I am not aware that anyone from another region has governed or managed their resources on their behalf.

Exactly! People keep shouting "restructuring" as though the new structure will function on its own and automatically checkmate our number one disease: Corruption.

Whatever structure is created after restructuring has been carried out will still be manned by people who will fight tooth and nail to selfishly profit from it regardless of who's expense these illicit gains are derived.

Believing that people who haven't been dilligent with what they've had so far will become more prudent and resourceful overnight simply because more resources are now within their control is laughable.

The majority of the present politicians (and sadly, the upcoming ones in school unions in tertiary institutions in the entire South and Nationwide as well) are in no way the ideal people to diligently utilize your resources in either the current or a more financially-autonomous administrative structure.

Only strong and functional institutions can checkmate corruption and resource abuse, nothing else!

When they tell today's youths to find a woman that adores and respects them in totality and then marry her, they'll say their "attraction cord" doesn't work that way. Them dey find the one wey go always dey keep them on the edge simply because "she's so photogenic and sexy."

Any lady that respects and submits to you the way a wife should, your ignoring her bed and meal will make her seek for reconciliation even 10 years after marriage. The love you have for her on your part will also melt your heart the moment this happens. But the "woke" people wey wan do pass wetin bible dey talk and dey find "co-partner," "50-50" go dey chase the wrong things, and naim dey put them for trouble. No wonder these days, men in young marriages, who are barely in their mid-late thirties, dey treat high-blood pressure already.

Good luck having a peaceful and happy marriage with your "21st Century" formula.

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UjuJoan2:
I'm really sorry if I was too insensitive to what you are going through, but you should never have gone back to him.

People never get over such hurt, they may bury it and pretend, just to get what they want. But they never truly forget.

On the other hand, he should never have married someone who treated him so badly in the past. But I guess you are a beauty, someone obviously out of his league. Another reason why you should never have married him.

Just keep ignoring him, get yourself a source of income and start building your life.

Forget about him. She should have looked out for herself.

When a vengeful person wants to exert revenge directly or indirectly, you don't blame them for doing what will make the vengeance happen, you try to prevent it. She was the one that made the mistake.

There was only one person that knew perfectly what they had in mind to do in the future marriage and it definitely wasn't her.

You can't blame an aggressor for succeeding; it's all they've ever wanted in the first place since you slighted them.

yanabasee1:
Yeah. .. You're cute.....I'd chose you a million times over the SA broadcaster

Nigga i love your style sha. You know say South African broadcaster na a bird in the bush, while Cuddlebugie dey more realistic since she dey here, naim you begin dey tell her some sweet "okro soup" stories. More grease to ya "helbow".

No one should say the wife is private cos she's not. Someone that posts over 100 pictures of herself and her baby isn't private. All the ladies or guys here that said they've never posted their other half's picture, or that they've posted just one -- do you post up to 30 pictures at once? Even birthday pictures.

If it looks like a rat and smells like a rat, by golly, it is a rat! She might not be cheating, but it's very obvious she "settled" for you, as opposed to who she wanted, and so doesn't want to slight someone. Even the most secure person will smell a rat. If it were one or two pictures she posts every now and then, that wouldn't have been a problem; but to post over a hundred on your birthday and the kids' without any of yours? C'mon!

Aboks:
I wonder o how e take dey sweet young guys to fvck old women
dis wan na mama wey sabi do

Though it's wrong on all levels to have sex with your Mother In-law; however, there's nothing old about a 44 yr old female or male!

rottable:
pls, where is the bag of popcorn? I still can't figure it out

She's holding it in her hands

Lol. What about this one?

It irks me how people could be so naive and silly sometimes. Anybody with a little bit of analytic mind who has seen this Dr Anu physically or have been careful enough to do a little research beforehand won't even allow her give them paracetamol, let alone opening them up to perform liposuction or any delicate medical procedure. As in, she's a "slay queen" 100%; complete with ankle bracelets, long and thick lashes, tattoos everywhere, and revealing clothes even at work... e be like she even get twerking video sef for her I.G. page.

Yet, for some phantom reason, some ladies are naive enough to offer their body to her, and you think someone who's that concerned about such trivialities will pay the requisite attention to her craft that's needed to become grounded in it?

I mean, it's enough that you're insecure; just don't be stupid too!

Looking at it, you'll know they spent lots of money, but it's a clumsy, "i want you to know i just came upon sudden money but i'm still crude" kinda design. See some classy examples some people have shown above, they look wayyyy better.

Interior design and finesse goes beyond just lumping furniture (expensive or not) together like a warehouse -- there should be harmony!

There's nobody in the history of US presidential election that has done what Trump did, and won. He contested against 16 Republican establishment candidates, career politicians, and bamboozled all of them, even though they had (and used) so much dirt in his past against him -- yet this is a guy that's never held a public office in his life.

No previous candidate has suffered as much media attack from every corner, and still came out successful... and it's not even money (ask Mike Bloomberg wey woman tear to shreds for first-ever debate even with 20 times Donald Trump's net worth).

The guy has a thick skin, is charismatic (he's been a popular household name in America since his mid-late 30s), and the shocking thing is, he'll win again (don't bother disputing this until after November 3rd).

Ishitinyourlife:
I graduated school when you were still in your secondary school uniform, I am an employer of labor with over 20 people that I'm paying their salaries with over 5 booming businesses of my own,you're not in my employees level not to talk of me,you must be very stupid.

Abeg no mind this ill-behaved rambling smallie that thinks everybody online is doing worse-off than her. Whether you prostitute or support those who prostitute, it's the same thing... it's called "aiding and abetting." No matter how a demoralized society tries to paint it, what's wrong is wrong!

cococandy:
It’s different when it’s a compliment versus when it is used to make you accept bad treatment.

Harmless compliment?
There’s a world of difference between a compliment and something that is said to you to make you more pliable to abusive behavior.

Na today women start to use "real man" to manipulate men for their selfish gain? Abegi!

Amotolongbo:
Can they find a way of importing them to Africa instead of destroying them?

With the way things will start going this week, NCDC will start getting their confirmed cases mixed up, thinking that the deaths recorded are COVID-19, not knowing that majority of the deaths are from HUNGER-20.
And we know that when one is severely hungry, it can manifest with different symptoms. Too much hunger can show the combination of symptoms of Ebola Corona and HIV in just one manifestation.

Before everyone drags you through the mud in the name of some phantom "pride" (even the ones posting their account details on multiple threads here and every celebrity page on social media begging for money for food and talking about how basic feeding is a challenge), i want to tell you that it was a good submission from you.

Sadly, i doubt that such an idea would be given a lot of thought -- as lots of these farmers will likely be battling enormous economic loss, and altruism might just be the last thing on their mind at the moment.