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jimie: U.K and their odd visa policies!!!!transacting in dollars thereby strengthening the dollar?

u get personal beef with dollars?

texazzpete: Opinions, how do they work?

My opinion is that this is misguided. It IS my business because this is a discussion forum and I choose to opine and discuss on this issue.

The exploit works now, but for how long? For all you know, it's a slow migration/rollout that will take time, and the December 3rd date may just have been the commencement date. We don't know.

discussing ur opinion and telling ppl to stfu...smh. Arrogance

Yield: Which was why I said, "this is a big change, ...".

I agree with u

wheesin: Atleast money wil still be spent doing all this things,
i tot u wanted to mention trekking with her instead of a cab or playing ludo at home

u dey find zero spending abi? U go try leave earth enter Jupiter o

Yield: Cool tips, excluding #5.


HisRib, this is a big change, compared to some of your past threads:

www.nairaland.com/1253328/should-broke-men-allowed-date

www.nairaland.com/1216226/ladies-marry-jobless-man

It shows that she is still growing and learning new things, so are views are bound to change. Nice write up @ op

vickyO: Hmmm... This thread is something else.
Lots of perverted souls in here.
It's so sad seeing the alarming number of shallow minded, sex oriented, foul mouthed, and frustrated guys in here.
I can't believe someday, a little kid will call you dad cause you all are disappointments.
Calling your mum, sisters and future daughters whores? How happy will they be if you tell that to them?
A prostitute is someone paid for sex.
E.g.
Boy-Oh girl, how much for 2 hours?
answer- na #10000000.
Boy-Ok, lets get down.
...... after two hours, pays the amount negotiated.
Does the above describe how you guys have sex with your girlfriends?

You guys speaking are just lazy a.s.s.es looking for lame excuses to shy away from little responsibilities.
I don't advocate sex before marriage but there is a difference between a prostitute and a girlfriend, a big one as a matter of fact.

look @ ur lame definition of prostitute and yet u call ppl shallow mind.pls read ur dictionary and post the right definition jor

lorretta u: you can make ur points without twisting my words.
I think we all agree that sleeping with different men for financial gain is prostitution. Maybe the person you need to sort out the problem with is yourself.
Ps I have a man,he's not wealthy. I hope that makes you realize your folly
Many guys out there are struggling to survive doing meaningful albeit low pay work. Are they all single? Nope they have women who love them too.
Many women help men out financially every second and every minute everywhere in the world even as we speak. Why you people chose to overlook such glaring facts and lump all women into a category called 'prostitute' is beyond me. But it reeks of dishonesty and maliciousness on the part of the men who are sharing this same view.
Now the question is, are you a rich man/wealthy man?
If no. But you have a woman or have had a woman who loved/loves you, I hope you can see how despicable you're for lumping her in with prostitutes even when she was/is with u despite your lack of wealth.
I do not know anyman who's single because he's poor.like I said many of you have even multiple women despite your poverty. You included.
Coming here to disregard that/those woman/women just to feel among these ill-bred low lifers that call themselves real MEN on nairaland is nothing short of wickedness. And I wish that the ladies involved with these type of men would come to know what the men really think of them.it's so disheartening. Really.
If a woman has ever spent a penny on you,I hope you know you're a gigolo?

I used to have a measure of respect for some select dudes on NL. Sadly most of them have lost that respect on this thread and they don't even know it.those who even feel confident calling their moms and women prostitutes. I wonder how they feel doing that.
What a travesty

I don't knw ur definition of wealth or poverty but I think it is subjective to individual. Loretta u r dating a guy who is not wealthy or not and u r not sleeping with [b][b]someone else [/b]4 material financial gains etc u r not a prostitute. Pls note d bolded, but if u do otherwise then u are a prostitute. All women are prostitute and all men are dogs are Js a rhetoric statement. It is ur own folly if all u hav bin writing was Js based on this rhetoric statement.

shymexx: True story, bruddah.

Before you put a ring on it, you better check the mileage, service history and make sure the previous owners aren't too many.

Else you might end up with a 1982 volkswagen scirocco - when what you thought you had was a 2012 bentley continental GT.

These chicken heads just spread their legs wide open to everyone and their pops, as long as they can sell them a dream and throw some baits at them.

Better watch-out before you become a victim.

I dey tell u...lol

lorretta u: oh please just put on your thinking cap already.
I never said not having money means being lazy. I only said no lady wants to be with a lazy unproductive man. Even those agberos in the parks are hard-working aren't they? Who wants to be with such a man. He may nt be lazy but he's channeling his energy to unproductive areas. Simples. You as a man you have qualities you desire in a woman. And I'm sure you'd appreciate a woman that isn't so dependent on you. A woman that can bring something to the table as they say. Does that make you a gigolo? So why should a woman who desires you being financially stable be called a prostitute just because you spend your money once in a while on her? Even if she's faithful to you she's still a prostitute right? As long as your #5 was spent on her maybe for a dinner date or shopping, she's a prostitute cos that's what these guys are basically saying.


I said it's a monetized world. Everybody needs to make money to survive with or without a partner. (Which includes both sexes)

The next person that quotes that line out of context will have a serious fall-out with me.
I don't know why stereotypes won't you ppl use your brains. So I said its a monetized world means that you'll pay ur woman for loving you?

clearly u have comprehension problem. If your concern is the generalization, then Js say point of correction not all women instead of the epistles u have been writing and contradicting yourself. Sumbody has already given u summary and definition of women that falls into the category. If u don't fall into that category then don't let it bother u

Mindependent: But guys consider material gain too na, are they pros too?

u can call them prostitute too. It is not particular to a gender. U look pweety#nicepix#tripin...

francababy: That is what I mean in my original post when I said how do guys sleep with a girl that has slept with 10 guys that day before sleeping with them.

how do u knw she has slept with more than 10 guys?

[quote author=fresh_dude]I don't know how they can't comprehend this simple concept.[/quote]truth is bitter...lol

[quote author=lorretta u]I don't intend to go on a back and forth arguement with you.
My stand remains
1: I cannot be with a man that is not wealthy.
2: that doesn't make me a prostitute
3: personally Everything is monetized I don't see why I should settle for less
4:I still maintain that a prostitute is a woman who has sexzual relations with different men for financial gain. That in no way makes your girlfriend a prostitute for doing the same thing in the name of love.
5: this generation of women are becoming fast unproductive, lazy and mediocre hence they are always on the defensive when a man doesn't want to monetize the relationship.using words like he is suppose to be financially responsible
You call him lazy and unproductive because he cannot meet up with your financial demands, and u quickly jump to d next guy that can meet up with your financial demands and claim he is more aspiring but the day he runs out financially then he becomes lazy and unproductive .
6:it doesn't change the fact that we know that it is all about the money.
7:if you are truthful to yourself,you'll accept that these women claiming to be angels and criticizing or condemning prostitutes are only trying to make themselves feel good. To try and make it look like sleeping with more than one guy In the name of love and getting financial benefits is not the same thing as prostitution.

Keep decieving yourselves.

[quote author=fresh_dude]What you have done is deliberately misquote me and told me I am wrong on something I never said. Show me someone I said ladies should date/marry lazy men.
That aside, you have only gone on to lend credence to my argument. By all means, go after a financially capable man but don't blame the man for having a certain opinion of you especially when he knows you wouldn't be together if he was poor.
And then you say the world is monetised and that I should get with the times, maybe you should also get with the times and accept that guys generally think that women are prostitutes and that might include you. Or you can stop postulating straw man arguments and deal with the facts.
And then, we aren't talking about makinfg money to survive or not, we're talking about, according to you, monetisation of relationships.[/quote]so on point

lorretta u: Really?
So a lady who expects you to be financially upstanding in a marriage/relationship is the same as one who stands by the roadside or lives in a brothel and sleeps with any john or joseph that comes calling?
Don't ladies need to make money too? Men are even being choosy in brides. No body wants a dependent woman. Does that mean all men are gigolos?
Do you need anybody to tell you that the world has changed and everything is monetized. With or without a girlfriend you need to make money to survive on ur own first of all.
So if a lady says she doesn't want to be with a man who's lazy or and can't provide for a family is the same thing as being a prostitute?

Tell me how that works. Yea

how is not having financial stability = lazy? Note that ppl that are financially stable today can become unstable 2moro. Going by ur definition children dat inherit huge wealth from their parents are strong and hard working abi? So if every thing is monetized(including love) according to u, then wat is d difference between a prostitute and a girl that monetized her love

pweetixandy: u r sayin rubbish nw...its a diff thing to have a bf whom u av sex with out of luv nd still get material benefits frm Duh!!..any guy who sleeps wiv a call girl is a pig and also has d spirit of a pig...fullstop

what if, it is more than one boyfriend u hav sex with out of love, and still get material benefit from them. Is it still different?

goldenHelen: Since d BAN ar going on strike its nw time 4 SDAN(Sugar Dadies Associatn Of Nig)to resume fully nd u beter dnt complain snce u ar runnig away frm ur responsibilities in dis festiv period.... Lol [color=#000000][/color]

it hasn't come to dat quo

bigtt76: This is totally ridiculous with every semblance to the colonial days when the slave masters keep slaves for pleasure. Point is did he need to insult the poor woman and only retract steps later after being bashed nationwide on social networks? We should not applaud this and the woman should be advised to return such money cos it makes mockery of the woman's status as well as those of millions nationwide suffering under the sun becos of these thieves we call politicians #nonsense

unforgiven spirit...smh

Smartie gurl: Lolzzzzzzz! How would i even know that? Ok, i will start counting from today nd get back at yoú.

Todays date is what again?

30th of February

Oludrex: There are two things involved
1. Switzerland is a thief.. Returnin the money just now.. Value of 700mill dolls 10yrs ago is far greater than value of 1billion dollars today..

2. They could have used this 700mill for them country.. Its like returnin a stolen property back to another thief...

did u read d post @ all?

snthesis: im a romantic, besides i just moved back to 9ja,
anyways wat do 9ja girls like?

from Pakistan abi?

iterator25: Mine is smelling like gun powder.(cabad). I'm I ok?

No u r not, pls see a doctor ASAP or call 911...lol

deols: Ask her..

If she finds you snooping even though she has done notjing wrong, how do you think she'd feel?

How would you feel if she does not trust you and starts to spy on you

how is going through your wife's phone snooping? If there is no unnecessary restriction to her phone why will u snoop 4 sumtin u already have access to

The fact that u trust sumbody doesn't mean the person can't do otherwise o. Trust is earned over time. If u hav nothing to hide in the first place, why should married ppl have problems goin through each other's phones? Why make it make big deal?how can sumbody be married and still say I want privacy meaning u want
freedom from the intrusion of others in your private life or affairs. Finally how do we define ur married life and ur private life abi private life na only phone

haconni: Pls how can I make my Post/Topic to come first on NL? Does anyone know?

u will have to pay some money to officials

wasak: if she stood by u when u had no job... then something is wrong... that her aunt might have given her a Bad advice and u know atimes women make decisions without serious thought.
I know u Lov her Please there is chance for reconciliation.. don't just write her off Please brother

what kind of advice is this one...lol 4 a second I Thot u were a female

pharmow: Una dey say ask Kaffy...........Una know wetin her eyes see before she reach where she dey.........once again Grace of God nah the key for naija

is there anything u will do on earth without say ur eye no see sumtin b4 u get to d top?

[quote author=mizzocho.cinco]No nonsensical contributions, thank you
Advice from matured people[/quote]how can sumbody advice u when u sound like an illiterate.

bukatyne: you are NOT very bright, are you?

i should be d one asking dat. Do u have two president in a country? Do u have 2 CEO in business organization? If your answer is no,then y do u want that in your family? What is the essence of marriage if in the end I will build my own house and u will build ur own house. The person I quoted earlier went as far as making this statement " And pls
don't come at me with the same old story of having to look after
the kids (who afterall, don't bear your maiden names! but your husbands' names!)". Obviously if you are bright, and frm a responsible family,u won't be in support of this kind of thinking.
In my opinion the man is the head of the family but being the head doesn't mean u abuse ur powers. Respect is given to whom it is due. Women respect ur husband as d head of d family and with proper communication u can achieve ur dreams.

Bought her a new blackberry while I was using an old one with screen problem...lol. Later discovered that I just enhance her runz capabilities.

Marthakings: N0! Men are unpredictable.... what if dey get divorced? she will be stranded and it will be too late to build up her career again

and women are predictable right?

Nashville: One problem I have with us Nigerians is that we never blame ourselves. We blame God, society, etc but never look inwards. You write as if Nigerian women have no brains and cannot take decisions for herself and just forced into slavery called marriage. Please, if you are in slavery, it is first and foremost your fault. You are responsible for your decisions and you have to blame yourself. My own sister is a gynaecologist and she plans to start her own IVF clinic soon, my wife is a practicing lawyer living her life to the full. If you are not living your dreams, please look into the mirror and you will find where the fault is. Lets stop blaming society etc, women have a choice, they have brains, they go to school like the boys and apply for jobs like the guys, so there is no reason why women should not achieve their dreams unless of cause they have none.

Now you raise the issue of a man having several houses and was upset his wife had only one. Very unfair of you as those of us that read the thread know that he was angry because his wife built a house without his knowledge. That is wrong 100 times over and everytime. I would not build a house without telling my wife neither would I expect that from my wife. It just makes no sense at all everytime one reads it.

Lastly, I believe our women have a long way to go in helping themselves. While I have lots of female friends who are doing very well in their chosen professions and achieving their dreams, alot of Nigerian women would rather marry a "rich guy" as a means of achieving wealth and possibly fame and their dreams. Unfortunately, they soon find out that not all that glitters is gold. Rather than work hard and see themselves as positive contibutors, they take the short cut and try to use a man to meet their needs. Our orientation needs to change, both men and women.

on point