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Taiwo20:
The lady is honest. for her to tell you this you have no problem.
Even if they don't say it, that's what usually happens in most marriages here and it's very wrong.


Accept her statement and know peace. the hack to this though is to make sure you borrow money frequently from her and try to repay if you cant repay thats not a problem. nothing will happen

You are a lost cause.

Rubyjade:
Fallacy of hasty generalization. Some women not all women, if you spend more than 10mins on me, I feel very uncomfortable

You keep seeking attention everywhere with your fakeass account and it's kinda sad

Nawa

I wonder how guys and girls use this shiit for libido enhancement.

The one time I used it as a pain reliever...I slept off like a new born baby. My dick no even rise at all. Same with NESCAFÉ that makes people stay up all night reading, I almost failed PHY 101 due to this. For 9am exam, I woke up by 8:30am after taking NESCAFÉ the previous night and ran to exam without bathing or brushing my teeth. I didn't revise or read for that exam.

Which Kain body I get sef. I'm sure if I ever use Viagra....na to sleep like a pregnant hippo too.

Altairx440:
penaldo out
kikikikikiki
cheers to psg, fcb and messi fans
let them know pain
no offense lololol

Take your stuff to football thread.

Wittyduchess:
K.

K

Wittyduchess:
Ah ,you are the one talking like this?


And you think the op is the only one who has had such parents? We choose to be who we want. We choose to be at peace,we choose to be better not only for ourselves but for future generations.

Again ,I ask you ,do you think this guy is on the right path to redemption?

If you want castigation from me ,I think the op has already done justice to that. He has not spared words to use on his mother,so?na my contribution you dey find?

When a woman empties her emotions on SM, it's called a path to healing but I noticed when men do it, they get tagged as weak, misogynistic and damaged. Many women came out to talk of rape and mental health issues and were hailed as strong and independent but men do same and are called ugly names. I just wonder why?

Talking out may be his own path to redemption. Please don't tell me you know how it feels because you don't. You are not and can never be OP. Let him rant, at least people can advise him or console him or whatever. Too much of internalising issues are making men commit suicides these days.

Simran94:
Lol, try to attend a rehab session once just for the fun of it and see what “OTHERS” have passed through.

Been used and abused is nothing knew to me and “other people”.

You still didn't answer my question.

Have a nice night

LogicBomb8:
Dat means you don die be dat nw. Because i go blow you out like catarrh

Nope ...it's like coronavirus bro ..you can't catarrh me away

LogicBomb8:
Na wher you wan see the mountain and cave

Inside your nose

Simran94:
You don’t know me neither do you know what I have been through in my life. So when I say there’s nothing he is going through that others have not passed through and worse, then I know what I am saying!!!

Don't say 'others' ....

Just say you and I will keep quiet.

So, have you been used and abused like he said?

Wittyduchess:
let's be honest,do you think this guy is capable of having a stable marriage?

You can't give what you dont have ,does he write like someone who has peace and love within?,except he makes conscious effort and even goes for therapy and councelling I don't see that happening.


The op is a damaged soul, if he fathers children or even gets married in this state ,sorry ,it will be an uphill task.


Sometimes it's not really the curse working but the attitude that prompted the curse. If he acts like this with his own mother,how do you think he will act with another person's daughter, especially one that he feels is under him. There is a thread on fp where a nairalander's wife ran away and is hiding,with an outburst like this ,I fear this op will be worse than that man.

You fear OP not the person who made him like this??
Seems you are God now to know whose soul is damaged.

Simran94:
I can assure there’s nothing he is going through that others have not gone through and worse.
What I am saying is there’s no need for curse from his money because it is evident his heart is full of hate and I pray it doesn’t end up consuming him.

You can assure when you don't know how it feels?

That's a weak assurance na!!!

Good for them.
A mountain with caves is known to me.

Won't cost much to get myself holed up there...
Natural aquifers and wildlife are added incentives.


Let everyone bomb themselves out... I go survive

Kneeling to propose as if na beggy beggy you dey do!!!

Naww o

kilisi:
She almost ran mad when the incidence happened.

In fact, after waiting for so long, some of thought she she had erased the idea of marrying.

Damn

baby124:
Get help. Not interested in debating with you. It’s creepy at this point.

Because you have been exposed and you lost.
It made you look really naive. Get some knowledge about basic immigration laws next time,ok?

baby124:
And you get a ban! Thanks for this comment . I like your type that have no control whatsoever. Why will you not do something like this. A so called man with little to no control of his emotions. Coming to throw insults in a civilized thread. Check the zoo for your mates.

Funny that you berate men for losing control yet you keep the insults going!!!

Face it...men like me are the ones who mess you up, with cold, clean logic

baby124:
Why do you keep stalking me on every thread. Do you have a mental problem? You never make sense so I pay you little attention but you keep stalking. You need to get a mental check up my dear.

Just told you to use your logic, not emotions..
Like you are doing just now....

seunlayi:
If you are into any serious relationship, beware:-

When he only prefer to answer your call at some particular time of the day.

When he blocks any unannounced visit to his place home/office

When he refuses to discuss his future, your future and the future of the relationship

When he refuses to allow your free interaction with his real friends

When he refuses to introduce you to his family members or give you free access to them.

When he allow you to stay away from his family functions

When he only talk sense before having (illegal) sex with you

When he frequently prevent your interaction with some of his colleagues.


And many more

You know nothing....and you be guy o

Parmeeh:
I pity fools who are following this guy

Including you

kilisi:
Even some naija guys.


I can't forget that day in 2005 when that bros dived into water to save her fiancée at the bar beach in Lagos. Unfortunately for him, he couldn't swim and the swimmers there saved his fiancée but they couldn't save him. His carcass was recovered three days later. Very young bros that we look up to. He had a great career ahead of him and he was the one his family was looking onto.

His fiancée married about four years ago.

Anytime I'm looking through my pictures and see his pictures, the events of that day will just flash back.

Damn!!!!! That's sad
The fiancee tried o.... Married in 2018 since 2005? That's 13 years of waiting bro.

Richy4:

I know how it works obviously... It is said that when two elephants fights, the grasses suffers the most....

The law you are talking about should be the Nigerian law right? because she is in Nigeria..if she will sue him,it will be a heard in Nigeria.. and the abandonment/ Escape happened in Nigerian soil right?...

Maybe you have lost touch of how it works in Nigeria... Based on what I have been reading It's still the same..... nothing has changed...

If the woman is not a citizen or permanent resident and the children were not Spanish citizens, she cannot go back to join him...

What the embassy will do is to mandate the man to pay for the children's welfare anytime the case comes to their notice...

I'm glad there are logical men like you on this forum. The way you interacted with her is pure gold. Purely logic, no emotional drivels.
It's a waste of time to engage her further. She had no control of logical but is pure emotion and would never actually give you the logical clarity in any discussion.

Stereotypes:
You people are funny. Quick Google of Spanish law about unlawful removal of a chikd/children would have at least given you some guidance, but you're here talking nonsense and making rude comments on top of it.

If the children are Spanish citizens,they have been forcefully dumped in Nigeria and they have a right to be returned to their country of birth. If their mother makes a complaint at the embassy, dependant or not, she will be heard.

The days of sitting by and shouting like goat are gone. If she wants to return the kids ie if citizens to Spain, she can make a case all things being equal.

Get a lawyer and file a petition.

And if the children are not Spanish citizens What Next?!

baby124:
It’s only in Nigeria that abandonment is a family dispute. It’s a big crime in these Western countries. Big one. She just needs to approach the Embassy to weigh her options. That guy is a fool, he was not born in Spain so he can be dealt with like an immigrant. Citizenship is also revokeable. People go to jail if they refuse to pay court mandated support.

You make a lot of noise (as always) yet no logical point. Despite the truth staring at you right in the face, you still won't learn. High on emotional fumes yet low on logical fuel.
Do you really think the Spanish embassy gives a fuq about immigrants or Non Spaniards?
I taya for your reasoning o

Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you

See your mouth

Smartb0y:
He simply should avoid saying anything instead of making up stuff.

I get that women are intuned to lies but it's never a good way to go brother.

At least not for something genuine

I agree with you.

Sapy442:
Maybe that's why this girl am working with is distancing herself from me. She showed me herself and I didn't reciprocate. She suddenly stopped telling me tinz and now she's ghosting.

But what if you had fabricated a sub story for her, telling her untrue things about you in a way that makes you a sort of hero. Do you think that would have helped you win her over?

Though I'm real and raw but your bolded could also work

Smartb0y:
Why would you lie just to get a pussy, that's weak man and not redpill at all.

Don't subscribe to oneitis, that's all i have to say

But he could....

So long he ends up winning in all his tales of struggles.

The 'winning' mentality is what they wanna see...not the 'whinning' mentality

I don't want to say SIMP

But most western men are like that anyways.

The girl would move on... ASAP

RIP

SIMP

Heartbroken05:
my sister, No one is perfect, I know I over react by slapping her but I regretted already and have for forgiveness. About the seer, you may not believe but I make sure I went to different religious leader and all said everything correctly. I was told to pray for her or tell someone who she listen to to open back her senses. They all said she is currently being charmed and decieved. They said she loves me but she has been put in a state of confusion currently. Her brother and sister has talked to her. They told me she is so adamant right now, and I should just calm down for her now.

You messed up by begging after slapping her...when she clearly was fuqin the other dude. What did you have to beg her for? Showed your weakness and she won't ever respect you. Which woman will respect a man who caught her cheating and still begged her.

Alaye, go away from here...your story dey taste bad for mouth

Candidlady:
You slapped her

Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°

The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast


And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!


Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°°

you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her

SMH.
I wonder what your BP will read right now.

Always chochocho online ... And fighting Everytime...you no dey taya??