₦airaland Forum

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga why this thing dey pepper you like this with that your Thick Lips

Werey...you made him remove the pic

Factfinder1:
I will never be poor in life

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In death nko?

Damn..........


200k for pussy?


Guys dey try ooo

This babe again??

How dafuq would they know?....


Or they are part of the conspiracy?

Skepticus:
Nothing bad if it is enroute to getting pusssy, especially when everything clicks and the pusssy seems like it's coming. We are sexual beings for a reason. It's not bad "spending wisely" since you are the one who reached out to her to satisfy your sexual urge.

Our financial level may differ, but spending above your financial strength or what you can tolerate, on a woman who you know isn't loyal to you (except only, what you offer) is the problem.

Another one, which is common among Nigerian guys is "indiscriminate" spending (often to the level of borrowing from others) to prove to the woman that you have money, which sets you up for further manipulation as the woman sees you as another "blustering idi.ot/maga" with money can exploit for "quick" money without offering much more than her overused, disloyal pussay.

However, nothing beats, taking yourself out and giving yourself that treat you deserve after a hard work alone (or with your trusted buddies) without the unnecessary stress of trying to keep a woman "comfortable" when you bring her along with the ride.

Very Apt!!!

Martinez39s:
I actually don't have such cravings. I don't even see the need to flash here and there. Flash for whom? Person why no dey add value for my life? No matter how small the money is, I can't exchange it for sex/pùssy. Money is value, sex and pusśy are not. Puśsy = $0.00. If I must part with my money, I must have gotten something of equal or greater value in return. If a girl will not have sex with you until you give her money, show her the door. If you discover that money must be spent in your pursuit to fùck a girl, abort mission. The people she is fuckińg for free don't have two heads; they may not even look as good as you, or as rich as you. Is she the only girl in the world?

The need to impress women with your hard-earned cash and the need to care for them out of pity with the same cash even though they add no value to your are manifestations of a demonic simp spirit.

You Nailed it harder than a mudafvcker!!!

patoski39:
Make hunger kill dem abi

Wetin concern me. She can drink water na

I get you bro. You wanted to fuq her and was willing to part with some cash to achieve that.

I won't just use that method on her personally because fuqin her aint worth it for me to dey spend money on her. I can always get another geh.

Like I said,I get your point. Sometimes, we want what we want
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ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] If you take somebody out, you've got to buy stuff like food and drinks then become a jolly good fellow so as to make the outing fun and pleasant....You also do that to separate the person away from that which will spoil your agenda... Isolation so that you get to know the person up close and personal...So you her mumu button... Eventually next time till further notice you don't have to stand on unnecessary ceremonies like that anymore...You just press the mumu button and Voila! Okafor's law will take over from there....[/color]

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Yeah, but you see, I wanted to f**k her...been fantasizing about that months..but I didn't want to fight this fire without getting my wallet burnt in the process as she had been spoilt thanks to the simps we have in our society....I just had to be creative...I had Game to help me... Taking her out allowed me to get in her head (besides the fact I'm an extrovert and I don't like flexing alone), to show her what I'm about...Give her a taste of what it would be like to hang out with a High Valued male...I worked her mind very hard before working her body eventually...I was a motherf**ker.[/color]

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I get you though but some guys here would say she ain't so hot to deserve anything. Having an abundance mindset is key

patoski39:
;Dits just always in us to want to impress this babes especially when there's a little cash to throw around , most times we can't just help it ..

2nd bolded, I fit switch side with d gal even if e no reach d amount wey she dae ask, things rough 4 me here ,, no vese

Lol.... I'm immune to such CRAVINGS!! NA ONLY ME I DEY TRY SATISFY O

Martinez39s:
He is just like Kaycee: false redpillers and alphas giving us a bad name and making women think we are just bluffing.

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Lol... I know Kaycee small from the ashewo thread. He ain't that bad just loves controversy noni

Martinez39s:
When we men make money and we choose to enjoy and flex, it is necessary to string a girl along and spend hard cash on her? Why can't one go alone and spoil himself without a woman in the picture? Anyway, that lady thought you were a simp looking for her attention and validation.

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You nailed it bro. I was surprised he even called her...like for what? You wanted to show her say u still get money na

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Most are redpilled until money enter....Last week,I cleared this business deal that had been hanging for weeks, got loaded up so I decided go spoil myself....There was this babe I had known for months she had a retinue of simps at her beck and call, to tell you the truth once I was in her clutches before TRP saved me....So I called her up and took her out but made sure I spent on myself far what I spent on her....Trust, the hypergamous nature of a woman to kickin...She insisted after that hearty date that I buy her a dress she spied on a shop window...I was Like what?..[/color]

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What's the point of taking her out and even buying her stuff in the first place?

Na you wan impress her na

Kaycee54321:


Just finished talking to a girl (fair chic) that was given 300K and flight money to come all the way from her base to Lag (the better part of Lag, not Bariga or Ikorodu) to spend quality time with her most recent bf. I say "most recent" because in June, she's with a division 4 Naija footballer in China, in August, she's "just chatting" with some bored rich married man and in November, she's in Love with Charlie that "hustles" in Austria. The girl is fine, I no wan lie. So damn fine that broke guys would be singing poems and saying stuff like "spit on me, I'm your Tufiakwa; Roast me, I'm your Boli or loot me, I'm your palliative" when she posts on Instagram. This is not "my friend told me yarns." The chic na person wey I know and she's not a runs girl, in the true sense of the word. She just...how do I even say this...well, she's free spirited and has an abundance of gees ready to ball on her. As I see the alert, I come remember say some guys dey find job of 80K to keep body and soul together. Yet another brother is spending this much just for leisure.

Bottom line: Go and make money. E get dough wey you go get, you won't need psychology to understand women. It'll come naturally to you.

This one's for the young and coming Niggas (like me )

No dey burn too much time here oh. Jee chuba ego.

As always, I cum in peace.

How is this contributing to this thread na?
How is the story even making sense....it shows how entitled naija men have made women. This is one of the reasons,southie and Kenya guys hate Nigerian men,cuz we put women on some crazy pedestals.

Your story is exactly what TRP is trying to weed out.

Yamiriflathead:
Why u carry the matter for head like Agege bread?
Women broke shame men onhere don't they? When have you kom out to criticize them

Please stick to politics section next time, Simping comments are FORBIDDEN in Romance section now.

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You dey mynd him with his 44 teeth set?

nobodii:
nothing happened to her as usual

They even made a movie about it titled "Brian Banks"

Based on the movie she wanted initiating the sex in a hidden area in highschool funnily enough she was the one who dragged him passed several classes to the spot before he rejected her and she became angry but everybody said he was the one dragging her

although her mom was the one who kept fueling the fire of her daughter being raped upon knowing the truth

After several years she confessed to a certain man without knowing he was recording it that was were the truth leaked

The fact that she got away with it is the saddest part.

MJBOLT:

i believe she was sued to court but nothing really serious happened

That is so sad!!!

Toks2008:
How many i wan begin narrate?

This is why guys don't want to risk bringing any lady over cos of stories that will definitely touch.

Many guys have killed their wives cos of this madness. See make we just leave the matter as e be.

I even have a childhood friend that we went to Uni together... He has cried tire.

Damn.

Mitsurugi:
Bros you sure? You know see say I say 'e get as she be'

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Na joke I dey o biko...

JovialJune:
No correlation whatsoever.

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K

MJBOLT:

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So what happened to the accuser?

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

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All these vitriol from a supposed Ziondaughter?.

Chai...hypocrisy is human sha

Cocao:
Your post reeks of assumptions. Yes, I know what the word means, and yes, I mean it as it is.
Your marriage may be the one where domination is important, it does not have to be like that.

Before you speak of other nations, maybe be familiar with their statistics. That you don't hear about them does not mean it is not prevalent. You are obviously a product of search engine and social media algorithms. This link gives a brief insight to domestic violence in other immigrant communities.

http://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/userfiles/file/Children_and_Families/Immigrant.pdf

That you even try to justify what annihilation means tells me all I need to know about your mindset on this issue.

This is my last reply. Have a nice day

Martinez39s:
Is this not what I have been saying since? If you like don't swallow the red pill. One of the worst mistakes an African man can make is to get married abroad or bring his wife abroad to stay permanently. Western societies and their laws are gynocentric. The marital laws put all the power and authority in the wife's hand and gives her the room to misbehave, abuse, control and coerce her husband with impunity. The husband can't leave the marriage easily or he risk losing his house, properties, and his children. Divorce over there is simply mental rape to a man. Even worse, he can face deportation. Women are cruel, emotional and sadistic beasts when they have power and leverage over you.

A word is enough for the wise.

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You should see the weak ass arguments these females have been bringing on this issue. E weak me no be small. I just couldn't deal with the lack of rational and logical thoughts

OchoL:
She's lying.

JovialJune is a recent graduate from Covenant uni. She only said that to add credibility to her useless post.

And I can bet my two big balls on it that her father trained her in that school.

She won't ever dare look at his face and call him misogynistic na...

Cocao:
It is possible I used a strong term. Slavery here does not literally mean slavery...a better suited word will be domination, maybe annihilation?

It is one thing to make decisions, it is another to be inclusive and considerate in the decision making process.

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Did you just say annihilation?
Do you know.what that means or you just throwing words around?
No self respecting husband wants to ANNIHILATE his wife. It makes no sense. Dominance in marriage is normal. Someone has to be in charge. ..
The major issue is that these men wants a Nigerian culture in a modern american society but the women never consider that. Asians and Indians all do. Thats why they had no issues with their marriages. .

How can your husband bring you over and treats you like his wife and all of a sudden you throw off the African culture he married you with and you claim he is dominating you? When he paid brideprice and married you and paid for your visa and even some trained their wives abroad, you never thought he was dominating you na.

Its simple, y'all women want to eat ya cake and have it.

Nuyokoi:
some of us didn't get here via any man sponsoring us tho, so pls know the difference.

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Yinmu

Mitsurugi:
That's why there are a lot of women rearing kids in Nigeria for their husbands abroad. Guys have wisened up. A girl close to me has been going for endless vigils so her husband can bring her and her two kids over to Switzerland. For where? He comes back every two years impregnates her and jets off again. The funny thing is I took time to observe the girl here and her behavior 'get as e be'

Really?.

Oya gimme her number. She must be so lonely

Cocao:
What you just typed has no relationship with what she said. Let me help you. Once you decide to take your wife abroad, you have to leave behind all traces of domineering attitude as the society there frowns on it. What usually causes friction is that Nigerian men think it is going to be business as sual even abroad. They expect the women to remain as the slaves they were in Nigeria which is not possible in a land of opportunity. It threatens them that their women are now free to hustle and make their own choices. So, maybe begin to see your wife as an equal partner and record less frictions.

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I dont get the slavery part. I havent seen one. What I have seen is a man taking decisions as the head of his family. If he takes his wife abroad to give her a better life should she make his life miserable by acting as the head? Why not divorce him and pay him back his financial investments? No,they won't. They would rather lie and call the police and act as victims,so he loses his properties to her and gets deported.


If you are such a man, won't you kill that devilish wife? I know you would and even barbeque his balls too

Toks2008:
No be small thing be wettin ladies dey take their men eyes see o.

Hmmmmm! I don see enough no be the one wey dem tell me.

It is well.

Share experience jare....na wetin I wan read be that.

OchoL:
You have sons indeed

Please train them to worship the female gender very well o. Train them to be totally subservient to women. They will benefit greatly from doing so

Cheers.

Why are you replying that geh na?

She is some bittered ass feminazi wannabe who goes off tangent at every topic...


Did she say she has kids? Lmaoooo, what a clown!!!!........

Give her a nice fat K instead