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itsRhamzy:
lol. The guy still dey love the chick I guess..

This here below is how you ghost a bitçh completely. I made sure I didn't chat her or pick her numerous calls after a minor misunderstanding sprung up post-breakup. Instead I passed message to her through her close friend. Make her understand that she Isn't shiit afterall.

Didn't here Any noise afterwards. Don't ever let a bitçh that has just pussy to offer you make herself feel too bigger than you. Ruthlessly Drop her off her high horse.

You even tried... Once I make up my mind,I ignore her texts,chats or whatever. A week after,I.start forgetting her surname, two weeks to a month, I have forgotten her face and what her breasts are like. A month after, she is as good as dead.
I never tolerate disrespect and entitlement from anyone.

AuntRose:
We are Strong...
We are courageous...
They mistake our emotions for weakness...
They talk down on us because of our gender...
We won't relent till we proof we are stronger...
I am the stitch holding the world in one piece...
I AM A WOMAN AND I AM STRONG.

Nice one Fellow. We Are Who We Are!

What's doing this one?

Did you contribute to her purse or what? All these wannabe feminist shouting upandan sha

Just FEM there or I go deal with you

DharmieDhrey:
She was into me but things have changed. I keep my distance even when things are going well. These days, she tells me how she misses me. She only misses how I make her feel not my personality. I don't seem to trust her, she maybe lovebombing me. Ghosting her completely would leave emotional scars on her but my sanity matters. I want to know other steps I can take.

Lol...you are not ready for change I guess. Emotional scars on her dey bother you? Such a nice guy,you are.

foreman:
How I wish the child or no-child arguments got close to a conclusion. Children are the only reason I am still in my marriage. I keep wondering whether it's really worth it.

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How do you mean?..

You can be with your children without marriage na...or you prefer to.die in unhappiness?

DharmieDhrey:
I'm an introvert and was blue-pilled. But I came across the redpill and it has greatly changed my stance concerning women. I've been MGTOW right from time, before coming across the term. I know a female friend who showed interest in me, I reciprocated. We communicated a lot during the lockdown period, I ensured there was moderation and ensured she misses me. I bounced her calls most times and she complained about it. This isn't manipulation, just one of the ways to avoid 'see finish'. Our convos were mostly intellectual, I flirted subtly and she did the same. It was all good while it lasted.

All of a sudden, she changed abruptly. I knew it had nothing to with me. If I sent a text, I knew she wouldn't reply that day,she became monstrous. She treated my texts with indifference and lack of enthusiasm.She continued this for weeks, each time I called her out, she quickly apologizes. I already knew a new guy was in the picture( I was manipulated, I placed her on a pedestal, I was the typical Mr nice guy who would oblige to her demands in no time), she felt I wouldn't leave her. There was a time I sent a text, she snubbed it and waited for 6 days to see if I would send another one(the 6th day fell on her birthday), I sent her a birthday text and fell for that shit test. I started losing my masculinity.

We started communicating the way we used to, I felt so good. She started withdrawing, I had come across the redpill. I treated her like she didn't matter. I remember vividly when we first became friends, she complained a lot about losing friends mostly females, I acted like a super hero and paid dearly for it. She messaged me recently and complained that she has been deserted by her friends, I only empathized with her. She thought I would come to her rescue.

She has a lot of male friends, mostly simps which she keeps for emotional validation(she is overly flirty over texts which is worrisome). I gave her enough space, she started becoming flirty all in a bid to revive my interest in her.

My point is, I'm still attached to her but she thinks I've lost it all for her. I don't feel good when she posts pictures of her male crushes( These are guys with high SMVs). I don't like this feeling, I'm very confused at this stage. She can't manipulate me any longer as I'm aware of females' whims and caprices. I don't want to ghost her, we still talk a lot, I have tried to stop feeling anything for her but each time I see, it's another story entirely. I want to be devoid of feelings for her. Although we're good, she initiates the conversations most times that I feel she is going out of her way. I'm still skeptical of the way she treated me. Females are known to hypergamous, I trust my instincts and feel she would do it again. She is attached to me and claims I'm a pivotal piece in her life. It's obvious but I don't want to be hurt. I don't want to good friends with a female, I know it's very difficult especially someone you are attracted to. Fellow redpillers, share your views.

You are a bunch of contradictions bro. Your writeup already gave me an insight into your psyche. .

My advice:
She is not into you. There is nothing so special that she cant get somewhere else. But she loves having you on a leash. It gives her emotional validation. Just leave her alone. Ghost her even. Be completely unavailable. If I am wrong, she would find you herself. But I'm rarely wrong. That girl is twisting you up emotionally and if you dont stop the connection, you will suffer for it.

Kaidou:
Hi

Please can I have that video file....?

I really need to know this to know where my fate lies cuz a lot of things are happening to me lately.

Thanks

And why dafuq would I give you? I DONT know who you are and I'm supposed to give you that kinda stuff?

If you need some spiritual help, try a church hommie.

Korllami007:
How much did she spend on the kid? And what sacrifice has she made on the illegitimate kid?

Nice point...

Sixfeetbelle:
I'm just helping the normal chant for male on this forum to reach all nations.

"fear women" is the usual chant in a case about a woman committing a crime, but it changes to "let's hear from both parties" in a case about a man committing the exact same crime.


Should I chant more or is this enough?

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Wetin concern me with ya chanting or incantations? Is dinner ready? Zaddy is hungry

Sixfeetbelle:
She could still cheat/have cheated on you at some point. Go and do a DNA test on that kid asap.

Fear women! Even virginity can't vouch for them

Lol...so it means I should fear you too honey?

Loo...this general sha

Skepticus:
Shakespeare's true intentions about love are very unclear because despite his literary works promoting ideal love, certain letters he wrote and other personal effects examined after his death, showed that he might be skeptical of romantic love ideals. As a matter of fact, it was later discovered that the literary work, Romeo and Juliet were a mocking satire to show the stupidity and senseless of ideal romantic love.

Certain elements of the philosophies that trailed the age of enlightenment with some Christian influences elevated monogamy but I doubt if any of these, propagated the soul-mate myth. You also know that Christianity and Asian religions like Hinduism and Buddhism have teachings that align with the red/black pill.

The "frontier" background of Islam, the surrounding pre-islamic culture at the time may have encouraged and favoured polygamy over time. To reduce further problems for men, they instituted a religious-based society that greatly limited the dangerous sides of human hypergamy. Some even tipping into misogyny.

Nice points

MyOpinion1:
If they don't want us to contribute, they shouldn't have made it public.
Social media is not for non living things.

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This is no longer contributing sis,you almost burst an artery over that matter

COOL10:
Meghan obviously tried to drown him for the fame. Their friendship meant nothing to her. He however claims she's being used as a puppet by the big wigs in the industry who have a bone to pick with him, because of his recently reclaimed independence. Even YouTube refused to push his content despite the millions of views.

He's such a talented guy and I got great respect for him. He's one of the few musicians who can actually sing and rap so effortlessly.

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I agree on the conspiracy theory... .

I also agree that he is talented

Oluwaseun2020:
desire there means want.... which means your want will come from your husband. .nomatter how well established she is ...and yea..they are almagris...you know that northern thing. ..

icardi best friend wife left her husband for him..and took three kids with her...because he wont buy her latest phone....check up the story...thats why marriages crash mostly when they find out the guy cant match up they japa...

but at redemption she will be free from that spirit of dependency. .because God promised to release his spirit on both woman and men in the last days..
act 2:17

but like begeth like...so if you are not safe.how will your wife be safe. ..

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I still dont agree with you biko.
I didn't come into this world to serve a woman as her ATM. If you like such, goof for you

A305:
No one will ever know what Don Jazzy sees in her to be crushing on her that much, same way, we can never explain why our peers/friends will be crushing on a girl we find not so good looking.

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You are very right bro. I guess individuality is the reason

@martinez39

Quite apt!!!

COOL10:
Gus,stop whatever you're doing and go to Tory Lanez's YouTube channel. He literally wrote a whole album addressing the Meghan situation.

I recommend three songs for you to listen to. The raw emotions poured out in these particular songs tell everything, so much so, even women started supporting him and called Meghan a liar.
Mainstream media have been trying so hard to silence him but appear to be failing.

These are the songs:
1) Jokes on me(watch this video to the end)
2) A Woman
3) Friends become strangers

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Been following the Tory lanez vs Meghan story for sometime now. I watched the jokes on me video on YouTube. Shiit is dope ad FUQ.
Mainstream media really did try to silence him but YouTube and his fans are his saving graces.
The Meghan story just didn't add up at all.

Dude has a unique flow and his lyrics are way so lit. I hope he gets through this.

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Lol..na to use 1k board ibadan bus for ojota...remaining 5k to cook better soup when I reach agbowo na.

Who first class rail tickets help?

Oluwaseun2020:
bro its the command of God...
Genesis 3:16
“Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
King James Version (KJV)

So thats why a girls with a car and iPhone 12 will still look for a guy to give her two k to fuel the car or buy data..
they see it as power of a woman but its actually the command of God
so if you refuse to give her..dont be offended if your friends give her at your back while giving them her cookies in return.

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I dont get how that Bible verse asked us to pay women for being with us. It states that women should desire their husbands na....

So you think all women are perpetually bambialas?

Sanchez01:
I actually didn't back then because I believe she couldn't have been that reckless. Alas, I was wrong. I knew when Tope Alabi recorded most soundtracks of Yoruba movies back then and featured in some. Her 'ìṣàn méjì tí cut' album (sic) still lives rent free in my head to date; how she attacked females who use make up, chains, trousers/denims, etc. One wouldn't have thought she had done some shameful social standing business to boost her social profile before doing that album.

What's worse was her extolling Ajanaku shamelessly and claiming she would have been nowhere had it not been for the god of Ajanaku. I recall the interview she had where she claimed she never slept with Ajanaku, that she only went there for ministrations and had to leave when the spirit of God told her to. Lies! Yet, the spirit of God never warned her when she was recording that particular song.

She confidently wears trousers, chains, hairs and make ups now when ministering and it doesn't surprise me in the least of ways. Most Nigerian Gospel artists only put up their best at the earliest years of their careers when hunger ravages them. Their true form comes out when they start getting booked repeatedly. Tope Alabi is only a businesswoman.

All these talks on a woman? You waste ya time bro

Oluwaseun2020:
if you want to date any girl...make sure she truly know jesus and is not materialist. ..and is content with just not what she has but whatever you give her....

Must you give her?

Its mindset like that which Gave rise to their entitled mentality. Why can't a a single geh or gf be treated as a working, functioning human being,rather than a sponsorship. Let her do her stuffs by herself and if she has not enough, you can try and help her out...not giving her like allowance and all that shiit. They have two hands like you and have the.same brain plus 24 hours of a day. They should work for themselves. .

All these URGENT 2K dey annoy me aswearugod. How can you meet a woman and in less than 24 hours, her data finished,her hair is due, her nails need polishing, her balance is red, she lost a tooth, she needs a phone and above all, she has absolutely nothing to contribute to her own financial backbone,in terms of skills or exposure. Nawa o

The girls ain't bad. Just no big ASS there

dominique:
I know that group illa otu or something like that. It was the admin that suggested all men should carry out paternity test and a lot of female members attacked his post, one even went to his inbox to issue death threats. The group has been shut down now.

I've supported the motion on a popular Facebook group that all men must carry out paternity tests on all their kids without their wives' knowledge and a number of women rushed into my comment section asking why a woman is making a comment like this. I asked them if they would want their sons to raise another man's child or children, na so they gentle.

With the level of depravity going on in the world today, next generation won't be any better. God sparing our lives, my sons must carry out DNA test on all "their" children no matter how holy their wives appear to be.

Dominique

Lawliet:
When they say ''Love with your head and not your heart'', they will not listen.

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Who won't listen, you little cat?


I go find you come Benin now,treat ya fuq up.

Zzor:
Crying, I cannot withhold my tears, life is sometimes unfair to good people

Shatap dia.. As if you aren't happy about the situation. Always supporting rubbish

MyOpinion1:
That is what they always resort to saying that the woman denied them from seeing there children.

Did you approach any court of competent jurisdiction when she was denial you from seeing your baby.

Did you show up at the baby school to pay for school fees of your daughter and she said no?

Did you meet up with her family members claiming responsibility for your daughter and she denied.

Did you call her out on this same social media when the girl was still in secondary school?

Bunch of useless and irresponsible family

Lmaoooo...this one wan cry on top another family matter......
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Hope you have eaten today?

Oh boy

Now this is talent

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I get your point. Shakespeare made 'love' a populist term and the one man-one woman theory got huge followership from xtianity. The opposite was Islam.

Skepticus:
If you read stories and conversation from those who lived before the imperialist influence in most part of Africa and some other part of the world, you'll barely find the theme of that "special woman" in romance. Of course, these men of the past, sometimes, would simp for women that they found attractive, even go to wars for them and all, but the silly idea that one woman has it all for a man, was almost considered abnormal.

Every woman knew her role in the family, and had to put her hypergamy in limitation, so as not to put her and her maiden family to disrepute.

No one is going back to that past now. Monogamy is perfectly okay for me as long as the soul mate myth is not being glorified.

Bank

Mammy market

Amotekun corps

Yamiriflathead:
There's no smoke without fire indeed.
When duncan mighty started ranting few days back, I could sense something was amiss.
But Alas men and women alike where beginning to crucify him for daring to call out his wife on social media.
I hope they can all eat their words now.. especially those male feminists, simps and whiteknights.
To those of you who still believe in unicorns, Nawalts, commitment and marriage I urge you to continue, we go read your own story one day for Nairaland frontpage.

Martinez39s ubunja zabiboy Mrpaedo baiaon

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The MGTOW rules are lit .

Ten commandments stuff

iamJ:
he said that she slept with 2 men to kill him, that particular gist is very common especially among south south men, its their goto claim when the marriage is no longer sweeting them.

Lol...ok