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21cents:
Thing is: you need to start seeing yourself as the prize. her window of shakara is within 18-25. las las her shakara go end by 28. while your own shakara as a man starts towards 30 till about 50 or so because that window is when things mostly falls in place for you and you can handpick from the young girls around. by then you start seeing the lady as evening newspaper.

if you're really busy improving yourself as a man, you wouldn't have time for someone that's treating you like an option whereby she doesn't respond messages fast or call you.

Authority: See yourself as the prize. women's hypergamic nature makes things hard for an unestablished young man. because of that, focus on yourself. focus!

I concur

dunmorris:
Hello Redpillers, it is already one month now that a lady agreed to be my gf, ever since then i have been the one calling - Which i later stopped, sometimes she doesn't blue tick my messages, I told the person that refer me to her, that I don't like the way she behaved, i was told that I should be patient with her - that's how they will start turning someone to simp, in which I won't waste time to give her distance.

But deep inside I don't mind dumping her and moving on to get another serious person.

A month is too damn long to tolerate rubbish from that geh...........

You need to move on. The so-called referee must have misjudged her. Dont call,text or WHATEVER. Move on.

ExAngel007:
no one asked for your opinion dear.

Then why the title of the thread if you dont want opinion?

lefulefu:
acting favours ladies more than guys in naija.Dont really think looks would help except if he wants to be a gigolo.He's good looking enough if he wants to be a gigolo.But if he doesnt want to go that line then na just to have another hustle and career.Look at Kanayo for example.He"s an actor but he still went back to school to study law and become a barrister..just as Desmond Eliot who is now a politician.These days u dont just depend on one hustle.Have more than one hustle in case one fails u can fall on another.

Good point bro

Hypergamy stunt..

You get gateman,driver, vulvcanizer and even regular street guys, you no love them, na wizkid you come love...

Nawa ooooo

stieyven:
That photo accompanying your post wasn't necessary. Do not make people stumble by your actions or inactions.
Remember that you shall be judged by every idle word you speak. Matthew 12 :36
You'll do well to receive Jesus into your life. Tomorrow may be too late. John 3 :16

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DAFUQ bro? ..
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I just showed you a pictorial representation of the word "ASSLICKER"

generationz:
What are you wondering about? Is it not your fellow men helping the females ministry?


Why are men wicked to their fellow men?


Most of the men who cry out about the inequality will behave the same way when they lay hands on the kinda political appointment, office, or money these money bags have for to throw around for women to lap up like dogs and the circle will continue.

Well,you do have a point.. But some of us are different. I belong to a circle of people who believe in lifting their male friends up. .........

If you dont believe me, gimme one appointment and see the ladies wail of my stinginess

Lol...ok o

marsup:
yes they are. They are working hard........very hard.

NegroAcheiver:
Is he not handsome?

I said super handsome naaaaa

babatunji36117:
This woman na baby factory? She gives birth virtually every year.

Is she ur wife?
Wetin concern you na

sweet7oyin:
So far a man loves he will make the woman bigger than himself

Thats why even in marriage
The man gives his money
The woman keeps hers

Immediately you start showing and loving her as she wants.


She just start seeing u as a burden

I dont even think its their fault
Thats how they are made

Then you make the rules of the game. Whatever so-called love you feel, show her you are still in charge.

Tickles001:
Only if men will hear.
Girls will suck up to you when they're nothing, you will pause your self development to push them up the ladder. Once they're up, you'll become chaff to them. And they'll make you feel sorry for yourself.

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Lol...true words.

peacekante:
Who remember this old classic movie OLEKU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEedpFO-XEw

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I'm gonna go download this MUDAFVCKING classic. Been a while

tunde82seidat:
The woman is very pretty even without make up

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What's doing this one?

Nmezor:
Onome

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Olodo

JasperVII:
Some people dey mumu sha

Now this had me laughing like a fuqin loon.

Not only cuz it was funny but i actually can relate to how women want their way at all costs. Its up to you to be in control

The dude even did all that for an ex

Liposure:
lol. You no de shame. At your age you still de tif meat from pot

Na your son be that na

Openbusiness:
The Kanuri people had better woken up. This Boko Haram thing is starting to look like a systematic way to wipe out the Kanuris through the back door and make it look like coincidental victims of insurgency. Maybe it is because of Kanuri women are the most beautiful Northerners, I just don't understand. Boko Haram should leave Kanuri land and go to Sokoto, Katsina or Northern Kaduna. Enough is enough for all this rubbish! They should stop killing Kanuris.

Are you kidding me bro? Even katsina and buhari's village was attacked. The whole north dey feel the bite and crunch o

21cents:
lol. I suffer my exes thru that shiit and I can tell it always hurts them especially when you let her know she ain't shiit afterall.

broke up with babe and at that same hour, next thing she did was to start posting jabs videos at me indirectly on her status. deleted the bitch's number and unfriended her from facebook.

messaged her friend on WhatsApp to help pass her a message. I asked for my refund of 10k I lent her 2 weeks prior. long story short I got my money after a month.

I hate it when bitches, especially the lazy broke ones let their physical attributes get way over heads when dealing with me.

I saved her contact after 3 weeks to see if she still got my number and guess who popped up on status updates?? I then deleted the number forever.

I no dey allow girl use me catch cruise cos na see finish. at the first sign I noticed she's deviating from me, I dump them at the gutter next to me.

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Lol...correct guy

Joker09:
Same here, I don't check these kind of females u described whatsapp statuses at all!
One I was seeing some time ago got frustrated when I didn't check her status and she had to call me that I should check her current status, that she posted it because of me, I bluntly told her that 'sorry I don't check ppl's statuses'. I already knew their games, manipulations and shit tests. I refused to check it and she humbly crawled back to where she came from

Good of you.
If she can't talk to you directly,then its a shit test for control.

Pearly255:

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What? Answer my questions na

Ademoore07:
Your second statement though. We still meet, took bathe in the bathroom together. So what elso do u wanna know?

I have said my own bro. Figure the rest our yourself

Ademoore07:
You are the funny dude here. You think all ladies are the same. I met a young virgin lady in 2013 precisely at unical while i was observing my postgraduate studies there. She will be observing her final exams once ASUU strike had been called off. Though, i proposed to her 3 years ago. She's currently 26 and still a virgin. She gave me one strict condition that no sex until we both married. She mean her word.

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Am I that funny? Sorry oh......

1. You met her in school,not before she entered and if she is the strictly religious type and knows you are serious, she could stay. Ladies like her are few.
2. She is still a virgin? How dafuq did you know that? You checked yourself or believed her
words? She could be...but be very sure....

One love

What exactly do you want from us bro? ..


You had everything figured out na

Goldensword:
shit testing ain't a child play, only men with strong frame pass that shit, earlier this year one of my main girl confronted me with that insecurity test, she posted on her statue all those long nonsense of what a real man should be to his girl, which is exact opposite of what I'm to her, so i replied is that the type of man you want, her reply, yes nah not a proud and arrogant type, i told her well i can't change into what women say they want which in reality they need exact opposite, she called me all sort of derogatory names, even posted a picture of a guy showering praises on him as her boyfriend, i just ignored her and cut communication till last month, you guys need to see how loyal she is now, i invited her last week Sunday to check if she has been touched, to my surprise she is still a virgin after spending years in higher institution, i deliberately left her untouched when i found out she's a virgin and about gaining admission, so as to check her excesses why in school, that was when a realized babe was shit testing me, the more a woman love you, the harder her shit testing of your masculinity, if by chance you manage to scale through, you will have a loyal bae by your side, she will be through with school next year and my welcome party for her is to pump her with gallon load of cums, baby mama loading on her head.

The key is to never play her game.
Once I see the girl is one of those "sudden relationship experts" on WhatsApp and she posts her emotions all the time, I put her in the mute status category. I never check such statuses. Once she discovers I no just dey read or send her status, her brain go reformat..

Waiting for her to finish so you can deflower her is noble of you but not advisable to me.

Pearly255:
Absolutely true

We don ready for husband
We’ll do anything to make it work
Buh not desperate tho

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Show me your picture... You get yansh? ..
Hope you sabi cook delicious soups too?

Guy why na ..


Why calling me to read all these annoying traits na....

Ok...continue and marry her. .thats my advice.

jrusky:
Sorry is that the reason you used the words "you fuq!!!" Simply for airing my view

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Oh...I didn't mean to insult you bro. Dont take it as such.

One love

Arrewa:
Naija men... We too get issue!!

You caught your girlfriend on bed with another man.

Is she your wife? No.

Did you pay her bride prize? Mba.

Then you move to the next available pussy and stop being a fool.

That's why I love my Fulani girls.

They hardly cheat! I mean it.

They will rather break up with you than cheat.

Not that we no dey chop life here.

But we no dey too caste and over do things.

That's why we still have large number of virgins here.

If you caught your girlfriend cheating! Break up with her or just bone and continue enjoying free pussy.

Make una dey use una head. No go kill Person pikin and rot in jail all because of kpekus way u no fit dig finish!

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Arrewa clown..
Fulani virgins kee u dia

jrusky:
But it took the man too long nah. I see this situation like a man in pain for seen Tope and her family doing great and a man who want to collect bride cash or bride gifts because I hate using the word bride price.

Sir you no do well at all. This young lady can not flow well with you again the gap is too extreme.

He is Yoruba you fuq!!! ................................

Bride price is nothing to them cuz they dont sell their daughters.