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Miggs:
Lol! The bolded parts perfectly describes what happened on the Ashawo Beer Parlour thread until I stopped visiting it late last year.What broke the camel's back for me was when some guy sent 30k to a female monicker because she posts comments on the thread and other guys started hailing him

Truvel:
Do U See Charly Boy As A Normal Person? Someone Who Puts Earrings On D Nose, Eyes, Navel & D Other Parts Of D Body..

cynthia500:
yes naa baby

cynthia500:
back to the topic,
if you can find a good woman please try as much as possible never to let her go

blazepascal:
your daughter is a lesbian and you are happy with that. charly boy your days are numbered.

StacyO:

StacyO:
What's the meaning?

OKOATA:
Ghosted one recently, we met before the corona period and I think a few weeks after then she travelled to Dubai to hustle, this lady would tell me repeatedly almost everyday to send her money, I told her point blank I don't have. I post photos of me going to the gym, swimming and flexing, pains the shit outta her. Ok here comes the part she sent some money into my account and told me to help her send it to some family, the remaining money about 1k there about she now dashed me. So after then she was to come to Nigeria she needed some doe to complete her flight money. She begged me so I remembered when she dashed me 1k to buy card on my phone so I sent her 40k that day. She came back to Naija that's how this one start won de bill me. So because I helped you out with 40k I have now turn to a nice guy. Fine the sex was cool and amazing, fresh body but never take me for a fool. Why will you tell me to give you some money to make your hair? Why would you ask me to give you money for your card? Why will you tell me that in a relationship a man must do 90percent and a lady should do 10 percent in finances? You must be mad.

sukhothai:
Blocking her is very rude... Women hate that..

You could have used another route to end the relationship

chinjo:
Lie from the pit of hell. If you are serious about it, let the president, the governors and national assembly members change all their fleet to Innoson or GAC then we will know that you are serious. The other time, members of the national assembly rejected Innoson vehicles and went for Toyota products without Osinbajo condemning the act. Even osinbajo is using Mercedes product as his official vehicle. So oga pastor, who are you trying to deceive?

Sixfeetbelle:


Mtchewww!

Where were you when I was looking for love that you now want me to be present when you're looking for engagement?

You will wait tire

pansophist:
Oneitis test- Abruptly disengaged from communications and assumed disinterest, to see if he'll chase her, apologise, or act in anyway needy, to determine if he suffers from oneitis. If you persist in your chase for whatever reason, you fail.

Preselection test- Asking you how many women you've slept with, when last you did it, and similar questions to determine if other women finds you attractive to be with. Best response is "no response", but to just play around without giving any definitive answer.

Esteem test- Playfully insulting you to see if you'll accept it. Best way is not to accept it. Tell her you do not find that respectable and that it speaks low of her.

Insecurity test - showing you messages of other guys chasing her to see if you'll act insecure and/or protective. Best answer is to make it clear by your actions (non verbally) that she is free to leave, and that she is replaceable.

This is what I can remember for now.

As a generally rule, a shit test are actions/questions that has ulterior motives, implies presuppositions, aimed at revealing facts that solidifies your frame, or weakens it. Its a search for your weak spot and often unconscious. Women don't even know when they do it. As a rule, the best answer is no answer. You can only loose if you play. So don't play.

pansophist:
Oneitis test- Abruptly disengaged from communications and assumed disinterest, to see if he'll chase her, apologise, or act in anyway needy, to determine if he suffers from oneitis. If you persist in your chase for whatever reason, you fail.

Preselection test- Asking you how many women you've slept with, when last you did it, and similar questions to determine if other women finds you attractive to be with. Best response is "no response", but to just play around without giving any definitive answer.

Esteem test- Playfully insulting you to see if you'll accept it. Best way is not to accept it. Tell her you do not find that respectable and that it speaks low of her.

Insecurity test - showing you messages of other guys chasing her to see if you'll act insecure and/or protective. Best answer is to make it clear by your actions (non verbally) that she is free to leave, and that she is replaceable.

This is what I can remember for now.

As a generally rule, a shit test are actions/questions that has ulterior motives, implies presuppositions, aimed at revealing facts that solidifies your frame, or weakens it. Its a search for your weak spot and often unconscious. Women don't even know when they do it. As a rule, the best answer is no answer. You can only loose if you play. So don't play.

StacyO:
Lol
Funny

I guess she's not alone then,though I'm not that holy than thou type,I really do hate it when men invite me to a hotel,popular restruant or what have you for a date.
Strolling or making use of a not too popular place will be much appreciated.



In her case,

1) She might be an introvert,
(I remember when I went swimming at a popular cool spot then,came out and all I could hear was okpor okpor from those around. Didn't actually know the meaning. More like an embarrassing day of my life).
She might just be the shy type and definitely wouldn't want to be seen by familiar eyes or mingle with the crowd.



2)She is a popular aunty there. honestly, she might be well known around that area. Probably trying to not display herself to the other guys she have chopped on a chopping board.



3) She thinks you are after something else entirely. Why invite me to a rowdy place on a first date??
Doesn't make sense



4) She doesn't like the place.
Come on,kill the pride and give her that benefit of doubt.
Not everyone has the same taste or choice as you. It's your money fine,actually makes me think you might be way too controlling and proud.



All ain't the same, try to see others from their own point of view. I personally, won't mind taken a glass of water so long you take me to a place I'm overtly comfortable.


If you think she's hiding some other things,there's absolutely no harm in asking.

You think she's into you.
Why not ask her why she's afraid to come to the so called popular bar?

An elder who knows what to do,won't go about seeking advice from people that will give him/her same opinion.

Mcslize:
If she likes you don't just bother taking her out. Just invite her straight to your grib. She will definitely come.

Once a girl likes you, it makes things easy. You won't do much.

gunners160:
To be Frank with you, you are over reacting . And all those yeye advice "like let her be" she has a skeleton in her cupboard etc are what I call children advice. Wait, if she has a bf, is it a crime? Do you expect a grown up lady not to have a bf b4? Habi who goes to. buy clothes in d market naked? Date is an avenue were two adults get to know each other and if you Carr about her, get to knw her beta and ask questions. The answers to those questions is what will decide if she is worth it is not. Tell her you are disappointed in what she did but she should choose the next venue. Shallom

westlius:
My dear no worry, she go beg u for lift very soon
Then u give her a lift take her to a far location then tell her ur fuel has finish.

MJBOLT:

no let woman use you catch cruise, if she doesn't want to date you,cut her off.

mariahAngel:
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Stop lying!

tammie24:
I hope all is well with you

COOL10:
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Bro, I for like tell the story as e be but there's no way I would do that without revealing certain things about myself,and this is an anonymous forum. That's why I tried making my points as direct and concise as possible but one thing I'll say is this :
Women no be am, my brother,they no be am at all.

tammie24:
you go girl!

That guy wanted a situation where he would be in total control of the relationship (you would be dying for him while he enjoys a relationship with another girl even rub it in your face) but you gave him a shocker

Correct babe!

COOL10:
Something happened today that just reaffirmed my beliefs. I wouldn't want to go into the details but please remember this.

Your interests as a man will always remain inferior to the female disposition. I don't care what you think or say. Women are incapable of love. It's purely self interest. Your wife doesn't love you, your girlfriend doesn't love you, even your mother will place your sisters above you when it suits the female disposition. They CANNOT love you. It's impossible. Let that ring in. They are more animalistic than the world would have you believe. It's all about survival and greed, to them. Do with this information as you please.

I keep forgetting these things because I am not one to hold grudges but I am thankful for the constant reminders.

Degrezhaa:

This guy... i know say u no go church

Kingluqman:
My brother, e go just waste the food because e go still wan die oo. Na to cross over fit am. Instead of him to hustle, e Dey reason sey e wan die. I old pass Davido naw, shey I get money reach am ni? But las las I go dey alright.




Let’s keep our heads up high and always give thanks to God

midehi2: