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edwife:
Do you have everything you need for your baby? I think it might be a matter of management.
Do you work?

No i dont but its in view for january,its not ma ,u know those times that u are just broke?this is one of them as i dont have a job to support him yet.been searching for a govt/federal job in lagos since 2012,i sow too but its been slow cos its indoors,tried to get a shop few months ago in surulere,dint get a good one till it was too late cos of my state,id be wasting a lot of months if i rent when il soon be due for maternity,so its just circumstances ma!

[quote author=jaybee3 post=41271387]Any specific thing you want to use the money for?
a lot sir that its hard to be specific!

edwife:
Please sorry if this might sound odd but what is your husband doing? Working or not?

I read you are expecting,have you put to bed? Your answer will be greatly appreciated.

No its not odd ma'am,we actually live averagely and he works too but things are just hard ds past month as we did a project that took way MORE above plans/means
and Not yet,iv nt put to bed.

I wish for a cash miracle as i only have 700 naira to my name and its 2days to Chrism

raumdeuter:
The bold is what you should be telling the OP she can go salsa and samba dancing learn new things go and mix Live her own life not just waiting for the husband to come home and entertain her.

Your wife(if married)don enter one chance oga.your posts is so self centered,haba,pls dont let me call you SELFISH oo,what kind of home will be built if oga comes back home,eats and hangs out with friends then the woman looks for her happiness elsewhere too all because they both want to keep thier hobbies?i doubt that you married.If he was studying for professionals/something that adds to his values....ehn ehnn!

Thank you Lord for ordering my footsteps to a kingdom man,hmmmm ladies are going through oooo!

AtheistD:
Did you read the blog? There is a lot more to it than age of consent. Besides age of consent is there for a reason. Also even if 13 year olds want to have intimate relations it does not make it acceptable or legal.

I never said it was acceptable,i mean she knew what she was doing and didnt think it was bad until d guy broke up with her

Abeg Abeg Abeg!!!i DONOT pity the lady at all,it is only RAPE in the eyes of the law,do the law makers keep it?having sex with a minor occurs more abroad than here too,they grow up so fast over there its scary,gather 12-17 year olds in america and see how many sexual partners theyv had,would you blame those guys too?im just few months older than this sugarbelly and at 17,id stil tell you am not ready for sex so i wont date you.i had a 25yr old seriously trying to hook me down then,sneaking to see my mum and all that cos he wanted to marry me as soon as i graduate.na my S.U mumsy tell me to get to know him but 2 insist on NO SEX so dt i wnt chase a good guy away incase(hed been stylishly askin me out since second school but waited til i was in 100l)i knew he was a play boy and i never went anywhere with him excpet public places,i chased him away after few months at 18.this girl is WILD and brought it upon hersef abeg,i wont even blame it on mental whatever because even a mentally sick woman walkin naked on the streets would break a glass on your head if she doesnt want you to do her.
im sorry about the scary stories of rape i hear all the time and i pray for my daughter evryday but this aunty na omo-ita and KNEW what she was doing all through the time.
the guy living such life at that time might have raped 1/2 ladies o but this sugar belly girl......nah.its just time for his past to slap him in the face,i tell people that its better to live a good life cos no matter how old u are,the sins of the past will crawl back,he sure was RECKLESS and i pity his wife too!

It all depends on you,do u think you can survive on your salary?can u keep enduring his hurtful words?what about your self esteem that every sentence is affecting?pray for a way sis,God will guide you!

Blanc8:
Ever heard a picture says a million words?

Or

The way you dress is how you are addressed.

Bros whats the noise about her dressing?she looked decent in all these pixs abeg,i dont see her boobs hanging anywhere and thighs left uncovered too!
Op iv a guy missing sinz march 2013 and they tell us hes still alive,please pray harder and keep the faith!

Op i know what it may feel like but id like you to know that everyone has a habit in d toilet that is offensive to the person they share with.please learn to clean up after your hubby and correct him jokingly all the time too,take your mind off it and you wont know when it will stop,dnt let it ruin ir home ma'am,if you handle it with patience,it will go away!

Chei,i envy everyone that has cravings oo,i dont even like any food,my mouth tastes bad and i wish i knew what to do to reduce it,am jist 7weeks gone and its my 3rd preggies!

Was 6months preggies and woke up to abdominal pain,hubby and i thought its nothing much but to go see the Dr,after several hours of induced labour,we had a still birth!i pray never to see such sadness on hubby's face ever again.
Thanks to God almighty we have an 18months old daughter and another baby on the way

Op please it may seem you dont know me,but its one day people get to know eachother,any help you can do for me sir?abeg abeg abeg!

Just walk straight to her,look her in d eye and say:there are many fises(nt fishes o) in d river,in wch golden fiss is d bes(wtot t)and u are d bes,wil u be my geyfren(pronounce as seen)yes or no,if no y?
,she go just hug u!

MeesterMAN:
hmmmm na IMO state lol

How much is the kid's tab?

jaytee01:
Mind ur own business...... Simple!

His dad cheating on his mum is not his business?
Op you have to stand up to ur dad,u are an adult and should not b scared to tell him what you feel,just be sure not to be rude/insulting.Let him see how disgraceful it is and that if he wont desist from seing the girl,you will have to tell your mom cause you cant keep betraying her,if this threat does nt work.......follow your mind!

pickabeau1:
I tire oo

Naija men cheat.. is cheating a Nigerian word
Naija women are materialistic... is materialism a naija word.. meawhile u never jam ZA chicks...

So much beef for naija by naijans

I tell u,if they are not satisfied with thier root they should switch abeg ,its hard to read what we write about ourselves abeg!

pickabeau1:
You need to travel out more

This is not a trait unique to any nationality or ethnic group

It is a human trait

i was just going to say that ma'am,Whats with naija this.....naija men/women that?If Oyinbo people aint judgemental why is BULLYING all over the place?

We started eating together during courtship whenever he came visiting and it has helped/influenced so many people.
If ur hubby is home why not try it one day?
mine gets back frm 9pm,i just eat fruits to maintain till he does,as a poster said,food is sour when eaten alone

Abuse is abuse and none is excusable.I cant remember the physical hits i got as a child but every word spoken against me is as clear as day.Do i hold d beatings i got from my mum as a teenager against her?NO.my sis on the other hand got more of verbals that she regrded as curse cos she was set in her ways(we stopped our mom cos we knew its wrong),has she moved on?NO,they are so quick to fight and she refers back to the incidences and what momma sed.
I AM NOT JUSTIFYING PHYSICAL ABUSE O,am making my point from the general world not as regrds spouses alone!

Am so sorry for you are goin through Op,please be patient as all things will end in praise some day.Can u and ur sis lock him in d next time?sinz hes drunk u can overpower him,once he strts hitting ur mom,yall shld push him into his room and lock him up cos if u lock him outside,d olofofos might start blabbling!

Ofcourse Dogs wil b prohibited ,they are very sensitive to the things the eyes cannot see,i bet they'l growl to death cos of the many evils roaming about the palace!

Op pele,i can imagine what it feels like!
My MIL is God sent,infact the baby sleeps in her room so i can get enough rest,she only wakes me up for feeding though everyone is not perfect as she has some scrupples i try to cope with for d over 2months she stayed!just try to over look and remind ursef dt she'll leave one day,DONT CONFRONT her i beg u,it myt bcome a drama u never set out for,just leave her be and source for help however u can,cnt ur mom drop by for few days regularly?or get someone dt comes in d morning and leaves at night?

Chai,God please take care of me and mine!!!

brownie10:
my only choice would be to check into a hotel. but as it is, ill be at work tomorrow and he'd come embarrass me there with apologies or wait after work and follow to know where i am.

Please dont let anyone push you to do anything at this time,you are vulnerabkr to all sorts of advice and u must remember that everyoda person is diffrnt from you....ud just move out to a hotel wtot telling ur hubby whats up?u should have confronted him immediatly while it was hot!!!

ah bros ds one is plenty o,d N500 worth i bought today was a bit more dn ds,me no know wch way again o,btw i HATE tin tomatoes for stew

On my kneels with tears close to my eyes.....Lord keep protecting mine and me!
Such pain the man would be in befor finally giving up,God please!!!

Jesu

Op was ur hubby in the delivery room with you?my hubby was and he was scared of sex for a long time
Please be yourself,relax,take care of ur home,remain dutiful and pray,He will come back to you.

How sick !

Ofcourse you are being used!