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igbo2011: Nigeria has one of the worst halthcare systems in the world but we have many doctors in Europea and America due to the money and the infrastrucutre. Why can't we go back home and build it?Many reasons my brother. Lack of facilities, limited scope to train further, poor remuneration etc. The effort should be on keeping those trained in Naija to remain there (or to return after post-grad training). They understand the system and can cope with improvisation/poor facilities far better. Getting western-trained ones to go home is more difficult. To give up an ultra-modern working environment for one that is literally falling apart is tough. When we get our acts together one day, our highly-trained people (engineers, medics, IT techies, teachers etc) abroad might return to lend a hand. |
[quote author=T-smooth]Who go marry this one? men she is over educated u wont be able to control her. bin gbabo will u take her as ur wife? 8-)[/quote]. She's one very sweet humble girl. She will have no probs being a good wife & mum if that's what she wants. She's a person NOT a dog to be controlled. Carry your wife along when doing things (and vice versa) and if she's meant to be your life partner, chances are that things will go well. Remember that intelligence and hard work actually prepare one better for life's challenges. |
Fresh corn is really good. Tasty, has vitamins, has carbs and lots of fibre. I prefer boiled/microwaved ones. In fact we're "corn-ivorous" in the family, even the diaspora kids. I used to eat it back then with the African pear (not avocado), as coco-nut makes me cough sometimes. |
Aza Montana: If you were abroad would you consider marrying a guy / girl from that country or you would prefer going back home to marry. Please give reasons for your answer? Also tell me what you would do when time came for you to come back home.Would you leave your spouse or return with them. Whether you are a man or a woman answer me having your gender in mind.@ Poster, It's a tricky one. It varies. As a very young man (and lover of science) I literally took the expression "unlike poles attract". My girlfriends were usually caucasians. I even got engaged. But I always had some concerns about the future. What happens in 35 years time when my bones may not fancy cold weather any more? Can I return home to become an elder/Mazi? What about kids' cultural identity? I began to also evaluate the lack of acceptance by gf's family. Some may say "love conquers" but there are always ups and downs. We need our families to encourage us NOT wish that you split with your spouse because they never liked his skin colour anyway. I said WTF- people just expect the worst of me and hate me for my skin colour? After my fiancee visited her friends/relatives, she would ask me some very stereotypical questions (maybe trying to dispel doubts) but I was fed up with all that. Conscious of my responsibilities as a male child, I could not sire children that I may not see in the future as it's common post-divorce. The ex-wife can frustrate your efforts to have a role in your kids' lives. For some it works perfectly but more often than not it doesn't long term, say 30, 40 years on. It might be easier for a lady, since wherever she marries is her home. |
uchlukez: Am I d only one noticing all these pepo are igbos?Igbo people are brilliant, no doubt. But Yorubas and others are making us proud also from what I see daily. There is a lot of postive in that direction. I tried to persuade students of Naija ancestry to spend time in Naija hospitals instead of South America or even Ghana. Many expressed worries about safety. My hope was that if they spend time in Naija hospitals learning, they might return some day to work, 15, 20 years later? |
[quote author=emöfine2]She’s so beautiful...well done to her although I must say I detest this patronising term of “best black student”. Achievement shouldn't be colour coded afterall is she and others like her not fit to be placed in the same category as her Caucasian colleagues.... That aside, I do anticipate reading this young lady’s debut novel. Kings College is a top university not only in the UK but in the world and this isn't solely based on results or esteemed institutions rather achievement... [/quote]So on point.It was awesome rubbing shoulders with Nobel Prize winners there. You work hard for your certificate. KCL has been a very good place for Nigerians. People like the late Prof. T. Bello-Osagie (Dr to Gowon, Babangida etc) among others went through there. Even Naija diaspora children make the med school seem as if u're in UNN, MAUL or UI. |
Aza Montana: was he sleeping?abi oo my dear Aza. i open my eye korokoro. anyway i luv my sister jleke-idi. |
[quote author=Ileke-IdI]You're putting Nigerian men on a high pedestal. Nigerian men don't have preferences. Look att he fat white whales they marry.[/quote]well ileke east african fine choco-milo babes are marrying naija boys in my area as if rationing will soon begin. at this rate we might need plane-loads from las-gidi 2 meet popular demand. A prophet has no honour in his country. |
MacLovington: I cannot take this babe seriously. In anoda topic she blames moral decay in all Africa on Nigeria. when Hiv was spreadlng in east africa, Nollywood was not popular then. so all those unclad ladies twisting/winding their waist suggestively 2 makosa/soukous music don't promote immorality, bah? |
I cannot take this babe seriously. In anoda topic she blames moral decay in all Africa on Nigeria. when Hiv was spreadlng in east africa, Nollywood was not popular then. so all those unclad ladies twisting/winding their waist suggestively 2 makosa/soukous music don't promote immorality, bah? I beg guys no disappoint me oo. make someone make dis babe touch her toes give am proper nyansh. wey those our people from the north with long thing and burantashi? oderwize she go turn boko on naija men. |
miky: hmm except for a bone marrow transplant with some serious high tech stem cell additives, there is no cure in sight!!! even developed countries are hapless,, and i doubt if just a single drug would be the answer... just like cancer you would go through various remedies spanning even months...That's right. Medication and blood transfusion give some relief for now. Naija should be at the forefront of sickle cell research. But what about malaria and HIV? should we not also be at the forefront of research? But no, misleaders loot money. I am always surprised by the quality of research done in the 70s & 80s by Nigerian Universities/hospitals. Some top quality work by Uniben/UBTH, UCLH/UI, Unilag, UNN, ABU, Ife and so on. Really world class then. Malaria, infectious diseases, Reproductive health, just name it. |
PhysicsQED: Well different areas had different belief systems - some were actually a bit tame as far as sacrifices and other ugly practices.The best way to wipe out people's identity is to wipe out their history or at least distort it. Colonial masters achieved both to some extent. The average educated African today thinks of fetishes, animal (even human) sacrifice and other diabolical stuff when you mention African Religion. When I was a boy, I used to ask my grandma and other old people about traditional beliefs. The conclusion I came to years later is that their beliefs in the purest form are just as inspired philosophically and mythologically as any others that developed in Asia Minor, Far East or elsewhere. Is it not surprising that in Christianity, Jesus basically replaces the lesser gods as mediator between humans & Almighty God (Eledumare, Chineke, Osanoghodua/Osanobua etc)? The wholesale embrace of foreign religions has done a great deal to undermine our history, identity and self-confidence as a people. Arabs today follow a religion developed in their environment. So are the Jews. The Far Easterners do same. The West now live in a post-modern age, they now believe in money/wealth/capitalism. We Africans are caught in the middle. We're unable to look inwards to draw strength and inspiration since everything about us and our history has been made to appear like failure, filth, primitive, even sinister. So a whole lot of self-loathing is subconsciously going on. |
victorian:Love lesson 101: "once a man and a woman have already choppulated the forbiddened fruits and fruitesses togeda, no outsidas are to be used their mouths and anuses to be judge & adjudge for their mata. Unless & otherwises, you must to became the enemises kwanu". Zebrudaya Okorigwe Nwogbo, Alias 4:30. |
[quote author=chemberlin]My dear the headline alone is enough for me to ask u to do so cos it the best thing. I didn't read ur story but will let u knw that the word love is blind is a big lie, cos loves sees and it will take u to d rite person. You mean love carry microscope, telescope and magnifying glass bah. Hehehe. ![]() |
[quote author=prince_onx]Less than N2m including land? Please educate us more on how this project is planned and location too please! Am ready to invest in 5 of such project for under N2m including land. I will even accept half/half plot lol![/quote]Lol. I was refering to Brabus' layman's quote. I wasn't even aware he posted it. Of course Brabus is not an "armchair" builder. Looking at it again, it's probably up to 2m+. I was rather surprised cos I have an ongoing project. I have barely "scratched the surface" of the ground and land cost, paper work etc have already set me back by nearly 3m! |
@Poster, I have had good Congolese (Zairean) friends. In fact Naija men and Congolese men have a lot in common in terms of taste BUT Congolese are just a bit more extravagant. Nigerians will not buy a pair of socks for 99 Euros!! My opinion is based on what I saw in Belgium and France. I have never been to Congo, so my observations may be skewed. I have never been really attracted towards Congolese women (but found them very intelligent and good for a discussion) whereas I have found Senegalese and Ivoirien ladies quite attractive. With Congolese women, it's quite tricky to tell whose got her natural skin tone or a bleached one. To your question: Nigeria has a population of 160 million. Sure you are going to see robbers, scam artists, cultists, even killers among them. At the same time hospitals in UK & US rely to some extent on Nigerian doctors and nurses/midwives. Nigeria produces some of the highest number of films and music albums anywhere. You will see more books published by Nigerians than any other black Africans. So to fall into the trap of prejudice propagated by western media (they know that the rise of Nigeria will promote Africa as a whole), you become blind to reality. If even just 10%(16 million) of Nigerians were into scam, it would be enough to paralyse world economy. You can focus on the negative or the postive. If you are from Congo/Zaire, it would be very rich for you to mention scam. Take it from a guy who has seen a lot. Grow up babe. |
brabus: At N2.5m, I can have a 2 bedroom self containThanks Brabus but it appears the cost by the fellow I replied to is not even up to 2m including land. My concern is that once you begin that kind of project, the cost keeps rising. Then it's either you give up or continue at increased cost. Have you done any project for any NLer? What kind of roofing material will you use? |
It is now clear that Nigeria as it is has no future. I never thought the day would come when I would prefer a military government. Who knows, Nigeria might just be lucky to have a benevolent dictator. All these pieces of poo have to be liquidated and start on a clean sheet. Enough of this idiotic docility. |
Is this half plot a 30 x 120 or 60 x60? |
brabus: Don't be deceived into thinking home ownership is as simple as buying a car? It isn't. One wrong move, you're gone.Are you really able to build 2-bed room flat as you have quoted and possibly rent out? |
It depends on: Your income, financial discipline/expenses, your lifestyle etc. your income: will determine if you can afford to stay where you're now and still acquire a piece of land and start building. This would be the ideal scenario. Expenses: if you want to build, you may have to compromise on luxury like holiday, plasma TV etc. Lifestyile: if living in a bigger flat (keeping up with the Joneses) is important to you, then you can't build. Postponing buying land/building is the worst possible thing you can do if you can afford to build now without compromising your children's education etc. If you are not self-employed, who can guarantee that your employment will still be there in 5 years? Also, building now means that you will leave an asset/shelter for your family in case of the unexpected (God forbid). |
xhero: No bro, i went to benin 4 a wedding in december. Can you arrange getting the car to Benin and for how much(cost of delivery to Benin)? |
edakedkay, Haba, fear God now. Would you allow your baby brother to marry that forkabout of a girl? Disputed pregnancy, flings and all in a so-called loving relationship. Imagine all her shaggings here in UK? Have they done HIV test yet? In pursuit of daily bread, I see a lot of healthy-looking "ethnic" people with HIV. Anyway, I read somewhere that 30% of kids don't belong to their supposed biological fathers. The mothers shagged outside. Women and their antics. The guy is having a second thought. Who will blame him. After testing all possible penile sizes, she wants to tie him down now. I would have dumped her azz long time ago, job or no job. The guy is even a sissy. Nonsensicus et ingredienticus. Poster, what role did you play in all these her antics as "best friend"? |
E nice: you have blocks for brains. you are so narrow minded and i wonder what a man will find in you to want to marry you.. The poster called f h lord is in the same despirate situation to marry and may be quoting from her own experience. Read her other posts. |
xhero: If u were rite infront of the car with dat cash, u just mite trigger my consideration...but till den 150k and the discussion continues. Xhero, You said you have tested driving it to Benin, are you planning to do same in the near future? because if you were going, I might get someone to check it out in Benin. |
bohboh275: Na wa ooh how can we get out of this? especially when our president na fisherman. No be small thing. GOD save 9ja my country.Save ko, exorcise ni. Welcome to North Nigeristan. The question is whether the whole Niger Area will be come Nigeristan. The geographical expression called Naija now exists in the fantasy of those afraid of change, lazy people and looters. SNC is not good enough now. A referendum is needed. The budding Achebes and Soyinkas in the house can help me formulate this better. The options can be: Do we want to continue as one united bomb-ridden country? If yes do the regions want autonomy including police force + resoiurce control? If no which countries should come into existence on October 1st 2015? (1)Nri Republic (Easterners can change to Biafra minutes after independence) (2) Odua Republic (3) Benjos Republic (or Middle Belt) (4) Niger Delta Rep. (5) Benin or Edo Rebublic or Kingdom (even if just to reward the last valiant attempt to prevent colonisation of southern Nigeria, the last barrier to almagamation) (6) Arewa Islamic Jamuriyah. Of course other permutations are very possible. All these New nations will be very viable with Nri, Niger Delta & Oodua especially so. I will not elaborate on these three as it is obvious. Middle belt can focus on its relative strengths and become a major Agri-biz hub in West Africa. The mild weather of Jos area and the amiable people will make it a major tourism area. The Arewa Jamuriyah people can return to proper ground nut pyramids and abundant variety of crops like cotton(and textile industry), sorghum, millet not to mention livestock. Add solid minerals to that. The Edos can focus on rubber, oil palm (Africa's foremost oil palm research institute (NIFOR) is in Edo State, sustainable logging, history(tourism), a relatively homogeneous population etc. Add the moderate amount of crude oil found in the state. A visa-free arrangement can be reached. you can easily visit your grand-parents or in-laws in another former Nigerian Country or countries. At the moment, states are just coasting along and collecting monthly handouts. It helps nobody but a few politicians. Even Fashola as much as he might try, cannot lift millions out of poverty all by himself. Poverty creates a large pool of potential militants, criminals and suicide bombers. The only way to discover one's ingenuity and strength is to have the urgent need to do so. A radical change is needed. NOW. |
[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Why am I not surprised [/quote]Ileke my sister, it is true oo.I saw a couple recently after several months. I was shocked to the marrow. The husband's own was more shocking. Both were looking like pawpaw that was ripened by force. A diaspora man of over 50 still bleaching? His knuckles looked like those of Zaire women(probably the bleaching champions of the world). Even their men in Belgium/France. See Koffi Olomide. |
@ UPUPHIM: Your marriage is being built on a faulty foundation. You and I know what happens to such houses with faulty foundation. Actually her marriage is invalid. As it is, they are both criminals under UK law since she's now aware of his bigamy (a crime) and she's not telling the authorities. Even if she came using fiance visa, a married man cannot have a fiancee. A gross abuse of visa system. |
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[/quote]So on point.
, am happy again.. and we v fixd d date.. yeah!.