bamangar: Let me not lie, Lagos Airport is the headquarters of begging in Africa. It has turned to harassment.
Another thing I noticed, when you visit almost every organisation, when their security starts acting funny, know they just want some egunje. Its becoming embarrassing.
LOL. When you are about boarding they will tell you, "Oga just give me the rest of the Naira you get, you no go use am for anything..."
Ineedtoheal: Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.
I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).
We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.
Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!
Few info about the relationship 1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27. 2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.
3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.
4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.
5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.
6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.
7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.
8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.
9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.
10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.
His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.
Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.
Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.
He is still living the "baby boy's life". I am sure his attitude changed when he got the job at the University. There are two things that happens when boys who were previously broke, hit a good job jackpot. It is either they make concrete plans with dates et al and marry the girl they are with OR delay and keep her while they are trying to make up for lost years of frolicking with other ladies.
He works in a University where he sees much more beautiful and easy-to-get girls. He is busy living the baby boys life- at 40 years, not thinking about marriage, it is safe to conclude that he is.
I wouldnt talk about the handwriting you have seen on the wall- those were very obvious signs! Make up your mind and BREAK up with him. You are still in your 20's, luckily for you. With your decent character, you can easily find someone else. When he sees you have broken up with him, two things will happen. It is either, he comes and begs you with a ring/wedding dates/etc OR he ignores you. I suspect he will do the former. At that point, it is for you to make a decision. When you do, NEVER make a decision driven by feelings or love or emotions. Let it be by what you see and good old logic.
godofuck231: igbos are weak, if it were the time of ojukwu and ezeugo kaduna tr this and see, the men of substance in Nigeria are dead and gone, the few remaining are aged, what we are having are spokes men and fckboys
I thought this is Delta? Which you people call South South? Are they now South East and Igbos? You lots confuse us.
Dimka Odumegwu Ojukwu of Biafra-Biafaa or Bia-Kpara, Ogoni version! With due respect to reasonable Igbos and the public. It isn't proper to rejoice over anyone's death. I'm also not doing so, rather pointing to the man Ojukwu. I hope readers would understand my truth that can be found through history and can't be disproved otherwise.
Ojukwu, who was good in his own right couldn't stand Ken Saro-Wiwa and his truth about Ogoni-saving our people from Biafra and Ojukwu's madness and greed (popularly known as Nigerian-Biafran Civil War, 1967-1970), was the number one coward.
Ojukwu sold Biafra due to his greed for oil and disrespect for Ogonis and other minorities of today's Niger delta. Biafra was mostly harshed due to the presence of Ogoni/Niger delta oil. If it succeeded Ogonis, who were already enslaved by Igbos in Ogoni land will be registered slaves today. Saro-Wiwa saw this and fought against it. Thus his crime at the hands of Ojukwu and other Biafran praise-singers who then sought Saro-Wiwa's head.
Meanwhile, Ojukwu ran away from his people at a critical moment into exile. Millions of innocent Igbos (Ogonis and other minorities also died in numbers at home and Igbo camps) killed while he ran away.
No wonder seasoned Igbos, including late Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe refused to support Ojukwu and his Biafran insanity!
Though Ojukwu returned from Ivory Coast under Shehu Shagari or so. He couldn't have the opportunity to fight to revive Biafra again. This was contrary to the saying: he who fight and run away lives to fight another day.
Saro-Wiwa stood by his people to the end. He's a global hero while Ojukwu is the Igbo coward!
As mentioned inter alia, death is an inevitable end, so not proper to rejoice over the death of others. I'm not rejoicing over Ojukwu's death. Ojukwu's death, however, can't come without the truth about him, unlike the lies he told abroad about Saro-Wiwa and Ogonis. I hope readers may understand.
Because Ojukwu was cheap, greedy, yet with one of the best education but knew nothing to do with it, he's bribed by the Federal government of Nigeria (under Sanni Abacha), sponsored abroad to justify the world's environmental and human rights hero's (Saro-Wiwa) unjust hanging.
The coward in Ojukwu couldn't get away with that trash! He's bathed in rotten eggs; a high profile disgrace given in the West, when he went to London justifying Saro-Wiwa's unjust death of Nov. 10, 1995.
Today, Ojukwu is left to the Igbos of his kind and some Nigerians such as Goodluck Jonathan, who love violence and has already said, according to Sahara Reporters' Nov. 26 report, "Ojukwu's place in Nigerian history is assured."
Anyone still unsure that Jonathan and his Nigerian cabal hate Saro-Wiwa and Ogoni? How shameful to see a country love and honor violence and trash nonviolence and intellectual discussions, arguments for rights (as with Saro-Wiwa and Ogonis) and freedoms to the cutters!
That is the Nigeria run by the so-called majority ethnic groups for you. We can see Boko Haram like Ojukwu's Biafra, in action, supported also by Jonathan and his Hausa counterparts. We can see Jonathan sit and look confused, not sure of what to do with Boko (like he paid off Niger delta militants whose agitation was just, if not their greed and unintellectual approach) begging for help from America.
Finally, is Jonathan, one of the Ojukwu-Biafran violent praise-singer confused about the peaceful Ogonis, their just agitation for political, social and economic justice, ruined environment? No! He and the Federal government is hardened, waiting for a period when news may come that all Ogonis are extinct due to environmental degradation and government, $hell's inaction and stupidity. Shame on Nigeria, because Ogoni, which is older than Nigeria will live to shame the Ojukwus and its Nigerian oppressors!
NOC1: Can anybody tell me the name of the first woman that died of Corona virus in USA? The only thing you will see is a 56years old woman from Washington, no name no pictures. Even the other 5 that died, their names and pictures were not released.
I used America to buttress my point because they are the ones we are always referencing, don’t want to use Italy, China and Iran as example.
No sane doctor or nation can disclose the health status of a patient who has subjected itself to treatment. Such act is a punishable offense by law.
Let us stop sounding petty on social media
Go on BBC and you will see the faces and cases of the British persons who have had the virus and been quarantined and released. Let me help you: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-51459210
Probably cooked up for someone/ some people to build office on Coronavirus head. The money that will be budgeted for the committee, the quarantine facilities, the medicines, etc. The degree of corruption going on in this Buhari/Abba Kyari/Tinubu regime has gone to school, graduated, gone for its MSc, graduated, gone for a PhD, graduated and its in its third PhD and is doing quite fine.
God will visit every person, Nigerian and non-Nigerian with his wrath, who brough upon innocent Nigerians this plague.
As a woman, if you have zero tolerance for a cheating man, you'll hardly cope or have a successful marriage.
Trust me; this is the bitter truth.
99.583% of women who their marriage has lasted successfully, once tolerated and forgave their husband for being unfaithful.
Interesting. Where did you get your statistics from? Sample size? Sample space? Primary and secondary data? How many iterations were run? Was it a qualitative research? Or mixed-method approach? How did you run your validation? What were your limitations, if any? 99.583% is so significant to ignore the science behind it.
Or did you just pluck it from the air because you just want to talk and man-hate?
Sirjamo: Ipobians are rejoicing because they believe that if Oshiomole goes down, he's taking Tinubu's Presidential ambition with him. Well, I have bad news for them; Ajimobi is next in line and we all know that he's Tinubu's protege. Tinubu is always ten steps ahead of his haters, he'd envisaged the present scenario and strategically positioned one of his many loyalists to take over from Oshiomole if got removed from office!!!
Wonder what you will say if Ajimobi doesnt get the job
Alanzazani: A friend of my shared his story with me.
He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.
A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.
The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.
He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please
He should not abort that life. There are adoption options he can go to. Next time he should HOLD himself. He wont die. And I am sure his wife would understand too if he uses protection with her. I am struggling to understand why people do not think with their heads with matters of se.xual nature.
Without this, they would probably loose Edo State and with it, their grip on the South South. Creating a problem to solve a problem. An old political tactic.
Scores of youth stormed the Kano Hisbah office on Wednesday over an alleged blasphemy song against the Holy Prophet Muhammad.
The protesters holding placards alleged that the government and the security agents in the state are reluctant to act over the matter.
The convener of the protest, Idris Ibrahim (known as Baba Idris), said they came to notify the government to do the needful; otherwise, they will take the law into their hands.
Mr Ibrahim said similar incidents had happened in the state in the past that were not attended to by the authorities.
Earlier, one Yahaya Sharif-Aminu composed a song containing alleged derogatory comments attributed to the Prophet Muhammad. This prompted violence against the family members of the musician who fled the area last week.
Last Friday, the family house of the singer located at Sharifai quarters in Kano Municipal Local Government Area was set ablaze by irate youth who protested the song.
The singer is said to be a member of the Islamic Tijjaniya sect and a member of Faidha group. He is yet to speak on the matter.
While addressing the protesters, the Kano Hisbah Commander, Harun Ibn-Sina, said officials in the state are on top of the situation and the parents of the musician have been arrested and are currently under police custody.
Also addressing the protesters was the representative of the state police commissioner, Habu Sani, who told the protesters that the police are making efforts to arrest the fleeing singer.
The representative of the police chief who identified himself as Hamza urged the protesters to be law-abiding citizens by allowing the security agents to do the needful. He assured the gathering that the musician would not go unpunished.
You read things like this and wonder why Northern Nigeria shouldnt be on its own as a country. So they can practice their blasphemy laws and fight for their god in peace. I personally think Southern Nigeria is holding them back.
GamalNasser: Las Las Shekau has attracted the attention of US predator drones on his matter , he will definitely be cooked before the US elections
Smart guy.
You know the drill. US Predator drones stationed in Niger Republic will take out this fellow before the US elections. A (media) win for Trump loading. I only pity the civilians that will be taken out with him. Boko Haram will simply install someone new and go after US/ Christian/ Southern Nigeria targets. They will burn US flags. The consequence will be an escalation of the present spiralling violence.
fairfora: I thought you were already asleep by now. Stop shooting yourself in the leg on sowore's case. If an accused was slammed a bail condition considered to be stringent, he can contest it with a competent lawyer and that was exactly what happened in sowore's case....and not because there was nobody to stand as his surety.
I guessed your people had all the money to throw off instead of challenging same during kanu's case as they quickly rushed at it, including other conditions barring him from parading himself in public, the decision which was later regretted by the senator who stood as one of his sureties. Kanus sureties rushing at the bail condition is simply the difference between yoruba and igbo people and I hope you understand what that means. Instead of affirming kanu's bail conditions they were later revoked.
Where is kanu today? He has run away and jumped bail...another difference between a learned yoruba and igbo man.
On the lighter note because I wan go sleep now... if you had not seen where my people protested the release of sowore in Abuja and lagos ,I've seen many and I can share you the link where you could read about such protests from competent sources online .
Lastly, sowore didn't remain in the DSS custody because he was unable to meet bail conditions but because the fed govt instructed the DSS to keep him despite meeting the conditions after same were challenged before court and were subsequently reduced.
lol.
You think it is night in every part of the world? There’s no need to reply you further. I think you’ve dug yourself into a deep hole already.
fairfora: Abeg, go and retire for the day. For your info, sowore met bail conditions several times without hitches but the DSS kept him. Nobidy turned him down as you claimed. Wait a minute, did you follow the case at all? I doubt
Of course you know this. We are glad he is out but stop this revisionist painting of history. The number of times the likes of FFK and Reno pleaded with his Yoruba kinsmen and the lack of unity shown to him is still on twitter and facebook. Of course you know this anyway. Go and retire for the day.
fairfora: Sowore is my guy anyday. Look up all my previous posts. Most of those opposed to him aren't part of us...maybe people from your side.
Hahahaha! You may have supported him but the majority of his people didnt. Did they stand in court with him as surety? He had to crowdfund for the money- the same amount that the likes of Nnamdi Kanu had no difficulty in raising amongst his kinsmen. United ke, Man United ni Dont make me laugh.
Unless you want to deceive yourself, most opposed to him were from his Oduduwa side, describing him as a "traitor". Of course they have changed their tune now that he has been released on bail.
fairfora: L'obatan. Where are those faulting amotekun on social media saying it's dead? Fear yoruba demons
The most united single tribe in Africa.
Earlier today, Ogun, Ondo, Oyo, Osun also did same. I'm loving this. I'm sure Ekiti would follow suit in the next 24 hours, if they've not done so already.
Yet abandoned Sowore son of Ondo State and repeatedly insulted him on Nairaland, Twitter and Facebook. And I know these guys that repeatedly insulted him on social media, turned around and hailed him when he was released, but it is called hypocrisy and nothing else. Unity my puppy's left foot
Anything to paint Islam and Northerners bad is what they're just after....nothing else
I'm in kano, this news is fake!!
This news is as fake as Aba product!!
The son of the cleric insulted Prophet Muhammad and threatened to join bokoharam...
Some group of area Boys and bigots attacked his family house in a mission to fish him out
This has nothing to do with almajiri attacking a cleric
Thank you. I watched the video. I saw young guys trying to fish out coronavirus Italian men in Kano without protective gloves. They did Nigeria a service. Almajiri, thank you for your service.
She's got a decent right hand. She should have followed it with a left hook. Or a jab and a left hook. Would have KO'ed the guy clean. His defence was open.
judedwriter: I don't think so... His pride is greatly injured.
For someone who hasn't lost any match in over 40 fights to be beaten like a naughty child... His reputation is ruined and he has to redeem it.
Agreed, but I do not see how he will win the next fight. Curiously, the only serious names in the names he had fought was that Ortiz guy... Who wobbled him. When he met a real heavyweight in Fury he drew the first match (should have lost on points tbf) and he was convincingly whooped in the second.
Unless Fury doesnt prepare, Wilder will loose again. Beaten like a naughty child.
malikombi: Tyson Fury has five children and he says he's just 31years old........This is serious oooooo
He is Irish Gypsy.... They breed like the days of old, they travel, they are immaculately strong and live simple lives and they keep beards. Tommy Fury his 21 year old brother got of Love Island and hooked up with his girlfriend. Give him a year or two, they will get married. And the kids will start. Google about them.
It happened at warehouse junction Owerri, a taxi driver reportedly hit a Lexus Jeep, the owner of the Jeep, a young man out of anger jumped out of his car and punched the taxi driver to a point he collapsed to death. See pictures attached.
jyz200: Problem did not just Start now It's cause by the ibos who introduced politics of hate Killed ,mimed, and betrayed southern Nigeria
Lol. Are you trying to blindly rape history, to revisionise history?
You, a foolish youth, knows more than an elder who has seen the 2nd World War, Nazi’s Hitler, Colonialism, Independence marches, Vietnam War, Biafra Genocide, etc?
You see why you are foolish? You know more than someone who’s politically active and was born in 1926? When people nearing their graves talk, sensible people listen and take notes.
Smh. I blame cheap data and arrogance for your foolishness.
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