₦airaland Forum

royalamour:
Welcomed development.

They forced my mum who as of that time had only 12 years to retire to join a PFA.

We queried the circular. I mean how much can she save as an inspector of prisons on 57,000 NGN/$49 per month.

But we had no choice. She didn't save much.
She retired 11 years later.

Her pension is nothing to write home about.
19,000 NGN per month. I mean... It's like getting nothing.

Light, water and health bills swallows everything.
Feeding is out of it.

For 35 years she served Nigeria, in the end, Nigeria failed her.

We have tried to move her back to the old pension scheme which Buhari is enjoying, but to no avail.

They said Obasanjo introduced the PFA scheme. It is all scam.

Am really sorry to say this but I must confess your mother failed her self,do you knows that those Pepe sellers your mother go dey look one kind dey make more than 100k per month and in old age they don't line up in the sun waiting for nothing at d end of the month,as you are now if I asked if you will like to be self-employed or working for government you will still prefer working for government, better wake up

saphiere:
Maybe the guy did something worse to her. The authority should interrogate the guy.

awon geg zzor

LauraClasikVibe:
HOW NOT TO SPEND YOUR SALARY!

Earning money is difficult whereas spending money is easy. So, it is necessary to spend judiciously. I have seen that sometimes a richer person is unable to manage his expenses because of extravagance whereas a poorer person manages is expenses successfully. A person should spend in such a way that he can save some money for future. Some guidelines for spending judiciously is given below:

Lessons
1. Don’t buy what you don’t need
2. Don’t borrow to buy wasting assets
3. Have a saving habit; it helps you in rainy day
4. Don’t try to impress anybody with your clothes or cars
5. Avoid friends who make you go into debt because you want to belong.
6. Have annual financial plans

Lastly, salary is never enough. Put your money in assets that can yield returns. such as Money Mutual funds, T-Bills, Digital Assets etc

Motivational loud speaker

OnlyDeCapPlease:
I'm shocked at what I am reading here. You have all been brainwashed to believe that Caucasian or Asian style of long hair translates to beauty. According to you all if a woman (any female above 18 is a woman fyi) doesn't carry long hair, then there's something wrong with her? Unbelievable! The style of hair that a woman carries has nothing to do with personality or sexuality (the women in the pictures below are all lesbians). Does the fact that a man carries long or short hair make him gay or straight? Is Burna boy or Adekunle Gold gay because they carry long hair?

I've been with the same woman for a long time now and over the years she has carried locks, low cut plain, low cut dyed, attachment, weave on etc. Black women's hair is very difficult, and expensive to manage, so some decide to cut it off for practical reasons or financial reasons. In fact I admire a woman who is confident enough to carry her natural hair instead of conforming to western style of hair beauty that you guys like.

It is obvious to me that Nigerian men deserve the fake ass trifling money hungry bone hair wearing b!tches that you are daily complaining about.

op assumption shows how common African mentality is,most expecially we black

IMASTEX:
Busy collecting Prado Jeeps

every one will feel the heat, this is just a beginning

Faber:
Bring another threat. Which military? A soldier nearly jam me while running from unknown gun at Ukwuorji checkpoint in Imo state. I was on my way coming out of Umunoha. See as the soldier then run enter bush.

Don't mind him, when the soldier know that when he die,he die wrongfully

johnmartus:
I'm calling on president Buhari to withdraw police men and military personnel or possibly all the uniform men including immigration from southeast.

so after that what will happen to us?Grow up kid those security agency you are talking about have been working for their own selfish interest not for the citizens even before everything Jaga Jaga we have been our own security,we provide job for our self,water,road, health system and many social ammenities,all what you are seen now are the results of the failure of the government let those security agency be prepared there's alot of war to battle because the government relying on them to commit all these atrocities, have you ever seen a country who wage a war against its citizens and succeed?

where were these useless judge when the common masses are voicing out about the calamity ahead?

Aaa007:
biafra keeps going down the drain

Drogba is in your head

Numerouno94:
If u like b 10 of the drivers.

Let be more serious Nigerians like enslaved them self,if someone employed you and you are not convenient with the condition you withdraw from it, you don't just create problem where there is no one,I just hate it when someone determined my faith, I could remembered when I was working as a sales representative in a telecom company in Ibadan,I had to resign due to the inconvenience,if they are not satisfied with the condition let them with draw.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Those guys want personal whores and the hope they give them is marriage..
I was telling a friend that it's only when a guy is not easy to mash that he will say he's not found a woman to Marry. When a guy is easy to marry, he can find a wife in a day and marry he and fee months time..but when he not ready, maybe lack of finances of steady source of income, he will start giving excuses..
Those people that are hear singing Nigerian girls are useless whores if you check well, either not matured enough to marry, or not financially prepared to.marry.

And you know what? girls are more experience than all this young man out there although when it comes to issue of relationship no one is perfect,if a lady is not married to you she has any right to choose a man who is suitable for her don't think because she is dating you she own you � percent loyal no it doesn't work that way.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You e said it all.
Because I don't understand how a guy will.meet a girl he likes and start promising marriage when he knows he won't settle down in the next 4 to 5yrs.. It is better you don't bring up marriage so that the girl will know she's just in a relationship that might not lead to marriage or a fucking relationship. And you can start talking about marriage when you know it's happening within a year.
Most guys use marriage to turn hold babes as their personal whores even when they know they won't marry her.
You can't promise a girl.marriage and after some yrs into the relationship you don't act like someone planing to.marry. a guys actions will tell a girl of she should wait or try other people.

Exactly bro, when I never married I don't date a girl more than 2weeks if I never had sex with you I might extend it to 1month after that I don't called or care anymore even if you called me I don't pick because I saw it as a waste of time and resources and when it's time to settle down I picked what is good for me.

ebuka10box:
no sir

Olohu a wa pelu yin o

HONESTFACT101:
Please pardon my errors
This is long but I'll make it as short as possible


I am in shambles now words can't explain the pain I am feeling,it has been barely 3 months since we were officially engaged then out of no where came this she broke our promise we used to tell each other that we will love each other till the end of time yet within a few months to our main wedding she broke her vows.
Last week we were in my room when she told me that she was chosen by staff to go represent her branch in a meeting I didn't ask much only when will she be going she said only a day,she was always the silent type,on the day she was to go she drove off with her car,getting like 30minutes after she left my friend called me telling me I should meet him in a particular hotel you know for boys hangout well house was boring so i went to meet him.
On getting there he told me where to park my car,I was concerned cos it was a little bit off the hotel when we met I voiced my concerns he then said the main reason he called me was be cos of my GF Angel<not real name> he explained everything to me I asked him which kind nonsense joke was that but he told me he was serious my blood rushed I was very sad and shocked.I ran into the building asked the receptionist and she confirmed my Gf was in the building I collected her room number and ran up the stairs praying it was not true.On getting closer i saw a man coming out of the room held him he was shocked because I ran to him with speed he asked who I was I told him I was angels BF his mood changed he was very sympathetic with me he confirmed that she was in the room,I tried to enter but he blocked my way by now I was crying peoples attention was been drawn but I didn't care,he was calming me down telling me that what has happened has happened it made me want to talk to angel the more I started shouting her name then he told me she was dead that the hospital did everything for her but the accident did great damage to her at this point I was broken,I held on to the doctor and cried like a new born then he slowly led me into the ward and there she was my angel still like a tree dead.
What happened to till the end of time,and yet no goodbyes my heart is broken I can't believe it.


FICTION



Wow I see no one yet understand this story

can you Imagine? go through their response, it's finished, lack of understanding.

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

are you married before?

CsRockefeller:


If I say that relationship issues never tire me then I'm lying. Recent behaviour of a very religious lady I have been friends with for sometime with a view to taking it further has got be thinking, at this point I don't know what to believe in again as it relates to love.

So, I'm just gonna take my seat and do what my people call "Siddon look" cos I'm tired honestly, why can't I find a simple lady in Nigeria for marriage?

Most of you guys don't know how to deal with females, how on earth will you be dating a lady for four years,five years and more and still singing a song of marriage to her ear like bird, do you think they are fool's?a lady of 27 believes she has ripe enough for marriage and most of Nigeria male at 30 don't have a job, apartment and still taking permission from there parents also dating a jobless girl, still want such a girl to wait for him till he will ready financially which is too risky, girls are very wise they are always in relation ship for a purpose when they study you can't meet up any more they moved to who has a means of providing for their needs and ready to settle down.my advice, stop dating a girl for purpose of marriage when you know you wouldn't be ready to settle down in the next 1year, just date to have sex and fun and safe your self from unnecessary spending and when you know you are ready for marriage marry someone who get a job simple

Numerouno94:
Re u one of the drivers?

I am two of the driver

Numerouno94:
Was i the only one that thought it was Usain Bolt ?

Usain bolt and Usain Uber kee you

IGoComotYaTeeth:
enjoyment master, but wait oo so if you asked 40 girls out that means you've been rejected like 500 times cos I know most of the babes in this country sabi do shakara

am into transportation business we deal with different sizes of them either married or single is never or problem if I want sex Today is not a problem and I don't spend more than 2weeks with any girl, I date for sex after that nothing more go and do your research from some guys riding keke they will tell you that girls are not our problem,most of some women who there husband base in abroad are dating keke rider or okada guys bro forget o

seanwilliam:
Alaye move front!! No Dey cook beans for us here.. 40 girls with less down 10k..


Lol. Na your type Dey beg women for sex..

If you had not mentioned the word “date” I might believe you , na u be Anthony Joshua ni abi cronaldo Wey girls Dey die for.. all this kind lies self.

Stop accusing some one you don't know that he is lying, what is there for me to gain if am here lying by April 19 now I will mark 42 and more over you don't know the kind of job am doing,if getting a girl to date is your head ache, this is my 11years in transportation job go and do your research girls are not a problem to who is in transportation business be it married or single we deal with them 24/7 if I say 40 I just minimise it you can divide 40 by 11years so is nothing to us.i date for sex and I don't spend more than a week or two weeks with any girl.

Acecards:
You are a bad player oh... 40 girls and not up to #10k spent

I swear to God who made me,it always amazed me when someone guys on Nairaland take girls issues as if there life depends on it,I date for sex and after that nothing more and when it's time for me to settle down I marry a lady who has a job

Acecards:
As a spinster she has every right to choose the best man for herself... But as a married woman that right is no longer there. It's not as if she was cheating, she was just keeping her options open.

you are very right, I don't know why guys are taking dating seriously as if there life depends on it,why policing some one who you have not getting married to, even if you are married to her I don't think it what it or else you die suddenly and wrongfully, I dated up to 40 girl before I married and the total amount I spent on them is not up to 10k, I don't spend more than a week with girls the moment I had sex with you I don't call you again even when you called I don't pick that is the end I only dated girls to have sex after that nothing more and when it's time for me to settle down I find a working class who is ready to settle down also.so why worried about girls

chimooooo,chineke mooooo chai Omo Gun bad o

heendrix:
Well left to me since NYSC is a Youth service to the Nation program why not enlist some of them to help the Army in engaging Boko Haram. who knows they might do just excellently well than the Army and we Nigerians will celebrate them like there's no tomorrow.

Just thinking out loud tho

you are a wicked Man

I hope by 2023 we will still have a country call Nigeria

valentineuwakwe:
see our gallant soldiers....even in the face of difficulties, shortages of weapons, no food, saboteurs, etc they are still happy to fight and die for this country......chai!

May God bless your souls, here on earth and in paradise!

Then die wrongfully

SaintUlot:
Can you imagine, some primary 6 early leaver are better than some self-acclaimed graduates.

Exactly my brother

mariahAngel:
I'll go first. Of course.

The first soup I ever made was ogbono soup.
I was about 10, and mum just thrust it upon from nowhere like "you're cooking ogbono soup tomorrow!" without asking if I can (I always watch her cook)
My heart sank when she said that, and in my mind, I was like "oh my God! Oh my God!"
That night, I swear, I hardly slept a wink.

Then came the day of reckoning, all ingredients lined out, I did everything exactly as mum would, step by step.
After adding the ground ogbono mix, I added water to a moderate level and stirred but there was no slime. NO SLIME! In my mind "God help me! God help me!" I screamed
I stirred the watery soup, covered and left it to boil. "Mum would be so disappointed" I thought, feeling disappointed.
Going back to check on the soup some few minutes later, I opened the pot and stirred again and EUREKA! THERE WAS THAT SLIME!

It was a memorable experience and a big win for me that day. Of course, mum praised me to the high heavens! Hmmm!

I know that you will grow up to be a good cooker, that is what my mind tell me you must be a good cooking.�

ZendayaColeman:
Nothing remain for this country again.



Nairobi on my mind

safe trip

dignity33:
Don't be surprise that those pictures you see Nigeria police displaying are the one they took just recently from those who return. They probably don't have the pictures of those who escape.

Oh my lord,I so much cherish some one like you who always see things from different angles

Slimslimqq:
Good afternoon house,

I need the opinions of the experienced people here.

I just resumed a temporary job today as a data entry collector for 2021 jamb students at an IT firm and the pay is 2k daily which will run for a month, there's no expenses of transportation and there's breakfast and lunch.

While I was on the job today I received a call from an interview I had online last week that I will be resuming fully on Wednesday. The salary is same as minimum wage. Transportation is upto 700 daily.

The difference between the two is first one is temporary(1 month) while the second one is a full time job, and I just resumed the first one today.

Am confused I don't want to make a wrong choice, that's why I brought it here to hear from the experienced ones.

It's urgent, I need to make a decision asap.

Thanks.

Lalasticlala please help me move to Frontpage.

Reject temporary and permanent job go take a loan of 750k and buy keke and you will be making nothing less than 150k in a month