₦airaland Forum

Sijo01:
How about you stop that nonsense (bold) and trade like a real business man?

Who does that if you were to be the owner of the business will you be collecting school fees receipts and other nonsense as a collateral

can you imagine? a graduate who can't manage a bet shop it always amazed me the kind of graduate we produced in our higher institutions

Oliveloaded:
Thanks so much for all advice, another ghost write up will soon publish and I promise you it will blow your head !!!!!!

Back to sender

Mainlymanof:
I am a disable, not in born but I had a motor accident and lost one of my leg and resulted to wheelchair.. so I am a wheelchair man ...
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SOCIAL : Sometimes I feel like I am not wanted in this world , as I am typing this right now, it is with tears in my eyes . I am just confused about life . No matter what I do is not taking serious. Every where I go people looks me like an Allen , which sometimes I get angry and rebuff them. Somes times , I just accept the reality and move on .

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Not just that , I can't even have a better girlfriend because I am not better looking. If I try to dress simple and responsible they look down on me , they prevent me from entering some kind of places , like event venues , bars , eatries , hotels , etc they start looking me less less . The worst and painful part is that I can't pass peacefully on the road again because people start making attempt to dash me moneys like N20 naira and N50 naira until I start insulting them off . Infact before I even try to push my wheelchair a kilometer , I will be abuse by good Samaritan who wants to give beggers arms thinking I am a begger because I am on wheelchair. I quorell almost every day on that , I lay curses on them sometimes , I can't accept arms on the road because I have a small business I am surviving on and I am not and can never be a begger. As I was still saying People start avoiding me , some people start behaving like I am disgusting . Smelling etc . BUT IF I DRESS BIG .. the big dressing I mean is putting on a big trending shoe and maybe a hairstyle and shining clothes boom some start saying I look like a tout . All eyes on me , if even you didn't see me , your neighbor must tap you and be like look at that boy . All eyes on me . Cant even pass on the road again , shame would hold me cos of the eyes . Oh God , I want to live a kind of simple lifestyle and I don't really love dressing big but because of the insults I receive when I dress simple , that's what made me to always prefer dressing big and for my own happiness.
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Emotional Part I have passed through a lot of rejections . Nobody wants me in any where any thing I do . Sometimes I go indoor cry all through the day . But comes outside smiling like all is well . people don't see any good in me
. No matter how I try to be good , nobody talks about it . It pains me when people call me a bad boy either jokingly or seriously. It pains me more when people say my kind of person (Disables) are the most evil .

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Please I need your advice . Just talk sense into my head , say something that will inspire me to live
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This is not all my stories , I still have a lot of things to say , I am just tired of typing at the moment .

you need to check your self that is why it's very risky to leave a life of me alone no matter how difficult the situation may be you will still have some one who will understand you and take you as you are, you don't expect everyone to accept you in your condition you need to be more friendly, when someone offer you money just launched and say thank you sir,ma am no a beggar,show love to kids around you buy little things for them, play with them by doing that there parents will show you love.if you kill yourself na one spanner lost be that

yinmu

armyofone:
It's due to limited resources.

exactly that is the causes of poverty and lack of good orientation

Deathisfree:
Hi Nairalanders
This is really disturbing me right now,I just wedded about 2 months ago
My mother in-law first visit was 2 weeks ago, I purposely left the house before she came because I was not really bucks up
Suddenly she came this morning around 7:30 am without a pre notice. She didn’t tell my wife nor call any of us to let us know she’s coming.

She stays about 35 mins drive to my house,my parents stays about 5mins drive to my house and they can not try such and perhaps. They are too busy for all that nonsense

I’m in my room right now alone here on Nairaland seeking for advice on what to do before I do wrong. I am planning to tell my wife when her mother is gone and warm her never to let such happen again.

it's just a pity that we African have throw away our culture due to poverty and bad orientation,as an Africa Man there is nothing like me and my wife, we have a very large family and we always leave together in peace either you are married or not as a family man your doors must be open for family and friends no one can tell what tomorrow will bring create a familiar environment,in olden days Africa Man don't go into depression or commiting suicide because they always bring family around them and in time of crisis these people will be there for you and you won't die loneliness.

Lovethaa:
That's right pastor,. the truth is that it is only the poor that have bad dreams and spiritual attacks .. you rarely see a rich man with Soo much spiritual problem like the poor man...



When hunger wire you as a man. ypu will begin to see witches and wizards



You shed tears because you felt thier pain but when the church grows bigger , Hope you won't forget them. .. trust me many have shed tears before you but now they laugh in private jets while members shed tears

Baba Buhari as a case study

kakakibuy:
2nd Dollar instalment was also received and confirmed today.


We don't resell cars for profit . Pay exact costs
only!!!

WhatsApp: +436602306454

can you get me a mini Bus

creolehunt:
Sometime last year, I met a lady. At the time I met her things were not working for me the way I had expected. In fact, my career had somehow stagnated even though I was in a new job then.

Prior to meeting her, I was seeing someone who I once overheard complaining to a friemd of having sex with someone in her dreams and in that dream, she already has a family with this strange person in that dream. This coupled with other negative feelings i had made me leave the relationship.

Now comes this new girl. Within 2 months of meeting her (5months into the job), my employment was confirmed with a promotion to booth. I must say that this confirmation typically takes 1yr to 18months. 4 months later (totalling 9months on the job), I was promoted again to a mid level managerial position. Again, this typically takes around 3yrs for others. My company cited "exceptional service delivery", but deep down I know it's not just that, I'm that instinctive. Now, I'm not the type of person to easily find favor in people's eyes or the type people just wants to stick out for. But since I met her, even at my workplace, my superiors have taken special interest in me, I just can't do any wrong.

Now, deep down, I know some things have changed. Even mentally, i have become more purposeful as she is a very driven person. I've never mentioned to her about these changes I've noticed in my life.
The thing is that when we talk, albeit jokingly she always say that she came into my life and everything changed, that the day I will try nonsense with her (cheat or breakup), my life will just scatter. Even today she said it that the "spirit" (context is important here) working for her had to smoothen my life when she came into it, lest I infect her with my troubles, I jokingly replied that my mother's prayers are working wonders in my lofe, and she said that I should be happy she is in my life. A lot of the time, she has made such comments. There was a day she said that if I keep her happy, that I will keep enjoying. She says God answers her prayers and honestly, her life is good. It just feels like she has everything all figured out.

Honestly, everything feels better around me since I met her and i also believe in the notion that some people can pull good fortune to you, but I'm also apprehensive. What if i cheat on her, what if i break up with her?

Has anyone had this type.of encounter? Please, she is not a bad person. I'm just wondering if there are truly people like this.

my brother don't try to mess that girl up or else you regret it,her star is what is working in your favour, do you really know that wearing some one clothe,shoe and sleeping with someone who have a bad luck can affect your career? let me share my experience with you, I have a friend around 2006 he had accommodation problem I have to accommodate him and when ever am going to work I usually have him pocket money should the case he wanted to buy anything,I provide food for him after few weeks I noticed everything has changed, to the extent that when ever am going to work I be asking him for transport fare,I have to consult a lady who is a good friend to me what is going on she now asked me if I use to wear some one clothe or shoes and I said no,she also asked me it there is stranger living with me and I say yes she told me that, that is what brought a bar luck to me because his star is not working with mine, when I get home I have to told my guy to excuse me because am expecting my woman and he left my house the following day to God who made me and things started working in my favour.so don't joke with her always make her happy may God be with you

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Some years ago, I have a little problem due to my health I av to spend all my savings on it, thanks to the family and friends who really round me, so when I felt better I need to go back to my business and I had nothing to begin with, I have to talk to family and friends to give me a loan of 700k no one turned me down and am happy within a year I paid the whole debt.it good to build a trust with in your fellow man,no one can tell what goes around comes around.

orohbiro:
Nice one Kelechi, pls o don't marry a white woman we are waiting for you

oooooooooooooo le

cchub:
Ekene ndubisi aka nack nack shot.
I sight you.

Out of 1800 prisoners, this is less than 1% of them.

The remaining profile don burn

inumidun2010:
We no know am in ALAKIA , IBADAN, NIGERIA.... Can she Cook Amala and Efo-riro... No mind me.. sleep wan come but I dey fight am...

Do you reside in Alakia?

Evaberry:
Ladies take this advise seriously


1. DONT ever ask a guy out


2. Don't ever tell a guy you love/like him.


Asking a guy out never ends well

Talking from experience,Pele it's well

I only pity the Zombies they are exposing to danger on a daily basis although they have created foe than friend and I personally don't pity them,they should create what they can battle no Nation in the whole world can win a gorrilar war, keep exposing them to danger all I know is that you can't empty Barack even during wartime no one does that.

Monogamy:
You should rather ask the coward unknown gunmen to come out from their hiding and face the security forces without getting innocent people involved

then tell the military to go inside bush to face them with out getting innocent people involved

daewoorazer:
But your jumbo salary and theiving spoils grace your Babaringa every month.

The only process that can deliver Nigeria from these cankerworms called politicians is a violent revolution

May God bless you my brother, until we realise this there wouldn't be a final solution,and this useless people always take close to 1billion naira as a security vote every month and the whole Kano state is not up to a local government area in oyo state

Resurrection212:
Which indigene we don't complain to you insecurity started immediately kanu formed his terrorist group

well your comments shows your level of reasoning go back home kid and ask your elders they will tell you the way SARS were killing innocent citizen of the state and dumping there body in the river,go back home and ask them.

Resurrection212:
Kanu you will not know peace for trying to turn my peaceful state to battleground.

where were you when The Imo state police are killing innocent indegen of the state

Is that what you called a Rail line?

UsmanFodio:
I don't support freeing Criminals from prison.

If Imo state police headquarters could not be protected by the police that means that hope Uzodimma is in a dip shit

carry out your investigation on Nigeria prison you will realise that most of them are innocent and many others are on trial with out justice, criminal always find their way out of jail

kikikiiiiikiiiiii, go ahead.

kayuseful:
Upse Chelsea

send me your house account make I send some thing to you

MansoryMX:
When you get married and someone abuses your wife sexually, keep quiet like a fool and don’t teach the person a lesson (it doesn’t necessarily mean confrontation, you have every right to get the person locked up). As for him coming back for me! I did love to see him try! because I will not only turn him back to square one! I will hide even his soul! Everybody get am for body!

thanks for your advice,am married with children and we have different orientation and understanding I av found myself in such a situation time's with out number and I deal with it with maturity and everyone laughed over it.i dont argue with strangers

MansoryMX:
I am not supposed to say this out or brag but the two Naval personnel with me are SBS-2. Do your research and find out what it means for a Naval personnel to have the title SBS-2. Maybe just then you will understand the kind of person I am and the kind of people I roll with!

Bro,stop bragging your tittles wouldn't save you and stop fighting for woman either your wife or your mother in a situation like that, just thank your star the guy no be bad guy, you will get follow up and with one bullet you are a dead rat and another Man will Bleep your wife get sense don't fight some one you don't know

MansoryMX:
The two people with me are Naval personnels. If him like let him have all the crew in the world, I will still fvck him up and his crew! Them no born am well! I be full Hoodlum ooo bro! My mental case nor get cure especially when it comes to my wife. I called the CSO to lock the school gate first! Make I see where him wan drive that Benz pass! If I wanted to take the matter too far! Just one call to my cousin in EFCC Benin Zone! Him own don finish be that! You dare not disrespect someone’s wife like that!

you be yeye Man, a real man don't fight for woman,if the guy kill you after your death another man will still bang her, Don't ever fight some one you don't know,he might come back for you

wedeakiv:
Extra Source of Income: Checkout this legitimate online business that gives me atleast ₦25k and more weekly using my phone and from home. Check my Signature for details

being a kidnapper better than this

oilPUSSY:
I repeat...... If you are Igbo and you still believe in the Unity of Nigeria, psyschiatric hospital should be your permanent home by now...


Nigerian army is always ready to take sides with Herdsmen but refused to protect the citizens they ought to protect..

It's obvious that the an attack on ESN by Nigerian army last week was to pave way for Herdsmen to invade Eastern Nigeria...

Let's see how this ends...

Modified..

One desperate attention seeking hegoat in Benin Idip camp quoted me and said karma is a bitch...

Which karma is worse than been displaced by skinny Herdsmen when war is not going on ?

Which karma is worse than after throwing party that Buhari will deal with Igbos if he wins, then your people ended up being victims of his maladministration ?

One thing about Igbos is that they are not afraid of facing death and can never leave our territory for any bastard to occupy or enthrone their kings like it was done in Ilorin... We fought a bloody 3 yr civil war without loosing an inch of our territory for strangers, but Ilorin is lost FOREVER without a single gunshot...

We would rather fight back on our land than to get displaced by Herdsmen like it's done in your region..

Benin refugee people sef, go and que for ur ewedu and amala, It's afternoon

you are blessed

So 50million soildier has finally turned to errands boy under the watch of fulanis, what a useless man

Liposure:
For a player that is yet to reach his prime. This is outrageous. We will save our money and buy later.

Arsenal fan spotted

Lostchild:
My married and single brothers of Nairaland.

I was wondering if I should share this on romance or family section. What I am about to write here may look weird but I just want to see your opinion over my insanity. Even my own mother marvel at me sometimes and she keep wondering what type of person she gave birth to.

About me
I am a chronic introvert and everyday I need alone time to stay healthy.

I am lover of peace and I can only dwell in a place where there is peace and harmony. I just can't underatand why people quarrel and fight. I prefare dialogue to do what is right and just.

I am financially OK

I am old enough to get married but I have too many problem with my personality that is preventing me from falling in love with any Nigerian woman.

I have dated pretty and hotties, but I always see that Nigeria women cannot handle me at all.

I feel so depressed as I strongly feel that I have a caucasian soul and I feel so alone and completely LOST.

MY PROBLEM No (1)
I need a woman with a complete western (mindset) mentality
I need a woman who will watch western movies with me.
I need a woman who love western music, rock, pops, acoustic, country and hip hop.
I love nature - and I like to expand my horizon but most Nigeria women don't even know what nature Is.

PROBLEM No (2)
All the beautiful ladies and girls I see all around me, they are just too Nigerian or too traditional. I have travel to different cities and town and I still see the Nigeria genes in them.

I cannot stand a woman that listen and dance over Nigeria music because Nigeria music are crazy, the music irritate me and always makes me feel so depressed.

I cannot stand a woman that watch Nigeria movies because I feel very depressed over Nigeria juju movies.

I cannot stand a woman that watches zee world as India culture is much more crazy with idolatry than Nigeria.

I cannot stand a woman that has tribal mindset or always speak her native tongue. Anytime I see and find a lady/girl attractive, immediately I noticed she has tribal mentality, and can speak her native language apart from English. I will instantly loss interest in her because I see Nigeria language as the number one evil in Nigeria soil and I dont want this evil languages to be transfer into the life of my unborn children.

MY PROBLEM No (3)
I cannot trust today's women that has fvck too many dick

I see marriage/wedding ceremony as useless.

I see that the love many Nigeria women confess to men are fake. To the typical Nigeria woman, money comes as the first priority

I have seen too many people divorce in marriage, there are just too many.

I have seen genuine men of God even divorce and their wives became the devil in their life.(shocking)

Me and all my childhood friends, our parent all went through bitter divorce and our parent hated each other.

MY PLAN.
I am planning to do baby mama plus. I mean, no wedding/marriage ceremony, no marriage certificate until she has proven her loyalty to me for many years.

I am planning baby mama plus because I just can't trust a woman and marriage of today.

I have this mindset that if I do baby mama plus, if she troubles me so much I can easily flee and left the house for her just to save my peace as I cannot stand conflict and heavy nagging women.

If she get tired of me or she start cheating, I can easily move out of our conjugal relationship and still take care of our children.

My western personality is really tomenting me with depression.

Guys; Am I insane?
Brothers; Am I being selfish?

What do you think?

Your opinion is highly welcome.

EDIT.
I was born in Delta and I cannot speak any native language apart from english. I have come to hate all the Nigeria languages because it brings so much division. Like i said I love peace and harmony

I have seen men who are suffer emotionaly because they married the wrong woman.

It is not a sin for a person like me to desire to find someone like myself, a compatible lover and a friend. For me, a long lasting relationship is base on mutual compatibility.

If i can even find a lady with half of my personality in her, I will even thank God, but I have not not met any of my personality type at all.

There is more harmony when birds of the same feather fly together. And I must say that all the comment I received here are just making me laugh and I keep laughing

your sit is vacant at Shiloh 2021