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Family / For Women - Why You Should Love Your Husband More Than Your Kids by markpenk: 1:23pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
Less than one month after my husband and I got married—before I even mailed thank you notes for our wedding gifts—I found myself holding a positive pregnancy test. Eight and a half months into our marriage, while we were still getting comfortable in our roles as husband and wife, we suddenly became mom and dad. I won’t say that our son was poorly planned—we were both anxious to start our family—but I will say that in hindsight becoming a mother in the same year that you become a wife is not for the weak. The first year of our son’s life was the most difficult of our marriage to date and it is also the year I learned a very important lesson: My husband must always come before our children. Don’t get me wrong; I love my kids and would do anything for them. But I love my husband more. When I share this with my mom friends, it’s usually met with outrage and total shock. After all, this goes against the golden rule of motherhood, the one that tells us being a good parent means sacrificing all for the happiness and well-being of our children. Putting aside our own needs for theirs is practically a requirement but I’m sorry, I’m just not buying it. But, to some, the concept that kids would ever come second seems ludicrous. In a survey conducted by YourTango, half of the experts polled believe that wives should prioritize their husband over their kids. As you can imagine, the commenters were less than enthused. And I get it. There’s no question that the bond between a mother and child is unbreakable. But I view my investment in my relationship with my spouse as one that is beneficial to our family as a whole. Prioritizing my husband’s needs decreases our chances of getting divorced; it also increases the probability that our children will remain in a two-parent home. I strongly believe that modeling a healthy relationship for our children sets the foundation for how they form bonds when they get older. In my opinion, my husband and I are the first example of what being in a happy marriage is like. Our kids learn how they should treat their future significant others (and what they should expect in return) by watching us. I think that raising them in a home with parents who clearly love and value one another is key to their growth. For me, this means putting my husband first. With very few exceptions, you will not find our kids in our bed at night. If we can only afford to take one vacation a year, we take it alone, and I feel no guilt about soliciting the help of family so that we can have a date night where we talk about anything but our children. In a few years, our son and daughter will leave our home and when they do, I want to celebrate a job well done with my lover—not sit in a quiet house with a person who has become a stranger as a result of years of quietly drifting apart. Source: https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/why-i-love-my-husband-more-than-my-children-115951224483.html 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Ahead Of Wedding, Gbenro Ajibade Takes Off Dreadlocks by markpenk: 10:01pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
Who asked me to open this thread while eating o... My appetite don disappear |
Fashion / Re: My Natural Hair Wants To Kill Me Before My Time by markpenk: 10:32am On Apr 03, 2015 |
I swear this girl funny die. . Cracks me up every time I read her posts. Babe, just bookmarked your blog right now. You are funny as hell. Naijasinglegirl: |
Politics / Re: Jega's Announcement Of Presidential Election Results 2015: Part 4 by markpenk: 4:14pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Lol at "Unobtanium"... you're a funny firecracker " BuddhaPalm: |
Politics / Re: Jega's Announcement Of Presidential Election Results 2015: Part 4 by markpenk: 1:10pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
lol... how did they know they wanted to vote for APC? Did they broadcast it? Na wa o UjSizzle: |
Politics / Re: Jega's Announcement Of Presidential Election Results 2015: Part 4 by markpenk: 1:09pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Rivers Result... Buhari be like "Amaechi wvat haffened?", Amaechi be like "Oga a swear, e shock me pass you" 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Jega's Announcement Of Presidential Election Results 2015: Part 4 by markpenk: 1:04pm On Mar 31, 2015 |
Lmao... hedges007: |
Politics / Re: Jega's Announcement Of Presidential Election Results 2015: Part 4 by markpenk: 11:43am On Mar 31, 2015 |
Can someone please forcibly remove that troublemaker... Jega cold as ice. Extremely calm under pressure. Bravo! 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Virgin Singer Adokiye Turns A Year Older Today by markpenk: 8:19pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Don't see what's to like in this chic's pics. Looks gaudy at best. That aside, her claim to virginity is laughable. This is one of those girls who says "you can't go in "there", try the other "entrance" and are pros at every other thing -not to mention the fact that every other orifice is "de-veed" . |
Politics / Re: Buhari Assures Nigerians On Religious Neutrality by markpenk: 6:13pm On Mar 25, 2015 |
This man cannot help Nigeria, sentiments aside. With utterances like "I'll stabilize global oil prices" and "make the naira equal to the dollar", this man clearly doesnt know what he's talking about anymore. This man really has no grasp of national/international issues. These problems are largely a result of global events and out of the country's hands. It's a global problem and we're not the only ones suffering from it. So, why is he making it seem like it's the government's problem? If nigerians elect this man, there'll be serious wahala in the country. simdam500: |
Politics / Re: Polls : Jega Ignored My Request For A Meeting – Oritsejafor by markpenk: 11:03pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
This Ayo Oritsejafor man doesn't respect himself. Who does he really think he is? Even Oyedepo and Adeboye who have members in the hundreds of thousands didn't request an audience. Yet, this man considers himself important because he is the president of CAN? Make him go siddon jare. Someone is busy trying to make sure that the elections are smoothly run and he is there trying to play politics and form unnecessary associations. if he had genuine ideas, why didnt he just text or email Jega with the solutions. After all, that's why he said he wanted to meet the man. His statements show that he has other ulterior motives. This man sef... I tire for him matter. |
Jokes Etc / Re: 25 Hilarious Rules For Driving In Lagos (Rules of Engagement) by markpenk: 3:14pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Lmao... Weyrey people Onegai: 1 Like |
Jokes Etc / Re: 25 Hilarious Rules For Driving In Lagos (Rules of Engagement) by markpenk: 3:12pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
26. When you see everyone running, run in the same direction as they are -unless it's towards the canal, then you're on your own o- and ask questions later 27. If you see people gathered together for whatever reason, just keep walking. Otherwise, it's bye-bye to your belongings. 28. if you stop to buy anything in traffic, make sure the hawkers give you your change first before giving them money. 3 Likes |
Health / Re: Will You allow Your Pregnant Wife Do Any Of These? (Pictures) by markpenk: 5:00pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Damn... but that fourth picture... she backin' that thing up to me like that... it'll get "dangerous" real fast ochejoseph:
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Music/Radio / Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by markpenk: 9:29pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Human Being M.I ft Tuface Sound Sultan She Knows (Remix) Neyo 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Silly Things That Goes Through Her Mind When She's Going Through Her Bf's Phone by markpenk: 7:31am On Feb 28, 2015 |
[quote author=MzNelly post=31048279][/quote] ROFLMAO. This is the funniest thread on NL... Witty too. How come this isn't on front page? Mods please move this to the front page. Its a great way to start the weekend. *Still laughing*. This girl is funny as hell. 29-31 had me laughing so hard! |
Technology Market / Re: Intel Core I5 Laptops And Accesories..ALL SOLD OUT!!! by markpenk: 7:07am On Feb 28, 2015 |
Mikky, please update when you have new PCs with similar specs. I need one. |
Celebrities / Re: K Cee And Jim Iyke's Fashion Style. Which Looks More Mature? by markpenk: 10:39am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Haba... how can you compare Jim Iyke's Dress Sense with Kcee's? Kcee's outfits are simply outlandish and too out there. Reminds me of newly rich igbo boys trying hard to belong (no offence) but failing. Far as I'm concerned, Kcee is good looking, but he needs an excellent fashion consultant. That picture of him in red suit and matching shoes? Ha, na die lol. Iyke's fashion taste on the other hand is svelte, sophisticated, refined classy and stylish. There's moderation and balance, which are the key to sophistication. I may not like the guy personally, but dude is a baffer abeg. Jim Iyke's fashion sense says "I've got money, and I've got class". Kcee's says "I've got money, but need class". Shikena. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Scores Of Boko Haram Terrorists Killed In Borno by markpenk: 10:37am On Feb 08, 2015 |
This is great news. News like this make my day. May we continue to triumph over these imbecilic cowards. God bless the JTF, the army and my beloved naija. 69 Likes 4 Shares |
Politics / Re: 5 Reasons Why I Think Postponing The Elections Was A Smart Move by markpenk: 10:34am On Feb 08, 2015 |
Bruv, first can we keep away from pointing fingers? I know it's not easy, but make we try abeg. That said, it is actually their constitutional duty to provide security and protection during elections. monteriza: |
Politics / Re: 5 Reasons Why I Think Postponing The Elections Was A Smart Move by markpenk: 10:29am On Feb 08, 2015 |
Bruv, please let's keep this thread clean. Let's leave the accusations and insults for other threads. Here, let's just reason like educated folks and leave the bickering to the other threads. I don tire to dey see insult upon insult on top nairaland. Cheers. mekadinho: |
Politics / Re: 5 Reasons Why I Think Postponing The Elections Was A Smart Move by markpenk: 10:21am On Feb 08, 2015 |
True talk at the bolded. babyfaceafrica: |
Politics / Re: 5 Reasons Why I Think Postponing The Elections Was A Smart Move by markpenk: 10:19am On Feb 08, 2015 |
That's a question only people in government can answer. Anyways, upwards and forwards. Let them do the needful now. As they say, necessity is the mother of invention. Let's hope they rise to the occasion now. lordthree: |
Religion / Re: No Prophecy About Election Postponement by markpenk: 10:15am On Feb 08, 2015 |
. Oya, prophets o, make una come outside come defend unaself o lol simplymade: 1 Like |
Politics / Re: 5 Reasons Why I Think Postponing The Elections Was A Smart Move by markpenk: 10:07am On Feb 08, 2015 |
Interesting question my brother. The truth is it can't be postponed further. We'll just have to move forward with it seeing as the constitution says all elections must be concluded at the latest 30 days to the swearing in day. That said, 6 weeks is enough time for the FG to prepare, deploy and properly equip all alternative security agencies to carry out the task of protecting the citizenry during the elections. It's not the ideal situation, but we'll have to work with what we have. LRNZH: |
Politics / 5 Reasons Why I Think Postponing The Elections Was A Smart Move by markpenk: 10:01am On Feb 08, 2015 |
What is it with political parties rousing the polity and making inflammatory statements? Honestly, all I hear is just noise from people who are susceptible to the bandwagon effect and their leaders trying to cause trouble. Let's examine this rationally, shall we? 1. The elections were postponed because the army is otherwise engaged in the north east. Let's talk about this for a moment. The FG only recently reached a multilateral agreement with neighboring countries on stemming the influx of the menace that is called Boko Haram. As a result, there's been considerable success in the war against the terrorists. All of those saying that the government had 6 years to fight these guys know nothing about guerrilla warfare or how these terrorists operate. Like it or not, Boko Haram is well funded -by whom, we don't know, but that's not the argument- and is considered the 5th most funded terrorist group in the world. These terrorists have access to weaponry that even the nigerian army can only dream of. This combined with our porous borders made it easy for them to sneak in, do their damage, and get out into neighboring countries like Chad and Cameroon without any repercussions. But now that they're being engaged on all fronts, things aren't going so well for them now considering the recent success in the campaign against terror. 2. If the army were reassigned to protect the people and ensure peace during the elections, the question is, will there be a nation to even protect by the time the elections are over, considering that there's the possibility of a greater influx of terrorist running from neighboring countries? To my mind, if it takes just a few more weeks to contain these imbecilic and cowardly terrorists while giving the army enough time to marshal its resources and deploy its manpower, I think the 6-week wait is justified. 3. Have you ever heard the saying "strike while the iron is hot"? Well, that's what the army is currently doing. Reassigning them to other duties will only slow down the progress they've been making to secure the nation's peace. 4. Can we in all honesty put the safety and security of this country in the hands of the NPF or any other security organization? Because these are the only people available to do any "protecting". If you answered yes, let me ask you a quick question: if you had the option of choosing between the police and army to protect and guard your neighborhood, who would you choose? The answer I'm sure is obvious. Bottom line, we need the army to have peaceful elections. 5. There is palpable tension in the polity. It's so palpable, you could almost touch it. Moving the election by six weeks will only help diffuse the tension to more manageable levels. And those clamoring for more time to get their PVCs can now go get it. if anyone doesnt get his/her PVC during this time, they won't have anyone to blame but themselves. Now, my submission is this: If we can wait for four years, we can wait another 6 weeks to ensure that we have credible elections. There's no point in having elections riddled with accusations of bias and little or no due diligence. God bless Nigeria. P.S: Only mature and rational comments please. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Technology Market / Re: Dell Latitude E6320 Core I7 -SOLD by markpenk: 3:13pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
We can always meet around UI. Its public and safe. You? kryptonia: |
Technology Market / Re: Toshiba Satellite L500-1ur 4gb Ram, 500gb hard drive dual core Neat For Sale!! by markpenk: 3:05pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
More pics please, specs and location |
Technology Market / Re: Brand New Touchscreen HP Laptop by markpenk: 2:33pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Bruv, I might be interested. Kindly upload more pics of the PC. Cheers deyinkadeji: |
Technology Market / Re: California(Los Angeles),pickup services..Online purchase..(Ebay/Amazon,walmart) by markpenk: 2:29pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
Any pictures of this PC? Upload them if there are. deyinkadeji: 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: When Babe Visits And You Both Are In Godly Relationship (PHOTO) by markpenk: 9:09am On Jan 25, 2015 |
Nah... the couple dey fight. Look at the chick all dressed up lying on the bed with no coverings and the guy lying on the ground with the comforter/duvet If they were in good terms, bobo for give am the duvet. DEGREE2466: |
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