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IAmHim1:
grooming for men and exercise tips aint bad unno

after shave for men, cheap hair clippers for men...which one u using etcetera...

perfumes...phermones that hack womens olfactory...studies...comparision between perfume oils and those nonsense fuff fuff that last for 30seconds...perfume engineering...how to get and how to mix. might be expensive but there are readera here capable you never can tell

dressing...how to get qualiity inexpensive clothes for men..also for women...katangua or so in lagos...how to open bay or hows it called...HECK! how to
skip moddlemen and buy yourself directly if need be lolzzzz

talks on how women from other countries behave and treat men compared to nigerian girl.. not hear says but first class source...how to get to those countries...first class information...visa sponsorship if necesaary


those kinda stuffs

heck

im yet to stumble on talks like how to give girls mind shattering orgasms....anal sex...pros and cons...again real life experience not wiki how bullshii...how to last long in bed...not all those silly banana and groundnut 20 minutes before sex yada yada yada

what of time wasters like church 4hrs spent there pretending to be a good somebody could be used to watch your favorite movie or heck even rest well in anticipation for busy monday

wat of movie review like stoopid guardians of the galaxy, aquaman and thor 3 upwards...movies that encourage men to cry and be weak and shiiiiiii

or should we go to the diaries section too...or perhaps the health section

PinkNature has a point

A total nonsense and superfluous meandering that misses the point. Knowing fully well that we are in a thread that says "strictly redpill" and that people have the right to post what they want as long as it aligns with this thread's objective and doesn't break any rule, does it make sense to confront someone over posting women alone? Think! Do you really know how silly and stupid that sounds?

If one (or everyone here) wants to discuss only women here, there is nothing wrong with that. No one is entitled to people writing about topics they want; this thread isn't centred around anyone's wants and whims. If you really want certain topics discussed, simply take on the responsibility to discuss those topics. If people show interest, fine; if they don't, fine. If you can't do that, kindly skip the thread and come back later. This is the mature and rational thing to do instead of complaining that someone is only discussing women alone. It is not by force to make a good point.

Finally, to the mischievous, infantile, and irrational folks, if you don't like people on this thread or you secretly habour any animosity towards them for whatever reason, kindly say so. The same old tactic of subtly implying that redpillers have no real life experience, haven't gone out there, and are just recycling theories while you are the opposite is stale at this point. What could be next? Subtly portraying them as women haters, disgruntled folks, and bad judges of quality women because they discuss things you don't like? Smh.

Karlifate:
Ph00leesh troll,

If you like, let your "nature" be red or purple, IDC 🤷‍♂️

No be you buy phone & data for me. 💯



P.S: Be ready for back-to-back post that'll give your nightmare.

You are doing nothing wrong. Carry on. Those who want to see their preferred topic being discussed should make their posts dealing with the topics they want. No one is tying their hands.

Everyone has the right to post what they want as long as it isn't against the rules and objective of this thread. You can't force others to type what you like when the thread is centered around you.

Odebayo4010:
Men cheating is not that bad 😔
Women cheating is the end of the relationship. Why 🤷

Woman being broke or losing her job is not that bad 😔
Man being broke or losing his job is the end of relationship. Why 🤷

When you understand that men and women are different, you will stop asking this type of question.

Okay, fine, let me now appeal to Hamas to stop killing Jews because Jews are suffering.

Nothing new: this is an ongoing trend from past generations. Despite this, Nigerians will still suffer and smile; hope in god and crooked survival means; cut corners and reduce expenses to accommodate inflation; give birth like rats; indulge in tribalism, blind political biases, sick classism; and/or pat themselves on the back for enduring and smartly surviving. This is the way of Nigerians in the face of economic shege.

SOZINN:
@Martinez39s
Whats up man, how have you been?

I am fine, bro. I have just been busy.

@CaveAdullam

Chairman, if you are having problem contacting me, let me know. Perhaps we may device other means to establish contact. My email is v**********@gmail.com, I kindly await your email anytime you are free. I could have dropped my number here, but you know I am secretive with my identity. Cheers!

@CaveAdullam

Reach me at Ventodiablo@gmail.com. Nairaland won't let me update my email. The DM I just sent now via nairaland is from the old email; disregard it.

@CaveAdullam

The email address on my profile is outdated and lost. I forgot to update it and I kept searching for your mail. I will send you a DM now.

CaveAdullam:
I sent you a DM.

Check your inbox/header section.

Thanks.

Okay 👍

CaveAdullam:
"na money we all dey find na".

If it's something you think I can add to my portfolio, please, share. Let me follow you and earn in pounds and dollars.

Btw, I'm still trying to reach a post of yours where you recommended some mathematics textbooks.

Please, help me with a better recommended list.

Perhaps, I might send a DM.

Thanks.

I think you are referring to this post of mine:

Martinez39s:
For a start, study these in order:
1) Basic Mathematics For College Students by Alan S. Tussy, David Gustafson, and Diane Koenig. (This book will teach you basic arithmetic from the scratch).
2) Algebra and Trigonometry by Michael Sullivan.
3) Geometry by Ron larson, Laurie Boswells and Co.
4) Calculus by Ron larson, Edwards and Hostetler.

If you don't become too good for O- and A-level after studying these properly, then something is wrong with you. After studying these, chat me if you need more books.

This was for personal study and to fill up my leisure time. Start from one to five, in that order. If you are done, you can proceed to read Elementary Linear Algebra by Ron Larson, Edwards, and Falvo. If you are interested in learning Mathematics, these should do and leave you thoroughly grounded.

You can try getting the pdf online; it is easy by googling or going to pdfdrive website. You can get books on all subjects of life on that website. If you have any problem locating any book on that, I can contact you and send the pdf files via whatsapp.

CaveAdullam:
Sweet laptop.

Martin, it's obvious you want to **** the World Bank.

Will love to read reviews in the future.

Nice one, man.

No cast me, bro. I will give reviews in three months time after extensive use.

Darkseid:
Buying a brand new laptop in Nigeria is only worth it if you don't intend to sell it in future. You'll struggle to find someone ready to offer you 400k for it just after one week of use. Nice PC though

I don't intend to sell it; I plan to keep it forever. I even plan to add a much better and powerful one next year or in two years time. It is a nice pc.

Regex:
Which of the brand did you buy and the specs.

It's a HP Z book. Corei7; 16gb RAM.

@CaveAdullam @Regex @Maximm

I finally got a laptop; it's brand new. It costs 850k and it is worth it. Thanks for your advices.

Mtsewwww. Peak fooling.

Regex:
Any you go for is good. Just look out for thw icore value and generation. Make sure it is ssd and not hard drive.

Thanks boss.

CaveAdullam:
Look for a friend or neighbor that sells or knows someone that sells. It helps ensure that you're getting something good.

Many in Computer Village or anywhere else will run you street-smart if they sense you are a novice buyer.

I can share a plug with you. But first, confirm the above.

Thanks.

Thanks a lot. I am exploring some options. In addition to that, my cousin just promised to link me with two sure plugs.

Finally, I am curious, which brand of laptop do you think I should go for? HP or Dell?

Guys, I am looking to buy a solid hp laptop with a corei7 processor with minimum of 8gb RAM. Where should I go in Lagos? In addition, what are your model recommendations?

@Afodot0022

As you have always done, ensure the children don't suffer any unfair or harsh treatment from you because of the issue you had with your wife. I know how you feel, trust me, but you must always realise that whatever happened between you and your ex-wife is between you both, and should stay between you both. The kids had nothing to do with it, and should not be made to suffer. The separation is enough for them, don't add to it.

If you wife is taking good care of them, allow it continue and make effort to coparent. Learn the lessons of the past and rise above the pain and shakles of the past. Finally, ensure you conduct a DNA test on all yout kids and do such in secret without a soul being aware.

You did well by refusing to continue with a cheating wife. A cheating woman must be sent packing. Never forgive or condone cheating.

GlobeTrotter2:
she will get tired and retire with you... Can you even hear yourself Your papa!!!!!

Sorry to say, this right here is the reason I will always advice Nigerian men if you can, pls marry from another country.

Are you minding her? An obnoxious, vile, and mean child in an adult body. It would have been better to hiss (or shake your head) and ignore.

10thTenthMan:
Perform your duty. That is my advice.

A cheating spouse is a possibility in ANY Relationship. If you like let Pastor Adeboye choose for you. It won’t mean shit!!!! I say it with my full chest. DO NOT FREAKING GO INTO MARRIAGE WITH CINDERELLA DREAMS, FANTASIES AND SELF DELUSION. Marriage is Work! Marriage is responsibility! Marriage is Duty. Especially when there are KIDS IN IT!

As a human and especially as a man, know this possibility and know peace, that a Cheating Spouse is a possible outcome! Whether you trust your partner or not, people will do whatever they like to do. First rule of human interaction, TRUST NO ONE! Second Rule, you can never know anyone completely. It is impossible. Don’t deceive yourself.

There are Foolish people who regurgitate hair saloon and beer parlour talk and spew over repeated trash like “if you trust him or her she won’t cheat”. It makes me laugh at how dense humans can be and how simple they see human relationships and interactions.

No Oga/Madam, trust is bullshit! It won’t stop her black, red, white or purple panties from being pulled down or pulled aside. Neither will trust stop his manhood from entering the mouth of the woman he is cheating with who is hell bent on giving the experience of a life time. TRUST IS A MINDSET YOU NECESSARILY HAVE TO DEVELOP FOR YOUR OWN PEACE OF MIND! Trust isn’t to prevent cheating and Trust doesn’t stop cheating!!! Trust is for your own effing peace, so you don’t kill your self with worry and heart ache and suspicion, snooping around and bothering if a guy is not currently bending her over and thrusting wickedly into her or if a lady is not wickedly and intentionally riding on top of him bouncing up and down like a possessed demon to ensure he keeps coming back. Other people say let God choose for you. Please note also that God doesn’t choose shit!!!!! It even goes against his principle of free will. GOD NEVER CHOSE A WIFE FOR ANY OTHER MAN after he made Eve!!! And there are marriages dying today and couples suffering because one hungry so called Pastor did a match from Hell! What is keeping many marriages in Nigeria today is that:

a. the marriage is the meal ticket for most women;

b. societal and religious shame and stigma of divorce. AKA what will the world say!;

c. personal ideology of seeing divorce as a form of failure or not fighting hard enough for what is yours;

d. maintaining the marriage to “pepper” friends and show off fake marital bliss.

e. finally the fear that the kids might suffer during separation.

NOW TO ALL DIVORCED MEN, especially those who experienced horrible things from their spouses BUT STILL HAVE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT and take care of the kids with a cheating ungrateful ex, I say:

1. Verify the Kids are Yours. Do 3 DNA Tests if possible at 3 different places. Do secret Peace of Mind (POM) tests if possible. All Men MUST MAKE IT A POINT OF DUTY TO DO POM Tests on ALL THIER KIDS even if you married the Virgin Mary Herself and it took you eternity to disvirgin and penetrate her on your wedding night! Forget story. Do your POM Test on ALL Kids.

2. Man up and Do your duty! Fatherhood and manhood is about DUTY! Do your duty and don’t expect praise. Do your duty. That is what makes you a dad. You have made a bad choice. No wahala. Your bad! No wahala. But for the kids. DO YOUR DUTY. Fatherhood, similar to manhood is about DUTY! Protect, Provide, Comfort, Love, Support, Set Perfect Example, Be a responsible member of the society and Increase the Family’s power, influence and wealth.

3. Ensure she is using the funds for the kids and try to be in their lives. Ensure you have time to be present for the kids. If she does not, allow you to, make secret video recordings (spy pens, spy glasses, spy tie clips, etc) of your attempt at visiting the kids and her attempts to stop you. Keep these as evidence.

4. Keep ALL records of what you give. What you pay. Time you spend and make out to be with the kids. Etc. Keep ALL Records. Keep everything down to receipts of toys you buy.

5. Lastly and finally,once again, DO YOUR DUTY TO THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITIES AS A MAN! Try your best and do your duty as a man and a father.

Nice one!

A man that can't fend for himself has no business with marriage.

Timoleon:
Word. Once the truth come out, that which she fears will happen and be multiplied in many folds.

That is if she cares about the boy and has remorse. She might not care if the boy likes her in future. All that matters to her now is to "win" against the husband.

lawrenzooo:
My Dad's friend who is Canadian wanted to take me to Canada after secondary school for studies after asking if I would be interested and I answered in the affirmative.

All of a sudden the man went mute, after about 3 months I asked the man and he said my parent didn't consent, when i eventually asked my parent i realized it was my dad that refused, its been 18 years now and our relationship never remained the same.

Whatever decision you make put the child's interest first.

Kai!

flexyrule:
Females hardly raise males...


Notorious B.I.G. was abandoned
by his father when he was 2.
.
.
.
Christina Aguilera
Christina Aguilera's parents,
Fausto Xavier Aguilera and
Shelly Loraine, divorced when
the "Genie in a Bottle" singer
was a little girl. Aguilera has
claimed that her father was
abusive.

Eddie Murphy
Eddie Murphy's father died
when he was very young. He
was raised by his mother,
Lillian, in Roosevelt, New York.


Keanu Reeves
Keanu Reeves's father, Samuel
Nowlin Reeves, Jr., abandoned
his family when the Matrix actor
was just three years old.

Someone talked about females hardly raising males to be strong men, and you are bringing a list that also contains females raised by women. Besides, I didn't know celebrity status achieved without a father or father figure shows that one is strong, discipline and stable man and not a puśsy, śimp, and bluepilled lover boy his mum raised him to be. Also, take note of the word "hardly"; it doesn't mean impossible.

Well, let us hear from Tupac Shakur, a man whose mother alienated him from his father and fed him lies that his father was dead. what does Tupac Shakur have to tell us

redcliff:
I can tell an ignorant woman when i see one or hear them talk. go and look at the stats and you will discover that a single parent household where the man is the only parent is as good as a double parent household where both man and woman are present. but a single household where woman is the only parent has a negative effect on the child.. this is not my data, go and verify..

Nothing but the truth. This is why I can support a man getting surrogates to breed his children, but not a woman.

Dizzyyish:
This is perhaps the most unfortunate part. Perpetual children with no foresight nor sense of accountability.
The way I see it, this thread is to validate what she might already have in mind - any reasonable advice in regards to the wellbeing of the child first and foremost will be sidelined.

Trust me, she won't listen to sound advice. This is why in the past men were made the sole owners of children and their wives.

A women would usually place her feelings over the child's wellbeing in a situation like this. She will know what she is doing is wrong and can be made known of the consequences, but she doesn't care. Feelings first. The result? Chaos, and irreversible and almost irrecoverable damages. Not to mention the possible resentment and regret the child will have later on. So much for the so called innate maternal instinct and feminine compassion/empathy; such a loud PR for women.

Men, on the other hand, seem to usually have the maturity, rationality, and emphathy to place their children's wellbeing above dispute and bitterness towards the mother. Usually, a woman must be really terrible or might have threatened to take the kids away from the father... for him to take the kids away.

SMH.

EEIA:
No use your bad belle spoil your son very bright future oh!

That son of yours will one day blame you for killing his bright future.

I tell you.

When the son does blame her, she won't accept any blame or responsibility. She will blame the son... and even the father.

PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
You know exactly what he is planning. He wants his son but not you. He has deviced a perfect way. If you allow this, trust me, you'll only be speaking to your son on the phone once in a while

He is not trying to dupe her. Remember they are divorced, hence he has no obligation towards the mother. He only has obligations towards their son. Think!

If the genders were switched, she wouldn't bring the father along and she would alienate the boy from the father. She is simply projecting herself on the father.

Pecoleee345:
Women will never stop to amaze me......take her along ??

Like she would have take him along if she the one?

You people just feel entitled to everything despite them been divorced.

At you minding her? The father has to obligation to an ex-wife.

ChybuzzDD:
She's not the sole owner of the child and can't be the sole decision maker for him

This general female's possessiveness with regard to children needs to stop.

Women always think they own their children much more than fathers.