sprints1:
I just hate this Spain coach Enrique na one idiot mofo u get Sergio Ramos u no pick come dey use busquest as centre back. Aziplicueta wey be otu for Chelsea come dey start ahead of carvajal no be juju b that. Come dey play asensio for striking put morata for bench. If Costa Rica get sense dem fit win like 3-1

I wonder what Asensio is doing in the centre. Wetin I sabi?

CaveAdullam:
X

The sage is about to drop something.

@Dabronze

Did you send me an email?

Eric247:



Good afternoon sir,
I'm fyn sir and you?
Just finished with my papers, the load work of my exams reduced my sexual urges, it seems being busy makes me not to lust but the issue is that it's only books and podcasts I can watch read, and they aren't enough to control my libido, watching TV series with sex scenes makes me crave sex, I'm young in my early 20's and i need guidance, these thread in a way is making me crave for sex.

Go to the gym. Do physical exercises and jog a lot. Learn skills like programming and graphics design.

Always go through the long posts I sent you back then. You must note that have sexual urges are normal and okay. They are never bad. What is bad is letting your sexual urges overwhelm and control you. There is no man who doesn't have sexual urges or gets sexually excited from time to time. Stop trying to utterly get rid of sexual urges; it is impossible. As long as they don't control you or overwhelm you , you have no problem. As long as you don't let sexual urges colour your rational judgment, you are doing alright.

Go through the posts I sent you back then. Keep practicing the assignments I gave you and keep yourself busy. Give yourself 3 months and you will start noticing good changes in your habit and better discipline. Don't rush it, just be consistent no matter how hard it is.

This is a popular scam technique. Haba!

emmaodet:


Waoooo

Thought I posted that comment on my Dairy.
Didn’t know it was posted in your thread.

I lifted the quote from your diary because nairaland can't let me post on your diary.

About your comment. - that is true.
The lady even looks old and desperate

One can tell from her statements that she is an evening newspaper who has gone through her hoe phase and is looking to settle down. Time is not on her side.

OfficialDJ:
I don't want other blue pilled men to benefit from it, hence why my target demographic is here...


If I open a thread, it's thrown open to everyone.

I get.

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

Empowering men is good. I will suggest you open a thread for your giveaway instead of doing it here. My two cents.

emmaodet:
Have been going on vacations and staycations of recent but noticed men hardly participate in it.

It is mostly ladies and many of these ladies use it as a 2 in 1 thing.

They are there for both the fun and also desperately looking for a man for serious relationship.
One had to call our tour guide and told him she loves him and will want them to date.
She said she is not for play but a serious relationship that will lead to marriage because men don show her shege.

Better advice that tour guide to stay away from that lady if he knows what is good for him.

ubunja:
it's true, men achieve through conflict. Conflict with self and conflict with the world. Nothing is given on a silver platter. This conflict is what builds character. Usually for most men that conflict is during their 20s while they discover themselves, finish their education and try to carve out a career. It's also a man's loneliest and most bitter time filled with frustrations of all kinds from sexual to financial. But a man is to persevere. Cause it's his rite of passage. The essential lessons of patience, persistence and relentlessness gained during this period are what will make him the Rock that his women and children will depend on. The ability to not be overwhelmed by the odds, the ability to persist under utter discouragement and the ability to retain hope while nothing is going his way is what will make a man the Head that people in his life can follow with confidence and trust. It's called The School of Life. Circumstances are the teachers.

Being a man is never going to be easy. It would be nice to inherit a softer existence. But that's not what destiny has planned for us. Ours is a bloodstained path sprinkled with sweat and tears. No easy mode. No cruise. No dodging consequences. No hiding behind excuses. No nothing. You stand up straight and you take it. And survive it.

Nice one. This is the life of men in general.

Eric247, I hope you are doing well.

... e don dey get belle.... shakara don end o.

@Eric247
How are you doing? Have you been making progress?

@CaveAdullam
Have you been in touch with Eric247? If so, how is the young champ doing?

Cityfirstborn:


Did city submit any bid for him? How did you come to the conclusion that city wanted him, even pep has already said city never wanted him and wouldn’t have signed him. The fact is no club wanted him even manutd, his agent used the media to deceive manutd into signing him

I'm a Utd fan, but I am disgusted with Ronaldo fans. The asslicking is pathological.

Ronaldo fan boys keep acting like Man City were ever going to sign him even after Pep dispelled that talking point.

The same fan boys keep acting like Man Utd forced Ronaldo to stay even when other top clubs in the UCL were never willing to sign him, not at his salary demand at least. After his decision to leave for a ucl club backfired, he had no choice but to stay and he should be grateful that Ten Hag has him in his plans, though he isn't the main character.

hopefulLandlord:
Adeboye is a man of God, he drove a car from Ore to Lagos on empty tank and he said if you don't pay your tithes you won't make heaven. what more reason do you need to keep donating your 10% to churches?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpCgpR6dETY

Who are you to question the ways of God? Touch not His anointed lest you incur His wrath. If the Lord chooses to make Pst Adeboye's car run on empty tank while He refuses to heal cancer patients and restore amputees, who are you to question Him? He gave Funke admission to study Botany while he ignored the children defiled by abusers, is He not worthy? Can't He do as He pleases? Doesn't He know best?

Your carnal mind will never grasp His mysterious ways. Be careful.

.....

riverbird:


Laf wan finish me for hear , this white dude beside me thinks am psyco or something .

Make we dey talk am as we dey see am.

@thegroomspa

If you know what is good for you, dump her asap. All your friend needs to do to sleep with your girl is to simply show up and meet her in secret. He will scatter and pound her pusśy... and she will enjoy it. If you are faraway in Russia on a one-week trip and your girl meets your friend in one room, you think your girl won't fuçk and ride him? In fact, with the way she has been drooling over him, fuçking him will be the first thought on her mind when you are away.

As for that guy, stop considering him as a friend. A real friend won't flirt with your babe in your presence. A guy that can fùck your babe is not one to keep around.

If you don't dump her, you will regret it; the signs are there, don't ignore it. Don't listen to those telling you that you're insecure or overthinking things. Dump that evening newspaper and shameless hòe.

Did Nunez give Haaland a head start?

It is better to be a mummy's boy than to marry a single mother, especially one with hòe vibe and a nasty attitude. Any well-to-do man with self-esteem should say NO to single mothers.

MJBOLT:

A single mother out here is angry
with me because I said I can never take care of another man's child

Make she dey vex dey go. Her vex, her high BP.

hopefulLandlord:


well well well. we've always told them it's all make-believe. charms stopping bullets are just imaginary. they'd use blanks for show or intentionally miss or use non-lethal rounds and people would believe charm worked.

https://www.kaotic.com/video/3c740e77_20221105214751_t
take a look at that video and you'd see the guy was shot at many times but the police kept missing probably out of fear and lack of adequate balance affecting his aim or he was using non-lethal rounds. if the guy did some charm and was able to run away after being shot at so many times people would start claiming it's the charm. If charms works then nobody would spend so much time and resources developing bullet proof body armour

HardMirror:
gambling for where? gambling can never give me what i am enjoying now. salaries I pay per month alone now is more than the highest i ever won then. (my highest winning was 600k).

As i said in the last thread about gambling it is a distraction from a man's true potential.

I am happy for you. Keep winning.

Remember I once said, way back, that you are the nairalander whose threads I look forward to reading the most? Good to see that you are free. Good night.

HardMirror, Hopefullandlord, and CAPSLOCKED.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:

Most people today underrate strong and sound fatherly influence.

HardMirror, long time? Hope you are still maintaining your resolve to shun betting/gambling. Hope you are good?

I was just checking up on you.

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As for the topic, I will add by saying that hope is a drug, especially for desperate and hopeless people and greedy folks. People should stay away from any form of sports betting and lottery. This common sense. I wish I can say more.

^^^^
@JESHAL

Pardon any grammatical errors. I will read my post tomorrow again and make amendments tomorrow. I want to rest.

^{I appreciate that you laid down your points politely and you made sincere inquiries while outlining your perspective. Here is my take on your post.}

JESHAL:
But without religion and traditionalism female nature will be something else, it keeps them in check,

While I am concern about the reality of things and I think religion is man-made, I can't deny the fact that religion —especially an abrahamic religion— was, and still is (in core Islamic societies), a good device in greatly curbing female destructive hypergamy, sexual waywardness, and promiscuity. It was also used in many other ways to negatively or positively control and motivate people to do certain things. I could give many examples. As for the female stuff, even if it didn't prevent certain stuffs 100%, at least there was a level of shame, standard and practices that greatly helped.

monogamy is healthy for civilization, it's preserves family units thanks to religion, the decline of religion in western societies has led to high promiscuity and divorce leading to single mother households where degenerates abound,

Regarding female nature and other stuffs, an abrahamic religion can only exert its control in a society and effectively achieve and maintain its desired status quo —the aforementioned level of shame, standard, and practices— if the constitution of that society is officially and solely determined by the precepts, laws and scriptural injuctions of the religion's holy book. Also, the state/government must be subservient and governed by that religion. We are almost talking of a theocracy here. Also there must not be any freedom to easily leave the religion and remain in that society and there must be fear of and serious punishments for desecrating and profaning such religion. 

We can see these in core Islamic societies where Sharia reigns supreme. In these societies, the state/government and the constitution defer to the Quran. In your typical Western society, there is a separation of Church from State; there is also freedom of (and from) religion; and there are the issue of free speech and equal rights. Basically, the constitution and state are secular in principle. With these factors, in addition to the exponential increase in scientific knowledge and technology, it was only a matter of time for Christianity's effectiveness in repressing certain female behaviours to decline; also, due to these factors, there was room for the freedom to introduce all sorts of social norms that are antithetical to that of the Christianity. In your typical western society, you can't impose the desired aforementioned status quo and factors on women because a higher authority in effect (the government and constitution) provides them a cover and protection from the enforcers of the religion; remember I told you that no man is bigger than society, this include the state.

In your typical Western society, you can only enforce the religious status quo on your daughters when they are young or dependent on you. However, when they grow and independent, they have freedom to choose "freedom" or the "constraints" of religion. If they choose "freedom" and liberalism, which they likely will, the government and constitution have their backs. Even still, "freedom" and liberalism inevitably are social norms and there are mediums and influences that expose them to liberal things and trends religion frowns upon. Notice how social media is banned in all core Islamic societies: this isn't a mistake. There is more to be said.

also religion keeps innate sadists in check,it ostracizes anyone that doesn't confirm to it's imposed moral principles hence healthy for the majority of the masses as it prevents destructive tendencies,

True, in many ways. However, its limit in doing this is as far as what the religious enforcers can see and lay there hands upon.

Just to add, with or without religion, good people will do good things and bad people will do bad things. I believe human decency and morality preceed religion and have evolved over time; the moral tenets of a holy book usually reflect in many areas the moral and ethical norms of the time it was written. With or without religion, laws will always be crafted to punish certain behaviours that harm and threaten the survival and welfare of the individual and group (eg. murder, rape, kidnapping, etc).

you seem like a fervently righteous Christian who had an epiphany and decided to convert to atheism, what happened? what went wrong? absence of religion something has to fill up that void in that society, typically it's a political ideology like Nazism, communism, cultural Marxism a.k.a Feminism, the excuse that religion brainwashes majority of people into believing in the existence of the supernatural which might or might or be real but how do you explain miracles, signs and wonders that are above logic and human comprehension, the world is very big and diverse, different religions,ideologies, philosophies, cultures. I want to know why you chose atheism, I look at most atheist as anti-theist not atheist because they are typically not nuanced in their arguments against religion, they don't consider alternatives and reality, they just have bias against religion, remember everyone has that consciousness that God exist no matter how much you deny it.

True. I used to be a fervent believer. My reasons for leaving Christianity are in the link below:

https://www.nairaland.com/5319206/sincere-adherents-abrahamic-religions-why

Religion can help in repressing the destructive aspects of hypergamy and female sexual waywardness, but religion is much more than restraining females, there are many other aspects of religion that people can find issues with. With the increase in knowledge, some people are seeing that religion doesn't hold water in many areas as far as evidence and logic are concerned. No matter how useful a certain religion is a certain area, a lot of people won't associate with it if it's is false in its fundamental claims and lacks a solid basis. To me and my kinds, we are bothered with what's true.

As westernisation and technology keeps spreading, most religion will lose its grasp on female nature and decency. In fact, it has happened as Islam is the only serious religion in this regard, especially in core Islamic societies. I fear Islam might lose its grip in the distant future, but I think its unlikely.

SOZINN:
@Martinèz39s thank you so much. @ Eric247 hope you are following?

Eric247 last told me he was preparing for exams. I hope he is good.

Eric247, hope you are good.

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We do advice each other to self-improve, but it is not the main topic of discussion. It is what it is. Let the thread be what it is in peace. Funny enough, I too want to see a society where men are important and treated rightfully, but that doesn't mean I will not let this thread serve its and choose to get worked up over the nature of this thread.

Nothing stops you from creating athread with your preferred aim and nature, or going to the ones that align with your needs/wants. Take the bull by the horn and do something instead of getting worked up at the thread and misrepresenting redpillers here and this thread.

For instance, feminism began as a harmless movement to advocate equal job opportunities (among other noble things) between both genders, but now, they have started and continued to move mad by thinking males and females are equal and should be treated the same. Of course, we all can see staunch feminist in their 50s and 60s regretting that they ever towed that path.
I fear that if we are not convergent in our thought, by zooming out a little to see the chaordic effect of our advocacy on the larger community, we will be worse off than we started.
This is fact!

I understand your point, but you need to let this group serve its purpose in peace. By the way, just to add, feminism has never been about equal rights and equal treatments. I will discuss later if chanced.

Again, anyone can decide to lead their lives the way they want to, but like a very intelligent man said "blessed are the BALANCED, for they shall outlast others".

Merci.

Don't worry, bro. We are alright. Redpillers coming here doesn't mean we don't go to other threads, websites/app, or offline sources that will help us in other relevant aspects of our lives to achieve this so-called balance. Stop assuming this thread is all we know and do. Redpillers know who, what and where to go to if they need things concerning business, skill acquisition, gym and fitness, etc. The thread isn't the only content on the internet.

Instead of trying to make this thread be the way you want, it is better to go to or create the thread the satisfies you because this thread won't change. It's no use worrying or showing concern when this thread won't bend the knee and suit your taste; this thread has its purpose and it isn't centered around anyone or any redpiller. Finally, as I have always said, people not following your life path doesn't mean they are falling short. Life is simple...


End.

^{Edit: you are welcome whenever you come, as long as you do your due diligence, abide by the thread's rules, and desist from misrepresenting us and playing silly/childish games.}

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A number of guys have said that anyone who doesn't agree with their positions should go and create their own thread... It's sad. Sad because if we can't have constructive criticisms around a subject as gentle men, what breed of weaklings are we then?

Wrong! More misrepresentation! More misrepresentation and strawmanning in order to make a good point! It wasn't necessary to brand the people you were referring to as narrow-minded weaklings.

Obviously, no one said people who don't agree with their opinions and ideas should leave this thread. Remember, on this thread's front door is the pharse "strictly red pill." This means we are strictly concerned with the red pill, nothing else. We are simply asking those who aren't satisfied with the primary objective/focus and nature of this thread to save themselves the stress and go to other threads that meet their needs/wants or create such threads. We are simply asking those that like antagonising and/or misrepresenting us and calling our ideas false to go to threads that suit them instead of derailing and wasting time and energy making irrelevant and unnecessary posts; it's better because redpillers and this thread will always do what it has been doing, no matter what. We are simply asking those who think they have something other than the red pill to go to threads meant for what they have and leave a strictly-redpill thread alone. It is fitting to let this thread serve its purpose. Doing all these doesn't mean we are narrow-minded weaklings. Life is simple.

Even though I'm an atheist, I acknowledge that it makes no sense to go to a strictly-christianity thread (or church gathering) and start vomiting my atheism and then call them narrow-minded weaklings if they remind me of the purpose of their thread (or church gathering), or suggest I go to atheist threads or create one. It doesn't even make sense even if I am convinced all religions are man-made and the Christians in their thread have it wrong; everything has its thread and time. Finally, IF you just want to seem like a open-minded and intelligent individual at our expense, we will gladly acknowledge your evolved and keen mind if it will help you rest and feel good.

I'll just quickly point out a thing or two.
In psychology, there are different kinds of cognitive processes, but for the purpose of the point I am presently interested in making, I want to touch on divergent and convergent thinking, very briefly.
As good as divergent analytical thinking is, the major issue is that extremes can be easily reached with this way of thinking, because most often than not, the bigger picture is not kept in perspective, so, not every variable in the equation is considered, before conclusions are made. That's why some people can say that all Nigerian ladies are immoral manipulative money-thirsty morons and everyone cheers like they came from the same village! Again... very sad!

Convergent thinking, on the other hand, puts the bigger picture in perspective, and so, carefully factors in other inclinations so as to make a very holistic conclusion.

SMH.

What's my point?
If what we want to see (which I think should be) is a saner society where all men are seen as important and given their rightful place, then pushing only one point too hard will lead into more error than we began with.

Oga, this group cannot contain everything. However, let this group serve its purpose in peace. Not everyone here focuses on female nature 24/7 and neglects other aspects. Redpillers here are different. The fact that we often come here doesn't mean we don't go to other threads, websites/app, or offline sources that will help us in other relevant aspects of our lives. Let this thread serve its purpose in peace. The impact of this thread is mainly on an individual level. Once you swallow the red pill, it is left for you to do what you want with your red pill awareness and forge your path...

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