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DateMynd44:
I wonder how people reason, he said it himself that he's from a humble background, instead of him to go for a federal university that's affordable and sponsor himself in school, the excesses left from his online business he could save it for future use and then invest in himself by setting up a business that will fetch him income, or rather set up something for his parents but
he's Rather investing in a girl that might ditch him tomorrow.
I don't know the kind of guys we have nowadays despite luvyaself95 truthsbitter and ubunja's efforts to school these guys they're Still getting weak day by day.

Exactly. Federal universities are really trying in terms of school fees. Back then I paid N14500 in one of the federal universities. 1 thousand was later added making it N15400. That's for a whole session o.

Cocotrendz:
1000000

That's 7 figures you just quoted. Six figures should be 100,000 above.

It's all about how you dressed. Do you keep long, sharp, coloured coated finger nails? Do you wear bangles on your waist and left leg? Cuz a lot of runs girls have this rope they normally wear on their left leg. Don't know if that's where their jars for getting customers is kept. Do you have more than 2 earing holes pierced on your ear? Do you have a pierced nose ring on your nose?

Do you carry colored eyelashes and draw your eyebrow so long touching the sides of your face? Do you dress half unclad and talk so rude to people? Those could be the possible reasons why being seen as a prostitute.

It's only kids that love such swag. Sagging your trousers and intimidating people and stealing stuff from passersby is that what you call swag?

Phenomenal16:
...stopping asking her to come around for now.

Emmm ,,,,,apologize again to her sincerely n promise it won't happen again.

Don't ask her to come around for now....prove to her that u av changed....

With time she will come..Pressing her to come now is somehow ...even me self I dey suspect u sha

yetunsbay do not apologize. I repeat do not apologize to her. The worst advice you will take regarding a female is from a female.

What is he apologizing for? For inviting her for a visit?

OP do you want to be seen as a high value guy? Then pull away. Yes you read me right, pull away completely. Go on YouTube search for "MindfulAttraction.Org" , Tripp Advice, TheSingleGuy and watch those guys videos. Especially that MindfulAttraction. Those guys will shape your perceptions with women.

Clint26:
I am 19 years old boy ,I have been losing my hair since 2015 and this has resulted to male pattern baldness or receding hairline. This is making me feel ashamed whenever am with my peers. and sometimes it often makes me stay indoors.
i have been trying different remedies such as using coconut oil,shea butter but to no avail!


Pls help me!

Try rice water with onion juice.


Ingredients:

1. Rice

2. Onion

Direction:

1. Soak 1 cup of rice in a full cup of water for 3 days (Allow to ferment for 3 days).

2. After 3 days , sieve out the water from the rice.

3. Grate 2 onions and squeeze out the juice.

4. Mix the rice water with the onion juice.

5. Store the mixture in a black rubber spray bottle (storage in a black bottle is to prevent the mixture from oxidation).

6. Apply the mixture by rubbing it on your whole head/hair before going to bed every night. Do this consistently for 4 weeks. Come back here to give your testimony after 4 weeks.

olabrinks:
You dont need all these things to stay young
all you need is a good diet, exercise, and good living conditions.Cut out alcohol and smoking and you will see the difference.

You are right for the exercise aspect. I do exercise. I used to take alcohol but I have stopped since January this year when I almost vomiited my intestines out.

For the home remedies I mentioned, they are still very good. There are a lot of them on YouTube. While it is good to take care of the internal system of the body, it is still good to take care of the external. I usually prepare regular facial mask using the starchy semi fluid potion of irish potato mixed with egg white. It helps hold sagging face together even though my face is not sagging.

For those battling with premature ejaculation, there are loads of home remedies on that. But most people don't check all that up. They prefer using medications.

Just a blend of ripe plantain with ginger well blended together works wonder. For those that care to know should give it a try.

Also cucumber + carrot blended together and drank is another time bomb.

Married men should give those a try and they will be amazed how long they will last.

They are super powerful remedies and loads of others.

In fact, I have my personal compilation of different remedies I try out from time to time.

In essence, I can't rule out home remedies. I love preparing them and trying them out.

titilayo889:
old papa youngie

AY can falsify his age. Hr can claim to be 35 but no he is quite real. A lot of persons decrease their age without minding their appearance will give them away. You will see a 40 years old man claiming he is 27. Who are they deceiving?

AY looks younger than his age and that's because he is taking good care of himself. If you see some of his age mates who are also 48, they look like 60yrs old men. I am team use your real age. People should stop decreasing their age. I wanted to decrease my age by 5 yrs some years ago, but I have a change of mind.

I told myself no, I look young and msart than my age. Some of my age mates I see, always look like 40yrs old men. Stress and anxiety actually cause one to age faster.

If I tell you that I am in my early 30 you won't believe. Even though I have beards too but the face always glow and look fresher.

I take good care of myself, prepare a lot of home remedies with natural ingredients, and all these contribute to one looking younger. In fact, I watch a lot of YouTube videos on home remedies and try most ofbthem out. The result has been fantastic.

Imagine me buying honey, coconut oil, castor oil, olive oil, vitamin E oil, BlueSeal vasline, Colgate tooth paste ( works wonders), banana, water melon, cucumber, lemon, egg, potatoes and so on just because I want to prepare various home remedies I personally use to care for my skin, mouth and other stuff.

I shop for loads of natural ingredients just to prepare home remedies and the result has been wow.

That's what AY is doing. Taking good care of himself. He is really old papa youngie no doubt.

2dice01:
what am saying is a 31yrs old nigga wont come online looking for approval even if his village people are using 5G

Oh I see. Maybe op needs to start reading some of ubunja's miseducations to understand women better.

He needs to understand that it is not always about looks that attract women. And also, he can't use money to buy a woman's love. He needs to focus his mind on other things for now, and let a woman choose him.

A girl can just see you and fall in love. There are others that will fall in love with you based on your charisma and attitude. While I won't discard those as fake love, the worst is a woman that love you based on how much money you have.

When a girl is the first to like you as a guy, it takes out lots of works from the guy. In fact, she will be the one taking things up and doing most of the works . When a girl that already likes you is chatting with you, there is a huge difference than when a guy is trying to chat a casual girl up. For the girl that likes you, will always lead the chat. She will be so curious to know you better. She will send up to 3 to 5 messages at once.

But the one a guy is trying to choose; the guy will be the one doing most of the talking, doing everything to lead the chat or conversation. Disappointingly, they end up replying with one word. Such usually happens because it's the guy that is trying to choose the girl.

Ubunja's said and I quote: keep those girls that love you for love and those that you love for lust. He couldn't have said it better, and I perfectly agreed with him.

Let a girl choose you, and you will see that 90% of the work is done.

For example, something happened yesterday. I messaged a girl on Facebook. I sent her this message:

"How far? This ur smile na first class o. Kindly borrow me first, I will return it tomorrow"

And she replied with thank you. You are handsome.

That's how chat start o. During the chat, I noticed that she is the one leading the chat. Sometimes she will send 3 to 5 messages at a time while I ensure I keep my messages short and brief.

Why was she leading the chat? She was leading because she was the one that chosed me first. I can tell you that, the girl inbox must be overflowing with loads of messges from guys cuz on looking at her intently, she is overly pretty but I dare not compliment her on that. On a typical day will a Nigeria girl lead a chat, or instead they will reply with one word as you type a full episode.

What am I saying? When a girl choose you as a guy, 90% of the work is done.She will start telling you everything about her life and on, something she won't do if it is the other way round.

Why this long episode? Op needs to focus on other stuff. But once a while throw some playful vibes here and there on girls he likes. He will be amazed how those little playful attitudes will land him a girlfriend in no time. Na play play, play play with some lil flirts here and there I take land one overly serious babe that year. I was amazed!

For things to work for op, he should learn to divert his attention from the taught of wanting to be accepted by girls. Just keep on a humorous vibe, mix with a lil flirting attitude, he will be surprised how a girl will just start falling for him from nowhere in no time.

2dice01:
and you said you are 31yrs


You borrow ur uncle age join yours because ayam not understanding

Are you indirectly implying that he is not up to 31yrs? I know some persons look way too older than their age, such are those that falsify their age. But their are also others who look younger than their age as well, and the op is one.

You will see an old man of 35yrs saying he is 25. That's age falsification.

meezynetwork:
Just 3m when I was scammed of 6m yet am still here

Scammmed of 6m? How did it happen?

chiommy123:
So cos you married her she can not play with others abi

You try. Clap for yourself!

Horo:
Wrong timing madam

Wow for over 5yrs na today I hit front page and as the 1st commentor

May this bring more happiness to me and the entire nairaland fans

I don't get it! Is there something so unique attached to this being first to comment thing that people clamour for that I am not getting?

sedutrice:
I beg to differ.
Anyway, let me leave the thread since I am not ready to be a part of the redpill movement either as recipient or the giver.
This has just given me more reasons to pick race from non-chalant males

You will never pick race, you will get more attracted. I am telling you the truth. You will just be helpless and end up asking yourself if this is the real you falling for that nonchalant guy. It's a helpless situation for the females. They are good at it, but this time, the male folks are turning the table.

All thanks to Ubunja.

jimyjames:
Falling for what exactly? You invited a girl on a date it's your responsibility to make her comfortable, aren't you the one that invited her?

A male female date is a romantic meeting or outing with a lover or potential lover or expected lover/ friend , you hang out together with for familiarity purpose or bond, everything goes with it she's not wrong for wanting to eat something

Follow ubuja thread to open your eyes.

Inviting a girl for a date really doesn't involve meeting to eat up. A date involves meeting to get familiar. Even if food will be involved, it should be the guy that invite the girl that should ask the other if she will take something not the girl.

She will only end up seeing you like a mugu.

mmadu5:
I have more than 20k on me but I'm not falling for that crap a date it's not a dinner fools like you can pay that not me

Ubuja your attention is needed here.

iLegendd:
Yes. Use your cousins' details.

I see, that's interesting!

iLegendd:
I wouldn't advise anyone to use one computer for two accounts, but I do it — even with more than 2 accounts. My case is different, but let's not talk about my case — it's private.

I'll advise you to use different devices for multiple accounts.

That's quite a nice idea, and that also implied that one will need to create multiple payoneer accounts as well to receive funds from the different kdp accounts if I am right?

iLegendd:
You're welcome. And thanks too.

That's nice. How do you run the two accounts on the same laptop?

goodnewscliff:
Almost all gals know how to play mind games.... Guys should learn how to outsmart or dump d ass of u aint getting shit outta it..... Omo no time to waste ohhh.... Hustling ti take Over

Exactly!

Michellekabod2:
I personally will not go out with the guy I love on a date,will ignore his messages for hours while I pay more attention to "flings"...will be cold towards him. Why:
1) because I dread getting hurt
2) to avoid "see finish"....
I am a subtle being...
Doesn't necessary mean I am sleeping around with other dudes but I hold you like an egg and fear I can't handle it

If you try this with me I will think that you are not interested and I will delete your number right away and never reach out to you. Ignoring my message is a red flag to me. I won't waste time.

Don't be surprised when you don't hear from me for 6 months and you reach out to me and get the who is this question.

Like me, I no longer send messages on WhatsApp or chat new girls I newly meet up on WhatsApp, except guys.

Things work better for me when I call on the phone, and I do normally set a time target. If I set a target of 1 month for a girl and things ain't going, trying to play mind games with me, I just cut off reaching out to her and delete her number instantly and move on to the next girl.

Chasing a girl is fun but not when the girl keep on playing mind games. I go with the saying, you loose some, you win some. With that, as a guy, I won't feel hesitant to walk away or lose a girl.

There is no time playing hide and seek, thinking a guy will keep on chasing you when you are ignoring him. We will definitely reverse the process and you will be the one reaching out.

Deepfeel:
Most of these prostitutes die in the process of heated sex not like these men want to kill them,

Why won't she die, runs girls are really trying. From one man to another throughout the day. Go to InM and see how they are advertising their business. I will succk and ride you till you cuum. Pls hookup only. I am not here for friendship. If u know u ar not serious pls don't contact me. Call me on my number if u r serious let's have fun.

Whenever I see those their messages, I just laugh and shake my head.

Runs girls are terrible I swear.

krattoss:
What will be will be bro.

No rules to these shiits

What will be will be has put lots of people where they did not expect. Taking precaution is one thing that everyone should take into consideration.

mrNEMZY:
Had it been she died in your custody, there is this thing called autopsy, and it is done in hospitals all over Nigeria.

It's ignorance that makes people allow themselves to be victims of such occurrences. If this kind of thing happens, make sure you are the first person to call for help, and if they start throwing fingers, opt for an autopsy ASAP.

And I think that as an adult, you should have the contact of a lawyer handy, so when poo blows, you will know your line of action.

Do they follow all those processes in a non sane country like Nigeria? They will first throw you in prison and even if you call your lawyer, the matter will kept on being postponed for hearing before you know it, you will be in prison for 3 years. Courts issue in Nigeria take long to get cleared.

There are innocent people who had been in prison for 3 to 5 years for offenses they didn't commit. The judiciary system is nothing to write home about.

It is not that easy as you said it.

NickiSlay:
The husband's brother is the one bonking/dicking her,but rather than confronting his own brother he shot his wife's brother instead in retaliation.Coward.

The story said that the man went to report the wife to the family but the wife's brother was challenging him more like supporting his sister.

Still, not enough to pull a trigger.

J111333:
Mtcheew, the young man is a fool to have waited for two years to become a second fiddle.

Exactly. I can't marry a girl I chase for so long. During the period of chasing, she is right on the corner changing guys like wrapper. In between that 2yrs, I am sure she must have dated nothing less than 5 different guys.

If I am asking a girl out and it takes so long just know I will move on once I get what I want. Allowing a guy to chase you for so long is not a sign of fidelity. It doesn't mean she will be loyal when they get married.

Magnoliaa:
Why?

And where is the bump?

Looks like an underground runs girl. I can detect them from afar.

AlliengodJ:
Majority of Nigeria citizens outside her country don't know how to fix easy math, moreover they want to live extravagant life higher than their income, imagine that guy talking about car loan, why get a car loan when 2 fortnight checks can get you a car to move around.... Lol

Exactly. Some persons don't plan and that's why they complain of cost of living. If one plan very well, one will live comfortably well in diaspora. Some live extravantly when it doesn't warrant such to stay comfortable. Bad planning and the urge to show off and live extravagant life style, I will say.