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Sarang:
My brother lives there. I know they pay well but cost of living is high as well. I know that for sure.

Nairalanduseles is right. It all depends on where you live. If you live close to the city central in Sydney and Melbourne, cost of rent will usually be higher.

But there are other lovely places to live with cheaper rent like Newcastle in New South Wales. So, it all depends on where you live. Most persons like living in the busy, bustling city central. But for person like me, I will prefer a quiet inner supurb with lots of greeneries and gardens.

pussyeater:
It's the Greatest Country on earth. Take it or leave it!!!

USA is overrated to me. There are other great, lovely countries all over the world. US and UK are over rated. I will only visit when the time comes.

Sirmuel1:
Trump is sweeping out illegal immigrants, and not the ones that migrated legally. By the way, USA is not the only Country in the World.

If i have the opportunity, I would leave Nigeria and never come back again.

Exactly my thoughts. Why will someone even think of migrating to another country as illegal migrant? We all know that there is no way such person will survive. I am team migrate legally. If we are discussing those in diasporas, we don't talk about illegal migrants. If anyone is legal in diaspora and still live in the street ,that person is simply a lazy being.

No legal migrant will do badly in diaspora except he or she chooses to remain in a miserable state with a legal status in a saner society.

nairalanduseles:
Yea am Nigerian by birth ........my naija passport is expired will be going to Canberra to get a new one once I am coming home.........they make life easy ......rather get it here than back home.....I feel sad when I watch vids of people trying to get passport in Canada ....so dff here .....the ambassador actually once to meet us here ......

That's Nigeria for you. They make everything difficult for the citizens. We just hope for the best for this country of ours Nigeria.

Enjoy yourself in Aussie. Nothing beats living in a sane country like AU. I just hope the Nigeria embassy ain't making passport's application difficult for folks over there.

nairalanduseles:
Yea sir I am

That's nice. Australia passport is a nice passport to own. One of the strongest passports in the world. 188 countries visa free no be beans.

It's definitely on my future plans. For the sake of my unborn kids. Even if I no fit do anything for them at least, I will want them to be dual citizens. Nice one bro. I hope you are Nigerian too?

nairalanduseles:
Bro u don't need it I use my Nigerian passport to come to nanna but when leaving use my AU one .....They won't even question u .......U re a British season act like one

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Lexusgs430:
Any space dey ur luggage?......

Hehehe see this one. You wey dey UK? Abeg no follow me drag that space o. Na me won enter Op luggage. Precisely the briefcase. Clear way for me jor.

careerwoman:
Ok guys... so I stumbled on this thread 14 days after I had submitted my Schegen visa application to Belgium.
I was shook that I didn’t do my research well..
Well, I started sending them mails to expedite my visa since it was past 14 days.
Glory to God, they processed my app within 19 days and returned my passport with visa in it way past my travel dates.
Summary: Belgium Embassy was really efficient and replied my mails very promptly (within minutes, no jokes)
Best experience I’ve had so far.
So if you’re genuine and you have real docs, please don’t get discouraged

Congrats!

Pls can you quickly outline the list of required documents you submitted to the Belgium embassy and the office you submitted them to?

Kindly give me a run down.

amiibaby:
He doesnt love her if not having a child and keeping it a secret will be the least of his problem

Seriously? I am assuming you are a girl. I meet you, ask you out, you accept and things get going pretty well between us for a whole 5 years. You never opened up to me that you have a child somewhere and eventually I find out myself. You truly expect me to continue such a secretive relationship with you?

If you can keep such a thing from me don't you think you can keep other important things away from me? There is nothing like he doesn't love her. That is an act of betrayal. She simply betrayed the guy's love for her.

Dudeweedlmao:
Nigerian guys know how to corrupt girls.

When I schooled in Ghana around 2009 in a particular remote area of Ghana, their girls where different then to what they are now.

The only thing that has changed between now and then is that 40% of the populatiob are Nigerians that migrated there to school. During 2009, there were less than 1% of Nigerian living in that state.

You guys know how to chAnge the orientation of women.

If you doubt what I just said, go to another coutry and look for a place where Nigerians are noticeably more of the population. Pick a girl (hopefully one thag hasn't been with a Nigerian) and check out her mentality. It will be the exact same with 9ja girls.

You are right. Part of the blame is on Naija guys. They give ladies too much attention. You will see an average girl, if you check, you will notice up to 4 to 6 guys chasing her. How do you expect such a girl to even reason like a sane human? They get intoxicated by the too much of attentions they get from Naija guys. In abroad, a girl will walk through the street no single guy will look her way. White guys do not give a shit about girls they come across whether they have big boobz, big asss or not.

A girl was complaining sometime ago on YouTube that she felt so bad when she walked through the street abroad and no single guy even ask her out nor gave her atttention. That if it was to be in Naija, no how no how, there must be up to 5 guys that will approach her per day. That she felt really bad that no guy asked her out abroad.

That's to tell u how bad our Naija guys have contributed to most of the forming girls form for guys here. They are the cause. And most times , some guys act too needy and wussy. That's what is making our ladies always folding their hands in a relationship cuz they believe that if one guy walk away, up to 3 to 5 new guys will come chasing them. This hardly happens in the western world, cuz everyone is focused and have important things doing. That's why we hear of girls making the first move and asking guys out over there cuz guys don't give them attentions.

That's why I always watch "TheSingleGuy" and "How to Beast" Dave videos on YouTube. I love their videos. They tell you how to handle girls and put them where they belong without coming off as a needy Assshole.

[quote author=qmd24 post=80411871][/quote]You supposed know if you are a guy abi have you dated any Nigeria girl wey dey pet you, dey shower you with gifts, dey sort out bills with you without asking and all of that? Let us know o.

Thats the koko. Some people dey date themselves. I see many guys using the phrase, I love her and she is the one I want to settle down with when the said girl such a guy is referring is not even taking him seriously.

Na guys like that girls dey catch mugu.

Jaqenhghar:
When some 21st mumu Niggerians believe its only lack of money that causes depression

Our Nigeria girls are way different from even other Africa girls. I think, our girls are just too mechanical when it comes to a relationship. They find it hard contributing to the relationship in the little ways they can. They leave the whole thing on the guy. They won't even bother sending text like these to a guy. They won't call. They will always wait for you to be the one to do all that which eventually make a relationship to die cuz the guy will get fed up and walk away.

White girls and a couple of some other Africa countries girls do try when it comes to loving a guy selflessly.

niaralandtopuser:
Beautiful!
He found a really smart and selfless girlfriend not the parasite or leech that walk around these days as women. Wife her immediately

When I saw the heading, the truth was that the first thing that came to my mind before I even clicked on the link was it's not in Nigeria this happened and boom I was right.

Nigeria girlfriends send you these kinda lovely messages. It will never happen.

Natoski5:
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Lolz...baba u day form holy holy ba? If u look no shine eye....i no support stealing ooo...
Buh one has to be smart

There is nothing like being smart by taking people things because you are in need of such thing. It's not yours. Don't take it. Return it. It doesn't pay to be dishonest.

Honesty will let people trust you even with their lives. I can tell someone I have built trust with to lend me money and he will not hesitate to do that. That's trust.

A thief once entered a compound and stole a man'sphone through his window. The man simply called the guy on the phone to return the phone. He warned him to return the phone if not he will not live to use that phone. He thought he was joking. He waited for the guy to return the phone. He told him to call him and drop the phone somewhere and inform him of where he will drop it , he will come and pick it from there. The thief did not heed to the man's warning. He waited for two days he didn't return it. He simply place a curse on the guy that he will die before the next day.

And that was it. The following day, he told us that something has happened to the thief. That you see that fresh tree right there? It has become withered, that he uses that as a sign tonshow that something has happened to the thief. Truly, there was a tree around the house.. A very fresh tree withered up as if fire consumed it. That's why taking people things is not a good habit. It can lead one to death.

FantomGreenz:
dont just jump to conclusions, i never picked the phone with intent to keep, but afterwards i felt i cheated myself. And besides i asked a question and ure returning it with a question SMH

Don't take what doesn't belong to you. It's not yours, it's not yours. There is no two ways about it. The world is filled with dishonest people. I bought something and the person gave me change than the amount she supposed to give me. I simply gave her back. That's honesty. I didn't feel that I cheated myself for what's not mine.

Jgoldie:
Shots that will eventually land in hanging of leg .....

Somebody say I here that one. Echo: I hear that one o. Somebody say I hear that one again. Echo: I hear that one oooo. Chaiii

Jgoldie:
Shots that will eventually land in hanging of leg .....

Somebody say I here that one. Chaiii

janettee:
We are talking about Nigeria not the US!.
I personally don't think 'false rape accusation' is a thing in Nigeria. I'm sorry about that 'someone' who was falsely accused.

This has nothing to do with emotions or logic. Daily, there are cases of rape in Nigeria especially ones involving minors.

But false rape accusations are hardly ever seen, why is that so?.


I haven't heard/seen someone go to jail cause they were falsely accused of rape, I mean real rapists are hardly convicted in Nigeria.

Bro, if we are talking of minors rape, that's better understood. It should be life imprisonment not outright death.

However, if we are talking of adult rape, bro a lot of ladies will use it to their advantages to blackmail a lot of males. Just imagine a girl calling you out that you raped her just in a bid to get back at you because you refused dating her. How will you handle such? Will it be good if you are killed for such accusation?

That's the main reason why death penalty can't go with rape crime cuz there will definitely be numerous false accusations.

Was it not here one guy post that a runs girl he met told him he will hear from her and later on accused him of a rape whereas they bargained on a specified amount but the guy ended up lasting more than usual, and the babe asked him to add money but he refused. She simply told the guy, he will hear from her. She went to the police station and made a rape complaint that the guy raped her.

Police started looking for the guy up and down, came to his house multiple times and calling his number to come to the station to surrender himself. The guy ran out of home until he couldn't bear the torment from the police. He went and surrender himself, received some beating and then the girl later told the DPO that the guy didn't rape her that they bargained on a specified amount but the guy didn't keep to the bargain.

So you can see why this death penalty won't be a nice idea cuz ladies will abuse it.

Joromi12:
Only if it involved pedophiles . Women go begin lie if u dump them later

Exactly. Imagine ur ex calling u out that u raped her years later after seeing that u don blow. How do we handle such?

If it is pedophiles, that law will go well. I wonder how those involved in pedophiles get the urge to do such terrible acts.

A lot of ladies will use this to their advantages.

inoki247:
with the way dey are going they will soon Ban InMessage

Person go fit see better girl marry so? 99.9% of girls in that site do runs. Old and young. Even old mamas. I just tire.

Durentt:
and where was it stated my final GPa would be a second class upper and not a first class.

Follow your passion but if you really want to excel, you need to follow Joromi12 advice. Find your way to Canada. You said you are fluent in French. Why planning becoming a lecturer in this country? Na suffer head be that.

If you really want to excel , you need to look beyond your passion as swell. Passions are good but they won't put food on your table.

Channel that effort to migrate to French speaking Canada city like Quebec or Saskatchewan. With your French, you will never regret it as you are already grounded in French.

The enabling environment in Nigeria is too poor. They pay peanut to lecturers. Only the profs that receive maybe 400k to 500k. And that's still peanut to me. Before you will become prof, some of your course mate who even graduated with 2.1 and 2.2 must have be doing pretty way fine earning millions not from salary but business and the rest.

See beyond lecturing job if you are studying a stem course or professional course. But you won't have issue if you think beyond your passion.

Dudeweedlmao:
Looks like an Inmessage hoe.

Lol, that place is Sodom and Gomorrah.

QueenSekxy:
Biko, where are they buying this loyalty, I want to sell my own.

Are you loyal to your man and never in any way appreciated it? Appreciating a woman for her loyalty doesn't always mean getting her a car or a house. It can be as little as buying her undies.

From there he will know whether you will appreciate it or not. If you appreciate liitle things like that, then he knows that you will also appreciate it when he acquires you bigger things.

Before I will buy my wife a car, I will first buy her something little to see how much she will appreciate it before moving to buying her bigger things.

He that doesn't appreciate little things, how can she appreciate bigger things?

ibkayee:
What does being 'loyal' even entail in this case though? Because we know to most Nigerian men being loyal means putting up with their shvt like a ragdoll

A 'rebellious' one could be one who did not put up with his cheating for example and 'broke the home' by retaliating negatively like a normal human being and/or leaving. To Nigerians the home was broken because she did not forgive him, not because he cheated

Not saying this is what happened between them, I wouldn't know, but this is just how a lot of Nigerians think

I don't agree with your definition of a loyal woman. Being loyal means the woman put the interest of her husband her priority and always want the best for the family. Being loyal means the wife is a virtuous woman that run the home the way it should be run.

Being loyal means that the woman can manage and run the home out of the little resources available. Being loyal entails a woman being able to keep a happy home and let go of any related selfish interest of hers. Being loyal entails a woman being contented with whatever her husband gives her and never in any way have the intention of looking outside.

Being loyal means, a woman who is able to keep her home together, care for the children and never engage in any form of amorouse infidelity outside her matrimonial home.

Those are the well thought out definitions of a loyal woman.

xcaliber:
At 38, I can't have my-type of woman to love me in return...life is so boring without love. Despite rounding off PhD degree in Nigeria and just won a scholarship award to start another PhD in UK; an opportunity to relocate permanently. Finding true love is so difficulty! I'm a very good person, physically okay and all so why shuld true love be as this scarce? I only wish I can get married b4 getting out of this country.

I can relate with what you are experiencing right now. Love will come on its on. Never expose your plans to any girl you meet instantly, so they won't think that's what you want to use to get them to marry you.

Set dates and go on little dates with any of the opposite sex you fancy. Things normally work from there. Yes, the mistake some people made was that they never engaged in any social lifestyles during their undergraduate days. They are so occupied with books that they left out their social life to suffer.

But I believe, that is not your case. To find someone, you need to start going to social gatherings, go to church if you are a christian and strike little conversations with the sisters. If you like anyone, ask for numbers and start little conversations on the phone.

Go on little dates with any girl of your choice and be plain and genuine in your conversations with her. If a girl starts calling you on the phone, it means she is beginning to like you already. Take things from there and in no time, you may find the one that really likes you.

But do not make the mistake of coming off too early with a marriage discussion with any girl you go on a date with. It may appear too needy to them. So allow things to play out by itself. It's when you are sure that the girl likes you, that you can now let the cat out of the bag and make your intention known to her.

Please, do not spend on a girl with the intention that she will like you through that. The most you should do is pay for foods when you go on dates with a gal. Go on many dates with various girls not just one because you don't know the one that will genuinely pick interest in you. Just a date to get to know them. Don't focus on just one girl, cuz you are trying to pick a soul mate so u need to have this abundant mentality during this period. You will eventually meet the one that will like you the way you never expected. It's when you've seen the right one that likes you and you like, before getting committed to her.

Success in your mission bro.

Day2logic:
The fact that Timi has been throwing jabs before the wife open up shows that he gingered the whole thing. But na Timi know how the whole thing de affect them for house.

Funny thing people don’t understand is how rape can change a woman.



Im so sorry bro. Almost said her own is good because I know others that can dare anything sex after rape, they just don’t fear sex anymore no matter what you are bringing along because why? They have been raped.

I grew up knowing different lives. Most of these brave, fierce, heartless women are made of early rape or even early sex.

As a matter fact I think this is beyond rape. Like there’s also effect early sexual intercourse can leave on a woman that a lot of people don’t understand.

As an adult stay away from underage girls, you didn’t meet her virgin good but let her enjoy sex with her peer group, enjoy sex with your age mates simple.

Rape is bad. But sometimes some ladies may just want to use it to blackmail one. Even your own girlfriend can come out and say you raped her just because things didn't work out between you two. A lady can do that just because things didn't work out and now you are famous and wealthy. She can decide to use that to have her own share of your wealth.

That's why, any lady you dealing with, it's good to store evidence of genuine relationship between you two as a guy. Google drive is there to store things.

This one every lady is coming out as being raped? This calls for a great concern for all randy guys. Once a girl says stop, fear won't even make one to even want to make out with one's girlfriend any more without a vivid consensual agreement.

If truly her assertion of being raped is true, that needs to be condemned but if it occurs that she is just using it as a means to blackmail the man, then the truth will still get revealed as things unfold.

CaptainMitch:
I drink too much alcohol and I don't love no one

The problem is not actually the alcohol. The problem is that you always wants to get high by taking alcohol. When you are always with the thought of getting high, it will prompt you to always want to drink cuz you believe that it will make you forget about all your sorrows.

Solution

Take little steps to quit alcoholism. This you can do by conditioning your mind never to take anything alcohol for a whole week. Once you are able to succeed staying without taking alcohol for a whole week, set another milestone of two weeks with the mindset of achieving your milestone. Keep adding a week to each milestone you set and make sure you achieve it. Do that until you completely feel the need never to take alcohol again.

Good luck!

ayomikuolatunji:
Please how can i stop been jealous whenever i see my babe with one guy she called friend. It gives me headache almost every time . she even told me she just like the guy and nothing more. Both of them will be playing and talking as if there is something between them. I want to save myself from emotional problem. please help me

Lol don't feel jealous just act like you are cool. Never monitor her. Don't ask her who is this guy whenever she upload a guy's pic on her WhatsApp status. She can use that to manipulate your emotions, and if she senses that you are the jealous type, she can use that against you to be in control in the relationship. Because you are the jealous type, any time both of you quarrel, she will just rush and put a guy's pic on her status to make you feel the jealousy the more.

Thus, I will suggest you never to allow another guy she samples before you, bother you. She will see you as the mature type if you do so and she will know that she will be fighting a futile battle if she is planning of using that to manipulate your emotions.

enuk80:
Yeah you are right.. The most important thing is to satisfy your woman before you think of ejaculating

Exactly!

enuk80:
The pull out /withdrawal method work fine.. I advise guys to adopt the method.. Though, you won't feel the sensation as compared to when you ejaculate inside. The sensation of the pull out method is just like when you are masturbating and the sensation is totally different when you ejaculate inside

You are right. Why it works for me very well is that it's not every time a man should ejaculate, and I can condition myself not to. Some persons say ejaculation is the real thing. But for me, even if I don't ejaculate I still feel OK at the end.

Emotionss:
What do you mean by you don't know what to do ?

You need to sit up and be a man. You should have thought of the pros and cons of sleeping with her without condom. Anyway congratulations

I wonder why people make love and feel so bold ejaculating in a girl without a thought of a pregnancy. They don't even care of making use of a condom. They like it raw, yet they can't pull out if the thing is coming out.

The thing feel too sweet for them to pull out.

To the OP, never ejaculate in a girl if you are not ready to father a child. Always pull out if you the type that is comfortable going raw. Pull out immediately you feel the thing coming out. That's the pull out method.

I told myself, no mistake if I am not ready for a child. If I need a child then I will ejaculate in a girl and I should be ready to be a father. Always use condom. But if u are sure of the status of the girl and like it raw, always make sure you pull out.

I never miss that.

cdoffx:
Its a UK education system. Hons means you completed a project work while graduating without a project work gets you only a B.Sc without Hons. So here in Nigeria we can conveniently say we all graduate with Hons since a project work isn't an option to the best of my knowledge in our universities.

This is the right answer.