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Muheewa25:
Hons for those who didn't carry a course...
Ordinary Bsc for those who had carryovers.

That's not true. All Engineering degrees carry honours being first class, second class or third class. Thus, your answer is far from it.

Rednaxelot:
Differs for each country.

Seems like in Nigeria, BSc (hons) is awarded when the graduate finished the course of study at the specified time, 4years or 5years, based on the duration of course.
But ordinary BSc awarded, if the duration is exceeded ie for students with “extra year”

I don't agree with you on this. There are people that do not graduate at the speculated time but honours is still written on their certs. This is not the right answer at all.

KristaPretty:
It has to do with an Individual. Some MEN suck at dates too!

One date I went on, the guy was gisting me about his ex girlfriend who always urinate on the bed {for over 2hours he was just talking trashhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh }... like wtf

That might be squirting when they are making out. It's involuntary action for female. I don't think a grow-up girl will still be urinating on bed during sleep.

It would have been better if it's rechargeable due to inconsistent power supply.

evilive:
A young woman in her 30's with 2kids

we don't even know what you are running from but It is obvious your case is not poverty related.

Anyways,
If you are running from your past, try east - like india
If you are pursuing a future, try west - like canada
If you want to start afresh, try north - the heat will melt your past - like Morocco
I know you are somewhere in the south; SW, SS, SE.

I am a wicked spiritualist in case you are wondering.
For the sake of those innocent kids
Any path you take will turn out well

But, you can drop your past anywhere nah

Did you just say you are a wicked spiritualist? This means you do cause havocs and commotions. Thought spiritual people use their powers to solve problems rather than causing havocs. Just wondering. That "I am a wicked spiritualist" actually caughts my attention.

partnerbizz5:
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Ladykeigh:
Good day house, please I need your input. My husband is dragging his feet with getting started. Can I be the principal applicant ? I have worked as a cook in my food business for 6 years since I resigned at my bank job. I am 32 years old and that alone gives me 30 points. My husband will score 25 points for age. The other constraint I think there is, is that COOK is only eligible for visa class 190 and 489. Will I stand a chance ? I just want to get started, I'm tired of taking in all the information without getting anything done as I have relied on my husband to do stuff. Thank you all.

New South Wales needs cooks. Some get it with 65 points cuz there is no much competition with cook.

But not without qualification to serve as proof.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Perhaps you entrust it to parent. I don't think one's parent would do such

That's my thought too.

b0rn2fuck:
Media have made me lost respect for those people who travel abroad

Don't be deceived. Those are people that have no skills or professional qualifications.

No professional will travel abroad legally and still be begging in the Street. If you hear stories like these, what should come to your mind is: this person might not be possessing any skill or qualification. People that normally stay dormant will always go through this kind of situation. But if you are the progressive type, you will surely not be seen begging in the street abroad.

Altern8:
This why it’s better to buy houses from developers. If your family member chop your money, nothing you fit do. Highest na to call family meeting. All the elders go beg you last last.

If you don’t have money to buy at once, contract reputable construction companies.

But Nigerians sha. You’re not even sure your contractor isn’t cheating you.

That's the problem. Family will cheat you, even if you decide to give it to reputable contractors, how reputable will they be? They will still siphon and cheat you once they know you are based abroad.

Buying will be too cost to building from scratch. The beauty of building from scratch is that, you can build it to your taste.

Sending money to family to build for you can be dangerous "cuz everyone eyes dey shook for money in this Nigeria o."

Nothing like this is my brother he can't do such to me. They will flex the money or use it to buy lands for themselves and nothing one will do as a person.

This has been my major concern. How do we go about building our own houses here in Nigeria when living abroad?

Should it be that one should use his annual leave period of 4 weeks to rush down to Nigeria and start his project himself and the contractor continue from there while updating him with videos and pictures of the progress of the project?

Some people do that in the property section though. But I know the contractor will cheat them on a huge rate.

lilianofentse:
He might have gotten it from his mum through childbirth
Its just rare to get herpes from kissing

But I won't allow my baby to be kissed like that. People are too free in the western world. Not everyone that comes seeing a baby have good motive.

Some carry gbene gbene, okrikpoto and d rest to distribute to the baby. Still some do carry charms and the rest.

All these might be a concern to me not to allow my baby to be carried freely by people. Something mothers should be aware of.

Hmmm one man's meat is another man's poison.

I like slim girls to chubby girls. Slim girls are quite flexible and petite in nature. When I mean slim, damn slim with moderate bum.


The guy should appreciate that slim figure you have. I am team slim ladies.

Abvibe, you have spoiled everything. Why ask her if she is dating someone in the first place? Which lady will like to be seen as a lonely girl without someone?

The moment you ask a lady do you have a boyfriend? Don't expect her to say no. They want to feel belong even if they don't have boyfriends. Reason why they will always tell you that they have boyfriends is just to make you not have the impression that they are lonely and searching so even the ones that do not have any serious boyfriend will tell you that they have.

Don't ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. If she truly have a serious boyfriend, she will be the one to tell you herself. If you meet a girl that really take her relationship seriously and you approach her, the first thing she will tell you is; I have a boyfriend so you will know.

But if she doesn't tell you herself that she has one, no need asking her, cuz the moment you do that, you spoil everything instantly. At that point , she won't be free with you any more cuz she will reason that you will see her as a cheap girl. She will try to avoid you because she don't want to look cheap to you.

Never make that mistake of asking a girl if she has a boyfriend. She should be the one to tell you herself.

smadav:
Learnt my lesson bro, I believe this particular incident happened for a reason and as am talking I have given my life to christ. Met her on social media didnt know she was a hooker when we met.

You shouldn't have taken her to your house in the first place. Taking runs girls to your house is the worse mistake any guy will ever make.

Amazingman:
Lioness, fearless, darling. I see what others can't.

Na you go be the wife finally o. This one u wan carry no go big pass u so? Las las everywhere go stew sha.

May your wish be granted!

[quote author= post=79194165]Learn to keep your Shut up for once now!
Are you the God she is praying to?!
Sounds so slow![/quote]Are you fighting for her. Was that not the same girl that said sometime ago that can't cook for a man?

May her wish be granted though. A woman that boasted that can't cook for any man to chop.

nwanneni:
Yeah,she will boss him if only he wants to be bossed around.
He should never ask or receive money from her and he is good.
To tell you the truth,being with a penniless woman is more stressful.one thing i can never do.
What's up with all this submission sef?
Just don't insult me,talk to me carelessly and do the right things and be ready to take corrections and we are good.
Nwanne woman weh never see road na disease oo!

That's the respect I am talking about. A lady that will not talk to you carelessly, do the right things and be ready to take corrections are not easy to come by let a lone an older woman. When both of them quarrel, it won't be too hard for Blessing to remind him of how she is older than him. She will constantly remind him of that and she will hardly take corrections cuz she will assume she knows better than the OP and reminds him of how she is a graduate and he is not. All those stuff are my critical concerns for OP.

But to be Frank, it's quite nice settling down with a self dependent lady like blessing. Even ma own papa advise me never to settle down with a lady that has nothing doing for herself as she will be a liability. However, no condition is permanent. That op lady will still get something doing along the line as time goes on.

Already, the op is a business minded individual. He can set up a business for her present woman after tying the knot with her so as to make her financially self dependent.

nwanneni:
control him how?
Did the op tell you he is jobless?
No woman can control a man that has his own money.never!!unless the op is a sissy.
And blessing sef doesn't have much.
Stop sounding like na dangote pikin.
But she is connected and will be less of a financial burden to this op.
But no,e want go carry stress put for head.
I wish am well sha oo

I do understand Blessing will not be a burden to him as she has her own money to spend but I feel it will be hard for her to respect him as a man as she is likewise older than the Op.

Those are my concerns for Op if he decides to settle down with Blessing. Ladies like that are quite bossy.

Goodyp, I will be sincere with you. Stay with your woman. Pls never go for Blessing, she might end up controlling you and boss you around from the look of things. She is older than you and a graduate.

With all sincerity, that type of lady will never respect you as her husband if both of you end up marrying. Never make the mistake of leaving your present woman as you said she has been taking things more seriously with you of recent. Stay put.

Be guided!

funmisticqueen:
i am not a feminist all you simple minded men will call any educated woman whose viewpoint is different from yours a feminist. you actually refused to answer my question, can he take care of the extra responsiblity of a pregnancy if it comes in? condom can burst o.

No be every man dey release every time during sex o. Ayam an example. Condom burst or e no burst ,nothing go pour inside.

Abeg, the woman should allow the man to fulfil his marital right. He paid bride price for chirst sake.

Besto:
Make sure you knack on that next visit else forget it.

Lol.

internationalman:
When next she visits proceed to kiss her..
If she insist it isn't right because you haven't properly asked her out..

Just tell her you thought you were dating already.. That your heart has asked her heart out and they have both agreed to go out with each other..

Don't ever tell her to be your girlfriend.. If you do she might want to, but at the same time she might have just found something to leverage you on which would make her gain power over you.

And once most girls have gained power over you, you become less attractive to them.

You are right bro.

That's not a prob at all. I could have done that that first day but I told myself, let me make this girl fall by herself for me. We dey discuss things that relate to that aspect already. She actually wanted me to make a move that first day cuz I noticed it from her body language but I allowed it slide. But next visit, things willnplay out by itself without even making a move.

tydi:
You're already giving this your so new found girl too much of your time and she would get tired of you easily.. When she called and exhausted her airtime you should not have called back, possibly for 2 to 3days,. Let her still keep doing the calling during those days while you get busy with other things with your life..

I don't call her. I don't even chat with her on WhatsApp. She calls often, but sometimes I don't even pick cuz I always put my phone on silence. She messaged me on WhatsApp this evening. But not to act like a snubber, I replied her and ended the chat.

When it comes to girls, I don wise up. I no be sissy type of guy o. There is another one I am still dealing with but she is playing hard to get. Though we do chat. Still another, business partner gradually turning lover. I don put that one on hold.

internationalman:
As for me I only date the girls I make friends with...

From friendship I just start acting like I have already started dating her while I take her own reaction into consideration..

It works 80% of the time..

This is the system I usually use and I am using right now on a girl. I met her the last Thursday of last month. Instantly, I started boyfriend role playing by referring to her as cupcake and me as boo boo. No time to waste. Invited her the next day which was Friday to my place with no hidden intention though.

Made her feel at home. Watched movies on my system and prepared food for her. In fact, I fed her myself like Romeo feeding Juliet as she gave me a thumb up and confirmed it before me when I was seeing her off that she enjoyed herself.

Since then, the calls had been mutual and looking forward to the next invite of which I am not ready for yet. She is truly into me right now. She called me yesterday, I didn't pick cuz my phone was on silence. She called again today and we spoke till she exahuasted her airtime. I called back as the gentle caring guy that I am but not blinded by emotions and put more fire on her body and made her feel wanted.

What else do I need again? The mistake I hope not to make is asking her to be my girlfriend when she is already acting as one.

This works very fine. As a guy, I don't need to ask a girl to be my girlfriend to have her as my girlfriend. She already positioned herself as one due to how I handled things from the outset.

This method works very pretty well no be lie.

Snakebytee:
God bless you for this reply. The guy is a pervert. 30yrs old wants to marry 18yrs old cos she's fresh and naive, and probably a virgin. If truly the girl had had sex with 5 people, would he truly want to marry her??

There are no virgin ladies in Nigeria any more. Don't be deceived. All their eyes don tear finish.

Biglittlelois:
But you are obviously judging ladies by their figure when you say you cant marry someone older so stop contradicting yourself, hope you know there are ladies that look way younger than their age soo much that you won't believe it so quit being myopic, not all ladies would like to settle down with men who look like their father in appearances too.

We are not talking about Old men of 60 years old. We are talking about young men of 30 to 40. If I am 40 years old, my wife should be 30 years, will you say that a young man of 40 years old is too old to marry a lady of 30 years old? Do you realize how mature 30 years old ladies look? That's the point I was trying to drive at.

Let's take an instance, if perhaps RMD is not yet married , will you say that RMD can't comfortably marry a lady of 30years old? He still look young even at his age. If perhaps he is still unmarried, do you know how many ladies between the range of 25 to 35 will be clamoring to marry him?

Women age faster than men that's the point. The ones that usually look younger than their age are the ones that are taking good care of their body, doing exercises and working out to keep their body fit and young. Some ladies, once they get married, they usually start neglecting their bodies, putting on extra weights and the rest. All that contributes to quick aging.

How many ladies workout to maintain their figures so as to look good for their men?

daddyfreeman1:
my goodness. With this your advice bro/ sir. I just feel like I have forgotten her already... I have regained myself with your advice.. Thank you so much sir... I really appreciate your kind advice. God bless you... I'm really happy now. I will kindly do as you just said..... Modified: I have asked the boy, but he is not online right now, but I'm sure he never tell the girl. So I dropped the message for him, when he comes online he will see it. Thank you bro

You are welcome.

daddyfreeman1:
thank you bro... I have heard what you said. I have deleted her pictures though, but I don't want yp lose hr contacts, but with this advice, I will delete her numbers and everything concerning her. I will learn to control my emotions... Thank you so much... But I have told her closed friend to tell her that I want her back. But I'm not sure if he had told her. What should I do? Should I tell him to leave it??

Delete the girl's number and forget about her. Inquire if he has told her, if he has not ,then tell him not to. But if he has, nothing spoil, just forget about the girl and move on.

The said girl will contact you 5 to 7 months later after you've moved on. Not now, she will definitely contact you in the future. She will still keep your number in her phone. But never make the mistake of accepting her back or make the mistake of porfessing love to her if she contacts you later in the future. If she does, you can decide to make her as a casual side chick by that time.

One of my ex wey don marry still dey keep in touch with me till now. I can't forget how many times I don delete her number but she still dey reach out to me on Whatsapp. Any time she contacts me, I usually don't know she is the one. I will then ask who is this and she will say ur ex so you've forgotten me?

I respect her for the fact that she is now a married lady, and I don't go beyond asking her how she is doing. Once I ask how she is doing and she replies, that's the end of the chat. I don't go beyond that.

Don't ever loose your power to a girl. They don't like it. It turns them off.

daddyfreeman1, wow wow wow is this for real? I can see you have a soft heart. I just newly deleted a girl's number I have known for 2 years from my phone as I am typing this. Did I feel bad? Not at all. I wiped it off cuz it's of no use. I gave her lots of advice then wiped off the number immediately I was done for taking me for granted.

When I delete numbers, I find out that they usually contact me some months later after I must have forgotten about them.

I have no choice but to ask who they are. Delete that girl's number ASAP. It's your emotions playing over you. It's normal for you to feel this way if you've never trained your heart to absorb girls wahalas like what you are experiencing now.

Never allow your emotions to take the most part of you. Learn how to control your emotions. You are crying like a baby right now I swear, and I must tell you, you are embarrassing me as a full grown adult.

Develop a stiff heart when it comes to matters that concerns women. Please, calm down. You are just a side boyfriend not the babe real boyfriend. Girls do date up to 3 to 4 guys at a time. When you meet a girl, never have the impression that you are the only one she is seeing. In fact, I like giving girls that freedom cuz you can't actually make them to stick to you alone except for the few ones that know what they want from a relationship.

Distance relationships hardly work without one partner not cheating on the other. You should have just made her your casual female friend instead of investing your emotions in her.

Allow yourself to heal and stop being emotionally attached to her. You can actually do nothing at this point cuz anything you try to do right now will definitely ends up making things worse. Just take a chilled bottle of smiroff ice, sip and calm your burning nerves for now. That's not worth worrying about.

badadvice:
same here man.
I intend to get married at 28-30.
I already have eyes set on a 16 yrs old young lady in my area.
I'm literally only waiting for her to turn nineteen (cos by then i'll be 28) before i throw my hook.
I cant come and marry a lady that will turn unappealing when she clocks 40 while i'm just 45 and still agile.

Exactly. You are on track.

ibkayee:
Lol a 30 year old trying to get with an 18 year old is creepy to me. Periodt

18 years old girl na madam o. Forget about the age and look at it from the body stature aspect, you will be shocked how matured they look in figure and posture. I once saw a girl of 19 years. First, I thought she would be around 25 to 27. But I was shocked when she said she was 19.

I opened my mouth for like 60 seconds I no gree close am due to how surprised I was. From that day, I never judge a girl by her figure.

ibkayee:
I find the age gap between the two of you creepy because of how young she is but she’s technically legal I guess and if she’s ok with it, you two should flourish.

I have a feeling she’s going to dump you once you put her through school/start a trade for her and she sharpens up lol.

Same way you’re probably taking advantage of her naivety and financial situation now to some extent (not necessarily saying you don’t love her) is the way she may take advantage of the help you’re about to provide her, she may not be thinking that way now but give it a few years lol. I could be wrong, it’s just an inkling after all. Good luck either way

Not every one loves marrying their age mates. I am one of them like the Op. Women age faster than men. I have noticed that most of the ladies I am older than even with 2 to 3 years always look way older than I am. Yes they look way older in appearance.

An instance was when one nairalands shared his prewedding pics, instead of wishing the guy happy marrisge life, majority of persons were asking if the lady was her aunty cuz she looks older and the guy appeared younger in facial appearance.

We are not talking about Regina and Ned here. A guy of 30 wanting to settle down with a lady of 18 approaching 19, I see nothing wrong in that. Mind you, the girl is aging every minute that passes by. The way she looks today won't be how she will look next year, don't forget.