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vastolord4:
I'm just to amazed to congratulate them but, I pray and hope that it's all for love and not for de dough

I pray! Love ke? Who doesn't know it's about the man's money.

Haynnie:
I blame men who still put funds on women who are more sensible than them. I can’t lose to your type.

Don't waste your time replying that entitled parasite. All men are waking up now. I know there are still a handful of gullible guys out there whom these parasitic female species still manipulate and broke shame. But all men eyes are getting clearer now.

A parasitic relationship will never favour a guy. You will spend and spend and spend. That's not the type of relationship any sane young man who has struggled to make it big in life should get himself into.

Preshieben:
you might die single if you continue like this

See them. The usual guilt playing tactic always being used on gullible guys.

Die single indeed!

xavier047:
Hmm, no matter how compose and rational you want to be, a gym instructor spreading your wife like that will make you feel uncomfortable.

See as dem spread the girl like butter on top bread

Me that I know myself and my woman knows me, please let her use the thread mill abeg and avoid gyming her Kpekus to avoid stories.

chaiiii kpekus gymming. Guy u bad gan.

FashionCookie:
After una go say "Nigerian women are too lazy to hit the gym like their white counterparts..." yen yen yen yen...
Una see exercise now, una dey complain.
Eme-ekpa!

Gym wey them dey go play away match.

2Ways:
I'm a gym instructor myself, I don't think I would even let my wife go to a public gym( when I get married). What I have seen is not what I should type here.

People just dey f*ck any how these days. Na wa o. So so nack nack nack.

Both married women nacking any how. God have mercy o.

Gym of all places? Things are happening codedly sha.

All those gym instructors wey dey last long for bed due to their regular Exercises. They will use nacking finish people wives.

Dreamstarr443:
Anytime Nairaland tire me, I go just vex enter Ghana. nice forum .Up Ghana. com.

Hmmmm I just visited the site. A true duplicate of nairaland.

Tboymessiah:
You gat it right bro, even me as I dey now, is either you get a skill work, or you engage in one business that's my verdict on any woman to marry, even though you have skilled but u haven't open your shop I won't accept that u. Must have engaged in the skill or business before I decided to settle down with a girl I want to marry, that's my Marital Guidance.

Exactly!

ibinaboonline:
Na serious matter o

No be small my brother!

Lakesidegrey , I really feel for you. You are just too emotional. You've invested too much in the relationship. She doesn't regard you as anything. Someone you are feeding. I wish I can give you my type of heart. This is too much for you to bear.

I won't scold you even though you deserve to be scolded.

My 1 cent advise is dump her and move on.

Tboymessiah:
Am sure there are good girls and one day we go jam them

Exactly. Relationship these days really don't favour guys. Reason why it's good to look out for girls that are working or have skills that earn them money.

At least a girl that can take care of herself financially without depending on a guy. All they need will be a genuine man that will show them emotional love. Such girls don't want a guy's money. But they are very few.

Benwems:
Nigerian does migrating earn less than 4k pounds after tax. Yet, they save and do other things.
He should budget 800 pounds for 2 bedroom per month outside London
200 pounds for utilities and internet per month. thats 1k pounds in total for utilities and rent.
Another 1k pounds for feeding and miscellaneous per Month. that's 2K per month in total.

He should be able to saving atleast 1k pounds every month. That's amount about 850 thousand naira every month.

1k pounds for feeding per month? Is he feeding the whole country?

chiedozie198100:
I hope those telling you to japa know that in Uk it's 48,000 pounds per annum AS against 18, million naira in nigeria.

compare cost of living in the UK to Naija.
compare how much you'll use to 'settle' naija folks
when you get married do you think 48,000 pounds can carry u n ur family.

18M in naija is a super big boy status any day any time. u can build a portable house n buy a good car n still ball out well just in one year with 18M.

look before you leap oo.

Lol!

LILTJAY:
I dont support intertribal marriage,

It doesn't really matter as long as they both understand same language even if they don't belong to the same tribe.

As far as you understand Yoruba Language, you are good to go.

Jacksparrow7:
man I was doing p2p transaction the other day. I don't know how this guy get my control, e just call me say e de wait for me. How possible is that?
I couldn't even see his number on Binance platform

Are you new to Binance? When you opened your account, didn't you fill in your phone number?

Iyaebe:
Anything crypto and other internet ways of making money is fraudulent to me,people that make money online are mostly fraudsters or potential fraudsters.Dem plenty here for nairaland.All those boys doing crypto also know how to hack people's account and hacking is fraudulent, so all of dem dy swim for the same ocean. Crypto=Hacking=Fraud.

Na females like u dey publish books on Amazon dey make $3,000-5,000 monthly so. Them be correct scammers no be small. Anything online na scam. No be lie.

They truly said if education is too expensive, try illitracy.

Mrshape:
Lol you miss one category, what of if you are poor what should you tell them?

Just tell her you are a struggling guy who is still trying to make a living.

There is no need portraying to be rich to a girl you are just getting to know. If you don't have, don't portray to have. Don't give any girl hope that you have if you are just meeting. Girls see such guys as money miss road type of guys, and they will even connive with their friends to Bill you.

Omo I don catch one money bag o. The guy hold die. Start billing the guy na. That's when you will hear words like baby my house rent just expired o. You will think she loves you by calling you all those pet names. But she is after your pocket. The day you stop spending on her, she will start showing you attitudes.

Tboymessiah:
What if the gal ask you what you do for a living

If you are a real money bag, downgrading your status is a nice strategy when meeting a new girl or trying to go into any relationship with a new girl.

If a girl asks you what you do for a living, and you know you are quite rich, tell her something below your status like what the op did.

You can say you work as a private teacher or you are an Uber driver even if you are not. Just downgrade your status to something casual without disclosing your real worth.

If you earn so much, downgrade your status to an ordinary worker. Just mention any work that ladies look down on. A hotel attendant, a carpenter, a plumber, a teacher, a mechanic. You use this to know the type of lady she is.

If she is not a materialistic lady, she won't feel concerned about you being an Uber driver or a carpenter. A smart lady will see true potentials in you and won't judge you by those low income jobs I mentioned.

If she sticks by and if her attitude towards you does not change after telling her you are an Uber driver, watch her for some time and reveal your true worth to her through your doings. This is specifically for guys that are rich and wealthy.

But if you ain't the rich type but at least still living well, just tell her what you do for a living and never by no means act rich when getting to know any lady.

This will help you filter off the gold diggers who are just looking for guys to heap their financial burdens on.

qwertyboss:
5years
I do make profit but not consistently...
Descipline is my main problem

That's a heck of years you've been in the industry. Some have been trading for 10yrs but are still struggling making consistent profits.

You just have to get your psychology, risk management and technical analysis skills right.

qwertyboss:
I will like to know about your financial trading please.
Been trading for long without success...
If you are willing to help with anything please kindly reach out to me on Telegram@econzults
Thanks

You are just a mile away from your breakthrough. You don't have the right knowledge, that's why you are losing.

How long have you been trading?

donforeign:
I need your support in choosing between going to the UK to work and study or going to Australia for work and study too. I was considering adding canada but I don't know how that works because the agent I met only specializes in UK and Australia. The agent said 3.5m for the UK student visa and also 6.5m for the Australia student visa. I really need your support in making a perfect decision between Australia and UK or if there's another country because I don't know much about travelling. I will really appreciate your contribution , thank you.

Don't use any agent. Head on to the Australia students thread and go about it yourself. That 6.5m you will blow off to an agent who might even end up not being a genuine agent can cover up for most of the expenses if you follow the Do-It-Yourself strategy.

oke2018:
What's even wrong being a teacher , that is the notion about we teachers that we don't have money, you can still be a teacher and makes it big if only you know what you're doing , don't mind her let her go for a banker.

Some girls are just purely shallow minded. They will prefer a banker to a teacher. But they never ask how much are bankers really earning? 70-100k per month isn't it. There are teachers making more than that of a true. That's the shallow reasoning I have been writing on.

They get carried away by those big names without asking how much are bankers even earning.

In all, it's just a misplaced priority. If I were to be a girl, I won't look at a guy present situation. I will look at his great qualities like is this guy hard working? Does he have future plans? What are his other good qualities I really like? Does this guy have some great potentials that can open doors for him later in life?

Ladies judge the present and only the current look of a guy. They don't believe a guy's life can change just in a day. They don't believe in building with a guy. They want only already made.

Very shallow way of thinking I must say!

Horlufemi:
Add I earn 250k monthly

Don't let any girl know about your income. Always tell them that you are managing even if you are a money bag.

Mrshape:
She be see GM but na she use her big eye drive am

Girls don't love these days. No girl loves a guy, they love what you can offer them. I really pity guys that use money to attract girls.

With this your format, you will be able to know the one that will stick with you and those that will take off by the mention of "I am a teacher".

If I say some girls thinking is shallow, I am saying the truth. They judge a guy by mere words or appearance.

That's why if you don't want to attract the ones that just want to come into your life and milk you dry, don't ever make the mistake of telling them your worth.

When a lady ask about what you do, know that she is trying to size you to see if you can provide for her materialistic lifestyle.

Don't even make the mistake of dating a lady that is idle doing nothing to make money for herself. Jobless ladies mostly have this mentality.

Just a mere nice looking picture under a good background will make them rushing over a guy. But snap a pic under a poor looking background, in their mind they will already term such a guy poor without even knowing if such a guy does that to prevent unnecessary attention.

For those looking for life partner, never tell a girl your worth. A non materialistic girl won't feel concerned about whether you are a teacher or not but about you as a person.

That girl is a gold digger.

IkranDragon:
I love this scope but don't you think it is too much?

I told her that I have lent a lot of money out this year and I have been managing.

This won't help you. You are complicating things by still giving her hopes.

Stop portraying yourself as a rich guy to ladies. Be yourself. Telling her you lent a lot of money out, you are still portraying yourself as a rich guy to her.

It's only a guy who has alot that will lend out lots of money. You are indirectly still portraying yourself as a rich guy she can milk.

What stops you from telling her straight up that you are not the guy she thinks you are?

It is high time guys stopped living life to impress ladies.

Telling a girl straight up that you are broke is good for your sanity. Be yourself.

IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val, we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games.

This is how majority of guys get themselves into unnecessary bondage. Don't be what you are not to this girl. When you meet a girl, their hopes are always high. Be honest with her.

If you are not financially buoyant, tell her straight up that you are a broke guy, just so she knows. If she will stay with you, telling her you are broke won't affect anything. But if she is a gold digger, she will instantly take off which is good for your sanity.

It's when you portray yourself as rich to a girl they will start billing you. Tell her you are not financially stable at the moment. That girl is a materialistic girl trust me. They demand unncessarily. For your sanity sake, let her be. If not, she will wreck you and dump you at the end. You can't finance her type of girl.

Just tell her how broke you have been and watch how fast she will take off.

You are still practically keeping her hopes high that's why she will continue to Bill you. Be yourself. Don't be ashame to tell a girl that you are not buoyant financially. In fact, the right word to use is broke.

hayorated:
IELTS SOLVED

I've been writing this exam and I am just tired. Last year I spent 80k, that same last year I spent another 70k. This year somebody is telling me again to spend another 75k.

And my Friend has already written this thing since, he has already passed it. I've been begging him to give me how he did it, he refused to give it to me. And then, I just came to his room and I saw what he did.

I've even gone through the program and I'm so annoyed that he didn't share this thing with me. He was telling me that it goes for 25 thousand naira. I don't know whether I was just being stupid for not buying it for 25k. I have wasted almost 200k instead of buying something for 25k and save so much time and money.

I would have passed this IELTS since rather than wasting money here and there.

Anyways, if you'll want to know more about this IELTS, send me a DM and I will send it to you so you can get it for yourself. +234 704 304 7428

I believe you are a guy. If you were to be a girl, he would have given you. Some guys dey Bleep up wella.

NHQGUY:
South Australia finally opens up to alot of occupations, mine inclusive.
They require atleast 8years work experience, from my skill assessment, VETASSESS put me at 6years work experience.

I guess you are aiming just that 190 visa.

OloshoMan:
Too many simps in the Yahoo kingdom

Yahoo kingdom? Lol

Freemasonry:
I wish that the women in our lives will occasionally understand that men need space.
Personally, I get stifled if my girl is too clingy and affectionate, it sends off a subconscious vibe of neediness that a guy would rather not want to deal with.
We value women who are smart enough to understand when a guy is in his moment, gives him his "me-time" and not let her imagination run riot.
And trust me, we return the favor.

On point!