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Oga you never ready for marriage.

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

Enjoy! That's my town.

GreatMage:
This country Netherlands is something else...

I just arrived amsterdam central and booked a room...

All I am seeing is guys rolling weed

Many of them in the streets ain't wearing mask...

And the liveliness is like lagos...

Oh and its kinda not clean and quiet.

Overall? This is my kinda place! Really loving it

Universitet Van Amsterdam my Alma matter.

I enjoyed my stay in Amsterdam. Riding bicycle to class and all. Lol.

My brother/Sister, i tire oh.

Do you wonder why we are this backward.

DuBLINGreenb:
Define close relative

The person who wrote this about her niece because I'm sure it has to be a woman, is a very big fool, why didn't you Write this when she was alive so that she can respond to your stupidity.

You just want to publicity and fame off her death, the girl had kidney disease it's a very normal thing.

Poverty and religious brainwash has made us see asthma, high blood pressure, sickle cell, fibroid, malaria, typhoid, stroke and more which are regular normal sickness as spiritual attacks and you think only evil people die.

Why do you people reason like fowl? Go to hospital for regular check ups you won't go, Ada Jesus had been treating kidney problem for more than 5 years before she even become famous, infact she did most of what she did to get money for her dialysis. She was sick before she even knew odumeje.

If I die after typing this you fools will say it is because of what I typed I died. You people are goats. Your education is a waste. Death is just as normal as birth, good people die bad people also die, death is not punishment for evil or reward for good deeds.

I will die, you reading this will also eventually die no matter how long it takes none of us will live for ever.

But religion has turned your brain upside down that if someone you think is a bad man or infidel dies you rejoice like Pantami you say God has punished him
But if someone you think is a good man dies you say God has called him. My brother all die na die.

I refuse to believe she was a bad person or she did evil simple because she died young from an illness she has been battling with for many years. After all it is you guys who say good people die young.

By the way I'm not a woman, I'm not Igbo, I'm not even a fan of Ada Jesus I only heard of her a day or two before her death and actually got to know of her and her case after her death.

I like know you please,,,, damn too intelligent!

NwaAmaikpe:




Now this is my summary.

Yele apparently wanted to inform her of the grant he had taken out in her name but she was in detention.
She learnt about it but could not ascertain it's progress because Yele was in detention.

So she rather confirmed the story from Yele's lawyer but still could not confront Yele face to face on it when he got out of detention even though they lived under the same roof.

Now my multi-million questions are these?

1.) Is cohabitating part of their Revolution now struggle?

If yes,

2). Is there even a remote possibility that Yele has slotted either his floppy disc or hard disk into her P. Drive during the time they lived under the same roof?

If yes,

3). Is it moral to mix business with pleasure and can someone who does be trusted enough to become President of a country as confused as Nigeria?

If no,

Which is a worse fraud? A). Shagging someone whom you should mentor or B). Scamming her of a grant obtained in her name?

If A,

Did she enjoy it?

If B,

Was she ever expecting the grant in the first place?

If the answer to both questions are NO.

Then you'd not only realize that she is a confused greedy soul but also that one of the most unproductive thing to do is to be bothered over the true story behind the accusations of two jailbirds whose only motive in life is to disguise the true intent of their activism when in reality their only drive is the insatiable greed in their belly for self aggrandizement.

I've never trusted Yele's intent or sincerity of purpose just like I don't trust the lady's exploitation claims too.
A woman by default thrives by making herself appear the underdog when in fact she is the predator.

VERDICT.

These two are not freedom fighters, they are simply refined egunje hunters and I pity any one who is deluded enough to take them seriously.

You were triggered for a secondary interview because your visa is expiring this month.

shakidude:
My POE story.....

I flew Turkish airline to Houston from Abuja. Lay over was around 9 hours at Instanbul: I dreaded this long wait but It didn’t bother me in the long run as I purchased internet service on my phone for around $7 valid for 24hrs. They only have free access for an hour. Turkish airline is also now becoming stingy, before they give food voucher that can even get u 2 meals but now they said voucher only for 12 hrs or more layover. I had to buy food this time.

On getting to Houston; the CBP officer asked whom I would stay with, how long and when was the last time I visited, then he took my picture. I thought that was the end until he beckoned on another officer to take me in for secondary interview. I was shocked but calm. I was not expecting that since I had passed there multiple times.

The room was full of people waiting for their case to be attended to by 4 officers at the long desk. There were also like 6 smaller rooms labeled interview room and an exit door for those that would not be allowed entry but sent back home. Like I said, I wondered what I was doing there and prayed silently not to pass through that exit door cos I saw someone being escorted through.

I was going for an exam and while waiting doing nothing I decided to bring out my big book to study. After about 30 min, I needed to use the restroom and as an officer came to call someone into one of the mini interview rooms, I told him I wanted to go to d restroom but couldn’t find one, he told me to go meet the officers at the front desk to get the key and I did. After coming out and returning the key, the guy just told me to stay for my interview. It went thus;

CBP: where are you coming from
Me: Nigeria
CBP: Did u come direct?
Me: no, passed through Turkey so lay over at Istanbul
Cbp: oh! Ok. So where are u going to stay
Me: told him
Cbp: how long?
Me: 1 month
Cbp: why are u here
Me: to write an exam
Cbp: oh! U’re a professional?
Me: yes
Cbp: remove ur mask and face the camera. Stamped me in for 6 months. Enjoy your stay

Meanwhile, my visa is due to expire this month end. It doesn’t matter though, it’s d duration of stay that matters


I don’t know the criteria they use to call people but definitely not according to as u arrived there cos if it had been, I would have stayed at least 4 hrs there before it reached my turn but I spent less than an hour there.

I just thank God that I wasn’t sent back. I have a good travel history though and have never overstayed my visa.

NB. They didn’t ask for my Covid result on arrival

There is a threshold for income to be able to sponsor. If you now have a job and the salary is able that threshold you can apply despite having collected Covid benefits.

maziude:
1) No
2) No
3) No, except if your spouse has a dependent child, then you need a proof of income.
4) Please go to cic.gc.ca to get a full list of requirements and documents needed.

Took mine on monday, no issues bro.

richmond500:
2moro?
Lol, I am observing myself for a week, if I see any strange symptoms, I'll raise alert.
Even in the hospital where I took the vaccine, they asked me to report any strange symptoms.

If your visa was revoked they would have informed you of the reason.

Your mum filing for you now has now confirmed the fear of the VO when he made the initial F1 refusal. A visit would be a tough call. Have you visited other European countries or Canada and Australia. A visit visa would be a hard nut based on your previous attempts at F1 and your current petition for Immigrant Visa.

Nnatuu:
I spent 4 weeks on each. 2016 and 2017.

F1 was denied based on 214b. I strongly believe it’s on the basis of “dual intent” because I applied for F1 just after I renewed B1 for a Christmas holiday in USA.

Asides my company, I am also employed as systems integration and design manager in a leading telecom firm here in Nigeria. And also have a daughter I live with. Been to the USA twice and never overstayed my visa or even get tempted to.

Are you saying that these may not outweigh the VOs presumption that I’m an intending immigrant?

I don't think it is both parents.

I renewed successfully for my child. I went alone.

ibukunpops:
Go to their site , book an appointment to renew a passport. you pay cash on the day of the appointment (about N45,000).  
Both parents most be available,  pictures of the child(from age 1-5) printed on A4 should also be taken along. 

Click below to read information required
https://ng.usembassy.gov/u-s-citizen-services/passports/minors-passport-renewal/

Below is the link to book the appointment
https://evisaforms.state.gov/acs/default.asp?postcode=LGS&appcode=1

Below is the link to fill the form and print, enter the Social security no, also have the current passport handy
https://ds11.pdffiller.com/

Hope this helps

I dont know about a used one but i am currently using one i bought from Holland and till date no issues.

eddiense:
Please am about to buy a 2004 BMW 318i wagon. What should I check out for...
Pix attached.

I wanted to stop responding to you but just checked your messages and I saw you only just registered on Nairaland. I hope you have recovered fully from your Okada Accident and I wish you well as you try to start a new life in Dubai.

All the best, and stop screaming, it's not good for fractures.

Mike213:
Stop typing for the sake of typing boy go and sit down

Same here.

Thank God the thread is back. Do not be afraid to go give birth in U.S. The eventual benefits are immense.

oyibo4real:
Wow! Am so glad this thread is gradually coming alive, CONGRATULATIONS to all preggy mamas, the TTCs and those that got their visa approved, intact CONGRATULATIONS to everyone here

Thank God dropbox is back, cant wait to get more positive information on that.

Wey our old mamas, make una come out oo, Biden has started work

Never asked you to take the advice it also doesn't make it worthless, okay. stop shouting!!!

Mike213:
Please stop talking. Your advice is worthless. Everyone knows they have to save if they want to do anything. Even to buy car you must save, to build house same thing. Your wife is pregnant same thing. House rent same thing

Of course you can.

The closest date available is now March, 2022.

Labelle:
Can we apply for US visit visas now? Or are they only processing immigrant visas? Please someone respond. Thanks

Nice story.

Only one piece of advice i have.

Most Nigerians if not Africans enjoy life so much in Canada that they forget that University education is very expensive. Fee can be as high as $25,000 per session and if you have 4 children you suddenly realize you can't afford their education. That is how many end up selling in Mcdonalds and Walmart.

Please try and save and don't get carried away with the exchange rate.

If she has a good job she can try.

Being single and with no kid(s) further reduces this luck, having not been outside Nigeria, reduces chances even further. She should give it a try, you never know.

If denied, you guys can meet in Dubai or South Africa.

Prinxcharles:
Hello House,
Please give me honest insights.

I started my Ph.D. this January in the US and I was hopeful my fiancee would be getting a Ph.D. admission for August, however, she was unlucky and now I'm searching for ways for her to come spend some time with me to keep the bond active.

She is currently on her Masters and also works in Lagos. But she's never traveled out of Nigeria. I would like to know what her chances are of securing a B1/B2 visa. What her *key strengths* may be in convincing the VO to accept her VISA, if she should mention or not that she intends to pursue a Ph.D. in the USA after completing her masters. I see that it's hard to get early appointment dates, but I'm willing to do it right by the first try.

In the same vein, I don't know if anyone here can provide a suggestion on quite affordable places she and I can rendezvous maybe in the summer, that would not require visa uncertainties and flights to and fro for both of us would cheap enough for me to cover.

Thank you!

Its been like this like forever. My first and only Visa Interview was in 2008 and even at that time a lot of rejections including a banker.

Bankers then were privileged career people not to talk of now that banking job is not regarded as anything. I can imagine that lot more people are now applying even if not qualified. Many try their luck and some are lucky though.

theiky:
Hello everyone, I had my interview today and got my visa approved ...
It was raining rejections and sorry you do not qualify for visa at this time. Guys, people were crying today and the person in front of me was a bank manager and they still rejected her oo...
Was a really friendly VO, but still was telling people no, got to my turn and it was a pretty easy Q&A session.... just wanna thank God cos what a day ���

You are joking right?

doloveexist:
Have tried that several times but he will hold his breath and it won't last more than some seconds that he will remove his mouth. One thing am sure of is my mouth don't smell, I tried kissing other men(just two of them) just to know if my mouth smells (no sex with them just kiss alone) and they love kissing me. They even kissed me for long till I told them its ok. Am not a dirty person at all. I have asked him several times if my mouth smells so I can go to dentist and fix the problem and he said my breath is ok

I guess if cheating is because of Cucumber and Kpekus, both parties would just be cheating. If you jump from one person because of cucumber size to the next and the next and the next so when does it stop. There is always an excuse to do something wrong.

I believe all women cannot have big breasts, big asses, same way all men cannot have porn star size dicks. People should look for more valid excuses to cheat. Humans are different from animals and should be able to have control over their physical wants.

Rhodaogunpeju:
my deer size really matters alot .. I'm a lady so I know .. but two things are involved.. if your cucumber is average and your lady is a virgin it will be big to her but if she's the type that has tasted bigger Gbola she will definitely cheat on you...

And pray that your vigrin too sticks with you because once she tastes big Gbola there is no going back...


sadly most women marries men with average cucumber because most men with bigger ones are mostly players ....

They will also include your name on their system and anytime you pass through they will stop you to ask for foodstuff. Lucky you.

Damian457:
I landed Boston logan airport some hours ago.

Me: Hey Good afternoon, how’s it going?
CBP: I’m doing good, where are you coming from?
Me: Lagos Nigeria
CBP: purpose of visit
Me: Business and Visiting my Elder Brother
CBP: How long are you staying for
Me: 3 weeks

She asked me to remove my face mask and captured me
Cbp: Apart from the last time you visited the US, have you been to the US before?

Me: No.
Cbp stamps my passport for 6months.

I went to baggage claim and was referred to Agriculture specialists. men those guys drilled me

CBP: Do you have any fruits or meat?
Me: Nope (I didn’t know my Mum packaged garden egg and Yam for my Elder Brother), the cbp checked and saw garden egg, yam and ungrounded Egusi.
He told a white CBP lady to depose all the Egusi and the reason was because I didn’t grind it.
He asked me where I did covid test , I said in a private Laboratory in Benin City Nigeria, then he said some Nigerians pay 50k and get fake covid Report from the airport, as I was about replying he said I shouldn’t bother to argue about it so he doesn’t take it further and his friend who is a Nigerian told him.
The CBP guy said he would have fined me $300 for bringing those stuffs but this is gonna be like a warning and next time I will be fined.
He scanned my passport and told me to go.

Well done OP. God bless you. Can you please inform us how the problem was eventually resolved?

Everywhere!

Damizy233:
Good morning nairalander
Lagos embassy-denied
Student interview
January 11 2021
Time:9am
Interview
VO-Good morning can I have your passport

ME-Good morning

VO-Why are you going to US

ME- am going to Ashland university Ohio to purse my bachelors degree in business and commerce

VO-when did you finish your undergraduate

ME-2012

VO- what have you been doing since then

ME-I went to bleep for my National diploma in business administration and have been working with bleep as a administrative officer

VO-why business and commerce

ME-am passionate to be a great entrepreneur and I aspire to open my start up and empower people that has similar dreams

VO- who is sponsoring you

ME-My step brother, who is a general merchandise and work as a contractor for government

VO- are you married

ME-No

VO -kids

ME-No

VO-have you travel out

ME -No

VO-am sorry I can’t approve your visa right now under the law of 215b blah blah blah

Please house where have I go wrong here

These are the only two options available to you. You should take one.

seunpinky:
Thanks for your input, we can't afford at this point to make payment in lieu of the notice period. Payment in lieu would set us back by almost 1.5million.

I am interested in learning Crypto trading. Any leads?

Abiodunhezekiah:
MY INVESTMENT EXPERIENCE THIS YEAR 2020

50% Capital - Low risk but at least my capital is safe.
Piggyvest use to give 10% p.a but now gives 8% p.a.

30% capital- Mid Risk
1 diversified into about 2 agro techs.

Farmcrowdy- so far so good. payment to be next year
Agropartnerships - so far so good. payment next year

20% capital - high risks

Quintessential: Gotten paid twice with no stress. Highly recommended. Let me know if you interested.

MBA - I joined July offline so my Nov payment was delayed. Got paid 3/6.
-

Things I'm looking forward to next year 2021

Probably do more of high risk investment cause have grown my risk appetite. Will definitely continue with piggyvest and Agropatnership cause they have been very reliable and almost risk free.

All my savings will be in stable coin like USDT so I can beat inflation.

I'm looking to invest more in Quintessential and TonsoElite cause of the compound interest.

I will avoid MBA moving forward until they're very much stable.

Finally, I will start learning cryptotradimg instead of Forex. E get why....


NB: This is for education purpose not an investment advice.

Please do not think of that at all.

When there is life there is always a bit of hope, but death takes away any possibility of hope. You have to pick up yourself.

Sebastine1994:
When half of my neighbors have travelled, I am now left alone in the compound. every year it is only me who remains back, I am ashamed. I can't go home. I offended my family so much.

I was deported from South Africa for drug trafficking, my father spent all his life saving to send me abroad, I went there to do drugs,

Now I have my freedom, but my heart remains in chain, seeing my family struggling financially because of me and the failed investment on me. I am depressed because of this.

I can't call them, I don't know what to do. I may take my life if the emotional torture becomes much.

You won't believe the best DJ I have ever come across was in Ado-Ekiti. I have seen some really good DJs but that Ado-Ekiti own was something else.

I quite agree with you. She must have done that in good faith.

wiggle:
Talisha2018, Your friend might said all that thinking she was trying to help you guys especially if you didn't tell your full travel itinerary. We Nigerians like to hide details and things to ourselves.

You shouldn't blame the friend for anything in my opinion. The immigration guys are psychologists and have loads of experience.

Your travails weren't caused by your friend. Anyway, Thank God you didn't accept the offer. You claim you had a flight to Canada and not Florida, correct?

Talisha2018:
I never spoke to her after then.

But thru a mutual friend of ours , she never denied most of what was in the transcript. She claimed she was scared and did not know what the situation was with us at the POE, hence her reason for telling them all these stuffs.

Still doesn't make sense to me though. Just had to let go and let God

I am still struggling with A1. Anyway i just started last week. lol

Ajrum:
Hello seniors on our thread.
I am on my french journey and I need some motivation. I downloaded most of the french textbooks gotten here and also some videos on YouTube and everywhere trust me... I am a bit overwhelmed as after my tutorial classes each day I am clueless as how to move forward with my own personal learning..maybe I have too many things to read. The few I have picked on my A2 level seem to be too hard to understand. And am like is this for my same A2 level..huh?? I know it gets better but right now it just seems am stuck.. sigh

Can i see pics of your cofee maker and matress?

Rafaelbeulah:
Deep freezer sold.