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This is more like it, not all those guys that will ask for money for just 3 odds.

Let's hope this will fly.

SnowJay92:
He implied that sex is cheap, doesn't that mean he's saying the Man could have looked for alternative? And I replied that the woman would cry to high heavens if the man even considered that, how does that translate to having extramarital relation in my "shoping list", whatever that means?

You win.

SnowJay92:
Read my comment again, then read the comment of the guy I quoted with it.

you should be able to decode when someone is joking, But to write sex in your to do shopping list is not a joke.

oyienootieno:
Sex with a loved one is far different with sex with a paid total stranger.

Were we talking about love?
Don't confuse sex with love, the two are not synonymous.

Daboomb:
He is not just "a man"! He is her HUSBAND.
She is not just "a woman"!! She is his WIFE.

Even the Bible admonishes us not to deprive each other (husband and wife) of sex.
If you dont want anyone to make a LEGITIMATE DEMAND of sex from you, then DONT GET MARRIED.

Deprivation of "conjugal bliss" (sex) in a marriage, is enough legal grounds for that marriage to be annulled.
That is how serious even the law, looks at it.

If the same Man brings-in another woman now, she will still be shouting Polygamy!
You cant eat your cake, AND STILL WANT TO HAVE IT.

The man for take it easy sha, all this panel-beating stuff is not worth the effort.
Just send her out of your house and marry another woman that is ready to be a WIFE and do Wife-duties.

After all the sermonizing, sex outside the confines of marriage do happen though it's frowned upon, and in many instances it's what is keeping a spouse sane enough to stay married.

If we should go by Jesus' teaching that upgraded the issue of extra marital sex to the mental level, how would a spouse know or catch one when the cheating is on a mental level?

SnowJay92:
As if the woman wouldn't cry to high heavens if the man does anything as close to what you're implying.

Na wa to you ooo, so as a married man you want to include buying sex in the to do shopping list?

lonelydora:
From your quote, I know you are not married and you won't understand how early morning Konji works.

Just reading my comment you conclude I am not married because of early morning konji? you are funny sha.

I don't know how to describe a man who maltreats a woman because of sex, when "sex is the cheapest thing money can buy."

The only thing I take from this is what Ms. Osunfedo said, “I don’t think there is any difficulty that cannot be surmounted.”

NwaAmaikpe:

What's happening

We are hitting the reset button!

oluwafemi1993:
Please I need someone to give an advice on what to do. My doe (female rabbit) which I just got refuses go on heat and will not allow the buck to climb it and mate.

Can you force a female to menstruate or ovulate?
Oyah! Give it drugs to induce heat.

Allow the doe it will when it will.

analice107:
Even when the invitation is given and you rejected it?


Are you only dumb when it comes to godliness or you are deliberately ignorant?

Well, I know this much, The waters that destroyed parts of the world in the days of Noah was an unavoidable natural disaster caused by the magnetic pull of planet Nibiru as it approaches Earth's orbit, dislodging the south pole's ice cap, unlike the avoidable nuclear blast that destroyed Sodom, Sinai, Gomorrah, Sumer, and the surrounding cities and created the dead sea and the desert in those regions.

Read the story of Lot with a modern knowledge of nuclear warfare, and you will understand what the ancient meant by "fire and brimstone"

Zither:
"Come into me all ye that are heavy laden and I shall give you rest." Is that not unconditional invitation?

And what will happen to those who doesn't heed the invitation, because probably they are not "heavy" ladened?

analice107:
But that is wrong and the spirit, antichrist.

You think so?

Those who don't believe in Jesus will not enter heaven, is that not segregation?

OLAADEGBU:
Who is the infinite Creator?

So you don't know you are the infinite creator as you choose to put it?

Take a look at your physical body, how many cells are there?
Do the cells in your body worship you, or do you demand praise and worship from those cells?

You are just a cell in the body of the infinite Creator, for lack of a more simplistic comparison.
Meaning at the level you are, you are a Creator.

Were there not two people crucified with the "Messiah" on the cross?
How many "resurrected" with him?

Whoever who does not believe in the gospel as preached and practiced by TB Joshua, is an atheist.

Well, well, well!

So it's not only Nigeria that marginalizes the Igbos, even Rome?

But come to think of it, must a Bishop be appointed to a diocese based on his place of origin?
Is the Catholic Church now practicing federal character in its appointment?

Besides, is the Pope not God's Vicar on earth?
Rejecting the pope's choice is tantamount to rejecting God's choice.

In this era of secession, maybe they want to secede from Roman Catholic Church.
Biafra Catholic Church loading....

How so sad.

Why not give NDDC the state master plan with proposed new roads clearly shown and let them pick and develop the ones they want, which one come be NDDC should come under the structure?

I guess Gov Udom is intimidated by the number of completed projects by NDDC since Nsima Ekere's appointment.

analice107:
As an atheist, show us what you have contributed to Africa in your little way, or wait, show us the atheists contribution to Africa.

You have outlined what Africa lost through Christianity, now you atheists are here, what is your Contribution?

You should have waited and read what he has to say, he is only talking about traditional African religion which doesn't make him an atheist, in the broad sense of the word.

OP, that same thread of segregation spirals through every aspect of our lives.

You have chosen to discuss it as it affects the church (Christian - Christian relationships), it's in the news that a certain bishop is rejected by priests in his diocese, what led to that?

Even in the same church, if you are not in a particular department, not heavily involved financially, not committed to the teeth, you will be segregated.

There is always something or someone to segregate.

This OP sef, so what was the American Revolution all about?

I bet my two balls this OP knows nothing about history, why would you say there was no war before those countries got independence, even Eritrea?

In church, the stage is too small to contain more than one star: the Pastor.

I baptize everyday, when I bathe.

Did that stop us from losing to them?

I wonder how some people reason, if you are a club freak you will surely find a wife "material" to marry in a club.
After all, birds of a feather club together.

What is that website to confirm car registration?

Since I have only one to pick, it's Matrix.

Else it would have been:
1) Matrix
2) Lord of the Rings
3) Gladiators
4) Lion King

In that order and I have watched each more than 5x

mazinoweb:
This post wasn't about do this and dont do that as pastors do say...
Read it well.

Is that what I said?

What I meant was, you didnt expect to be questioned based on what you said, you expected us to just swallow it just like in church where nobody questions a pastor.

mazinoweb:
You just want to argue...If that post is not clear, I can use pidgin English or any of the 3 major languages of Nigeria to rephrase that post...

This is not church where people unquestioningly swallow everything a pastor says, expect to be questioned albeit from a divergent view point.

So don't expect to hear an Amen any time soon.

Besides, to attend to the topic, nobody needs to fear God, since God by definition is "Love" and perfect love cast out fear. For a Christian or anybody to fear God is oxymoronical.

hopefulLandlord:
educating us won't be such a bad idea, don't you think?

I ain't the one that said Christians obey the laws of man, so the onus is on the OP to educate us on the laws of God.

The laws of God are the laws God lives by, those are what I want to hear.