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RomanceRe: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 9:25am On Mar 04, 2025
cr7lomo:
We don't need Natashas .... once a woman has money , she becomes disrespectful and arrogant
Respectful people remain respectful regardless of their status. Your comment makes absolutely no sense; you are indirectly implying that all women are disrespectful and arrogant and that being broke or poor limits women from showing their true colours.

Nobody can predict the future. What if your partner becomes financially independent tomorrow or would you go out of your way to limit your partner and ensure she doesn’t succeed? If you want a respectful wife, simply marry a respectful person.

People often focus more on physical appearance and other superficial factors rather than their partner's personality, which is why they may end up mismatched. Money is not a determining factor when it comes to character. Anyone, whether broke or rich, can be disrespectful and arrogant.
RomanceRe: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 8:38am On Mar 04, 2025
COOL10:
That's always the excuse they give when men no longer want them because of their disgusting, condescending, silly, rude attitudes. They should get ready to remain single and lonely for the rest of their miserable lives. Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!
"Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!"

Dey play!
RomanceRe: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 8:35am On Mar 04, 2025
COOL10:
That's always the excuse they give when men no longer want them because of their disgusting, condescending, silly, rude attitudes. They should get ready to remain single and lonely for the rest of their miserable lives. Men don't need marriage; Women do!!!!
🙄
RomanceRe: The Wild And Worrisome Ways Of Women by Merry100:
RomanceRe: What Can Make Marriage Survive This Days(pics) by Merry100: 12:13am On Mar 02, 2025
Compatibility and understanding
RomanceRe: Apart From Sleeping With Men, What Else Can A Lady Do To Own Billions? by Merry100: 4:04pm On Feb 27, 2025
essentialone:
Apart from sleeping with men, what else can a lady do to own Billions?
Apart from fraud, what else can a guy do to own Billions?
RomanceRe: “Ban Dating, It’s Not Biblical” – Solomon Buchi by Merry100: 3:33pm On Feb 27, 2025
AllBlack:
So we should ban WHATEVER is not in the Bible? How about you start with your phones and school degrees. Oh let's not forget your television, freezer and generator plus your car.
What an idiot.
RomanceRe: My Wife Doesn’t Kiss Because Of Phobia About Bacteria Exchange, No Mouth Odour by Merry100:
I dislike how sex is often overhyped and emphasized in public, even among unmarried people, when there are other important things that deserve more attention. However, I completely disagree with the notion that op is wrong for feeling this way or that sex is solely for procreation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with sexual activities within marriage.

Sex doesn't prevent people from achieving important things. Many people who are focused on acquiring important things still privately find time for sex. For example, some top billionaires remarried after divorcing their wives, even after having enough children.

If the woman in question were a virgin, I would have suggested giving her time to adjust. But if the issue is a low sex drive, she should have married someone with a similar drive. In marriage, it's crucial for both partners to be on the same page. If one enjoys sex and the other does not, it can become a big issue.
RomanceRe: Is Age Just A Number In Relationships? by Merry100: 5:07pm On Feb 24, 2025
brain54:
Can you date a younger man...?
Yes
RomanceRe: Is Age Just A Number In Relationships? by Merry100: 4:59pm On Feb 24, 2025
I can date an older man as long as he is as fit as RMD.
RomanceRe: My Wife Doesn’t Kiss Because Of Phobia About Bacteria Exchange, No Mouth Odour by Merry100:
Odingo1:
Una nodey hear word, my mouth is not smelling. I never have mouth odour. She said is a phobia she developed at teenage age that I can confirm from her ex if she ever agreed to kiss him.
Personally, I’m attracted to guys who smell nice. In fact, that's the first thing that draws me to someone. It's possible she doesn't like your scent.

Be sure to brush your teeth before attempting to kiss her, and a few hours before, avoid eating anything that might leave disgusting particles in your mouth. Make sure you smell good, and try to spice things up a bit.

It’s also possible that she feels insecure about her body or has experienced sexual abuse or molestation. It might be necessary to involve a therapist.
RomanceRe: My Wife Doesn’t Kiss Because Of Phobia About Bacteria Exchange, No Mouth Odour by Merry100: 12:28pm On Feb 24, 2025
Hellisreal70:
It's not by force to kiss.
So far she is not kissing any other person.
Abi na kissing go make her get belle ni?
It is by force to kiss o. Marriage is not only for procreation.
RomanceRe: If You Don’t Have Up To 50 Billion In Your Account, Don’t Talk To Me—lady Blast by Merry100: 12:12pm On Feb 24, 2025
If a lady is worth 10 million naira, she should even be somewhat skeptical about marrying someone worth 1 billion naira. Unless true love or something equally significant is involved, I don’t think it’s ideal for a lady to marry a man who is worth 100 times more than she is.

If she is not worth at least 1 billion naira, then she is not serious. Even if she achieves her quest, I hope she won’t end up with regrets.
RomanceRe: My Wife Doesn’t Kiss Because Of Phobia About Bacteria Exchange, No Mouth Odour by Merry100: 8:33am On Feb 24, 2025
Jman06:
She might even have other guys he's dying to kiss but denying you. Our girls need reorientation about kissing. I don't know the kind of mgbeke girls we're having nowadays! You can't claim to love someone without desiring to kiss them. Kissing is impulsive when you are with someone you truly love
I disagree with this. When people choose to abstain from all forms of sexual contact, including kissing before marriage, even when they are meeting someone they are physically attracted to, they endeavour to control their emotions. Some might even avoid contact with a person just because they find it difficult to keep their emotions in check when around the person.

In this situation, the guy is not at fault; the issue lies with the woman. She shouldn't have gotten married if she knew she wasn't mentally or emotionally ready for it.
RomanceRe: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Merry100:
[quote author=TheFreshVanilla post=134262389][/quote]Love and care have always been part of the central themes of my relationship. I am more concerned about the welfare of my partner than about adhering to relationship rules. Rather than waiting for his girlfriend, who is in pain, to call him or message him, if he truly loves her and wants to stay in contact with her, he would make an effort to visit her during such time to comfort and care for her. She would genuinely appreciate such a gesture.

If I were a banker, I certainly would not skip work because of my period; I would go to work because I have no choice, but I might unintentionally take my frustrations out on a client, especially if they annoyed me, as my menstrual cycle can lead to mood swings.

During my period, I tend to limit my business activities. My job requires a lot of travel, so I carefully schedule my trips to ensure they don’t coincide with my cycle. Spending several hours confined to a car is already so frustrating and stressful, I sometimes participate in online discussions just to alleviate boredom.
FamilyRe: I Brought This Topic To Listen To Opinions by Merry100: 10:00pm On Feb 22, 2025
brain54:
I had this boss one time...

The very first day I met him I thought he was a driver because of the way he was dressed...he came down from his car with worn out pam sandals and a slacked round necked lopo(not polo) he came with his well dressed and pleasant looking friend so I assumed his friend was the boss, even though I greeted both of them warmly.

This boss of mine hardly spent money on him self... If we had gigs outside kaduna he would buy tickets for staff to travel by air,while he would go and board those luxurious busses and arrive a day later. Infact some one even said he never paid for a seat but would pay for standing so when a passenger dropped along the way he would sit.

This is a man that had wealth and could afford most things if he wanted.

I never really gave much thoughts to his actions but like most have stated on this thread I agree that it could be poverty mentality tied in inferiority complex. This man came from a humble background and built his business from scratch. Maybe he felt he didn't deserve the good things in life.

The peculiar thing is he had no qualms spending on other people. His staff had the best welfare packages compared to competitors, he also had better salary scale and never had any problem giving people gifts or helping them financially - he just never spent on him self.

Maybe other things gave him satisfaction!
He might not even realize that his lifestyle is unusual. His wife, a trusted family member, or a friend could be in the best position to point it out to him. If he's not a stubborn person, he might choose to work on his lifestyle, and over time, he would adjust to a more comfortable way of living.
FamilyRe: I Brought This Topic To Listen To Opinions by Merry100: 9:33pm On Feb 22, 2025
A rich person is just a few steps away from poverty. While you don’t have to be too stingy with yourself, you also shouldn’t become too relaxed and start spending recklessly. Wait until you are truly wealthy before reaching for your wants.

There is a big difference between being wealthy and being rich. You can be rich today and broke tomorrow. Don’t let your money just sit in your account either, invest it. If you're unsure of how to invest, start by purchasing properties or items with good resale value.
FamilyRe: Why Does Women Flaunt Nudity Themselves Shamelessly? by Merry100: 9:01pm On Feb 22, 2025
The same reason men are shamelessly doing fraud.
RomanceRe: See The Mind Game My Girlfriend Always Playing Recently . by Merry100: 8:44pm On Feb 22, 2025
There are men who can never be satisfied; even if they date or marry angels, they will still find faults.

Don’t you have sisters or female cousins who experience menstrual cramps? A woman endures menstrual cramps every month, and on top of that, you’re forming angry and shouting at her. Na her I blame, I no blame you. When a woman finds the right man, she doesn’t have to do too much, everything will just fall into place.
RomanceRe: Landers Rate Me And My Babe. Is She Cute?am I Cute ? Re We Cute? by Merry100:
Astonmartin:
How far now? You later marry herhuh
To avoid questions like this, people should just keep their dating lives private. I can't permit any guy to post me like this.
BusinessRe: CBN Should Instruct Banks To Reject Transactions From Suspicious Accounts by Merry100(op): 6:50pm On Feb 22, 2025
After launching several complaints to the bank, the money has finally entered. May God help us in this country.
PoliticsRe: Sen. NATASHA Speaks To Nigerians Through Ordinary President On Berekete by Merry100: 2:27pm On Feb 22, 2025
JASONjnr:
Have you ever encounter her personally?

She disobeyed the senate president and she claimed she was marginalized and not allow to speak. The attitude of that woman is what no man can tolerate as a wife. She's got a terrible character.
If you are fond of playing the role of god to your wife, limit it to your home; do not expect every woman you encounter to play the role of wife to you.

The National Assembly is not a marriage institution, he should be able to treat and address her the same way he would treat and address a male senator.
BusinessCBN Should Instruct Banks To Reject Transactions From Suspicious Accounts by Merry100(op):
CBN should kindly help businesses by instructing all banks to directly reject transactions from suspicious accounts.

After receiving a notification about a transfer of 2 million naira from a customer and supplying goods to the customer, the funds did not appear in the account. The bank claims that, due to a directive from the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), they need to verify the funds first before making a decision. Amounts greater than 2 million naira have been successfully deposited into this same account previously, suggesting that the issue lies with the sender's account.

Since some banks do not take the initiative to decline transactions from suspicious accounts, I kindly request that the CBN instruct all banks to directly reject transactions from any account that appears suspicious, rather than sending notifications of payment and causing unnecessary distress to businesses. Businesses should not be left at a disadvantage in these situations.
RomanceRe: Be Brutally Honest, If You Died From Your Favorite Thing In The Entire World by Merry100: 7:08pm On Feb 17, 2025
Silentgroper:
I love babies too .. .. let's make a football team of them of them..
😂
RomanceRe: Which Of Them Can U Marry And Why by Merry100:
pansophist:
You are right, and no where have I said that women who messed up do not have high status men. But the chance is slim. Its like me telling you that people are winning Betnaija daily, so you should start gambling.

But what are your chances? Will you work with probability, or on certainty? I also think such men that are with damaged have given women hope to go and spoil themselves. Afterall, one guy out there will forget her past.

I have had on Turkish exchange student that refused to date guy while she was in school, all because it will be hard for her to get married in Turkey if she loose her virginity.

Turkish men will hardly accept her and see her as unfit as a wife, and for that reason, she kept herself virtuous. If Naija men have such standards, infidelity will reduce.
It takes two to tango; advise your fellow men to stop having premarital sex as well.

The chances of non-virgins marrying a high-status man are even higher than those of virgins because many non-virgins enjoy mingling and meeting new people, while some virgins, especially Christian virgins, prefer not to mingle and instead relate mostly with those who are highly religious or Spiritual. They often spend their days at home, at work, or in Church.

How many virgins marry high-status men? Can you even name just five well-known, high-status men who are married to virgins?

High-status men do not even prioritize a woman's virginity; they prefer intelligent, talented, industrious, elegant, or supportive partners.

A lot of virgins are too rigid to socialize, attend outings, or go to parties and functions, and men don't go from house to house searching for women to marry; they mostly meet women during their outings.

Virginity is good, but ladies need to focus on attaining success rather than solely looking forward to what their partner can offer and basing their happiness solely on their partner. Virginity is not an asset and should not be viewed as such because it is unlikely to yield any significant profit, unless it is being kept for sale.

Virginity cannot even be relied upon as a tool to strengthen relationships or have a healthy marriage because after wedding, a lady's virginity becomes a thing of the past, and all that will be left is her personality and personal achievements. All ladies, including virgins, need to carefully select their partner because any woman who ends up marrying the wrong man, whether a virgin or not, will end up with regrets.

People need to stop overhyping, misinforming, or misleading virgins because it often leads the gullible ones to remain unproductive. I myself am a virgin, but I don't take it as a big deal; it is just a decision I made a long time ago.
RomanceRe: Move by Merry100: 1:43pm On Feb 15, 2025
Monitoring spirit better calm down. Some people naturally attract friends. If you date a lady like me, you for done develop hypertension.

There is nothing wrong with a lady chatting with guys; as long as she has informed them that she has a boyfriend. But chatting with an ex is a no no.
RomanceRe: Be Brutally Honest, If You Died From Your Favorite Thing In The Entire World by Merry100: 12:10pm On Feb 15, 2025
Money and babies
PoliticsRe: We never relied on government by Merry100(op):
emma2018:
Hi merry100.

It is Emmanuel. God bless you for everything. I had a 63 in my finals.

Please ma. It is to do spiral bind by Monday
Please i know you have extra tried.couple this week. I have spent over 65k and some are from loan apps.

I intend to pay them on Friday when my salary comes in.

Please mq. If you cant help me. Please let me know. I do not want to spam you and i should never even bother you.

Please merry. If please you can spare me 3000 for my binding to the department and library.

I am a bit behind please.

I am owimg you about 9000 and i promise to refund fully this coming Friday please
Both the 4,000 airtime and #12,000 that I sent to you are not loans; I gifted them to you. Please manage what I have sent, I don't have any more spare at the moment. I wish you all the best.
RomanceRe: Valentine’s Day 2025: How Are You Spreading the Love Today? (Photos Inside) by Merry100: 4:49pm On Feb 14, 2025
Relationships need special days, and Valentine's Day is one of them.

Those criticizing Val's day, stop the negativity. If you don't have a Val now, you might have one tomorrow. Happy Val's Day ❤️😄
RomanceRe: The Only Advice I Can Give Men In Relationships About Women by Merry100:
Kindly paint your face red and white, because you seem like a real clown. You should be smarter than this. Rather than being judgmental and assessing all the women you meet based on your previous encounters or the experiences of some other guys, look out for red flags and take the time to study every women you meet properly before committing to a relationship.

All human beings, including you, have positive and negative sides. Take the time to understand the temperaments and behaviours of the women you encounter, select your preferred type of woman, and learn how to relate and interact with her.

If you are looking for a partner who is introverted, calm, warm, relaxed, patient, easygoing, rational, agreeable, peaceful, not confrontational, slow-paced, unemotional, unmotivated, stubborn, and unlikely to be industrious or hardworking, your best bet is a phlegmatic type.

If you want a partner who is introverted, independent, principled, hardworking, smart, diligent, industrious, a deep thinker, observant, analytical, wise, creative, talented, a neat freak, orderly, organized, overly scheduled, a perfectionist, negative, moody, sensitive, serious, anxious, easily saddened or depressed, touchy, resentful, and vengeful, your best bet is a melancholic type.

If you want a partner who is extroverted, outgoing, energetic, cheerful, optimistic, fun-loving, expressive, entertaining, friendly, nice, kind, generous, caring, warm-hearted, volatile, easygoing, self-sacrificing, a natural people pleaser, optimistic, non-judgmental, open-minded, able to forgive and forget easily, romantic, outspoken, confident, carefree, talkative, too playful, unserious, impulsive, reckless, and lacking discipline, your best bet is a sanguine type.

If you looking for a partner who is extroverted, outgoing, energetic, independent, motivated, passionate, reasonable, self-sufficient, a doer, a natural leader, influential, competitive, often striving to lead or to achieve leadership positions, a workaholic, diligent, serious, disciplined, a visionary, practical, goal-oriented, principled, courageous, ambitious, strong-willed, determined, intelligent, a quick thinker, quick to act, fiery, domineering, direct, confrontational, controversial, fearless, loud, self-important, overconfident, rude, proud, arrogant, bossy, controlling, merciless, demanding, inflexible, manipulative, quick-tempered, struggles with patience, becomes easily upset or angry, shows a lack of sympathy, reacts quickly, is highly resentful and vengeful, uneasy to please, judgmental, toxic and, aggressive, your best bet is a choleric type.

Though people tend to exhibit majority of the traits of their primary temperament, it is rare for someone to possess 100% positive or negative traits of a single temperament because in addition to their primary temperament, most people also have one or more secondary temperaments from which they exhibit traits. Study your partner thoroughly in order to understand their behaviours and temperaments.
RomanceRe: "How Do Short, Fair-skinned People Find Love by Merry100:
Bendeco02:
When i say real men, am not referring to wealthy men.

I mean alpha male

On your last paragraph, maybe you thought you're talking to someone that is a novice. Like i told you earlier, i have run things with your gender and know them to some extent.

For this our generation, many don't enter marriage for true love. The last girl i dated, few months to her wedding, she still visits me and we keep having intimacy. The man about to wed her calls and she tells him she is in her room.

Don't even mention true love again, because i know some married women having affair outside their marriage with men below their husband status.

After marrying the so called true love or choice. Tall, handsome man, you still go outside to Bleep shorter, ugly man grin
Whether you mean alpha men or wealthy men, it makes no difference.

One thing is certain: you haven't dated up to 0.00001% of the entire population of women in Nigeria, and the last girl you dated doesn't represent all the women in the country.

Certainly, not many women in Nigeria will still go out to bleep shorter, ugly men or even bleep any other man aside their husband.

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