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Romance › Re: Wife Beats And Humiliates Husband In Front Of Their Kids In Belgium (Video, Pic) by Merry100: 2:29pm On Mar 10, 2025

pussyphilia:
WOW

That's a real woman there! Good that she knows how to discipline him and make him conform to her standards.

More African ladies should learn how to be like her!

Use your head.

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Romance › Re: 10 Powers Of A Woman by Merry100: 12:59pm On Mar 10, 2025*

Happy to be blessed with an intelligent mother, I admire how she keeps studying, she is about to pursue another PhD program. I often wonder how she is able to juggle life as a full-time wife while being a working professional.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7478224629518044421/

Family › Re: International Women’s Day 2025: Imagine A World Without Women – You Can’t! (Pix) by Merry100: 8:53am On Mar 10, 2025

Antwan99:
No!

How many of them.

Who brought the codes idea? Women only studied.

😂🤣🤣 I had a nice time watching you struggle with reality. Good luck with your delusions!

Family › Re: International Women’s Day 2025: Imagine A World Without Women – You Can’t! (Pix) by Merry100: 8:33am On Mar 10, 2025

Antwan99:
How many of them. It can never be without the guidance of a bunch of men. Go check!

Just take the L and move on. Your argument crumbled the moment you had to shift from "women never contribute" to "but men guided them!"

Did men guide Marie Curie to two Nobel Prizes? Did they hold Margaret Hamilton’s hand while she wrote the code that put men on the moon? Did they whisper the structure of DNA to Rosalind Franklin before stealing her work?

The only thing men truly guided was erasing women’s names from history. And yet, despite centuries of suppression, credit theft, and gatekeeping, women still revolutionized science and technology. Imagine what we’d accomplish without insecure little men like you trying to hold us back.

By whining about "not that many," you're just proving my point - women were systematically silenced and excluded. It’s not about ability, it’s about access.

Wake up, man. Biological makeup doesn’t determine intelligence. Science isn’t a boys' club, it’s a collaboration. And whether you like it or not, women have always been part of it.

Now go cry in a corner while using Wi-Fi invented by a woman. 🤡

Family › Re: International Women’s Day 2025: Imagine A World Without Women – You Can’t! (Pix) by Merry100: 3:12pm On Mar 09, 2025

Antwan99:
No!

Biological make-up is the fundamental determining factor. Women were not, won't and never make complex technical and scientific constructs.

Women have been shaping science and technology for centuries.

Ever heard of Ada Lovelace, the first computer programmer? Or Katherine Johnson, whose calculations sent men to the moon? Or Hedy Lamarr, who helped invent the foundation of Wi-Fi?

Funny how you’re using technology built by women to spread your outdated nonsense.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Family › Re: International Women’s Day 2025: Imagine A World Without Women – You Can’t! (Pix) by Merry100: 2:45pm On Mar 09, 2025

Antwan99:
No!

Due to better connections between the left and right side of the brains, girls are better at verbal creativity like for example, in language and arts.

Conversely, due to a seemingly greater engagement of one side of the brain in boys generally, they may have better efficacy in science-related analysis and problem-solving.

I was only casual and stating the obvious universal facts in my first post.

But trust me, if you really wish to shift or allocate blame, it must then go as far back as creation and not society.

You must be a clown. After implying that women are merely baby factories just to degrade women, you are now claiming you are simply being casual.

Let’s go through a bit of history. Before World War II, many countries excluded women from formal education. Even in Western societies that did offer education, women were often barred from fields like medicine, engineering, and law. It was only after World War II that women began entering a wider range of fields, including science, engineering, and law. However, discrimination and gender bias persisted for many years.

Start considering underlying factors before drawing conclusions, as I have indicated before. Creativity-based courses, such as language and arts, were historically assigned to women by society, which is why women tend to dominate and perhaps excel in these fields. Similarly, science-related and problem-solving courses were traditionally assigned to men, which is why men tend to dominate and perhaps perform better in them.

While there are differences in brain structure and function between males and females, these differences do not determine individual abilities or predispositions.

If girls perform better in verbal creativity and boys excel in science-related analysis and problem-solving, as you claim, it would be due to a variety of factors, including cultural, environmental, and educational influences, not simply differences in brain connectivity.

If biological factors alone dictated abilities, then boys and girls wouldn’t both excel individually in high school, and there would be a clear gender-based distinction in subject performance. Even at the college level, both men and women excel in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics) courses.

Family › Re: International Women’s Day 2025: Imagine A World Without Women – You Can’t! (Pix) by Merry100: 1:23am On Mar 09, 2025*

Antwan99:
You got it all wrong.

Have you ever observed when kids of less than 7yrs old from rural settings play?

The female kids' interests are always in the less complex patterns. The male kids right at this stage are already innovating and building complex patterns.

This is similar to saying that cooking is actually every girl's hobby simply because most rural girls learn to cook by the age of six.

You claim to be observant, yet you conclude that female children in rural areas are less interested in complex patterns without considering the underlying factors. Societal standards for girls in rural settings and established norms play a significant role in shaping their interests.

Females and males are not treated equally; different standards have been set for them. Even female and male children don't simply make their own preferences; there are established standards that dictate these choices. Therefore, your observation is irrelevant.

There is a distinction between societal standards and individual preferences. To illustrate my point more clearly, let's consider toys and action figures, though they are more common in urban settings. While society often assigns dolls and teddy bears as toys for girls, there are boys who also prefer playing with dolls or teddy bears. Conversely, although action figures, toy cars, and balls are predominantly marketed toward boys, many girls choose to play with them as well.

Family › Re: International Women’s Day 2025: Imagine A World Without Women – You Can’t! (Pix) by Merry100: 7:09pm On Mar 08, 2025

Antwan99:
Can it be without men?

No technology
No phones
No computers
No cars
No aeroplanes
No houses
No money
No roads
No bridges
No beverages (only kunu & zobo).
Lots more...

Without women is just no new babies🤑

Your imagination sounds like a bad sci-fi plot where villains think they’re indispensable.

If we were to remove men, women wouldn’t just create new technologies and inventions; we would also create a new and perhaps better system.

Many women are innovators waiting for a chance. If the world had given equal rights and opportunities to women, rather than gatekeeping opportunities and limiting us, you wouldn’t be here having these fictional ideas in your head.

Women should be considered the true heroes because, despite facing constant opposition, many have pushed boundaries to achieve success, with some even creating innovations or making groundbreaking contributions.

Why not equal rights and opportunities? Why did men have to gatekeep, silence, and limit us in order to gain the spotlight?

Romance › Re: If You Don’t Want Men To Take Advantage Of You, Always Stand Your Ground by Merry100(op): 10:57am On Mar 08, 2025

AfeezShomorin:
They only get tired if the guy looks hungry

Maybe, the women in your circle.

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Romance › Re: If You Don’t Want Men To Take Advantage Of You, Always Stand Your Ground by Merry100(op): 10:40am On Mar 08, 2025

fineboynl:
I thought women are happy when a guy approached them.

A lot of women get tired of it.

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Romance › Re: If You Don’t Want Men To Take Advantage Of You, Always Stand Your Ground by Merry100(op): 10:03am On Mar 08, 2025

RealityKings1:
Keep your long boring explanation to yourself
Not interested

No go warm eba chop.

Romance › Re: If You Don’t Want Men To Take Advantage Of You, Always Stand Your Ground by Merry100(op): 9:57am On Mar 08, 2025

RealityKings1:
If someone asks for your number, you can tell them no instead of deliberately giving them a wrong number. So obviously you are too childish to stand your ground. That aside

Keep your unsolicited advice to yourself.

Sometimes, I simply say no. I use this indirect approach to say no when I believe it’s less stressful and more efficient. Same message, different approach.

The two guys were also quite polite and friendly. I don’t have to appear unfriendly or rude to stand my ground. I wasn’t interested in the awkwardness of giving reasons or entertaining unwanted attention.

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Romance › Re: If You Don’t Want Men To Take Advantage Of You, Always Stand Your Ground by Merry100(op): 9:10pm On Mar 07, 2025

Today, when I went to eat at an eatery, two guys approached me and asked for my number. I gave them a fake number; they had already finished eating by the time I arrived, so they stepped out after getting my number. One of them returned and said the number wasn’t going through. He asked if I had another number, and I then gave him my real number and he left.

The other guy came back and asked if they could take me out but I told him that I wasn't free today. He asked where I lived, and I replied that I lived nearby. The eatery is just a few miles from my house, so I didn't take my car. He insisted that he didn't mind waiting to give me a lift, but I told him not to worry.

Don’t be swayed by their persuasion; always stand your ground. Some of the ladies who were used for rituals might have even been very decent ladies, but they were portrayed as prostitutes in order to gain support for the murders from women haters, and useless and ignorant people.

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Romance › If You Don’t Want Men To Take Advantage Of You, Always Stand Your Ground by Merry100(op): 9:10pm On Mar 07, 2025*

Some of the women who were kidnapped or used for rituals were simply gullible; they were not prostitutes like they have been portrayed.

If a man you just met tells you, "Don’t you trust me?" explain to him that he is still a stranger to you and that you have no reason to trust him, you can also tell him that he shouldn't trust you either because you are also still a stranger to him as well.

Unless you know a guy very well, it's advisable to avoid meeting him at his house. It's better to meet guys in public spaces. If a guy insists that you come to his house, he may have hidden intentions. Is his house paradise or a museum?

Also, be cautious about accepting rides, some guys conceal charms under their car seats.

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Family › Re: One word for the parent of this kid {pic} by Merry100: 12:32am On Mar 07, 2025

Women haters, kindly limit your hate to adults, leave kids out of it.

Romance › Re: Finding A Good Wife In Nigeria Is Hard; Is Every Pretty Lady Into Runs? by Merry100: 11:28pm On Mar 06, 2025*

SmartManJoe:
I am writing this post from the deepest depths of my heart. I am not trying to insult or vilify Nigerian women, I am only speaking from experience.

I returned to Nigeria two years ago after living in the United States for over a decade, and ever since, I have been actively searching for a wife. At first, I was a bit naive, thinking it would be easy, but I have come to realize that most of the beautiful women I meet are either into "runs" or for the streets.

Let me be clear, money is not my problem. I am the head of a major company in Lagos, and I am ready to take care of my wife in every way possible. However, finding the right woman has been a struggle. Many ladies nowadays prioritize the wrong things, and I am tired of meeting the wrong ones. Every beautiful girl I meet is either a low key runs girl or very irresponsible. I don't want to be with a girl that clubs. I don't want to be with a girl that smokes and I don't want to be with a girl that keeps friends who spend nights out partying 3 times a week. I don't want to be with a girl that dresses scantily. I simply want a responsible girl that is good looking. Is that too much to ask?

That’s why I am turning to my fellow Nairalanders for help. If you know a lady who meets the following criteria, kindly recommend her to me:

Age: 23-30
Looks: Beautiful and not short
Body Type: Slim and preferably busty (I am very attracted to busty women)
Character: Responsible, well-mannered, and properly dressed
Education: Should speak good English and

To encourage serious recommendations, I will pay ₦50,000 for every relevant suggestion.
If you have someone in mind, please contact me via joetheman869@gmail.com
Make sure to include:
-A picture or a link to her social media so I can see what she looks like
-Her phone number or contact info so I can reach out and speak with her
- Your account number so I can send the money to you.

I trust the Nairaland community to help me find the right woman. I am looking for something serious, not games.

Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!

Do you have sisters or female cousins? Are they also into running, or are they ugly? You may never find a good lady o, those are the kind of ladies that will continue coming your way. Nigerian ladies are not the problem, the issue lies with you. Work on yourself.

Politics › Re: We never relied on government by Merry100(op): 11:07am On Mar 06, 2025*

Criticizing the government is not new to Nigeria; Nigerians have a long history of expressing their grievances but regardless of the state of the economy, we continue to struggle and move forward. What makes this time different is the increased rate of insecurity in the country.

Insecurity is one of the leading causes of hunger and starvation in the land. Many farmers and hunters face restrictions due to insecurity, hence a significant reason for the rising prices of agricultural produce.

Romance › Re: Which Country Is The Greatest Football Nation by Merry100: 10:11am On Mar 06, 2025

Brazil

Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 11:16am On Mar 05, 2025

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7472821398856109319/

Politics › Re: CAN Exhibiting Double Standards Over Ramadan School Closures — MURIC by Merry100: 11:00am On Mar 05, 2025

PressMyButton:
Why must it be after Ramadan?, Why must you put the lives of people on hold for 5 weeks because of Ramadan?

CAN wants fairness, they pay taxes that runs those schools, they're speaking for their kids in those schools. You should rather stop playing God, putting the lives of our kids on hold because of a religious doctrine. How would you feel if the reverse was the case. I hate nonsense.

Politics › Re: Osun To Procure ₦‎7 Billion Vehicles For Adeleke’s 37 Advisers by Merry100: 9:42am On Mar 05, 2025

Ebbysegun:
This piece of news is totally fake, Gov Ademola Adeleke is prudent and very sensitive to the plight of Osun people. If the state has this amount of money to throw around, Gov Adeleke will rather direct such to paying backlog of salaries and pensions owed by previous administrations like he has been doing.

Disregard this completely please.

Romance › Re: The Hidden Double Standard That’s Destroying Men by Merry100: 8:57am On Mar 05, 2025

Sure, society has a twisted double standard:
How can the same society that belittles and discourages women from making progress and achieving greatness, also complain that women seek out wealthy men?

You made them dependent and sexualized them. You rarely see potentials in them, and even when their potentials are visible and clear to everyone, you still sexualize them and take advantage of them.

For the female gender, achieving their potential sometimes comes at a cost; even opportunities don’t come without a price, and they can pass them by if they refuse to pay the price.

You refuse to encourage or teach them to mine gold, yet you bash them for digging golds. You claim they go for rich magnates, but how else can they achieve greatness when you didn't empower them to become billionaires on their own?

Romance › Re: 90% Of Women Who Know Their Rights Are Not In Their Husbands’ House – Lady Decry by Merry100: 7:49pm On Mar 04, 2025

It is better to prioritize strengthening your marriage rather than asserting rights, but it is also essential to know your rights in order to detect and avoid mistreatment.

If you have a good husband and you are happy and comfortable in your marriage, avoid creating unnecessary conflicts by asserting rights. Assert your rights only when necessary, if your marriage feels oppressive, if your husband's actions are life-threatening, or if his behaviour causes significant discomfort or infidelity is involved.

Before marriage, individuals should prioritize personal growth and maturity. Careful observation of potential partners' behaviour is crucial for ensuring compatibility. A key sign of maturity is apologizing first when wrong, followed by an explanation, rather than justification. If your partner says you have offended them, do not minimize or disregard their feelings. Apologize first; then explain afterward, rather than trying to justify your actions.

Be cautious of people who value or honour no one, see themselves as all-powerful, and feel too big to apologize or take advise for anyone.

It is important to know the people your partner respects and listens to. Sometimes, when I have a disagreement with my boyfriend, he will say, "I'll call Pastor this, I'll call this and that," because he knows the people I value and listen to, my pastors happen to be among them. I know he also values his pastor and some other individuals greatly and listens to them. If we were to marry tomorrow and face a situation beyond our capabilities, we can always turn to those individuals for support.

Marry wisely, and you will be free from unnecessary drama.

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Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 7:23pm On Mar 04, 2025*

cr7lomo:
Madam. Get sense na.... ... People gym for health reasons ... go and Google the meaning of a narcissist.... anyone that's obsessed with their looks ...that's what a narcissist is...

At bolded ...what do stated is fact ... if u are wired to think that it means hate for women, then u also prove my point that u guys are never logical .... the gender that is known for not hold themselves accountable for their bad behaviour.... Natasha has still not apologised ...typical woman ....they never accept fault ... Akpabio did same years ago and when he realised , he apologises to his colleagues and the SP saraki ... but look at this one ... first time ever being elected, she don de do like market woman... what a gender

Ignoramus read my comment again, I said "E be like say na my gender dey do penis enlargement and dey hit gym for six-packs o 🤣🤣🤣"

I specifically mentioned "for six-pack", or aren't there guys who hit the gym just for six-pack abs?

Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 2:37pm On Mar 04, 2025*

cr7lomo:
Hahaha... once a man goes against a woman, he's a narcissist, he's a misogynist , his controlling...the next u hear is " he sexually assaulted me" hahaha...madam, una don cast ... for every woman hater , there are 10 men haters , most women are misandrists , extremely controlling, reason u can't control ur emotions when jealous, and psychopathic narcissist, reason that one de wear shades whenever she speaks to the press like say she be Abacha.... narcissists are those that will do anything to look good to their satisfaction, na who de post pictures for social media pass , no be woman ?? Same will use make up, do BBL...anyone that's obsessed with attention is a narcissist, and that's what women are known for ....

"more evidence that women leadership is a no no , more reason why women will never be allowed to get that stupid bill of having a number of them in senate.... mumu gender"

"It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ..."

By their comments, you shall know them. The bolded statements point to you being misogynistic. Look up the meaning of the word 'misogynistic' before making baseless claims.

Which kind yeye talk be this? Narcissists na people wey go dey look good for their own satisfaction. Omo see as dey disgrace your gender with your ignorance. If you be my gender, I go just deny you straight up.

E be like say na my gender dey do penis enlargement and dey hit gym for six-packs o 🤣🤣🤣

Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 2:02pm On Mar 04, 2025

cr7lomo:
U don't get it...the major problem with most women is when there's a real situation, they really don't know how to face adversity.... and it's because men always come to their rescue, so they really don't know how to deal with troubles.... how she acted with the seating arrangements is the problem men have with women....always acting irrational, especially with trival issues ...

You are the one who isn't getting it.

Queen Elizabeth II led the United Kingdom and other Commonwealth realms for 70 years, and there are female presidents and prime ministers leading countries around the world.

The inability to face adversity or deal with problems is not a gender issue. There are men who can't face adversity or solve problems either, just as there are many women who can. If your suggestion that most women can't face adversity were true, it would be due to other factors, such as the environment in which we are raised and the discouragement, belittling, and criticism we receive from your gender.

Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 1:19pm On Mar 04, 2025

cr7lomo:
It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ...

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7462016656781348102/

Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 12:49pm On Mar 04, 2025

cr7lomo:
It's absolutely a gender issue cos women are Known to act irrational and immature when things don't go her way ...

Oh, you are one of those misogynistic people that hate women and dislike seeing women succeed. Keep crying 😂

Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 12:43pm On Mar 04, 2025

cr7lomo:
Ndi woke 😂🤣😂.... men are wiser now....liars forming activists ... stood up for her delusional self and her delusional fools ... stand for herself for acting immature like most of u women , always acting b4 thinking like bunch of 10yr old ... stand for herself for breaking the house rules and putting it in disrepute ...more evidence that women leadership is a no no , more reason why women will never be allowed to get that stupid bill of having a number of them in senate.... mumu gender , una no de know when una de even do una sef....lol... she will be suspended and later kicked out of senate and replaced by a man

Think before you comment. She would have been better off if she had put her emotions aside and handled the situation more maturely, but this is not a gender issue. She is not the first political official to break a rule; even presidents in this country and others have broken rules.

We can't determine who is telling the truth and who is lying from the outside, but what’s annoying is that people like you have been making it a gender issue.

Romance › You Don't Have A Husband And You Are Happy by Merry100(op): 11:22am On Mar 04, 2025

Choose between finding your own true happiness or adhering to society's narrow definition of happiness. Society often leads women to believe that their only achievement in life should be marriage.

According to society's definition of happiness, you cannot be a single woman and be happy; single women are often portrayed as sad, bitter, and lonely, only married women are deemed happy. But the last time I checked, happiness is a feeling that cannot be dictated by anyone.

True happiness comes from within, while society's definition of happiness is an externally imposed concept that many feel obligated to accept.

The society definition of a happy woman is simply a woman who is married. Even those married women who are constantly crying in their husband's house are still considered happy, whereas a single woman who is living her life fully is often labeled as sad.

Romance › Re: Many Nigerian Men Cannot Handle Self-made Women – Bukky Wright Cries Out by Merry100: 9:33am On Mar 04, 2025

cr7lomo:
We don't need Natashas .... once a woman has money , she becomes disrespectful and arrogant

Nathashas don't need you either. I respect the fact that Senator Nathasha stood up for herself.

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