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Wow. But they should have told her before letting her take the stage na. Or they were afraid to talk because she is a pastor

I never understood this style of skirt when people started wearing it. Is it not embarrassing when you sit down

Slitting at the back or side is much nicer. Even then, you still need to be careful

3kay945:
How do this work.

Brother dont try it

PrecisionFx:
Yes ur definition is correct. Feminism has more to do with giving women's certain rights that the society has taken away from them. It isn't about a man and woman being equal, that is IMPOSSIBLE. Men have roles and women have roles as well, each person should focus in their roles n be perfect in it.

Food for thought

But when you assume that they are not equal, that is that women are automatically below men, isnt that where all the ill treatments and insults start to come in?

Sorry

And hes even a muslim. thought they would have respected him more up there

i was suspecting maybe it was a lebanese catholic

RIP

ImaIma1:
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My case is even funny. I didn't just drop my surname. I also dropped my middle name and answer his first name as my middle name...lol.

Lol. you try o

Hope he appreciates it

PrecisionFx:
Tha is a lot for ur time.

I am actually a real feminist to the letter according to What the word really means....Not What people think it is.

And thank you too.

I thought i was but there are so many definitions of it that Im no longer sure. I believe in a woman's right to an education, employment, property and a fair chance at life. But when it gets down to specific issues i feel unsure of where to stand

Excuse me, please what is the name of that "ogbono soup" song that was playing in the video? I like the song but i cant find it

I actually trekked down to that adoration church in enugu just to see what all the fuss was about but i forgot to carry headtie so i couldnt go inside.

i guess it should be impressive because people always flock there, even with all the blunders the man is making

PrecisionFx:
Thanks.

Women are equally more susceptible to rape n all forms of sexual assault wen drunk, unlike their male counterparts

Women are free to drink sha, but they can learn hard to restrict it to 2 glasses per time.

It's not easy to achieve though

Youre right. Actually i hate even the smell of alcohol. I just objected to your initial statement because it sounded sexist. But now, I think i understand you better

Cheers

may320:
I disagree!
Women should use their maiden name alongside their husband's name.
I always believed it should be dropped until experience from some women made me change my orientation on it.

What experience is that, please?

In the past i was adamant that i would keep it or double it-as per Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Chimamanda Adichie- but i have changed my mind. Its you that makes your name, not the other way around. no need to cling onto it unnecessarily

The lawyer is exaggerating though, im sure maiden name retention does not lead to divorce. it depends who the people are

Its not really here or there. in my place (and i guess other igbo places) theyll always call you by your fathers name, whether married or not. Guys on this forum keep saying that our mothers and grandmothers made better wives. So now what?

Its more of a superficial issue. if the man insists, just change it because there are more important battles to be fought down the line

RIP dear, sorry about this

quentin06:
Ogwo ego, a necessary sacrifice needed to revive the ailing business.

If its ogwu ego, dont people need to die in the fire? I think this was just one of the Nigeria-style accidents

30% neutral coincidence, 20% harsh weather conditions, 40% careless attitude (bad maintenance, overpacking, incorrect packing of loads), 10% plain bad luck!

PrecisionFx:
Yes, not all women.

But most women misbehave generally wen they are drunk

I have to give it to you there

The problem isnt when its happening, but when you are bathed by the cold light of day the following morning

greensandy:
Okay, i don hear you my brother.
One thing is that both you and I don't know the cause of the fire. It might not be like the one you experienced at Kogi. Even at that, for you to think that those extinguishers used were wasted speaks volumes. You and on larger scale we Nigerians are not deep thinkers, solution providers. Tell me, I will be the owner of such an expensive bus and I will fail to get the operators properly trained on how to handle it?
We are not serious in this country.

Instead of all that they should probably use flame-retardant materials to upholster the seats. And install some kind of sprinkler system.

Its unfortunate

PrecisionFx:
Men don't go naked wen they drink.

And i would prefer to see my son drunk n naked than see my daughter drunk n naked PUBLICLY

I understand. But not all women behave like this after drinking

Lol she has that cheeky Edo look

Sorry for her mistake but i guess she will be fine..

After a break-up its better to at least put up a pretence of being ok rather than give your ex a reason to laugh

Its unfortunate...

nb mc galaxy should have ended to call to save his own skin because he made himself look cheap. guilt by association

Of course its her fault though and the most painful part of it is that shes not even intoxicated. plus she already planned it in public a few days before

I somehow feel shes having some kind of emotional breakdown because this behaviour is not rational at all. people close to her should intervene and help her out...her mother is a pastor, it will affect her too

PrecisionFx:
Thats why its a terrible idea for women to indulge in alcohol consumption

Oh come on. because of this anomalous incident.

reason

Our wife

But she was making her way as an actress...what was the reasoning behind this

and shes from an ok background financially...im sure they could have given her if she asked

sonature1:
Biko I am not putting any argument forward; I am just analyzing a trend

Ok

sonature1:
My point is, ladies of yester years did a great job at keeping their marriages than those of today. This reason was that their parents instilled in them the values of patience and resilience in the face of endless marital challenges.

However, there has been a paradigm shift...no thanks to education and the Internet. Those two factors changed our ladies, helping them learn they can actually divorce their husbands...and there's nothing culture can do about it.

Wow. so you dont see anything wrong with what you just said? You dont think men should change their behaviour at all? Parents shouldnt teach them "patience and resilience"? Women should just take whatever rubbish comes their way in the name of "keeping a marriage"??

Im not much of a feminist, i dont advocate for women messing themselves up but i think youre being obtuse here.

The argument you are putting forward is illogical. Of course a woman should know that she can divorce their husband- if the husband was a good one, she wouldnt need to take that step, would she? A man can also divorce a woman if her problem is too much.

Dont men also go to school and use the internet? Why dont they learn how to tackle the "slay queen" issue? Or better still, update themselves on what living in the 21st century as a supposedly "civilised" human being entails.

sonature1:
I am afraid you are wrong.

Master/Servant relationship was what relationships used to be in the past with lots of patient wives/mothers who could take any sh!t from men because of their kids.

Today, thanks to education and the Internet, we have slay queens all over the place. And a lot of girls prefer a court wedding before white wedding (prenup) so that if the man makes a wrong move in the marriage, the girl will get a divorce and the man will start paying child support.

Even though educating women is a good thing, nothing has ruined marriages than having a bunch of impatient girls who are always ready to divorce the man because they are 'independent.'

That's why we have more broken homes today...

but dont you think the bolded was so terrible

so before, men were ruining marriage, and now women are ruining it

a zebra mouse is still a rat by any other name. ruin is ruin

Just 50k?! why not bake somebody's wedding cake, today that is Saturday

and collect that same amount.

Ewo

magicminister:
God does not exist in Nigeria.

the title of your next book

jidobaba:
They mistake the lau lau spending of naija boys for princely opulence. They just assume, nobody lies explicitly I'm sure.

Lol its true, they can spend

I cant believe a man like this actually exists...

weyreypey:
THAT IS NOT A FEMALE

ok

Just eat it for now and talk to her later

Thats kind of disgusting though...

HaryoBamex:
HIV looks so dangerous in capital letter..
Look at it now 'hiv' so harmless

lol

OkwuruOKARISIA:
we're already here but not to complain but to applaud our hardworking son!

Lol, no problem. you people should make your minds up. And save me some of those small green nsukka pumpkins from the celebration