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Celebrities › Re: Asu Ekiye Calls Out Gospel Artistes At The Experience by midnighter(f): 5:18pm On Dec 09, 2019
The comments in this thread are why people take humility and gentle character for foolishness

You spend hours writing a song, some dude goes and uses it to gesticulate all over a huge stage and gets paid in millions

You open your mouth to complain, they will be talking Holy Spirit

But I'll say it again, Holy Spirit will actually scold you if you use Him as an excuse not to stand up for yourself! God doesn't tell us to lie down and let people march up and down our bodies

And Holy Spirit will not FILL your stomach.

Don't be a chump! Tell the useless fellow to credit you for your song or give you your share of the proceeds.

Is it not how Black Face became a hollowed out shell for over a decade? Because of people trying to excuse nonsense

I wonder why only the offended party should be a Christian when the teef didn't have Christianity in mind when he was salivating all over your God-breathed song
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 4:33pm On Dec 09, 2019
oyatz:
Nigeria and indeed most African countries have great problems of ethnic tension because of the long lasting legacies of European colonialism which make tribal identities the basis of sharing national wealth, powers and privileges in artificially created heterogeneous countries.
It is the basis of civil wars, political instabilities and corruption in many African Countries.

If individual merits are largely used in sharing national wealth, political powers and privileges in these countries, nobody will give a hoot about tribes.


In Nigeria, the Fulani ethnic group have mastered the art of Statecraft. Even though they themselves are a minority recently settled ethnic group in Nigeria, have succeeded in forging an amalgam of diversed tribes into the largest power block headed by them.

They achieved these between 1804-1903 by conquering different tribes, encouraged them to forgo their tribal identities and embrace a new identity; the Islamic identity which unify everybody in Theocratic States called EMIRATES, many of which are joined together in a Confederacy called the SOKOTO Caliphate.

The British Colonialists met this structure and strengthened it by creating a larger political entity encompassing two thirds of Nigieria called Northern Region and handed it over to the Fulani rulers.

The Igbos on the other hand doesn't have this advantage. Similar tribes like the Anioma, Etche, Ekpeye and Ikwerre suppose to coalesce into the greater Igbo super ethnic group but they refuse to do so and this was magnified by the defeat of the Igbos in the Civil war with reverberating consequences.

However, the nature of life is that you can't always win on all sides. Those who are disadvantaged in one side are advantaged in other areas.

The Fulani have advantages in politics and powers but great disadvantages in education and modern indices of development. The Igbos have advantages in education, commerce and enjoy higher quality of life than most of their compatriots.

Fortunately, everything is subjected to change and things are changing nowadays.
Okay. Though like I keep saying, you will still see people from those areas who tell you they are Igbo. There are people from Delta who, if you ask them if they are Igbo, will just start laughing and not even answer you so the theories people are writing here don't always play out in real life.

Plus I think the bolded is quote a one-dimensional statement.

Tribes are not only there for political consolidation of power; tribal identities give rise to culture, heritage, outlook and societal organisation.

Or as a question, nobody would give a hoot about tribe in relation to what ?

If just with respect to politics, fine. But tribe and what comes of it are still important and it's not foolhardy or a waste of time to open up tribal or ethnic identity issues.

Your second bolded is the grouse that a lot people in this thread have. For the advantages you listed in your penultimate statement, don't you think it will look to some people as if those so-called rejectors of Igbo identity are trying to eat their cake and have it too?

Igbo enough to succeed in those endeavours but not Igbo enough to suffer the gross socioeconomic and political marginalisation that arose partly from them.
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 3:57pm On Dec 09, 2019
Nowenuse:
My question is this.
Were you Ikwerres speaking a very distinct language from Igbo language in the past, before you people were influenced by Igbos during precolonial and colonial times?
If yes, please can you show me some proofs on this?


Southern Kaduna & Bauchi people are both neighbours of Hausas. Same precolonial and colonial influence of cut and join was done upon them by the British and today they all speak Hausa (some as a 1st language and others as a 2nd language).

The thing is that even in Bauchi where majority accepted Islam and hausanization was strongest, we can still see the traces of the minority languages. In the interior rural villages, elderly people still speak/spoke these native languages.
The last surviving speaker of Bure language in Bauchi, an old woman I think died a few years ago...

I always heard stories that the people of Birnin Gwari LGA in Kaduna state were originally Gwari people who have now become Hausas. I wasn't sure of this, not until I saw a British colonial record of ethnic groups in Northern Nigeria and it was clearly written by the British that the elders in Birnin Gwari still spoke Gbagyi language as at the 1920s. Then I was fully satisfied.

This is why I am asking you, can we see any form of record or evidence that Ikwerre people were very distinct from Igbos? Thank you.

And please enlighten me more about the COR agitation of minorities in the old Eastern region.

Middlebelt minorities also submitted their request to the Willinks Comission in 1959 for an independent region from the north, but it was heavily ignored. So I am really interested in that of the Eastern minorities. Thanks.
Thank you ooo. Ha. I guess you were busy eating rice yesterday because we could have used your help trying to reason with these people

I keep asking where they got that language from since its not Igbo but there's no answer

Even those zango kattaf (spelling) who they have trying to wipe from the face of the earth can still speak their language, PLUS HAUSA.

How much more ikwerres who are even more fortunate than most Igbo states? So where is the mysterious language for crying out loud
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f):
Nowenuse:
The active pro-Igbos are the Igbuzors, Ogwash, Okpanam and parts of Asaba, e.t.c. You can hardly differentiate these ones from the Igbos in the SE. They are pro Igbo and Igbotic to the core. Most of them don't even give you the 'Delta-Igbo bullshit'. Ask them their tribe and they tell you IGBO!
The passive pro-Igbos in Enuani have some sort of inferiority or maybe that is just the way they are, I don't know. They accept being Igbo, but they hardly want to speak Igbo in public and with people from the SE. They do not openly flaunt their Igboness with pride unlike the active pro-Igbos.

I will never forget the time when a list of all the students in my level and facculty was posted on the notice board and people were identified with their ethnic languages, oboy, come and see identity crisis among Aniomas!!
You will see people from the same LGA, yet some will say they are Igbo, some Ndokwa, some Ukwani, some Kwale, some Ika, some Agbor and many other appellations. I mean, what kind of embarrassment is this?
Thank you, This is what I was trying to tell that guy

People identify as so many things yet he's acting like they've suddenly had some reawakening and realised that they can't possibly be Igbo when you can meet somebody from any of those places who will never be annoyed with you for classing him as an Igbo, whether he came from Benin or wherever or not.
Family › Re: Nairalander Celebrates "TRADOVERSARY" (PHOTOS) by midnighter(f): 2:28pm On Dec 09, 2019
Bigcowhorn:
There was a thread on romance section about a month ago where people got asked to mention the person/moniker(s) they dislike on NL. The OP was Chenzen who I had history with so of course he mentioned me right away. Several people mentioned a moniker that goes around striking out comments. One female user mentioned the moniker follows her around but went by a slightly different name. Another female countered her.

Both appeared confused but in the end it was agreed that there two different monikers following them around, mocking, threatening and cancelling out their comments.

Both ladies where very well educated, young, single ladies like you.
Hmm. I wonder what actually his problem is
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 2:27pm On Dec 09, 2019
Nowenuse:
Wow, are you sure about your 2nd paragraph? I never knew any white Americans could take this ancestry thing that serious!
I'm not referring to the vast majority. I meant very old, wealthy families

And it's not restricted to just English heritage, but marrying out must be justified. Just like the elites we have in Nigeria
Family › Re: Nairalander Celebrates "TRADOVERSARY" (PHOTOS) by midnighter(f): 1:25pm On Dec 09, 2019
Bigcowhorn:
I've come across at least 2 complaints against this guy by different women. Funny thing is he was using 2 different monikers back then and so the women were confused as to who was who. But this is one person with the same pattern.
Could you please help me qualify the bolded; who are you referring to as "confused" here?
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f):
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f):
Nowenuse:
Yes, sometimes, I think divisions are very very political and created by humans.

It's just the same way Austrians reject German identity, yet Barvarians (the largest subgroup in Germany) speak exactly the same language and practice same culture with Austrians.

Netherlands is very identical to their neigbours Northern Germany too, they understand each other and practice the same culture. Netherlands call themselves DUTCH while Germans call themselves DEUTSCH. Same pronounciation, yet Dutch people can assault you for insisting they are Germans grin

Humans are just very funny creatures.

In the case of Igbos, I think the River Niger and the South-south geopolitical division is the biggest problem of unity.
Well, I can level with you on all of this except that

- The words "Deutsch" and "Dutch" are in no way pronounced the same, though I got your point.

- Dutch people are Germanic but not German. The history of Germany and its tribes, kingdoms and invasions is more complicated than that. In fact even English people share some ancestry with Germans and English is classed as a Germanic language

But as I said, I get your point. In the case of border communities and nations that are literally right next to each other, you will always get some mixing of languages and cultures until people on either sides of the boundary are indistinguishable from each other.

The issue of south-south divisions doesn't just affect Igbos, it affects almost all the groups in that area when they keep dividing themselves into smaller and smaller sub-groups, rightly or wrongly.

Imagine how much more political leverage Efik, Ibibio and all the sub-groups would have if they weren't so disparate
Education › Re: Ademola Tayo, Babcock VC: Why We Expelled Sex Tape Student by midnighter(f): 9:05am On Dec 09, 2019
Fokosobo:
They should forget about taking her back. She won't even agree because the shame will be too much and unbearable for her.

The best thing she can do is get a transfer (if possible) Or go and start afresh in another University.
They should allow her to complete via distance learning
Politics › Re: Photo Of Buhari In 1983 And 2019: Spot The Difference by midnighter(f): 8:17am On Dec 09, 2019
igben:
Nose and teeth @ the left side close to opening different...
Teeth change position with age

Nose gets bigger with age because cartilage never stops growing

Elderly people have larger noses and ears
Education › Re: Ademola Tayo, Babcock VC: Why We Expelled Sex Tape Student by midnighter(f): 8:05am On Dec 09, 2019
Ginaz:
But it’s really repulsive. Didn’t you see the way she drank the sperm? Yuck!! I was repulsed. I can’t imagine myself doing that. Sperm that’s filled with human fluid.
Yes, I saw it but thats not the point.

The point was that an illicit act took place and stained the reputation of Babcock. What is the need in mentioning the graphic scenes in his official statement like an illiterate gossip?

Did Jesus tell us not to drink cum? The point is that it happened between an unmarried couple and it was caught on camera, we dont care whether he thinks its "normal" or not.
Education › Re: Ademola Tayo, Babcock VC: Why We Expelled Sex Tape Student by midnighter(f): 7:54am On Dec 09, 2019
Annie001:
The VC should keep quiet
What did you guys do to the person who leaked the tape? Or is he or she not in your school, so you teach your student how to ruin other people’s life
Nonsense!
Exactly. Theyre supposed to be educated but theyre just showing how backward they are

They dont want people to think theyre prostitutes but they dont mind people thinking that their students are bullies who invade people's privacy and have no regard for their fellow human being

Billions of Naira down the drain when theyre supposed to be superior to other institutions. But still coming to the same close-minded and backward conclusion as the rest of the country so what was the point?
Education › Re: Ademola Tayo, Babcock VC: Why We Expelled Sex Tape Student by midnighter(f): 7:52am On Dec 09, 2019
"It is not normal for a young woman to take the manhood of the man and be swallowing. That is a very dirty thing which supposed not to be heard,” he said"

Rubbish

Typical holier-than-thou stupid judgemental Nigerian attitude.

What does that have to do with the issue at hand?

So if they did missionary you wouldnt have expelled her right? Smh
Family › Re: My Husband Is Too Jealous by midnighter(f): 7:10am On Dec 09, 2019
MedicH:
God save me from this kind wife

midnighter can you relate? is it right?

nonsense
Lol I cannot relate anywhere oo...I already advised her to be begging him and dont try it next time

In fact I even unfollowed the thread because theres no room for debate or argument there
Celebrities › Re: Asu Ekiye Calls Out Gospel Artistes At The Experience by midnighter(f): 5:42am On Dec 09, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
So Sammy Okposo is not even the owner of wellu wellu? Gospel ministration is not by force, if you don't have the inspiration to do it, then go and serve God in other ways, rather than steal people's songs to perform to gain popularity. Talentless noise maker, nonscence, Asu Ekiye is right. Sammy should stop stealing and allow those whom God gave the gift to do it.
He really brought that Welu-Welu song to life, and I am glad that he performed it with such a unique arrangement with a captivating video. He really blew that song up.

There is nothing wrong with being a singer and not a song-writer, as long as you correctly credit and pay the person who wrote the song.
Celebrities › Re: Asu Ekiye Calls Out Gospel Artistes At The Experience by midnighter(f): 5:38am On Dec 09, 2019
BluntBoy:
Jesus advised us to give to Caesar what is Caesar's.

There is something called copyright law. If you sing someone else's song without crediting them, it is theft. And stealing is a sin.
Thank you ooo...I dont know what all these people are saying

Why dont they hand over their entire salary to their colleague then if they really want to glorify God smh
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 5:34am On Dec 09, 2019
oyatz:
Ikwerre= Igbo
This is the only thing I have been saying here, so that means that we are actually in agreement.

Obowie o
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 4:53am On Dec 09, 2019
oyatz:
I started taking note of this division from that episode and I have met several people there after whom I assumed to be Igbos but told me they aren't even if they bear Ebuka or Amarachi.

However, you need to understand that this phenomenon of people rejecting some tribal/ethnic identities to which other wrongly give them is NOT restricted to the Igbos. It occurs through out Nigeria and indeed all over the world. It never ceases to amaze and amuse me when young Igbos on Nairaland become angry at such rejection (possibly as a form of unpalatable hangover from the unfortunate civil war).

In the North, several tribes exist that we assume are Hausa because they speak the Language and practice the cultures of the Hausa people. These peoples are quick to tell those who care to listen that they aren't Hausas.
However,the division is not a big deal in the North largely because the shared Islamic identity superceed ethnic identity as a password to entering different strata of their society.
1. I never asserted that the phenomenon is restricted to Igbos.

2. Such phenomena occur among different ethnic groups for different reasons. So for you to single Igbos out for querying this issue in particular doesnt make any sense. If something happens concerning a tribe, the members of that tribe have the right to discuss and talk about it. The occurrence with the north, the Kogi Yoruba, the Arabs and Amazigh, the Arabs and Kurds have all happened for totally different reasons so saying that youre amazed and amused on that basis makes no particular sense.

3. Hausa language is a lingua franca in the north; those tribes have their own native language plus hausa language that they speak on top of it to make communication easier. Down here, English is the lingua franca; we bear English names and speak English to communicate with different tribes even though we have our own native languages so that example bears no relationship with what we are discussing here, like I was saying in point (2)

4. The bolded is exactly my point; we are not experiencing any Islamic hegemony down here, in fact Igbo people are marginalised the most so what is the relevance of that example huh

Unless youre trying to say that some Igbo people came and dominated Ikwerre people to the point where they couldnt remember their own language again then the example youre giving is totally irrelevant.
Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim Meets Cardi B In Lagos by midnighter(f): 10:42pm On Dec 08, 2019
Family › Re: My Husband Is Too Jealous by midnighter(f): 10:27pm On Dec 08, 2019
mechanics:
hahahahah, he will still forgive her, she should cook his best food.
Yes and promise not to send pictures of herself without his consent
Family › Re: My Husband Is Too Jealous by midnighter(f): 10:26pm On Dec 08, 2019
flexyrule:
I swear down. The things I saw on my friend girlfriend's facebook and whatsapp chat today. Only God can save that relationship if I tell him.
Lol sorry o, just tell her to delete all those people and scrub it from your mind
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 10:22pm On Dec 08, 2019
pazienza:
Second statement :

"Americans speak English, yet not all Americans are English. Also, Igbos speak English language,but we cannot say Ndiigbo are English people"

My analysis : America was colonized by England(Britain) who imposed English language on them. Ndiigbo never colonized Ikwerre as we were never Empire builders. Igbos in addition to speaking English as a colonial language, have Igbo language as mother tongue which is totally unrelated to English language. In contrast, Ikwerre has no other indigenous language that is unrelated to Igbo language.
Thank you! Smh

CC: nairalandtopuser
Family › Re: My Husband Is Too Jealous by midnighter(f): 10:17pm On Dec 08, 2019
flexyrule:
I can bet my testes that this would be the end of the marriage!
Chei....bet another thing o, please
Family › Re: My Husband Is Too Jealous by midnighter(f): 10:07pm On Dec 08, 2019
You shouldnt have done that dear. Keep begging him, o ga di mma

Please dont do that next time. Its not too good.

Or take permission from the guy first so that he can see theres nothing there
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 9:52pm On Dec 08, 2019
oyatz:
Thanks for your matured response.

I am personally interested in the Ikwerre/Anioma matter because of my personal experience. Before entering the University, I used to assume that names and language clearly define one's ethnic group until I met some 'igbo' people with certain encounters.

During my NYSC days in Yobe State, there was one Igbo lady in my flat called Oluchi who was very close and nice to me. I didn't return her gestures because she was too lousy for my liking. There were several other 'Igbo' corpers in that corpers' lodge.

One day, one of the other Igbo corpers called Mercy came to our flat , requesting for a little favour from me which needed the cooperation of Oluchi. This Oluchi embarrassed and disgraced Mercy publicly which I didn't like.

I later went to Oluchi, asking her why she publicly disgraced Mercy, after all they are both Igbos and are supposed to be sisters. She immediately protested, Mercy is NOT Igbo! I said but she bears Igbo surname and speak Igbo. To my greatest surprise, Oluchi said 'the fact that she speaks Igbo doesn't make her Igbo, she also speak Yoruba fluently, does that mean she is Yoruba?

Oluchi went further to tell me that only she and two other people are Igbos and that the rest that we assume are Igbos are only igbos in names but not truly Igbos!
Youre welcome.

So can you qualify this?

What was the reason the babe said the other chick wasnt Igbo?

Telling somebody you dont like or are prejudiced against that they are not Igbo is quite different from you yourself proclaiming that you are not an Igbo.

That Osagie troll guy goes about saying that Ebonyi state is not really Igbo; does that make any particular sense to you?

So you need to contextualise this, otherwise its purely just a funny story and not a corroboration of anything specific.
Celebrities › Re: Asu Ekiye Calls Out Gospel Artistes At The Experience by midnighter(f): 9:35pm On Dec 08, 2019
magicminister:
He has a point but his manner of delivery would make anyone feel attacked.

He could have said something like:

“It was an honor to share the stage with all the gospel singers that graced the occasion. Personally, I feel as an industry, we can do a better job to promote creativity and originality. While we are all there to praise the lord, we are also there to showcase our talents to the people of God. We cannot fully blossom if we rob others of their Glory or consistently fail to showcase our incredible creativity.”

Shiiiit like that you know. I have lived long enough to know that the message is just as important as the delivery. If your delivery is respectful, kind and uplifting, most people will not take it as an affront.
You made a point. He should have waited until he was less angry instead of using his Facebook Fingers lol
Celebrities › Re: Asu Ekiye Calls Out Gospel Artistes At The Experience by midnighter(f): 9:33pm On Dec 08, 2019
noblealuu:
Which ever song is sung is not bad as far as God is glorified. It's not a platform for competition to outdo anyone.


Singing to promote self and receive accolades from people only glorifies self not God.

But on a lighter note, I have never heard of this name before huh
No way! My Lord and My God never said you should let anybody make you a CHUMP!

Dont allow anybody teef your song or any other thing o, Jesus never told us to do that

In fact you should protect what is your own and command that others respect your property, intellectual or otherwise
Celebrities › Re: Asu Ekiye Calls Out Gospel Artistes At The Experience by midnighter(f): 9:30pm On Dec 08, 2019
Davash222:
Who’s Asu Ekiyehuh
shocked Are you telling me you have never heard this? You must be joking


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6NDKC5xZrs
Celebrities › Re: Asu Ekiye Calls Out Gospel Artistes At The Experience by midnighter(f): 9:29pm On Dec 08, 2019
Thank you! I always wondered how they got away with singing each others songs or singing the song with a different language/words with exactly the same tune lol
Politics › Re: Wike Conferred With The Title "Dike Oha" Of Ikwerre Ethnic Group by midnighter(f): 8:51pm On Dec 08, 2019
niaralandtopuser:
you are refusing to accept the obvious. It is all good Sha . I won't be arguing if I have anything doing this Saturday
Mfana ibagha
Agriculture › Re: Help! My Export Company Dream Is About To Die. by midnighter(f): 8:47pm On Dec 08, 2019
OgaBuhari:
mfire mfem or whatever that means gbuo gi dia
OgaBuhari:
how far that EmptyCoconuthead Account has been banned

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