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Both Boys and girls that are extremely pretty has experienced the pretty privileges before and no doubt benefit a lot from it in most cases very unexpected ways. I’ve a had a few pretty boy privileges. But certain people choose to think they aren’t real lol or don’t work , they are very real I tell you.
So I have experienced a few pretty boy privileges and one of them was when I went to a buka (restaurant) to eat and the girl that served me my plate ,served my food with extra meats , it happened like 4 different times before I knew that the pretty privilege was really at work. Cause anytime I went there to eat , no matter how plenty customers were , she would make sure she served me first lol. Later got her number the 5th time I went there to eat ,shawtie was blushing lol. We started talking and I started getting free food , shawtie would even package takeaway for me most times after I finished eating there. Lol I was treated like a king there ,even her momsy treated me special too. I just knew pretty boy privilege was at work. Omo me I just played along as long as say free food Dey inside the matter, kilo kan mi.
Other experiences I’ve had was one time ,I went out to shop rite and I saw different girls staring at me (mostly average looking girls but still hot sha )not to brag lol but I felt embarrassed and went to the bathroom to check myself in the mirror cause I felt my clothes or something was making them stare at me lol. But nothing was wrong with my clothes ,I was looking good ,that was it ,pretty boy P. Got a girl’s number that day cause she approached me with some mind blowing pick up line. She came over the next following week and we had some insane kinda sex.

The pretty privilege exists very well , but don’t be overly dependent on it cause it could backfire sometimes too lol , so just work hard ,make money ,take extra good care of your appearance , I feel like the best investment is to invest in oneself , and looks should also be a priority cause it definitely pays yo!

So y’all should pls share your pretty privileges.

This is accurate asf ,there’s a lady that’s been chasing me shamelessly ,she’s average looking ,wife material ,intelligent tho but I’m not just interested in her ,I’ve tried to love her but it’s never just worked for me. I’m at that stage in my life where I don’t really know what I want from a relationship yet, she’s still chasing me till today even after she as seen me with plenty different women (I’m a ashawo man lol)
I just tire fr, the problem is she thinks I don’t want her but it’s relationship I don’t want ,the attachment and clinginess she’s shown me b4 is too scary fr. Las las I had to ghost her. Solid ghosting.

Keep your faith alive , put all your hope and trust in God, i understand it’s not easy but God would eventually give you all you need. I’ve realized people with the biggest destinies face the most challenges , it the devils way of wanting to destroy your hope, but God isn’t dead , when he blesses you like dis ,it’s gon be like a movie. Stay strong bro , good luck.

Lol , first of all , stop being afraid of rejection , it’s fear of rejection that’s holding you back coupled with shyness. Anytime you see a girl you like and would love to approach her, just walk up to her ,don’t make it so obvious tho , like don’t be all over her face ,do it nice and simple , ask of her name , give a little compliment, ask few questions interesting ones tho ,make strong eye contact with her, be humorous , where a smile , At the end just see it as you having fun ,so whether she rejects you or not ,don’t take it too serious. Jsyk some girls would reject the sexiest man on earth. So rejection isn’t a big deal.

suicide is never an option , men Dey go through worst x2 on a low , but we still Dey maintain. Na who give up bleep up.

Spain007:
Lol at d mention of turmeric...

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There are bunch of home remedies you can try to whiten your teeth , dentist are somewhat too expensive but If you have the money then visit a dentist.
But then you can try out these home remedies
Buy turmeric powder.
Buy coconut oil .
Buy a soft toothbrush
Get a concentrated fluoride toothpaste
Mix them all and apply to your toothbrush . And don’t rinse your mouth immediately after use but you can drink some water after some minutes.
Make sure to Brush twice daily. Morning and night.
If your really consistent you should notice changes after a week or two.

Yo ,can anyone please recommend any self-development books?
Really nice ones please.

After marriage a lot of responsibilities set in on both parties ,these responsibilities makes it hard for most couples to even enjoy themselves ,especially in a country like Nigeria.

Most people are probably married for sake of title , some for children , so many factors that has entirely nothing to do with love ,tell me how can that marriage work ? marry someone you really love and loves u back for long lasting marriage ,the love makes every other thing simple and easy.

Bro this life get as e be, everybody with different destinies truly. I’ve got friends that are millionaires (occupation unknown). I’m doing okay too but sometimes ehn I can’t help but admit all fingers aren’t equal. Just strive on doing better we all gonna get there.

If you have the money to help and it won’t really affect you then do it. Forgive him as well. Your doing it for God and God would surely reward you. We all make mistakes in this life.

Depends whether your in a private or public uni. Transport, food ,utility bills also depends on the environment you got accommodation.

One of the reasons why I think most men simp is because of low self esteem. You see a girl you like and you feel like you are not attractive enough to talk to her ,date or sleep with her ,unless you spend money on her or act like a fool around her lol. If you have self worth , I mean real self worth you should know that as a man you are the price, why waste your hard earned money to please a woman who doesn’t really care about you ?

The key to stop simping is to improve your self worth as a man. If you must spend on a woman ,spend on a woman who has also contributed to your growth and invested in you financially.
That kind of woman deserves your money. Not leeches who hasn’t contributed one percent to your growth or finance, demanding excessively and you too ,your under pressure to impress these leeches, common.

This 2023 please improve yourself as a man , I have only about 6 girls contact on my phone right now and I know very well that these 6 girls on my contacts are ready to do at least 90 percent of what I want cause they know I’m the price.

I know and understand that you might feel lonely if you do not simp but trust me , simping does more harm than good. Fix yourself up as man ,improve in every aspects of your life and watch how you begin to attract women who would see you as the price. Women who would contribute to your growth and love you for your real self not bcus you have money.

This 2023 take a conscious effort to stop simping. Peace

siofra:
I knew there was something very wrong with their relationship.

Nigerian men will stain your black!

Fancy has a good heart. Nigerian women with good heart are a perfect prey for wicked Nigerian men. Stay wicked ladies!

This girl Leave Nigerian men alone ,shey u don’t have work nii ?? every time Nigerian men do this and that. This is 2023 if Ur tired of Nigerian men fly abroad and date their men.

My own ideology behind “not being a simp “isn’t to avoid giving women money or time or attention. it’s actually more about not losing your senses or doing stupid things all in the name of love. And if your scared to be lonely, so u decide to simp , trust me you gon definitely end up with a wrong partner that is going to manipulate you.

Author Eze is a business man ,I’m sure other candidates would have probably given him some sort of proposition that’s gonna make him richer , Author’s gonna support the candidate that gives more power to his business literally ,I don’t think Obi is the right candidate that can do that for him. It’s just business.

Look man whatever you do pls don’t buy a Nigerian used car ,make sure to buy Tokunbo cars for a start you shouldn’t really be looking into luxury cars ,you need strong and efficient for a start ,economy friendly fuel consumption as well.

Why not just go for a Toyota muscle or Corolla 08 these cars would stand out and u would enjoy them for long ,plus their parts and maintenance and very affordable. My 2 cents

Finish your school get a b.sc then apply for dssc direct short service commission in any preferred armed forces of ur choice , since your course is medically inclined you stand high chances of becoming a military officer ,make sure you finish with a good grades too, it would help you a lot.

young blood calm down. First of all find a way to finish your school First, this life is step by step ,slowly but surely everything go finally connect.

Ballzproblem2:
your guy is a simp , simple and short ,use women eat his money as he is irredeemable , don't have strength to be advicing anyhow,been through this times without numbers and men never listen to advice given by people with redpill knowledge, adios

Bruh !!! I just feel bad for him ,cause he didn’t even tell me anything until after this stuff happened , I would have warned him fr.

marlow1962:
Ur flat mate na big man, since em fit afford to lose wertin em no fit get easily.

Blackmail bullshit na why I no dy do gal friends, make we just be friends, bang and have fun, life goes on.

U wn dy whyne me onto say me too no get sense abi wertin, omo na bang and have fun o.

I don’t have time now for relationship, everybody out there is fake.

True talk OG ,the F up be say him no even yarn me all these matta b4 e sup ,na after e sup him come Dey play me tape but it’s too late already .

Nazgul:
It's called inferiority complex. Sadly, many immature guys suffer from it.

They feel if a woman gives them her attention, they've made it in life. Most of the time, these woman they're seeking validation from are way beneath them, but since she knows how to play her game, she carries herself with so much prestige and confidence that the guy in question would see it as an honour to have her reply him.


Relationship is a mind game, which the wiser and smarter party wins.

Hmm pure wisdom.

Onucs:
Do guys still do dat

Sadly some men still do

My flamate explained his ordeal to me few days ago how he spent all the money he had on a woman who didn’t give two bleeps about him ,truly sad. According to him ,his uncle sent him 200k to do some side hustles or any business at all but my guy lavished everything on top woman.
The painful thing is that this girl has been using emotional blackmail for this my guy, crying on the phone and all Saying her mum is in the hospital and she needs to pay bills ,how her dad got in an accident bla bla bla , unfortunately my guy fell for her games , Baba sent her 180k. Lo and behold she blocked my guy across all social media platforms even banned his number from calling her .

I don’t know what to tell my guy sha ,but it’s quite painful tho. Why do some men go the extreme end to get a woman’s validation ?

IMO any woman that truly loves you wouldn’t bill you for real, even if she go bill you e no go too much like dat. Omo I’m really feeling bad 4 this my guy. I just buy loud make him smoke forget the matta ,cause my guy wan craze.

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar


Damnnn niggar
Wow she just truely remove the pant put inside the food.....anyway Wetin them want put for person food way go fit kill man again...

There is actually no spirituality in nature...so charms, juju, ritualism does not exist and do not work

It is the coincidence of nature that is deceiving humans especially we Africans...Africans are not smart

The only thing way I go dey fear here na the dirty pant....that is all ....not juju.....even the dirty from the pant self nor go kill person....after all man pikin don first stay inside thier body for nine months....our mouth soaked and covered with thier fluids during child birth

Oga stop capping juju ,charms Dey work wella. As a Benin boy wey u be ,u no suppose Dey talk dis kind thing. Life is deep bruh

LINSAR:
How do you exert your masculine dominance over a woman older than you are?

Well For me I feel like women are babies no matter their age ,I guess that mentality as helped me view them some type of way and if your matured enough to handle certain situations very well I don’t think age should be any sort of barrier. Maturity is the key. Emotional maturity mostly.

Older women love different fr. Once dated a lady 4 years older than me and that’s been my best relationship so far. Lots of mutual respect ,maturity ,playfulness omo and the sex was mind blowing too.

Take all your depression to the gym ,get fit ,change your diet(eat healthy meals and avoid excess junks) avoid Nigerian women X100 times , read a book every morning . Meditate every once in a while.
Learn a tech skill or any lucrative skill.
Avoid overthinking. Once u start doing these few things you start feeling more energized and happy✌�

Nothing Dey ever complete for this life don’t kill yourself with depression.

Try to Talk to random girls everyday. Do it like you’ve got nothing to lose.

Joshmuch:
Here comes the tactics.

1. Dress well, look good from head to toe.

2. Approach a lot of girls, ideally 3 girls daily.

3. Apply the SIT method on approach: Smile, Intent and Touch.
S- Smile before approach
I- Show your intention by desiring her, look her from head, boobs to toe
T- Ensure you touch her, be close to her when talking. touch could be handshake, a tap on shoulder anything to break touch barrier.

4. Deliver your opening e.g. hi, I saw you from behind catwalking or walking or dancing or sitting etc and I had to come say , you have a nice figure.( remember with SIT method).
She will smile, then introduce yourself. Then say what you are there doing e.g. I just came to buy something before I got distracted by this sexy girl( You are referring to her, now she is smiling and happy) . Ask her what she is up to or where she is going etc. Then, cut off the rapport, SIT method again,tell her you are rushing somewhere and ask her that you would like to see her like tommorow maybe around 5pm to get to know her better.If she agrees to see you tomorrow or maybe she is free another day. Give her your phone to put in her number.( Don't ask: can I have your number). Then, give her a beep for her to have yours. SIT method on the closing and leave. Call her the next day about the meet and tell her the address or location to meet, bar, restaurant ( for me it's usually my home) and proceed from there if you know what to do. If not ask, and I will continue.

All these one ontop woman matta

laivwire:
In addition, select the country well, countries with language barriers are not funny now. Try to go search for tuition free universities if you can.

Start the process and you'll learn along the way. #5m is enough to get you out.

Yeah very true bro ,e.g countries like France one would need to learn French and pass certain French exams.