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Mindfulness:
And these people tell you openly that they want a divorce to get rich? Come on!



Thought so.



Fair enough, isn't it? So what's your problem again?



How much money do you get on maternity leave and for how long?
What if you have a toddler? Is a 2-year-old supposed to be in daycare for 8-10 hours every day?
School? How long can a child stay in school in Germany every day?

Have you got kids in your household? Let us say the mother is a nurse and has to start work at 6pm, which means that she has to leave at 5:30? Where will the kids go if school/ nursery starts at 8/9 (?)? What if her shift begins in the afternoon when the child returns? What if she has a night shift?

And by the way, if these men are so disadvantaged, I suggest more of them stay at home to look after the children and get rich by sending the woman to work.

Mindfulness:
Maybe you should reconsider your circle of friends.



So how much is it?




What you think is not what is necessarily the case. Secularization plays a major part, I would argue.



Agreed.



Of course, I do. We are talking about developed nations here. There is no running away from your responsibility. The children have a mother and a father. Rightly so.



How do you want a woman with two little kids work full time?
Whether you are confused or not, the statistics are clear and contradict what you men here on NL say BIGLY.

Mindfulness:
1. You have seen these women purposefully quitting their marriage? Like in they told you?
2. Men pay for their ex-wives or they pay for their children? Last time I checked, kids are quite expensive.
3. Have you got any numbers of how many people get married and how many don't? I know many people do not get married but majority of couples with children still do and if they don't they register to enjoy similar status to married folks.
4. Could it be that people no longer get married because it is a highly secular nation? And could the decline in marriages have anything got to do with the drop outs from church and the fact that people no longer think it is a sin to live together unmarried?
5. Even if you don't get married, you will still have to pay for your children.

Last but not least, how comes single mothers are often the poorest part of the population when men pay so much?

Veektore:
Bro, my uncle has been living in Poland for years and he has never complained of anything bad, he has been saying good things about the country, he lives in Wroclaw to be precise.
I'm not talking based on Internet research, I'm talking based on what someone there is saying, he can't praise a country when it's bad...

shaybebaby:
You wanna check Halle Berry, Mariah and see whether or not they are paying their lesser earning ex.

Nick and Mariah - He pays money into a trust for their kids. She keeps the kids full time but has to pay the costs for him whenever he visits. She gave him a ferrari.

Halle is paying baby daddy Gabriel Aubry 16k a month as child maintenance for their daughter. They were never married.

shaybebaby:
All I am going to say regarding the divorce thing is that;

Men should maintain the status quo they would like post divorce during the marriage. I'll explain.

When you hear of the wife getting the house, alimony, child support etc, that's because she has been the one mainly taking care of the said house (ya know, cooking and cleaning instead of going to work or building a career), taking physical care of the kids and the likes.

So post divorce, you get to keep your career (which you maintained at her expense) but you gas to share the benefit that comes with it even though you are no longer with her and ofcourse still support the kids. Chances are that you didn't involve yourself in their care whilst married except to drop money so drop money you shall after divorce with the same ol token contact you maintained with them.


So you want to mitigate this? Empower her to work, contribute domestically on the home front, be actively involved in the lives and care of your children during the time of the marriage.

What you will find upon divorce is that if the lifestyle you both enjoyed during marriage was as a result of contributions from both of you including the care of the children, it would be easier to obtain equally shared custody, equal split of the marital assets with no alimony or child support paid or owed.

But if you insist on the whole "my wife must cook and clean and take care of children by herself" whilst I provide the funds, you will maintain that status long after you are no longer benefitting from it, why?

Because the opportunity cost for her is a career, which you must compensate her for.

oyb:
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sobastical:
Not all countries accept Nigeria insurance

NwaChibuzor060:
Please what is their crime?. They only considered giving them a better life. The kids will be very happy coming to Lagos to beg than begging in gombe.

uboma:
it saddens me when I read news like this.

Poor women, she got killed for doing the right thing.

mumureloaded:
are you talking about fat or muscle? if you are going for the latter you are good to go but if you want the former you are on another level.

if you need muscle, you can try to hit the gym and some protein powder may be of help( you can order it on amazon) or rather some steroids lols......


but me I don't need to gain employment first, wait will be added onto it¿

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Obainoneandonly:
they took precautions to avoid civilian casualties, and generally McKenzie showed a satalite feed showing d damages don.and he said all d missiles they fire hit their intended target

Obainoneandonly:
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sweetmusic12:
Is someone campaigning in the last pix? He's waving to the people. Using US government as a bait. ...

Police say around 3,500 protesters took part. Some voiced unease over the growing US military expansion in Ghana and beyond. “As a right-thinking citizen, I am here to fight for my country. I am against selling our peace and security for $20 million,” Gifty Yankson, a 49-year-old trader, told Africa News.

“They [the US military] become a curse everywhere they are, and I am not ready to mortgage my security,” the man added. Though riot police were deployed, the demonstration was peaceful.

The agreement was approved by Ghanaian President Nana Akufo-Addo’s government last Friday, but has come under fire from the opposition which voted against the pact in parliament and insisted it was a blow to the country’s sovereignty.


The US Embassy in Ghana said Washington had “not requested, nor does it plan to establish a military base or bases in Ghana.” It added: "This year, the United States of America is investing over $20m in training and equipment for the Ghanaian armed forces.”

Joint exercises were planned for this year “which require access to Ghanaian bases by US participants and those from other nations when included,” according to the embassy.

Similar protests against US military presence took place in different locations across the globe. The Japanese island of Okinawa is one of the most active venues of anti-American rallies. In recent years, demonstrations lambasting the US military occurred in Italy and the Czech Republic.

In Italy, locals have repeatedly voiced their unease over the US Dal Molin Army base. The country has one of the highest numbers of US bases in the world, and is the second-largest state in Europe after Germany which hosts an American military presence.

A controversial pact, in which the US military wants to invest $20 million and get access to Ghana’s runways and communications, set off rallies in the West African nation, with people chanting their country is “not for sale.”

Thousands of people flocked to the streets of Accra, the capital of Ghana, to protest a military deal the government recently signed with the US. As part of the agreement, Washington would allocate around $20 million to train the Ghanaian military, carrying out joint exercises and using the nation’s radio channels and runways, the New York Times reported.

On Wednesday, massive demonstrations erupted in the capital, with people decrying both Ghana’s government and US President Donald Trump. Demonstrators held placards that read “Shithole government,” “Trump take your military base away.” “Ghana not for sale,” and “Ghana is better than $20 million.”

wink2015:
IN PATIENCE JONATHAN PIDGIN ENGLISH "HOW YOU WAKA COME"

WAKA BACK TO GHANA.

By the way, Nigeria is a shithole country.

There are so many ILLEGALS living in our midst without our so called Nigerian immigration official doing anything to check the validity of their papers.


The Nigerian immigration authority takes bribe from them.