₦airaland Forum

mrrealdeal:
Aside her typing skill, she is well mannered, very hospital, knows how to attend to customers, hmmmm she no be my girlfriend oh. Just helping her though.

And you know all these within the 30 seconds + extra time (less than one hour) you spent there?

Good strategy.

Apel:
No big deal,they also do it in our church also (married couple) but they don't kiss o

It's better they kissed o.

With the kind of kisses I see here, I doubt when last they kissed each other if ever.

MoonCares:
I guess you don't have a twins.

Actually, I do.
Just let it slide. Peace.

All these for me? Impressive

MoonCares:
I am new in Asaba, I need a serious relationship that will lead to the next level.. I also need a girlfriend in Asaba and also a job... joblessness is very bad.. please someone should help me out...

You are female and you need a gf.

14years is real.

Bloggers and their useless news.

You talked to the girl. A little girl who obviously knows nothing.

I can't count the number of times small kids called me their husbands. It's just a playful thing most of these kids think it's true. I doubt if the writer of this news ever lived in Lagos and most importantly mixed with people.

Making a news out of nothing.

Lordkross:
I've equally noted the fact that studies in Finland from next year would be paid for, that's why am switching to Germany on the advice of @thesoj.

Thanks guys for all your response and advice.

I saw your quote late. And I am thankful by what people have told you by what I mean with highly qualified migrant. It's not about the skill, it's about getting your skill recognized.

If you would switch to Germany, you will need to double your money.

Lordkross:
I just did a small research on their embassy website.
On the website it stated they need people like me to apply for a resident permit, meaning I must get a job there aforetime.
But am keeping my fingers crossed for suggestions from the house.

Thanks for you time and advice.

Now let's be sincere,

How do you expect to get a job with your O'level which is not even recognized in the first place?

Finland and all the Nordic countries you mentioned would not give you a visa for unskilled labour. The best way you can migrate is as a highly qualified migrant or through Study. So for your case, You have to go through study. That way you have a certificate that makes you suitable to get good jobs in the coming years.

bigtt76:
`what site are you receiving payments from?

Haha.
Wait till you receive the money and the scam is traced to your account.

mad couple rather.

See how they complement each other with looks

Mindfulness:
You have a crisis. It's ok to have a crisis. Most people go through a crisis every now and then. Accept it for now instead of pushing against it and you will feel a relief.

If you don't feel like seeing people and picking calls, it's fine! Don't push yourself to do anything you don't want to.

Try to reach for the feeling of anger if you can, it is the feeling closest to depression but it feels more powerful.

I will try to guide you from there if you come online again but I would prefer for you to find a psychiatrist if possible so that he can run some medical check-ups.

Don't worry, many people have been through such a phase and have come out stronger.
You can make it too. It is ok to be where you are right now.

Thank you very much for your concern.

I did listen to the previous advices listed above and I can assure you things are a lot better now. A change of environment, holidays and long walks did a miracle. I am back up and running again. I have never felt better.

cc: merahki

Thank you

You have come at the worst possible time.
Why not wait till Buhari is dead or no longer the president?

3Q ; 26 -11

Lithuania leads 62 - 52

Now 65 - 54. Going to the final quarter. I will rather sleep now. Can't see Nigeria winning this anymore.

For very patriotic citizens, Nigeria is currently 17.0 to win

LecciGucci:
abeg which channel is airing it?

Watching mine through my bet365 account.

Despite leading, Nigeria is currently 4.0 to snatch the victory. I hope we beat those odds

Current Score 31 - 31

1st Quarter; 16 - 13
2nd Quarter; 15 - 18 (ongoing)

Updates:

2nd Quarter; 25 - 23

Nigeria currently leads at HT 41 - 36

Who owns the house? The man, the woman or both?

If it's owned exclusively by the man, he will get away with it here in Nigeria. I am not a lawyer but you know how the Nigerian Justice system works.

honourableseyi:
She must possess atleast A1 German certificate as part of the embassy requirements.

I used to believe so too but I asked. This was the reply. I did share the screenshot of our emails back then.

"It is not true that spouses are generally not allowed to work, a language course is not a problem either"

@ azuka15, I have no idea. Curiosity about if my girlfriend could join me made me ask them.

azuka15:
Please has anybody had experience on student visa with spouse and children, Is it obtainable?

I did ask the embassy a similar question about this and they replied after a long time. According to their email;

It is obtainable ONLY IF you are married to your spouse
The Child is yours with proof

You will be required to fund a blocked account higher than the 8k+. They refused to give me the exact figure and said it will be fixed by the Alien office.

Your spouse is generally allowed to work with or without German proficiency. But they did not specify if there are restrictions on the number of hours she can work.

Bros eh.
You are proud and want an independent girl that is from Anambra. No problem.
To start with, How many houses or cars do you have?

princey83:

But you definitely would not mind joining them if you were invited for a party too

I can't. Why would I want to live in a situation where I can't open a bank account, get a decent job or set up a business, always hiding from the police, stress of being caught or worst still, to be rough handled and bundled on a plane.

Some people can do that, not me. I had the option to follow somebody on such cases but I declined. I can't handle the emotional trauma. But I will be going this September sha. LEGALLY.

It's simple. Most are illegal migrants who went on a tourist visa and overstayed.

My cousin and her husband both went to USA for a party that hasn't finished since about 1year ago. Despite both being very educated, they can't get jobs as they are illegal. They keep dragging the illegal jobs with the Mexicans. Jobs I'm sure most of us will not do in Nigeria, even in these hard times.

They can't come back home for fear of being seen as a failure.

NigerDeltan:
Its now 19 millitants not 219 millitants again?

The spokesman said 19 doesn't mean it's 19.

Saying the correct high figure will only dampen the moral of their fighters and send a signal to the outside world that they are being defeated.

Check ISIS, Boko Haram and other terrorist groups, even if you kill 500 of their men, their spokesman will come and say only 10 were killed and 5 injured. Him saying 19 means it's definitely a high figure

Kingosytex:
i no see any army or militant...abi dem dey ghostmode?

Bros sharply enter motor go Arepo. Them still dey there. Carry your phone go. Video am well well so we fit see the action like we dey see for film.

If bullet hit you, no worry. We go still see the video

Ok.
So what happens if I remove the flash drive later

cococandy:
You're going to miss your girlfriend when you travel for your masters. She may even be married to someone else before you come back. Maybe That's what's secretly bugging you.

Despite all my troubles, I still had the time to laugh about this. Of course, I'm going to miss her but not to that extent

Thank you all.

I have everything to stay alive for especially for my brother. So you don't have to worry about me killing myself.

dayowunmi, does every General Hospital have one?

VolT0xic:
[color=maroon]The only people that can help you, are those around you. If you don't open up to them, you'll sink away without even realizing it. Talk to someone. Force a conversation if you have to. Depression kills. [/color]

I know this. But I'm here surrounded by people who think you are sick only when you are suffering from illness. That's why I want to see a counselor

Cutehector:
U need one week of non stop sex!

Oh!

I have sex a week far more than you can imagine. I wish it could solve my problems

Everything looks perfect on the outside.

Graduate, good relationship, good family, Going abroad for Masters, Good financial and health situation etc but psychologically, I'm dying and suffering from depression.

I suddenly have become so timid, lacking confidence and slipping away from friends, family, everyone except my gf. These days, I just lock myself inside the house, don't pick calls and then the cycle of depression starts. When it's night, I'm already scared of tomorrow because I know it's gonna be the same cycle.

I don't even know what I'm depressed about but I am very sure something is wrong with me.

I need a psychologist, Counselor or just anybody who is willing to help before I do something stupid.



TeHN

South Africa is one country I will never live in.


The reason is simply because I'm a Nigerian.

Pardon! 5K per what?

Where is your Location