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I have always seen my father as the strongest man alive, that would never let his weakness be seen by anyone. Today my Father broke down and cried without control when he received the news that his mother passed away. He is my grandmother's last born. His mom is igbo so the burial traditions are different from yoruba land. His mom comes from a royal family in ngwaland and as first daughter which means that if her kingsmen dont get everything they ask for, she cannot be buried, that can make any man cry, but my father cried today because his mother did not die a natural death, she was murdered in Ogun state while she was visiting my father's elder brother. Some thieves came and demanded money from her and when she refused due to the fact she didnt have much on her( my dad had made her start using visa atm card so she didnt carry much money around) they shot her in cold blood because she cursed the thieves and their future generations for stealing from her. I saw my father cry today because when they got to the hospital with her wounded body, the hospital refused to treat her because they needed a deposit, which the driver didnt have( and my uncle was in abuja)and my uncle was out of town. She died because the hospital's negligence. My father cried today because he lost his favorite singer, his favorite woman, his heroine, his diva, his lolo. My father cried today because Nigeria continues getting worse, and health care system is nonexistent, and jobs for youths are not there so they try to get quick money, forgetting that they will answer to God for their sins later. I saw my father cry today because he couldnt do anything to help his mother all the way her in California. For all the money he has, he still lost one of the most precious people in his life. My father an 18 year serving surgeon broke down and cried today in front of us all, because while he was saving a life here in America, someone had killed his mother. So all day today my father kept playing his favorite song he always sang to my grandma, and it reminded me of how our old school songs had so much great messages.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7TQiONVSLg&feature=relmfu I hope you enjoy it. But I have to ASK you nigerians, which way are we as a country going? We are the country whether good or bad, and its up to us to change it. And i hope i will be able to help make a positive impact in our father land. Amen. and it really got to me, WHICH WAY NIGERIA, HOW many PEOPLE WILL HAVE TO DIE BEFORE YOU Nigeria SPEAK UP!!! MY grandmother would have been 81 next week. May her soul and that of my aunt rest in peace. |
blacksta: Oya beaf come and interpreti think it has something to do with the sharia law crap, no offense to muslims, but it seems everywhere sharia is, islam gets special treatment, because if he said amen, he would have been accused of having favouritism towards christians over muslims by muslim leaders. Man how i wish this stupid constitution would be destroyed sometimes. |
just wondering what script or way of writing were these edo histories written in. We know the calabar and igbo had the nsbidi writing, and hausas arabic but i havent come across anything on what script, other than latin script( that we all use today), so can those saying unlike every other group that used oral/folklore to tell their history, edo people were the only one to write down their history. P.s Just curious, not looking for trouble or any tribalistic rant, i dont care for it! |
alj harem: Papabrown,My great grandfather had a saying which is- because man is not God, he would tell every version of a story that best fits his agenda and glorifies him. My paternal great grandfather always said that some people believed that the ethnic group known as yoruba today was a mixture of hausa and edo people. I remember i met a an edo boy with the an igbo sounding last name and a yoruba sounding first name and i immediately thought he was a mixture of both until he told me he was esan. I was like what, you lying, your mother must have lied to you, but i have come to notice that yorubas and edo people are like faternal twins, they are of same father and mother, but just have a few differences, especially in the language. |
Hey guys if i wanted to put up a contest that has prices and etc, who do i contact on this site. I mean which moderator or admin? |
Hey guys my sister and i got into this hobby of writing scripts. I came up with this idea, and kinda need your inputs to bring the tribalistic sentiments out in each character. Please read the summary and give me some ideas. Give them a name and characteristics. My sister suggested i should mimick the characteristics of these celebs in developing the characters. So i nead ya help. Movie title: When we were a family- starring chris attoh,peter okoye, gbenro ajibade.RMD( this is not the actual cast, but their features and characters fit the schema of each individual as i imagined them, Oya lets write a blockbuster guys... ![]()
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jennypinky: Hello out there,if we take a look at the Nollywood industry,we will discover they produce movies especially for adults. A glance at Hollywood shows they have numerous movies for adults as well as high school movies for kids and teenagers,but in Nollywood,high school movies are ignored.As a script writer,I've written a lot of high school scripts.@ d moment I m in need of sponsors for my productions,I believe pepole need changes in the industry just like I do.if there is any means I can get sponsor or get connected,pls anyone out there can help me get started by reaching me on joycelyn4xploits@gmail.com or +2347035812580.I'm waiting,tanks!!Can you give a synopsis of one or two of you scripts, maybe i can get my sis to look into them, she does movie production in the uk. Make sure its not tribalistic. Goodluck!! |
Decryptor: Put up your pictures here so we can access you. Eedioot!umm ekwensu, inyamiri like you can never compete with me, plus if you must know am a girl and am fine. i dont need to prove nothing to you ode, mtchewwwww |
Conner44: i and my friend are currently arguing about this topic.firewood is the best, makes everything taste great |
these men all look gay, plus they are all fugly, jesus, now i know nigeria dont have that many hot guys, and the look unhealthy. yuck, would never date any one of them. |
so my uncle is an investtment banker,owns an investment firm in the usa and his group of investors have this idea for a family entertainment place in developing african countries, to help attract more visitors to the country and of course make money.yesterday my uncle said that he thinks it about time nigeria gets a family amusement park or a place like small disney world, but with african/nigerian traditional heroes and heroines like Princess aminatu of zaria, moremi,Queen Daura,princess adaora of idemili Queen Kambassa of bonny etc, women who answered calls of the “Savior of Their Societies.” So i was like that would be cool. He is going to nigeria to look at lands in abuja for it in august, but i thought Calabar would be the best place for it. Where do you folks think is the safest place for it in nigeria. BTW: My sister who helped design paper structure of the park, wanted my siblings to give her an input on the attires for culture, modern and traditional princess like wears for each heroine, so i thought these following designs for attire will be good for the moderns, but can yall also add you sentiments on the traditional/cultural wears.[color=#006600][/color]
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ortopazz: Many of us deeply feel for the Nigerian chaos buh can do nothing, after observing and despite calls to believe that there's seriously no silver lining at naija's own tunnel, I believe we've got potentials and we can make it!1.I believe that the first step to helping solve our problems is to let each state be independent of the government, more like a confederation. 2. There should be education on anti tribalism for the youths( we cannot help our parents they have already made up their mind) 3. Create a separate branch of the government or rather give the legislative branch more power to do checks and balances on each branch of the government. 4. Talk and insist that each school speaks to all youths about the civil war because i see it as the big elephant in the room that everyone always ignore. 5. They need to create an new law enforcement branch that ranges from the likes of fbi,cia, state police, and local police-kinda like the usa, in that each level has more power as the ranks increases over the other. 6. They need to remove sharia law out of our constitution and make sure that everyone is given the right to practice any religion, without being mandated to behave or wear certain clothes just because they are in a state that is predominantly muslim. 7. There should be a private non nigerian firm that investigates and prosecutes former public officials who cannot account for missing funds during their reign. 8. There should be a special prison for them and their properties and businesses should be seized until they make account of the missing funds 9. Implement a program that helps youths who choose not to go to school so tehy can learn a trade(not everyone is school material). 10. Free education in all state from elementary to highschool 11. Each registered political party sponsors must be made known publicly and the amount they donate- I call this transperant pre-leadership. 12. Each person must make known of their net worth prior to entering public office and it must be published 13. Each state should be incharge of their own electricity,water and sanitary 14. To eliminate stealing and kleptocracy we need a weekly published account of the national debt and the amount of money that comes in and out of the country's treasury. 15. AND IF ALL THESE DOESNT WORK, I IMPLORE THAT WE DO WHAT GHANIANS DID TO THEIR THIEVING LEADERS, LINE THEM UP AND SHOOT THEM TO DEATH AND BLOCK AND SEIZE THEIR FAMILY ACCOUNTS AND PROPERTY UNTIL THEY CAN PROVE THEY MADE IT LEGALLLY. P.S though i want separation of each region for their own welfare, i think economically that many south-south and south easterners will loose out of their fortunes because most of their businesses and properties are in another man's land like lagos and abuja, and i wouldnt leave my mansion and business for another man to occupy just cause i have to move back to my tribal region, nope. So division wont work fairly for everyone. |
debolah: those designs are foreign it is possible to acheive the looks and forms but the plan might not be practical in terms of functionality in our enviroment but i can adapt a plan to suit your desired building outlook contact me 08069200665actually there are houses like these in banana island in lagos, and also in abuja, so its possible. |
I suggest we make each state independent of the federal government, basically that each region become a confederation. Its that or nigeria just splits. These officials are stealing us blind and tribalism keeps blinding us from seeing a good leader. I think for the sake of our future and that of our children that we should separate. Sometimes a marriage that hurts the children is not worth staying together, and perhaps a separation (like enacting confederacy) can help before we ultimately divorce each other. If only the youths had integrity and didnt take bribe, perchance we can change our own futures and throw these fools out of office. But again because of our tribalistic sentiments,as displayed here on NL everyday, Nigeria will never progress, so a split is necessary. |
LocalChamp: Yorubas disown Kano Boko Haram leader Okay this is one of the characteristic i hate in my people, turning your back on your own, just because they have committed an abomination etc. I Dont think any man will lie about his heritage like that, and why would he tell them his compound, so that they can go harass his left over family? I believe that you dont turn your back on your child no matter what they have done, you make them face the punishment that his or her crime brought. I also dont get why they arrested the children and wifey ati iya with him, what the hell. He committed the crime, not his mom or children. Anyways make God helps us all. Abúni ò tó abẹ̀rín; bẹ́ẹ̀ni abẹ̀rín ò mọ ẹ̀hìn ọ̀la. Happy mothers day all, and stay blessed! |
imela nwanne'm @odum, , @ lagcity,A-ti-ara-ẹni-roni, ajá ọdẹ. i feel sorry for you, i bet your mother stole you from another tribe, cuz you can not be omo yoruba and yab without sense, ewu, ode..mtcheww. Yes I love my cultures, its not my fault i got different tribes that make me who i am, You just mad, cuz yours aint exotic and eclectic like mine. Infact do me a favour go to the beach in lagos and drown yoursef, if u need help let me know. Other than that have a nice day. . The least you can do is give me pics of your clan attires. |
Oh okay alj-harem,i understand what you said, but dna never lies, its ur genetic code. I forgot to mention that the data used in comparing some the dnas are based on data collected by scientist in last 3o years in each region-mostly during medical experiments i.e did you ever get chicken pox, measles, and etc or did census registration as a child -usually done by europeans. Unknowningly most of the villagers genes and info were collected during then. But that is not the only avenue that was used in collecting dna samples from people, churches helped also ( i.e holy communion,baptism). These europeans definitely used people's ignorance to their advantage, and its become a blessing in disguise especially for african americans tracing their roots. One of the recent effects of experiments carried out on africans, especialy in nigeria, is in the north, where american and british researchers knowningly and unethically infected people with polio, using them as guinea pigs or lab rats without them knowning ,and one the main reason that Bill gates saw the injust and chose to help fight the cause. Anyways the datas collected and still being collected are what is used during genealogical tracing. Yes environments can have an effect,like certain diseases,ailments, diet can help in changing ur dna a bit, but not much. What i noticed during the dna results is that some of my dad's dna >i.e his genes especially the one that codes for his yoruba ethnicity have been watered down-maybe because the fact he was in the army in different parts of the world and ate different foods, got sick etc, that is yet to be determined. I say this because of how i only have 25% of my father's yoruba ethnic code remaining in me according to the test results. I know what you mean by people mistaking you for igbo because you are fair. below is a picture of my other cousins from anambra, notice the three and the color differences. In their immediate family, their mother just like mine is super fair, but their dad dark, but only one child got the fair gene, which is the first daughter. The rest are most of the time asked if they are yorubas because of their complexion. Yes a certain complexion is associated to the igbos( they all married now, so u cannot ask for their hands in marriage,lol ). And i do make the mistake of assuming certain fair skinned nigerians are igbo, until they speak. For my siblings and I, we are yorubas, but our dad( because my mom comes from a royal family) had to also let us claim igbo in case my brothers are needed to ascend the throne one day, because my grandparents only had one son and three girls.
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alj harem: Mimifonwon Anyways the test for me came out this way: Father- yoruba from ijebu-igbo= 35% igbo of subsharan africa, 55% yoruba of subsharan africa, 10% of fulani of subsharan africa. Mother-95% igbo of subsharan africa, 5% undetermined Then i did my own and me= 65% igbo of subsharan africa, 25% of yoruba of subsharan africa, and 10% fulani of subsharan africa So basically the genes that are shared between each group that never changed is what gives the percentage- that is how most african americans sold into slavery are tracing their roots back to africa. I hope i explained it well ![]() |
hi guys i need the name of a movie starring genevieve which is a traditional movie where she plays the younger sister of ogechi( i think that was the main character's name-but not sure) who was abducted and sold to the north- where ogechi's with her knowledge of native medicine gains the sultans favor and became his wife, then years later is brought back to her igbo village because her son became a doctor who did missionary works and unknowingly fell inlove with genevieve's character, who happens to be his mother's sister and his aunty. Can anyone remember the name of this movie, am trying to buy it for my cousins bday, we saw the movie 4 years ago and she has been dying to see it again. i can only remember gene's face in the movie-please help!!! ![]() |
Thanks alj-harem, thanks for not taking offense to my reply. And the professor teaches at Northwestern university in evanston,il. Anyways thanks for the video, and yes i concur on your thoughts about all of us being mixed up tribally. Because we come from a patriarchal community we rep our father's people, and the mother's people dont count. My granddad married from yoruba to calabar, and all his children are said to be igbo because his igbo, only recently do people add their mother's ethnicity when referring to themselves. But yeah thanks alot. |
Thank you all, and alj-harem am not confused at all about my identity, please do not affront me, all i did was ask a question- for he or she who askes questions never get lost. I am igbo by mother (ngwa specifically), and yoruba and fulani by father. I speak the three main naija languages( my mom and dad forced us to learn them). Anyways the professor was the one that got me thinking about the egba thing when he said egbas were igbos-I have never heard of that before, and havent ever heard egba dialect, a friend referred me to the first video, the other video was just for fun. But if anyone can Help -please write simple greetings in egba for me. and oden, thanks also, i understand ya. We all live to learn ![]() |
So i met a nigerian professor who teaches at northwestern university. i introduced myself as igbo and yoruba, and he in turn says- then that means we are kin, cuz am egba. I was like oh, so you are yoruba, and he says, no i am igbo aka egba. I was confused, because in my 24 years of life, i have only heard from my yoruba cousins and southwestern friends that egbas are yoruba. So We sat down over tea and this man of 64 years of age, started giving me history lessons, on how the southwestern Nigeria was orginally only inhabitated by igbo tribe and her clans. I kinda just noded and smiled. He began to tell me that their native tongue is more similar to onitsha igbo than yoruba. But i didnt say anything-mainly cuz all the yoruba people who say they are of egba clan speak only yoruba language. So i kept listening and he started telling me that the original yoruba were people like oyo and ijebus who are more close in relations with the northern tribes like hausa. He said that we young people have let colonialism corrupt our histories. I myself I am infactuated with history and research, but most of what he told me, he said were directly from his father and great grandfather. Ah i didnt know what to say. He went on to say that modern egbas due to yoruba conquering them through a woman now is loosing their language and culture, while buying into yoruba culture. I just smiled. But after I got home today from work I decided to research to know if this was true. I think our elders like our grandparents are the ones who can tell us the truths about our identities. It is sad but true because i think its about time that we youths start asking or great grand or grand parents who are still alive for our geneology and ethnic compositions. Anyways one of my friend's directed me to this video of people singing in egba dialect first, so do we have egba speakers here? I speak yoruba and ngwa igbo which is very different but yet similar to other igbo languages. My cousins speak ika igbo, and though i understand some of the things they say 60 percent of the time, they also have a hard time understanding me 100 %. But when I speak my ijebu-igbo yoruba dialect to any yoruba person i see, they understand me very well. So my other question is why is the igbo language so different when it comes to different clans. I remember My first time of meeting my cousin's nnewi inlaws and i greeted them the normal ngwa igbo greetings i have learned from childhood -which is called itu maazi. I did so, but they were confused and couldnt understand me. Even when I say "nda" or "olia" to people not from abia or owerri they dont understand me. So Why is Igbo so different from clan to clan? My igbo friend from southern cameroon speaks ohafia igbo, but sometimes when she speaks fast, i get lost in translation. So IGBOS WHy IS YOUR LANGUAGE SO DIFFERENT FROM clan to Clan or shall i call IGBO a nation and say from tribe to tribe? PLease help me with some answers, why do you guys have that type of variety? Below is the egba song mxed with a little yoruba. IF someone speaks egba only fluently no yoruba mixture, can you please write simple greetings and sayings for me below? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UDxPawzD95Q I also found this song interesting while youtubing, man I love our differences, it makes us all so unique and beautiful enjoy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2gxQHwxIh4 |
odumchi: Here are some links:I already saw these, but thanks. I want something specific within each tribe. For example a man for ngwa clan would most wear ishi agu attire with the knitted red,white and black hat, while an igbo from anambra would wear the reg red cap, etc. So I just want a specified clan outfits in some of the tribes. p.s i dont like that you closed my other post about tribes- the link you referred me to though has a bit to do with tribal features, it has nothing to do with the context of my request- and i bet you didnt thoroughly read my post. anyways thanks. |
so i showed my uncle this video yesterday and he asked if an african cartoon network is created and contains things like this, who will watch it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BfILLWe7aA&feature=related and http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=iv&annotation_id=annotation_667087&v=emGvTDZH4A0&src_vid=agksEBFRGew |
coming from ijebu-igbo on my dad's side and abia state from my mom side, with links to fulani people of the north, i noticed that each tribe have a variation of clothing within their tribes. I am doing a little research on this, so can you guys share your pictures of clan wears within each tribe. please share non precolonial stuff. |
so i noticed a trend that other than the bleaching that Eastern Nigerians seem to be super fair almost albinos, but not. I recently went to a family wedding, and though there were dark ones, includding myself, the mothers were all fair mine included. Anyways 3weeks agao I had lunch with my cousins who were born to igbo parents in usa, and a waiter walked up to my cousins and asked if they were cubans. We were like huh? the lady continues to explain that my cousins had columbian features, that was when my cousins said, umm we are igbos, maybe that is why. I decided to test their dnas 2 weeks ago to determine their ethnicity through african ancestry and another genology lab, then i did my own testing( I work in a genetic research lab). So we got the results, and it read, that they were 90% igbo, 10% kalabari. I also had my two other cousins from ijebu-igbo tested. They swore they were all 100% yoruba. for 7 generations they have only married ijebu-igbos, never left the yoruba land. So their test results according to dna said they were 54% yoruba, 40% igbo, and 6% unaccounted for. So this made me ask myself, does ijebu-igbo have a relation to igbos of eastern nigeria? My own 65% igbo, 25% yoruba, 10% fula. So my last question for you is, if you had the chance to find or approximate your genetic ethnic mixture would you do it? Below the first two pictures are of my cousins from the east, The last is their sister- I always swear she looks mixed, but again genetics and dna says they are not mixed with any european or asian blood-they are pure subharan africans. then the third picture is my big sister and i. I am the skinny one, not the one with opean teeth. Most people say i look more fula than igbo or yoruba. What do you guys think?
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). And i do make the mistake of assuming certain fair skinned nigerians are igbo, until they speak. For my siblings and I, we are yorubas, but our dad( because my mom comes from a royal family) had to also let us claim igbo in case my brothers are needed to ascend the throne one day, because my grandparents only had one son and three girls.