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I am sure that there is a VERY small percentage of Doctors that are not professional and

things do happen for the worst . . . ever see 20/20 or 48Hrs?

For the other 99.99% of the professionals, they are just that!

Medical malpractice is so expensive that they cannot afford not to be.

These Drs are required by law to have their nurses with them during an episiotomy not only

to protect the patient but also to protect themselves as there are some patients out there

that assume that the Drs are doing what they should not be doing and can and often times,

make unbased allegations.

As far as using a male OB-GYN, if you could see some of the things that I have seen, one would be

a fricking fool not to use one.

As a woman, having an episiotomy repair is not an overly pleasant experience whether it is being done

by a man or a woman Dr. I guess a lot of it is modesty more than anything just as a man having his

penis handled by another person other than their sexual partner.

Sorting out finances are personal to every couple- there are no hard and fast rules.

Neighbor on one side is a fundamentalist Christian who has nothing good to say, nor has

any charity to offer any neighbor who is NOT of the same fundamentalist mindset. Mrs.

Neighbor takes great delight in sticking her head out the door with a bullhorn and letting

the whole neighborhood know that my other neighbor, a gay man, is doomed to hell for his

wickedness,every times he walks past her house.


Based on that, I'd say not a chance.

Have you ever seen the services at a charismatic church? Some of them get rather active...people hopping around,
speaking in tongues,tossing snakes back and forth, breaking out into song...

Studied them a bit back in college.

Leaving religion out it, because it has no basis in scientific facts, cloning can be defended or reviled based
on how threatened you feel by it.

Are you secured enough in yourself to face the prospect of another you? Are you secured enough in yourself to face
the prospect that your clone might be engineered to be superior to you in many ways? Are you secure enough in your
sex life to accept that sex is no longer needed for reproduction?

I, for one, have no problem with meeting another me, even if it is a new and improved model.

Christian brothers are sexually repressed and brainwashed to believe some guy in the sky

will be pissed at them and not let them into heaven. Who wants to hang out with someone like that?

You are either extremely misinformed or posting this to gain sympathy from others.

Divorce is no fault. There is no contesting it. Even if the only place you have to

go is out of state with family, then go. It's not illegal. You need a lawyer.

Call the legal aid office in Nigeria and ask for legal assistance. Attorneys who

work with most of these agencies work at no cost to you.

I concur, just blanch them in cold water and the peels come off really easily.

No healthy way to do it.

Even bed-bound people can do some kind of exercise, so you are full of it . . . .

Hollywood is what is wrong with Macauly Culkin. They take a regular kid with a bit of talent

then they turn them to performing puppets. Meanwhile, they are busy making as much money as

they can out of them which usually turns their families into money grabbing leaches so the

poor little darlings end up completely dysfunctional. After a while the kid has grown up and no

longer looks cute so they get dumped and all the hangers on fall away so they're left wondering

why no-one loves anymore. At this point, the drugs and booze become a crutch and they usually

either fade away or we get the high profile death in a hotel room somewhere . . . .

The headline is for shock value. The study said the problem is sedentary behavior.

They could just as easily said that reading books shortens your life, because it

also involves sitting still. The problem isn't watching TV, it's spending a certain

amount of time without any physical activity.

Recieving stolen property is a crime so he will have to defend himself against that.

He has no right until the law proves he is innocent.

Words never to be used in association to Islam or Muslim.

Peaceful

Tolerant

Moderate.


Have you seen a Muslim trial? All of them are so calm about killing someone.
It's more than scary,it's disturbing.

When your arm is completely mangled beyond repair and hanging on by just a thread of gristle,

the sensible thing to do is amputate and go on living without it.


This is your relationship.

No. That would be odd for me. I wouldn't do that to him, and I wouldn't expect him to do that to me.

But at the same time,there's no secrecy between us, if for some reason he wanted to use my phone

and happened to look at some messages, I wouldn't care, and i think he probably feel the same.

Perhaps being as you do not feel comfortable to talk to him in person, why don't you

use the ole back door?(MIL) If that option is not available then send him a card or

better yet demand that your husband grow some balls and talk to HIS father about this

problem. Insist that this be done before you go around the fil again and if the fil

mentions it in an embarrassing or mocking way then don't go around anymore.

Option 2 would be to tell him to stop being such an **** as no one enjoys being

around when he is like that. GOOD LUCK as this is an extremely touchy subject.

Remember that you do not have to learn to tolerate that type of behavior, just don't go around it!

Not taking every little thing seriously.

Keeping your sense of humor intact.

Fighting only the battles that really need to be fought,and
choosing wisely which battles these are.

Understanding that it's never EVER a 50/50 in marriage, and that one person always
gives more. It does balance out over time,i think, but someone is always doing more
at any given think.

Not keeping score, like, "i took out the trash last time, so he has to now and I'm not
doing it no matter how bad it stinks in here". That's just petty and silly, and in the
meantime the house smells. Just do it.

Finding little ways to say "I love you" without saying it.

Keep the fires burning. Leaving little notes where you know he'll find them telling him what you're
gonna do to him that night; walking up to him in the supermarket and whispering something hot in his
ear accompanied by a discreet little grope;surprising him in the shower at a time neither of you is in a
hurry to get dressed and go anywhere after the shower; sending him an email saying "I am going to ha.ve sEx
tonight at 7, whether you are there or not", while you're watching TV, just reach over and go for his fly,and
don't stop until he does; send him a really raunchy about how fantastic he was last night and how much you
loved it when he did that thing he did . . . .

I'm sure there must be 500 other things that you can do to keep him wanting you and no one else.

Accepting him as he is, without always wondering "what might have been".

Having what you want and wanting what you have.

Remembering why you fell in love in the first place, and reminding him why he fell in love with you.

As a wannabe Republican, I was dismayed with Romney's speech at the convention.

There were some rhetorical crumbs to women,immigrants, Cubans and ulra right-wing

evangelicals, it left me scratching my head. The biggie was, a criticism of how

President Obama had almost no business experience when he took office. How many

years of experience does Paul Ryan, the man who would be VP have? Zilch.None?

I just looked him up again. I believe he is the one i saw on video.

He really can't make a living doing manual labour so he might as well sucker

fools out of their $$.

Always a disaster. Don't do it.

Whenever am bored. I typed in my name and apparently I play a dry cleaner

in some movie and then I also happen to be a gynecologist. It's pretty

amusing and entertaining for me.

Seriously how many pregnant women do you see at clubs?

Clubs have a few things in mind: drinking, one night stands and possibly drugs.

Is that the kind of place a pregnant woman should be? It's not only incredibly

trashy but socially wrong. Dinners,BBQs, family affairs are great. Those are the

kind you need to be going to. But clubs, yeah right.

She? Is this about you?

You may be the craziest person I've encountered here.

What would be the harm in leaving your marriage before begining an affair?

That's what I wonder. And the harm is, if you think your marriage sucks and

is abusive now, wait until you get caught, then you'll be in a whole new

world of drama.

Why be with someone who ultimately doesn't give a damn about you? For sex or otherwise? I mean she.

Congrats!

*Releases some butterflies*

Human resources should not take sides. I would find out who they answer to and take

it to them after going to the HR if they don't take you seriously. You can sue a

former employer for saying anything derogatory if a prospective employer calls them.

All they can verify is long you were there, what you were paid, etc.

Sometimes church doesn't do anything for me at all. But then there are days that

it does . . .there are times when I have a bad week and church puts me back on track.

Otherwise you are absolutely right. Church does something for you that you might not

get on your own. It guides you along,gives you thoughts to chew on . .Thoughts you might

not come up with on your own. Also-if your church isn't doing this for you, if it isn't

convicting you or anything, then I wouldn't blame you if you stopped going. Consider

checking out other churches.

To deny black men have a problem with women . . would be in MY CASE . . .very unrealistic.

Every black man I've dated except one has failed . . . this means 5 adult men . .not the

entire race.

For the most part,they have either cheated, approached the issue of sex too quickly, did

not take the relationship seriously, or were not as accomplished as I would hope.

Even when I'm hit on by black men . . .I'm disappointed at how disrespectful they can be.

In a professional setting, it's more than likely i'll be hit on by a white man than a black

man. It's really quite sad. They go straight for the white women . . . NO LIE.

The first flower i recieved . . .white man. The first man to take me to the orchestra. . .white man.

Cook me dinner . . . white man.

There is no such thing as snake poison.It is a toxin, classified as venom.

Poison= Harmful if ingested.

Venom= Harmful if injected (by fangs for example).

I would get a scalp treatment at a salon. Or use head and shoulders, you can try to alternate

it with an intensive moisturizer.

Ever been to a place that rents wedding gowns? The gowns get "pilled" after a couple

of cleaning, not to mention the damage that happens in just the one day of wearing it:

People stepping on the train rip it or soil it; things get spilled on the gown and leave

faint stains; the hemline is impossible to get completely clean; visible snags get left

behind from her bouquet, diamond ring,or the guests wearing beaded gowns.

Gowns need altering 99% of the time to fit right, rental shops do not let you do any

altering, so half way down the aisle,the 5"2" bride trips on the hemline when it comes

unraveled that it's temporary hem. And heaven forbid there's a damage,it's going to be way

more expensive than buying in the lung run.

Add to this story the story of dogs who have eaten the corpse of their deceased,

beloved owners and you get the whole picture.Dogs are dogs.

You two should seriously consider getting another part-time jobs to help you out of the hole. It is better to have a bad no fun year

than a bad no fun decade. Here is a plan for you.


1.Make a budget. Make the budget a week before you get paid. A budget is not a punishment. It is a tool which will free you from ever
having to worry about money again. Put everything thing in your budget. Especially those annual, biannual or quarterly bills like car
registration,insurance ,etc. Give every pound you are going to bring home the name of where it's going.Add an "emergency fund" category
to your budget for 40pounds and save up until you have 1250- 1500pounds. Your emergency fund will help keep from getting into new debt
because of an emergency. If you can, set up a direct transfer to a savings acct for your emergency fund. That way it moves automatically
and you don't have to worry about it. You must cut your spending and live on less than you make.



2.If you are in this much "financial struggles" then why are you both spending 25% of your total income on transportation every month? And
you should stop using credit cards. They are like quicksand only the death is much slower. Be VERY careful what you spend money on,anything
that is absolutely NOT NEEDED don't buy.



3.Pay off your credit card debts and use cash only.



4. After you pay off your debts,add to your emergency fund until you have 6-12months of income saved up. Put that emergency fund into a liquid
money market fund or into a HSBC bank no-risk CD so that if you need the money you can take it out without penalty.



5a. When you have your emergency fund in place, add a category for "fun" to your budget. Save for a holiday,a vacation,a big screen,an i-pad or
dinners out, whatever goal you want. Remember to enjoy life.



5b.When you have your emergency fund in place, start saving for retirement. Join the 401(k) or 403(b)plan at work and contribute the maximum.
Your employer probably matches at least part of the contribution so why give up free money. Open a Roth IRA and contribute the maximum on a
monthly basis. If you start saving for your retirement now, you will probably retire a millionaire.



5c.When you have your emergency fund in place, start saving up for a car. Only buy cars or other things that depreciate, with cash. Save up for
a nicer car. That way you get the interest instead of paying the interest.



And always remember where there's a will there is a way.