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azpekuliar: You're so bent on shoving this down our throats. Hope his acquiring that SUV has now added some semblance of value to your life, you jobless voyuer!

Y are you hating, if e pain you get your own. Abeg appreciate good thing jare.

My man does all these but he doesn't call everyday so I'm really realy doubting his love for me,

Uwani congrats, I claim this miracle for my sister, Amen.

Thank God, at last, may all honour be unto Him, Amen! Congrats dear.

Agbanwe agbanwe
Ome ihe ukwu
Eze ndi Eze
Ogwo mgbe ike gwuru dibia
†ђξ greatest physician

Can someone add lemon in her cream †̥☹ remove all †ђξ black spots in her body or how else can she use it cos too much black spots due †̥☹ pimples is really giving her lots of concern.

Can someone please tell me how much the ticket to mozambique can cost me from Lagos through kenya airlines, I also heard that you get the Visa at the airport,how true is that. Please I need urgent response. Thanks

Pls like how much is †ђξ machine in †ђξ market, both straight and waiver, thank you.

afam4eva: lol...Umu Ada anyi amaka but oburo sonso ihu kachasi nma. A na me neta omume na ihe ndi ozor.

O buruzie ndi Yoruba nweziri omume di nma? Nna lezikwa anya ofuma tupu I banye na ife I gaghi ebuli.

@Pharm.Toki, I just added ur PIN now, pls accept my request. Thanks

ballabriggs: Mr man please stop disgracing yourself with this you groundnut and garri analysis. Go to bed and stop wasting your time.

None of you point to any macroeconomic indicator, no assessment of the current position of the economy but you just jump ignorantly with a garri and groundnut "it will cause inflation" argument. What do you even know is inflation?

In your attempt to deride the man because "he is an aboki who knows nothing", you show how ignorant you are.

Then enlighten us sir because we are all here †̥☹ learn from one another, sir please educate us on how this will benefit †ђξ average Nigerian, thanks in advance.

Omoaka11: must dis chick always be rude?she shld always try n control her temper atymes @least 4 d sake of being a public figure.mtcheeeew

She was rude and mean †̥☹ Tonto then she took Tonto's response as an insult, if it were you would you laugh it off and give †ђξ public the impression that Stella was right?

donkarly: na today?..'kwums is not mems'..

Lol

berem: Too bad! Now I pity him so much.I pray he doesn't die in the process.unfortunately he has to be a scapegoat and lesson to others.

Lesson ke,can they ever learn? They will still steal dey go and we go dey watch them.

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-Exactly what I have learnt so far but I am trying not to allow negativity to affect my life.
I have learnt that "mine is mine and ours is ours". I learnt this particular lesson when I was doing my Youth service. I stayed with a brother (biological)when I left orientation camp. Prior to that time, we shared things in common and never minded "who gets what and how". But surprisingly, when I started staying in his house, i discovered strange attitudes of his, which I never expected to the extent of calculating "who bought this today and whose turn it is to buy the other".
-Again, the more you try to please people, the more they take advantage of you by taking your simplicity for weakness. So, do what you think is right in your own sight and in the sight of God not minding what people say. If you give your monthly salary to people, they will call you mugu, if you don't give, they will say you are stingy.
-Anytime you begin to make progress in life, many will hate you. Some will befriend you just to reap you off. Therefore, the more successful you become in life, the more careful you should be.

Its when you stay with people, family or otherwise, that you will know their true colour.

Ishilove: Majority misunderstood that part of her post

That shows majority here are not mature enough for this topic.

emiye: @OP

If "your" man starts earning twice as much as you do, will you start loving him?

It is not †ђξ matter of earning twice as much as she does, it is †ђξ matter of giving, †ђξ man might be earning much but is not responsible in †ђξ sense of taking care of †ђξ family, that is what †ђξ OP is concerned about.

CyberG: I can't say a lot more than some very thoughtful people have elucidated in their posts. Poster, you better leave that man and not make his life miserable since you already wasted your time to 30 years and still in this self-imposed quandary. But you know you will lose biiiiggggg time and foolish women who watch too much TV, too silly to think leave the men that are imperfect but love them to wanna marry them for the big shot they fantasized about who will treat them like crap after marriage. Be ready to cook your own meals at 9 months pregnancy, clean the house with no appreciation from your phantom big shot husband! Better not complain 'cos he will just dash you two heavy slaps which you will have no logic or oil company salary to explain because you know why? Your stupid self have a chance to not create a problem you will spend several years praying useless prayers about a marriage that was not founded on any serious iota of love but on 2K (< $15) worth of hair do!

I sincerely hope you read †ђξ op's post before comenting, if not pls try and read it or if you didn't comprehend ask those that understood †̥☹ explain †̥☹ you what †ђξ op was talking about before commenting, thanks and pls no hard feeling.

Lol, where did you hear it from, so you guessed my brain won't stand all those vigorous career? Ok oooo!

Cuddlemii: Ok lets ignore the 30 part.

Everyone is bothered about her desires. Have u stopped to think from the guys perspective? She said "yes" to him for crying out loud! Saying "no" now would only hurt that man and she might pay for that. Infact saying "no" would mean men should never be empathetic & compassionate to women cos they are "confused" lots. Now I see there is no disparity between men and women. Men are just transparent with their evil doings. If the man was ur brother or son, would u subscribe to her changing her decision? How inhuman can we be? If I am an employer, I can't employ such a fickle minded woman!

If my son or brother is still leaving in my house while working at that age still not contributing no matter how small †̥☹ †ђξ upkeep of his so called fiancee, I will call him †̥☹ order and if he refuses †̥☹ change and †ђξ fiancee started complaining I will tell †ђξ lady †̥☹ follow her mind even if it maens dumping his sorry a.ss.

Not yet oooooo.

Hi, I have started learning †ђξ designing and also saving money †̥☹ open my own cos I wouldn't want †̥☹ work for somebody. How are you? Thanks for checking on •̸Ϟ ̷̷̴̐͠€.

Cuddlemii: This marriage thing sef!

May I ask what you have been doing since in terms of settling down? I mean why did you wait this long? 30 years is old! I see you as a woman who is very choosy, has high expectations in a man, not considerate & unrealistic.

I just have an advise for you though, make sure whatever you are getting into you have peace of mind & happiness. Forget attraction, finance or love for the man in question or do you have other options? Do you have men of your "taste" flocking around you or proposing to you? If u don't have a better option, then you have no choice! Bother about his love, xter/attitude, morals, way of life & commitment towards you.

Take it from me, 2 or 5 years from now, its a photographer that would be on your case. This thing is like a cycle, its keeps getting worse and not better. When you were in your peak period, I am sure you played the game of chess with a lot of men's emotions because you were choosy. Life is what it is, you have to make do with what you have. Remember beautiful ones are not yet born, take a field trip to unilag(land of plenty), Covenant Uni(land of innocent beauties), to the north(natural beauties)...You would be amazed at the attractive babes with good xter. Men would rather go for those ones before your age bracket. Even mid twenties babes can testify to that. The first thing that comes to mind is that, a 30 years old unmarried/single woman was probably promiscuous, lost her womb, committed several abortions and slept her way to success. Do you know how many people would have cautioned him to leave you for a younger woman? Or you think cos he is 35, he is in the same boat as you?

Better don't let these married women tell you to leave the man. The world only identify with success! When the hard time comes, no one would stand by you instead its insults you would get and these same people asking you to say NO would insult you for not grabbing the opportunity. You are meant to be having a matured conversation with the man, let him know how you feel about him not contributing his quota financially. Try and come to a compromise with him on a realistic level. Thank God you are rich, you no even happy sey na banker u go show off to family & friends at 30. If na office clerk wetin u for do? Just make the best out of whatever situation you get urself into, its your destiny! Even you can't re-write it, you can at least shape/mold it to your benefit. ABOVE ALL, PRAY PRAY PRAY FOR GOD'S WISDOM & GUIDANCE(He would make everything fine).

Because she is 30 she no longer has a choice in d kind of man she wants †̥☹ marry, right? @poster pls ignore some comments here, a responsible man no matter how small he earns would want to show †ђξ girlfriend let alone fiancee that he is capable of taking care of her so if he is not doing that, pls, it is time for you to have a rethink cos it is better †̥☹ be single and happy than married and miserable, your own husband will definitely locate you.

If there is any shop at Festac or amuwo odofin within my price range I wouldn't mind that also.

What is Keagan feeling like, he doesn't deserve this money joor! He is dulling d show, not showing appreciation at all.

They should had given that money †̥☹ Prezzo, I'm really feeling for him now, but thank God he has been compensated with †ђξ world campaign ambassador.

fittty: Na wah oh!!!! Why on d front page? These guys aren't even recognised internationally and you nigerians always post news about em every single day WTF! U guyz r really local. Who da f*ck knows davido, 2face , dbanj etc outside nigeria?... I remember 50cents line on a diss track "My sh*t is global but ur sh*t is local"... Nairaland truely need to try upgrading. SMH

Pls get a life, this is a Naija forum.

Kola, U̶̲̥̅̊ are not a serious agent, I have been trying ur line sine but you are not picking, pls try and reach me. 08135464620.

Ogbiaboy: *Peeps and Walks pass*

I wonder why.

PRAISE THE MOST HIGH GOD for this miracle baby!

Still waiting for God's Miracle.

Oh God! Pls continue I'm already tensed.