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Good day sir, please kindly help me interpret. I just dreamt that I was preparing to fight with someone in like a school assembly. I was very angry so I said if this person wants to fight, then I am ready. I went to bring a knife then came back to the assembly ground. There was a man dresses like an ifa priest, he was to be the referee of the fight. He called me to the side and spoke to me. He said there is no need to fight, that if I fight the other person will kill me. He said I should just talk to her, that I have already won. I started thanking him for his advice then he left. On my way out, there was a cat following me. I kept driving it away while still waving to the ifa priest and telling him thank you. All of a sudden, the cat turned to a burnt/roasted cat and fell down. It died. I started speaking in tongues while going, then I woke up.

Please what does this mean? I haven't been happy, have been crying a lot and I had this dream this night.

I agree, love is giving. If he doesn't give you when dating, he won't miraculously start giving when married.

Ok, thank you. This UK can't even give people PR, na wa.

bidemib:
I read somewhere that after this 2yrs post study, you can apply for a skilled worker visa

11 years.

Thank you sir, God bless your ministry.

yinkaadesegha:
God is fighting your battles for you, that's recovery, the Lord is recovering what you have lost....

Deut 32.43...ask the lord to fight for you, Joel 2.25-26, tell the Lord to grant to you full restoration. Bless u

Welcome back sir. Please help me interpret.
I dreamt I was sitting down sad when two ladies came to kneel down and beg me. They said they were the cause of my problems. That they made the boss sack me because he made me a manager. They also collected the Muslim man that liked me. One of the ladies went and brought a contract paper for rehabilitation of roads in Lagos and my hometown, she gave me and said that is her own way of compensating me. I collected it and left. On my way out, I saw the Muslim man they talked about and he also spoke to me.

I'm a lady actually .

grammarian247:
You have spoken very well, Sir!

How come your own IR is 2 years? It's supposed to be a one year course except you chose additional one year placement. Well look at your pocket and career prospect. Before I applied, I reached out to someone who studied IR in UK and now works with the UN in Ethiopia. She said IR career opportunities are more in African countries but it gives you the basic research skills most organizations need so you can get entry level jobs outside the field with it. As for English course, I really don't know anything about the career prospects.

Can you cope working and schooling for 2 years? That's a long time. Lastly, you really don't want to have high BP over tuition fee. If you know you can't afford Kent fees, peacefully endure Teeside uni wahala. Look at all these carefully and then decide.

I don't think there is anything like karma honestly. Despite what I see around me, I will still keep being a good girl at least for my conscience and heavenly race. It is well.

Stargurl20:
Don't mind all these NL's men who think I'm envious of one imaginary friend. What u commented is the reality of today's world. Gone are those days when good gurls where valued. Today's men are confused about what they want. They will see a good gurl and still not no her value..

When I see some so called bad gurls not talking about their financial achievement o...but the kind of men they end up with even u wey be good gurl gan go dey wonder if karma actually exist. I've been reading comments and my reaction so far was just nose wringing ( yinmu).

My dear I always ask the same question because it seems good girls mostly finish last. Most of the bad girls I know are all married to abroad based, rich men here while good girls like us still dey here. Worst part is they get pregnant so easily despite their lifestyle while the good girls ttc for years.

A lot of men don't know this, I have experienced it first hand. Those women only pretend to love the man's children so that the man can marry them. Immediately after the wedding, they start showing their true colour and the worst part is the men don't even protect their children from these women. No woman can take care of or love a child like his/her mother, not even your blood sister that came out from the same womb with you.

stacyadams:
Lol...I only pity the foolish men, who runs and remarry thinking new wife will look after children that she did not give birth to...

Ok, I will check. Thanks.

Codedboy95:
There are some tips on the first two pages of this thread on how you can secure gigs on upwork, have you applied those tips? Also can you share your profile?

I can't work on a woman in her 50's mindset. Everybody knows her character, make she dey her dey. Even all the prayers she does can't change her.

Acidosis:
Okay. May be you need to work on her mindset especially now that you live in the same house.

Not true. I give money every month so she can't say I don't contribute to the food. Besides this isn't her house, it is a family house so she isn't in charge either. If do same for her pastor when she isn't around, she will thank me. I do it almost every weekend when he comes. She worships her pastor like God. It is just because she doesn't think the man is worth it, especially because of his looks.

Acidosis:
Your aunty is only trying to tell you that you're not in charge. If you give her pastor food in her absence, she might react the same way.

Never. They never asked to be born so even if they have challenges in their 40's, it is your duty to support them in any way you can. Mothers know and do it but only few fathers do. A mother will still give her 50yrs old child money, send foodstuffs to him/her when they are in need. So far as you are still alive, you are responsible for your child. Same with children to responsible parents.

A lot of people are naturally wicked. This same thing happened where I stay last month. The man that came to repair the freezer had been working since morning until past 6pm. When he was done, he still waited to test the freezer to see if it was working properly. This is an old man in his 60's. He looked so tired and worn out, I took pity on him and decided to give him food. It was dinner time so I just made the Eba with soup to reach him. My aunty came back and saw him eating in the kitchen. She said "Baba eat o, if you want more make them put for you". I never knew she was just pretending. The next day she started talking that why did I give the man food, she had already paid him so he had no right to eat. I was shocked. So she was just pretending when she said "Baba eat, if you want more make them add". This is the same person that when their pastor comes to the house, she will serve him food that he can't finish and still put in take away plate for him to take home. She has been doing it since January without complain, but the old man eating food is a big problem for them.

This is why some people don't receive blessings from God, they will be praying without answers because of their wicked hearts. What is food especially when it is a party? How can you even feel ok that you gave everybody food and not give one person just because you paid him? I fear some people.

You can sell baby items from your house. Diaper, baby clothes, tissue in pack/bag etc. Post them on your WhatsApp status too.

Since I opened my upwork account last year, I haven't been able to land any writing or transcription job. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Secondly, what kind of account do I need for payment? I've been seeing people say payoneer, PayPal. How does upwork make payments? Thanks

@tayehjiboluwa I'm so sorry for your loss, please take heart. God knows why. My prayers are with you.

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Even if I am a politician in this country, I will never attend any secondary school reunion. Ordinary set girls WhatsApp group, the first question is "introduce yourself, what do you do? Outside the group, they will be mocking some people. I am in touch with those I want to be in touch with. We all are not meant to be in touch with each other.

If you are not a Muslim or from kwara state then forget unilorin. I had same experience in 2010 when I was fresh out of the secondary school. 270+ in jamb and 80+ in postume (it was computer based so you see your result immediately), yet no admission. Those scores were more than enough to get me into Law that I applied for. They didn't even manage to give me library science. On the admissions list I kept seeing Risikat, Rashidat,all the Shat (Muslim names). My dear when looking for admission in Nigeria, make sure you apply to the universities in your state or your catchment area. If you apply to schools outside your geopolitical zone then you will stay at home for years.

Ok, I didn't know that.

Unibenfucker:
You can stay back in Norway for one year

If you want to work and school then UK is your best option. You have 20hrs work time and get 2 years work permit after graduation. You are into STEM and your course is up for scholarships, do your research as deadlines for September are this march. Or simply apply for January so you can meet up with the deadlines. Don't dull yourself, you are a scholarship candidate even if it is partial one. I wish I could do that type of course. Your priority should be a country you can stay back in after graduation, you can't stay back in Norway and Poland.

Hmmm, try and see na. I started with 600k and increased to 800k, every few months it increases. I am on house hunting break this month. Next month I will resume with new set of agents. Lagos housing scheme is a huge mess.

Fatbam003:
800k yet can't get a house . Hah

I wish I can even see the one to manage. If you manage to see, the landlord bring tribalism into it. They want only Yoruba or a certain tribe.

pocohantas:
Never seen this happen. Usually they wait for you to leave before increasing the rent of your flat. Everything you put should be removable. I would never understand breaking ground to install tiles in another man’s house.




It only gets worse. By the time you add the cost of transporting agents and inspection fee, you’ll see you played yourself. Na to just manage the next moderate one they show you.

You are not the only one. I have 800k yet I haven't been able to get a 2br in Lagos for almost 2 years. They keep showing me boys quarters or uncompleted flats. The worst is the agent and agreement fees keep increasing. Now they are calling 130k for both. Nigeria is just getting worse by the day and the there is no hope of it ever getting better. I can't wait to leave this useless place.

Jealousy. ( My yeye cousin who is so envious.)

Golden morn

It can be very discouraging to pray for years without getting any answers. Most times you just accept your fate and settle into the condition you have found yourself in.