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Hmmm, I pray you heal from it. Step mother, housemaids, relatives will be far from my kids. Parents should learn to believe their children and protect them. Touch my child and you will see crazy even if it's my mother or brother.

Topmaike007:
never will I allow my children to stay with a relative.. The story I put up there is not even complete it got to a stage she packed my wet cloth and sent me back to my parent..

Sorry

Juicewrld27:
my cerebellum is in pains reading this

So many people experiencing same thing. No relative is staying in my house and my kids will never live with any relative. No live in housemaids either. Now that you are a man, when you have your own kids make sure you protect them.

Topmaike007:
Yes that's wheh I was a little boy around 10 years of age. The story goes like this



The weather was cool on Sunday evening and we just returned from church. When we were returning from church the thought of me seeing my parent was running through my mind and the cold breeze that touched me that afternoon remind me of how I was brought to Lagos from Ile-ife in Osun State, my pregnant aunt carried me on her shoulder when I was crying that I won't follow her down to Lagos she carried me all the way from isale ilode down to Oja Ife where we board taxi down to lagere then we took taxi down to ojota in Lagos, as this thought was going through my mind I heard someone calling me Mike as I look back I saw that it was my friend chidozie at sighting him I felt the worm in my stomach demanding for food.

When we got home I was given money to get bread that we will use to drink tea to sustain ourselves before my cousin finish preparing our lunch. Channels television was the best television station for children That year because every Sunday afternoon is always filled with intriguing movies that captivate the souls of we children that will act police and thief later, as we were watching power rangers that afternoon In our sitting room i could hear my aunt asking her husband if she help her to see #60.

As my aunt drew closer to us at the sitting room we all knew that it won't go well that day, the next thing I had was Mike who took #60 from my purse, as a little boy I tried to let her see my innocence that I wasn't the one that took the money from her purse. That day I was beaten to the point that I nearly died, then when I saw that she still insisted that I took the money then I told her I took the money and that was when the main beaten started and from that day onward anytime her children steals from the house the blame will be on mike.

Even as a man now I still felt that pain at one corner of my soul.

So sorry you experienced this. I have experienced same and I promise myself I will always believe whatever my children tell me. Nobody can accuse my child of anything and I will believe. Parents should learn to believe their children's words, your duty is to protect them.

Slurity:
I was accused of stealing #50 when I was a child, continuous beatings for days running to weeks without stop until I confessed to stealing the money and my dad bought new razor blade to give me mark at my back which makes the story unforgettable till today, I have to remind my father that I did not steal the money again after over 18years. The second one is even with a witness that insists he saw me stealing meat from the pot, any allegation that never happens and my parents believed my step brother and not me. I almost shed tears writing all these because it's hurt to the bone. It is better you don't marry at all than to have children from different women because you are only preparing a potential hard life from those children and also yourself.

Yes and I took my revenge. I didn't wait for any karma. When I was in primary school, one uncle they brought from the village accused of eating the cake my dad kept in the freezer meanwhile he was the one. The two housegirls knew he was the one but kept quiet when my dad was asking. My dad beat me mercilessly that night, I had scars all over my back. I bore the pains and waited for the right opportunity.

He has one girlfriend that always comes to the house when daddy travels, she will enter the main house and cook in our kitchen and stay for days. He was also fond of driving my dads car when he travels. One day when my dad was angry with him, I went to his room and told him about his girlfriend that comes to stay for days when he travels. I also told daddy that he drives his car when he isn't around. My dad chased him out of the house that weekend, told him to rent his own house and live.
As for the house girl she got pregnant and dad chased her back to the village.

That was how I became free from housemaids and relatives. I did all the work in the house but I was happy.
That experience made me promise that I will never have a live in housemaid or relatives, nobody should come and overpower my children in their own house. Heard the uncle died some years back, may his soul rest in peace.

Just keep doing your private jobs and someday God will answer your prayers for that government job you desire.

No I don't .

TheOnlyUyai:
Do you work in any of those hotels?

Go to Radisson Blu or Sheraton hotel, their reception and restaurant. You will meet them there but make sure you package well so that the security won't deny you access. One spoke to me there last week but I am not attracted to them.

Please someone should answer this na.

missidy:
Please is it true that NAN hasn't recruited in 4 year? And how much is the salary for entry level?

Please is it true that NAN hasn't recruited in 4 year? And how much is the salary for entry level?

It's FCC, federal character commission. Anyway, I have removed my mind from there.

danqujigy:
I guess this should be FCSC commissioner and not FCC commissioner. If FCSC then she's right, please be patience and if FCC then she's not telling you the truth. FCSC are yet to start calling for APLs

I wonder!!

Mrskolapo1:
What about the people that are getting APL everyday , there is no ban on employment for them?

I actually visited the commissioner of my state at the office in Abuja. She accepted my CV but she said Buhari placed a ban on employment.

McDonaldfished:
Hello
Good morning my people.
So I communicated with the fcc commissioner in my state through my dad. He requested I send my CV to him SINCE last week

Please how fast will it be before he grants me my APL

Thank you sir, God bless your ministry.

yinkaadesegha:
The enemy has concluded evil plans to trap u and some people close to u, but there is a God that can overturn the enemy's plan.
This is an indication for you to pray....you will be careful of who you trust and where you go henceforth. Pray with these bible verses, 3 days fasting and prayers with midnight praises.

John 10:10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

Ecclesiastes 10:8 He that diggeth a pit shall fall into it; and whoso breaketh an hedge, a serpent shall bite him.

Revelation 13:10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.

Bless u.

Please help me interpret this sir. I dreamt me, my mum, brother and 1 year old niece were invited for a church concert. My brother was driving us there but we were finding it difficult to locate the address. We saw other people in a bus going there and finding it difficult to locate the place, the place wasn't also on Google map. We asked the customer service online and they said we should keep going that we will see the place. My brother kept driving,  we saw that the numbers on the street were almost finished. He drove off a cliff, the car fell slowly into an unknown place. I immediately realised the organisers of the concert had set a trap for us. I held my mother and prayed a prayer of forgiveness that God should accept our souls. We woke up in another world. I ran to check on my brother and niece. I realised we were dead and in another world while my baby niece was still alive. She couldn't hear or see us and she was crying for help.

It is well, the wicked shall never go unpunished.

I don't know why girls do this rubbish, please don't even bother yourself. Even if you had suffered to go, she will still treat you the same way when she is tired of you. That was how I suffered on the road to abuja from lagos for a friend's wedding, even took her insults and annoying bride attitude. Today she hardly talks to me, na only happy birthday when she sees my status once in a year.
I can never stress people to travel for my wedding and ever since then I don't travel for any friends wedding. I will just tell you congratulations, finish. The suffering is not always worth it.

blesoh:
I just lost one two months ago, I was sick and couldn't attend her wedding in the village, I explained to her and transfered money to her, after the wedding she started throwing shades at me, even uploading her supposed best friends on her status.
I called severally she didn't pick or return my calls
Long story short, I don't have any friend

Thank you, may God continue to increase you.

yinkaadesegha:
If they are new notes( mint) then it is good, God is trying to bless u either in your finances, or given you an idea that will make you prosper. But if the money is not new, if is torn or dirty .... You have to reject it immediately in the dream and cancell that dream, although someone may bless u with money when you wake up, the money is a money that will bring reproach or shame.... Be watchful. I will advice you to sow that same money to the work of God, this will activate the blessing speedily.. Bless u.

Please what does it mean for someone to dash you money in the dream? Twice i counted it and I know the amount.

Thank you very much.

yinkaadesegha:
There is an attack programmed by the forces of darkness against your destiny and family. Make sure you and your family keep praying with psalm 91 and ecclesiastics 10.8. Bless u.

God bless your good works, please help me interpret.
I dreamt my dad and I were in his car, he was driving but the break failed and the car refused to stop. I kept on screaming.
In the same dream, we were both sleeping in the parlour. I saw a snake and caterpillar. I uses a torchlight to show my dad, I also went to bring a stick and gave him to kill the snake first. We were both scared and confused.

I can give more examples but I won't. People who have a relationship with God will understand what I am saying. The Holyspirit is real and one of the ways he speaks to us is through dreams.

*This is my last comment on this topic.

Kobojunkie:
Direct interaction with God happens via Direct communication with God's own Spirit who possesses those who are Followers of Jesus Christ.

Dreams are mental images that tend mirror the state of your heart and mind. Your dreams have nothing to do with the spiritual realm as you claim as those images are generated and managed right there in your mind, that is why you are able to have recollection of some dreams and are even able to piece dream fragments today across extended periods of time.
Dreams rarely have anything to do with God since if Born again, you have a direct line to Him every moment of every day. If given a vision maybe but ordinary dreams? Nah!

The Bible warns against letting dreams control oneself or invade one's reality, not Orthodox Christians. As I pointed out in my previous post, Jude's epistle to believers in Jesus Christ cautioned against such endeavours by people who pretend they can do so in the name of God.

My dreams don't control my life, God is the one who controls my life. He gives me the directions I need because that is the way He speaks to me and I have never regretted obeying. I have seen my dreams manifest in real life and it is always so shocking.
Everyone needs to discover how God speaks to them, dreams are not the only way.

Kobojunkie:
I guess you missed apostle Jude's warning against letting your life be controlled by your dreams then?
If you let your dreams have that much power over you, what part does God have in it?

Dreams show you what is happening in the spiritual realm. Believe it or not, the spiritual controls the physical. I don't joke with my dreams. If a friend should tell me he/she dreamt I died, I will immediately begin fasting and prayers. That is a warning from God. However on my own part, if I have a dream that someone died i don't tell the person except my family members. I just pray for the person instead to avoid trouble.

My dreams have saved me from problems, wrong relationships and many more. If you walk with the Holyspirit, He will show you things and guide you through life. If you doubt dreams, do a 3 days fasting and prayers telling God to show you things about your life. Let's see if he won't reveal things to you. You will realise that you don't need a pastor or prophet to give you visions, God can speak to you directly.

Am I the only one who read differently? She said they have been dating for 6 months while most people replying are saying she is married.

If both of you don't have the same views on important things of life then please back out now that it is still early. You both are meant to have the same view on things or else you will always find yourself keeping quite in other not to offend him. You will never have good communication and you will find gisting with others more interesting.

For me I have noticed that relationship with friends isn't always the best, that 2 people have been friends for long doesn't mean that the relationship or marriage will work out. Most times it ends badly and the friendship is lost forever.

Lastly pray to God to direct you to your husband, believe He will answer you and everything will flow without stress. When you even meet the person, you will know within you. * you want to spend 30 years living with someone, then why can't you take 3 days to fast and pray about it?

femalecobra:
Dull.....like what we have to talk about is reduced or we not talking about what there is to talk about. Like not having the same view about things and that causing problem or unhappiness on the path of the guy, thus resulting in reduced discussion maybe to avoid difference of views...so sharing is reduced

Thank you.

yinkaadesegha:
Pray for your brother not to use his hands to destroy his marriage/home. U can call him and talk to to him to be very careful with ladies to avoid shame.

What was the name of the church you saw in the dream? U can chat me up on watsap 07066526207 please no calls. Bless u.

Thank you, I will be careful.

Please help me to interpret this one.

1st dream - I was travelling but I came down when I heard a neighbour accusing my elder brother of using her business logo. I rushed into the house to inform him, he said it was the girl that he gave the contract to. I started fighting him immediately that what is he doing with that girl. That I know her, she has bad friends and she is just using him because of money.  I told him he should be ashamed of dating someone that is my age mate. He said he likes her and I should talk to her on phone. I threw his phone away that I didn't want to talk to her.
Note - my elder brother is married with a child in real life. I have also had a dream recently where he called a girl bearing this same name and he went to hug her.

2nd dream - Me and a friend were looking for a church to attend but we ended up in another church. She became an usher while I was in the congregation. As my friend turned usher was escorting me outside after service, she gave me sweets that ushers share and we met another friend. I told her that we ended up here by mistake but it has been 3 weeks and we are enjoying the church so we will just stay here. I also saw the name of the church boldly.

Honestly, for 4 years since I returned to this state, I haven't really had a church. I just attend any rccg close to my house , when I'm tired i change to another one and I haven't had fulfilment.
Is God telling me this is the church i should attend?

yinkaadesegha:
Be careful of how u deal with people, most especially the conversation you will contribute to, what you are going to say to avoid troubles. You mouth will not put u into troubles in Jesus name. Bless u