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EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
ok brain girl.... I'll tell you a little story ; before (medical) death, humans may experience what is known to be last thought, But since thought cannot be observed except by the thinker, how is then the last thought, if he can't observe the thought as the last thought, what even qualifies a thought as the last, if we cannot know the first thought, since once yet again, only the thinker is both the observer and the holder of the thought. X- rays always existed, so did The higgs boson , so does the distant planet Kepler 78-D, but we never knew all these at some point in human history. I believe that the human mind, body and soul transcends the physical; the metaphysical may be a speculation, but maybe someday it'll show itself.

sunvick:
I like your writing style and how you elucidate points for comprehension.
Keep em up.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
The human mind goes beyond neurons and tiny millivolt pulses.... it's a gateway to the unknown......... The immateriality of the human mind makes me not like the brain science so much

seizethaBae:
Let me chip in one or two thing abt dis ex of mine,bcus pple are getting it really confusing. When he askd me out,i like him(note:like),den in between d r/ship i noticed dis guy is rough(not rough of rough-rough) but d kind of rough that doesnt makes a guy to brush his hair,he might nt use soap to tk his bath,might not brush his teeth by 3pm nd still want to kiss me,we can park nd buy boli nd groundnut on d road side nd dis guy will b eating d boli hungrily sometyms eating with half of d paper dey used to wrap it,he can decide to use hand to b eating rice hungrily(we are both uni grad),den u know most pple realise they have saliva on their pillow wen they woke up(no biggie,i do dat wen i slept very tired,or eat yummy food at nyt without brushing my teeth nd slept off,but i dont feel comfortable with d pillowcase again without washing it)bcus of d nature of dis guy's biz(he owns a restaurant nd event),he eats all dis yummy foods late nd drop loads of saliva on his pillow accumulatively nd daily,now imagine me coming to say hi to my bf on saturday,nd i said i shld lie down on his bed(he was staying with his parent den) nd every inch i move smells saliva,he doesnt care how he looks,nd to sum it up,u might ask him what 9/11 is and he will tell u it happend in abuja or lets even look for a simpler example:lets saying we were both reading a simplest comic internet joke nd i expect us to burst into laughter togeda but i'll have to explain to him like 3tyms before he got d joke behind it. He started building one irritating wide chest muscle,i hate fat guys with extreme muscles.I can go on and on,nd i know most comments dat will quote dis post is;why dint i tell him to adjust;i was only 21 wen i met him,i was more of an introvert den,i couldnt confine in anyone nd i assumed men have ego,i wouldnt want him to feel bad or uncomfortable around me. So before d end of d third year,all dis things continue (many more stuffs too lenghty to type),so d likeness reduced drastically(remember we were just on 'like' phase initially) so my subconcious mind were always ahead of me,even wen he bought 30k perfum,i still smell 'spit' (subconcious mind),even wen he's in d midst of his friends arguing abt football, i feel ashamed even tho i know nothing abt football(but my subconscious mind had already tagged him(below average)so i will assume he doesnt know wat he is arguing abt,even wen he just pick his car frm d carwash,my nose still smell rotten salad. It was war,i was trapped bcus he is a good,kind hearted man. Nd i was believing it was d devil behind dis subconcious mind,hence i started praying. Nothing worked. Anyone can comment nd crucify me,but believe me u werent in my shoe,i felt all wat happend,i began to felt 'raped' anytim i attempt to even kiss him(it was dat bad). I never had sex with him,my body cant even connect with him,nd i tink we only kissd d first few mth of d r/ship. No intacy,nothing watsoever after den,he felt it,we later discussed it(but i dint tell him his flaws,bcus even tho he has/will change) its like cleaning faeces on d surface of a plate,believe me u remember d feaces if u decide to eat wit dat same plate even after washing it.he told me to hang on,dat i will hv feeling for him,so months to to several months,sev mths turnd to 3yrs!!! It goes on and on nd much more deeper dan d few things i listed. Trust me,u can believe its a minor thing i can manage if i marry him...,but i know d marriage cant last a week. Believe me if i were to be 27 wen i met him,i would hv made d same decision,i taught wat i did was wrong until i read a woman's interview nd they askd her y she love/married her husband nd her response was:he is intelligent,nd wen dey ask d husband d same que:he wrote:my wife tks her bath at nyt nd rub baby powder on her body,dat turns him on since day one nd will always turn him on.

seizethaBae:
Ahhh! Your second nd third paragragh con dey make afraid to dey catch me. You are 99.9% right abt everytin except d sex part! Tah! I cant even manage nd peck a guy if i no like him! Pls how did u round all dat togeda? Very detailed nd right.

seizethaBae:
I am not understanding this thread anymore.can someone please explain in english?

TV01:
Love the bible me. Untrammelled - and often unpalatable - truth . And please, I'm an equal opportunity bully, insulter and talk down-oner" .

Can't rightly tell if you are after a discussion, fight or just looking to score cheap points. Any which way, I can't say I really give a toss, you haven't shown you possess the heft.


TV

gustalnov:
I have never seen this explained better. You did a good job.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
On the issue of beats, the sound wave comes as a pulse width modulated (PWM) Signal, with little nth order harmonics, the interference is constructive, and that is why beats sound pleasing to the ear..... don't like neuroscience

VictorRomanov:
a seat belt and a parachute are built for practically different purposes. A seat belt is preventive, a parachute is reactive. so your analogy doesn't follow.

when a plane is to crash, u won't have time to jump off. The safest bet is to bring it to land ASAP. To use a parachute, u need steady altitude and a considerable amount of time, which a crash doesn't afford you. so a seat belt and a parachute can't compare.

igboboy3:
This is absolute rubbish.
The fact that you think that the only negative effect of this recession is the increased price of food shows that you have a shallow understanding of the pains people are going through.
You think the bricklayers, danfo drivers and poor people are going through withdrawal symptoms?
You think those who can't pay their children' school fees are being extravagant abi?
You think the market women who sell curry have been living it big abi?
Hardworking people are seeing their standards of living drop drastically and you blame them for living posh lifestyles.
Food is the basic right of the common man and yet you describe it as 'only.' Please how do you tell those who can't afford rice, fish and beans to change their lifestyles?

I sincerely do not blame you. It is your elitism, arrogance and even self-righteousness that has clouded your vision

You write like somebody who is well-educated; probably the product of a wealthy home. Daddy can take care of you in this recession. No worries, sis You're safe.
Even the person that claims your post is 'intelligent' is well-to-do. You can see how like minds agree

Mindfulness:
I thought so.

Thank God I love reading.



Thanks a lot.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
You have a terrible knowledge on theory of wave..... when frequencies superimpose on the same wavelength, there is destructive interference leading to more subharmonics of the obtainable Fourier series, and I don't see how that is a good thing... secondly, I don't see how humans will operate on different wavelength, because if they did, and the sinusoid is a pure one , an infinite series of emotions will then not exist.

chival:
Yes O, Where is that man? Oya come and read this oooo

Mindfulness:
WOW!

Very interesting. Where can I read more about it? You have described me quite precisely even though some terms are open to discussion, e.g. how do you define friendship? I am not looking for a spouse but I am eager to learn something new.

goodgate:
Intelligent!

IgboGoat:
Good days peeps,

I decided to create this thread after a lenghty discussion with my colleagues in the office.

Different opinions were sample and almost everybody stated how the recession has affected not only their pockets but also their lifestyles.

Not withstanding the fact that things are bad generally and people's disposable income have lost value and is still losing value. Considering the fact that Naira is almost 470 to USD.

However, for the purpose of this discourse, I want to focus on only the positive impacts of the economic recession, with a view that when we eventually get out of recession we can continue to practice the good things we have learnt and save more.

The ladies seems to be the ones on the positive side of the effects of recession Nigeria is currently going through.

Amongst the points raised, they stated that they hardly eat out more. They prepare their food and bring lunch from home. Another lady stated that when her husband closes from work, he returns home directly and does not have to to hang out with friends unlike in the pre-recession days.

A guy, not minding the shame said that he visited a brothel to ease the tension. And the commercial Bleep worker gave him a price which before now he will pay without blinking. He said that after calculating the effect of losing that amount, he simply zipped up and went home. (though he never stated what happened afterwards).

On my own, I have learnt to explore different ways to generate income. I also trimmed my expenses. I learnt now to stick to my budgets and always draw a priority list for my needs and wants and treat them based on their urgency.

I think it is important I state this. I have to enroll my family in an HMO. This have saved me a lot for payment of health bills and other things...

Guys lets hear from you, what are the positives you have learnt during this recession?

seizethaBae:
I dont even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is,hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. Im a 27yrs old lady,finished uni very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life,but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying im too choosy or not serious. Honestly,I AM NOT choosy.When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon,i even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner(i know you can meet ur patner anywhere,but na just to shut up pple wey don tink say i no dey serious),a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business',look for job so i can be leaving d house,and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection(honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it,the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. Im not desperate or something,i just want to reach out if im d only one having dis problem. There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him,i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can atleast like him(even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT,but it dint just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich,tall,handsome like most ladies dream man.He should just be neat,God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys).Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there,has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their patners and they are loved back equally. Married women pls im waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think im looking for a rich guy,believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs,but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head.So my problem is not even money.Im so sick and tired

TV01:
Are you irretrievably dull ? What you wrote up there is akin to saying "my bank doesn't allow overdrafts, therefore it's ok to steal" . Let me ask you - does the bible permit or condone abuse?


You persist. If you desist, you remain happy to be separated - their is no divorce, and separation (and even if you forcefully claim divorce), does not grant one leave to re-marry. Else both the remarrying spouse and the person they enter into a sham union with are committing adultery . All simple and clear from the scriptures .


Refer to your BIBLE - Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth (and while one is still on it) . There are no abusive marriages, only abusive people . Don't marry them and your marriage won't be abusive. Learner .

Not only are you campaigning for Christian divorce, you are also blaspheming and adding/subtracting from the scriptures.

You are arguing that divorce is scripturally permmisable. If divorce is permmisable, then serial divorce is permmisable. If divorce is allowed then the scripture is broken

1 Corinthians 7:39 - A wife is bound as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes...

Romans 7 - 1 Do you not know, brothers and sisters—for I am speaking to those who know the law—that the law has authority over someone only as long as that person lives? 2 For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him. 3 So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man.


Your audience are the cohort of divorcees and people with "bend down and pick spouses". They are here talking about how the bible can be interpreted in "different ways" - as if covetousness, theft, lies and adultery are ambiguous .


You have categorised 4+ types of abuse - at what degree of abuse is divorce scriptural for each (and any other you care to mention) category. Who decides how much? Is it subjective, or is there some objective rule?

We are not in deep waters yet and you already appear to be panicking . Well, at least you'll have big audiences of seeker type religionists who live to have their feelings tickled and wicked ways validated. Awon oni "itching ears"


TV

LadyMercedes:
Also, avoid getting third parties involved in your private marital issues.

Tomorrow, they'll come to Nairaland and open a senseless thread about how people are "stealing" their spouses ACROSS THE CONTINENT.

VictorRomanov:
U need a parachute when u intend to jump off a plane. Who boards a commercial plane with the intension of jumping off?

thesicilian:
Marital infidelity is sexual immorality/unfaithfulness in marriage. And I think its the only ground for divorce recognized by Jesus Christ while he was physically on earth.

But I say that a man who divorces his wife, unless
she has been unfaithful, causes her to commit
adultery. And anyone who marries a divorced
woman also commits adultery.
- Matthew 5:32 (New Living Translation)

soonest:
Consistent physical abuse is a ground for divorce in my dictionary any time any day.

Anas09:
Why nasty? Marriage is for everyone.

Allwility:
For a family of four living in downtown Lagos, I believe 70k- 90k will comfortably foot feeding and utility expenses. Don't forget most of the soups you cook at home don't get exhausted that same day.
I remember back then as a corp member, while complaining about my meagre N19800 allawi, a wise woman told me not to complain any further...that there were families that didnt earn that much yet found a way to survive. It all boils down to your financial management and home keeping skills

crackhaus:
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