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Quote for her the Bible verse about not depriving your partner. She needs to sit up.

If that doesn't work tell her you would soon buy a sex doll or dummy vagina... If she continues actually buy a dummy vagina. Check zee virtual media or something like that.

It's enough reason to suspect her. She definitely has something to hide. Thats the simple answer to your question.
How you choose to handle depends on how much you love her or how much sh#t you are willing to take.

[quote author=modele2 post=66406662][/quote]forgot to mention I was a Virgin at almost 30. Hubby was first on wedding night.

So please don't deceive people

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"THERE IS NO BETTER JOY"?

INCLUDING HAVE $1B IN YOUR BANK ACCOUNT??

THIS IS HOW WE RECOGNIZE THEM. UGLY, BROKEN, MENTALLY & PHYSICALLY POOR PEOPLE. [/quote this your yarn funny and is stewpid.

. Because you are not into the emotional shit that comes with sleeping with guys you are more focused on more important things. Like your books.

I can talk because... I made a first class in Engineering and I can feed my family as well as extended families both ways without loosing sweat. And my hubby respects the hell out of me as he knows he's the only one that has been there. And of course no unfocused mumu man comes my way so my hubby is the cream of the pack

When did Muslims start wearing white wedding gowns.

Tell him you want to move out in February and give him one months rent. When talking be with the money.
Its also fair you give notice when you are about to leave.
I have done this before and it worked. Every body was happy

Tell him you want to move out in February and give him one months rent. When talking be with the money.
Its also fair you give notice when you are about to leave.

Lolllll. The topic of this post is very malicious and was obviously floated by an anti catholic.
There was No apparition. All that was reported was that the sun seemed to dance. Become very bright, dim, bright in an unusual pattern. In Fatima 100years ago, an apparition was followed by a similar sign... For Fatima the sun seemed o be falling from the sky.
Before an apparition is agreed to be real there are even investigation steps that should be followed. This has not been done for this so called sighting. So Mary bashers keep quiet abeg.

This news needs to be verified. Someone somewhere is just fermenting trouble. It reeks of fake news

lomaxx:
I really hate it when Nigerians despise the efforts of medical professionals, when they want to tell their stories. The so-called testimonies are half truths, carefully concocted not to be a lie but leaving out the salient events.

You had PCOS. When you have PCOS, ovulation is hampered. So there's no way she could have had a child. What doctors do is when someone with PCOS is ready to have a child, ovulation is induced with a drug, and the couple can have a child.

The mere fact that she has twins is a possible pointer to the fact that ovulation was induced by the doctor. Multiple pregnancies that are not genetically gotten are mostly due to induced ovulation during the treatment for PCOS.

So madam, we are not saying you shouldn't thank God, but give credit to whom credit is due. It is a doctor that managed your condition and has helped you to have children. There's no benefit denigrating them and acting like they didn't do anything

I mostly Agree with you. God ultimately is to thank, but I it's good to tell the full story also for others in a similar predicament. I sometimes see such stories as deceit.

amliftedhigher:
A little of what transpired between us two days ago. In one of the people we want to use for our wedding, the person she recommended charge a huge amount of money which I can not pay, then I contacted my sisters to look for other person's we can use lo and behold they found people with a big difference in price variations so I decide to settle with the ones my sister recommended hence they will render same quality of services. Immediately I told her the latest, she started grumbling and saying that my sisters are controlling me that they can't come to her own family and decides what happens, I was shocked to hear that again after I caution her some months back for using this same language. My brethren 400k and 280k are they same thing? This is just a tip of her yelling about my sisters. My sisters don't know about this oh now, as am writing now my elder sister called me now and was telling me to make sure that I give My wife money to select a good wedding gown . They even told me last time that I should make sure I buy car for her before she born her first child to lessen the stress of her carrying a child in Keke or bike or Taxi. What do we call this?

Now I understand. You are turning your decisions into a tripartite thing. When you get married it's you ND your wife. She has to feel her place as the madam of the house..
It's your fault. You are causing this resentment. You should not have told her let me ask my sisters. My sisters this my sisters that.... It makes you look like a man being controlled by his sisters.

When you receive advice from your sis your wife doesn't have to know the source. Put yourself in her shoes. If she tells you let me ask my brother or let me ask my daddy. My daddy said this, my brother said that. They should not be players in your marriage. Manage it well and put her at a pedestal, let her feel she is in control of her own territory.

As for visits, people are different. I have 6 sisters in law from both sides. I have only spoken to some once this year. But I would do anything I can for them and go out of my way for them when the need arises. I feel I should not interfere with their affairs. My husband even says I love his family more than him sef.

GreatUniben:
Despite all the bad news about housemaid, people still keep them. No matter how busy I am, no matter how rich I am and no matter how lazy my wife may be, which I know she is not, I will never patronize housemaid. I will assist my wife all alone and by myself.

Amen. Let's have this conversation a wife and 2 to 3 kids later

Rorachy:
As in eh, I can't even imagine a life with someone on 35k salary, he wants to subject the poor girl to a life of penury.

Women should learn to make their own money too. Let her graduate and make something for her self. It's a team

Great post. Thanks for sharing.

It must not be Mtn. Try others. It's not uncommon though some villages in Bayelsa have the same issue, but glo is at least present there

shaybebaby:
Hate to say this but if you are of the mindset that the act is overrated, then you ARE missing something. I'm not saying it's due the lack of experience before marriage.

Perhaps I am. But the advantages make it a no brainer. Something has got to give.. Opportunity cost. Choice. As I said I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever

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Why do i feel bad .......that its a Nigerian that would sell out their entire race

My thoughts were the advantages of getting a masters is to get a well paying job...so if you have the well paying job what is the masters for. But those are my thoughts. If you are very academic in thinking ....so much that looking at books can fill your tummy. Then by all means go for the masters. But don't say I didn't warn you. Things are really hard...

You know when you just had a conversation and you feel suddenly depressed and upset. That's just how I feel right now.
I bought a gloline because I had to work in a location where unfortunately only their network works. Loaded 500 nairn credit and it vanished. Well I didn't need the phone till the next week. observed I didn't cancel the data subscription. So I traced one of the texts on how to stop it. Text 'Cancel' to 127. I did that. Then loaded 500 bucks it vanished again. I called the customer care.

I have never heard such a rude, nasty individual on customer care. I didn't get her name unfortunately. That I should have sent cancel all in caps. But that was not what the message said and I tried to give the feed back and....'is there anything else....very rude. Raises her froggy voice at me. Cuts me mid sentence as if is am a fool and not even a single apology. I tot MTN had issues but I have never experienced this kind of outright rudeness . Are they being owes salaries or something....well its their luck that they are the only network here I would have thrown away the sim. Foolish staff spoiling people's business. Yet at the month end they want salary.

The duty of a wife should be in line with the expectation of the husband. For some men the wife is for cooking and cleaning. To each his own

The book now come with CDs as well. You can just watch the one that is required for your situation. ITs the only method i use, if used well, its darned effective.

I wonder if the op read his post sef...you need to read it as a third party to really ask yourself why u are attracted to bad behaviour. Na wa oh.

The excuse sounds plausible to me sha...

OVERDUE.

Before the Rawandan massacre, there was a radio station..............

eaglejay13:
Are all these things not happening in Nigeria presently?

That's the point. They also happen in the 'biafran' regions of nigeria. So nothing will change.the greed would continue. So no point shedding blood over it

Just got home. My kids rife with tales of gun fire ,fear on the teachers' faces and heavy smoke. While kanus children are cozy ing up in the UK. This madness has to stop.

I find it very baffling the way people have reacted to this brain washing. The chief cause of the followership is simple HUNGER, POVERTY and JOBLESSNESS, because i something has to mask the obvious. I could be wrong; I once asked a member of IPOB the following questions, he had no answer, he just kept saying ' we would see, you people should watch' , that was over 5 months ago. Here are the questions, open to whoever has answers

1. Are the other niger delta states a party to this, or is it by force?
2. Have you realised that the igbos are the most travelled and enterprenual, they have businesses all over Nigeria, have they tot of how this move would affect the numerous hardworking igbos not based in the South East?
3. In which of the SEast states have they seen growth of any kind, hiniting at the kind of growth they would experience when independent. With respect to resource sharing, has that little one yeilded fruit of any kind? Aba is a case study, that place is pure poo. Have our past govenors been people from the North or West, abi are they still our Igbo people? Whats on their score card.
4. Have Igbos been ever known to be united?Even between igbo tribes and clans there is still seggregation, squables , fight, what is the assurance that if there is a Biafra teh nkanu man would not fight for supremacy against the Ogbia man or the Ikwere man..My people this can never solve the problem. An Enugu man thinks an Anambra man is always cheating him....we have different scenarios of discention even among the tribes.
5. From experience when you speak igbo in a market to an igbo trader, they would still cheat you, no nwanne for anything, is this the same with the other tribes?

Nigerians should not be decieved by an insultive fellow seeking for cheap popularity, hiding out in UK, with a foreign wife and British passport fermenting trouble. There is no law in any land where the offence he has committed is not treason or punishable by law. Why have we turned to the jews that are crying out for Barrabas.

I dont know about others, but the scars of the civil war are still fresh. I lost dear family in that war and i wish my dear people would look for an alternative to their hunger and fustration. Biafra would not solve this problem. Lets see what is happening in Syria, Central african republic, Sudan....I wish us peace above all else.

MinorityTribe:
This is why i support sex before marriage. Everything must be explore before you decide to tie the knot, This is your life partner goddammit! This is yet another "No sex till marriage" relationship ending in shambles.

The problem is the man's physic. Body...she can see him before marriage. She made her chioce..she just does not love the man.the body thing is just a useless excuse..
I am replying to your post because it's precisely because she has sampled many men that she has an issue now. #teamnosexbeforemarriage. It's the best believe me. A living eexample

Bad friends. " since ure guy has been abroad what has he sent you"...she might be too young to even understand how hard it can be there.
2nd if u met a hotter nicer chic there are you sure you would not port?
3rd had you made any promises to her. How deep was ur relationship or were ur just using her to pass time. Did you engage her or ask for marriage? I think it's unfair that a woman is asked to put all her eggs in a basket even when the basket has no bottom. The level of security you have given her would tell how devoted she should have been to you.


I once had a friend. I tot we were on the marriage page. I was relocating and asked him for a ring to show commitment. He told long story . He wasn't ready. Well I relocated and met someone who wanted to die because of me.i ported. Well it so happened that the new guy had more money..everyone was unfairly alluding to that.unfair because i was making my own good money...i need nothing material from a man. FACT.My friend wan die...I became a wicked girl to all our mutual friends. But I all dam a woman I have limited time for a guy.the same friends would feel sorry if am 40 and unmarried. No one knew that within the relationship I did not feel I have reached home..I couldn't anchor. I don't know your girlfriends own story but the type of relationship can also cause this.

Money is a given like saying he should be a man.....its simply basic.All the other qualities are on top of money. It does not have to be loads but at least enough to get by....why does a man who is on ground zero want a woman. It's even against the laws of nature and God sef. How will he provide.

For me
1. Love and fear God.
2. Very clean..clean shaven.neat hair.no dreds. Afro or the likes.
3. Intelligent and smart. Have zero patience for low in
4.he must be funny
5. Alergic to mediocrity.

I had tot part of the procedure was cutting it off. They are not serious then. Mschew

These kind of stories are an insult to readers and display our foolishness in this part of the world.