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germanized:
As a matter of fact, in recent times, acting on hints and green lights has proven to be the worst trap a man can fall into.

All these feminists looking for who to accuse of verbal or sexual harassment after giving you green light to approach them... Please don't mind them ooo

My guys, if a lady likes you, let her say it with her mouth, c'est fini!

franchasng:
My golden advice to ladies who have the gut to initiate the move towards a guy they like or find interesting....note; my counsel will come in two ways; one for those doing it in real life and for those doing it through online/internet.

Real Life approach:

Girl to guy: stare at him continuously and smile....when he catches u staring, intentionally turn your eyes away laughing, do this repeatedly but make sure he sees you clearly each time you stare, but never walk up to him and say, "hi I like you can we be friends", this approach is WRONG, unless for teenagers!

Many guys will be scared unless he is a perfect playboy.

When he finally summons the courage to approach you, don't start all those mumuish iyanga torotoro

Online scenario:

you can start tagging or quoting his comments, status, etc with joking agreement to his comments and views to issues of discussion, and maybe with time, you can message him like this: "wow, I really enjoy reading your views , so funny and interesting, though awkward at times, keep it up, from one of your secret fans"

Every sensible guy will get the clue and take it up from there without you exposing yourself to ridicule or drama

Eberex:
Giving to the poor is not a bad thing but the Bible's instruction is clear. What the church does with it is none of your business. Besides if you aare attending a church where you feel they don't need your tithe, why then are you attending that church?

Truckpusher:
If a female student approaches a lecturer for marks , he’s got every right and tool at his disposal to refer her to ethics committee.

By doing this other students won’t dare approach him for marks.

Truckpusher:
Are you seriously writing this for public consumption?
Little wonder this country won’t forward any time yet.

He deserves all he’s getting and it will serve as a deterrent to other randy lecturers in our schools.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I wonder why this was posted in crime sectionI am sure if the reverse was the case you would applaud the man and call the lady all sort of disrespectful names.Double standard mentality is not good.Now it is the lady you are believing she would end up in shiloh.You claim to be a christian yet you support infidelity on the part of men in a relationship or marriage.
Not every lady would manage a second hand for a husband.A failed relationship would always be better than a failed marriage.It is not every man that is a community joystick like the ones you know do not worry her Mr right would come.She would wait for him in her own house not her parents.

Saff:
Lol trust me that they won’t answer your question, Only one has, and his list was full of nonsense.

funmisticqueen:
i have a question that has been bugging me and it is frequently asked to ladies and never asked to you. WHAT DO GUYs HAVE TO OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS OF VALUE TO THE OTHER PARTY?

Your answers will be highly appreciated. arguments are welcome. insults are not.

Cc
highqueen
missraine69
saff
iamD18
iamPlato
lefulefu
resurgent4oodua

Colourich:
I'm not a feminist, but don't tell ladies how to direct their home, maybe if you are busy with your home, you won't have time to nag about other ladies home, what worked for you might not work for them, also some men don't like taking charge.

backnbeta:
Actually, when you train your boy child to be a responsible man, he subsequently becomes a responsible husband and father, same goes for a well trained girl child. Imagine a society where the men are trained to play the role of good husbands and the women are trained to be good wives...

Nature has bestowed the role of family head on the men, and that of home keeper on the women...nobody is dragging that. We just hope as the women continue to respect and honor them, the men pay back with love and kindness.

swiz123:
This is very wrong. How could a colonel chose to behave like an uncivilized tout.

How can you slap Someone for verbally abusing you?
She could have sued the policeman for his uncouth manner towards her.

I sincerely hope if it were the policeman who hit the lady for verbally abusing him, you guys would still support him.

Stupid hypocrites

highqueen:
Africans men and marriage shaming.

madridguy:
With IMMUNITY CLAUSE I don't see Nigeria move an inch in the next century.

Governor, Ganduje should be on hot sit now if not the useless clause.

sarrki:
Apc should not field him after this

He should be replaced

The anti corruption should start from him

seunmsg:
How many jobs did he create as Anambra state governor? Atiku once served as chairman of National planning council, National council on privatisation, economic management team, how many jobs did he create? They should show us the number of jobs they created while in office and stop trying to deceive the people.

ijustdey:
http://petrobarometer.thecable.ng/2018/10/25/budget-office-nnpc-paying-n53-subsidy-every-litre-petrol/

... And that explains why despite the strong oil prices, we are not seeing a corresponding growth in government revenue.

ChrisMafian:
The judge shouldn't be lenient with this thief. God won't even forgive the criminal for how he looted Ekiti dry.
All PDP corrupt politicians will be jailed once baba wins in 2019

seunmsg:
We all criticized the government that gave youths cobbler equipment and abused Ortom when he empowered Benue youths with wheelbarrow. We should condemn this as well.

AdorableJosh:
Non consensual public masturbation is a sexual harrasment

epelumi42:
Of course. I still think the subject of cooking and house chores should be the least of concerns. Seriously, if your wife comes home late and you arrive early, what's stopping you from cooking for her. We tend to make a mountain from unnecessary molehills.

Who even made cooking a Feminine role in the first place? Who said men can't be better cooks?

epelumi42:
Nope. You shouldn't.

epelumi42:
You asked about cooking.

epelumi42:
Cooking should be the least thing couples argue about. Truth is that the society made our mothers, sisters, and women cooks and our fathers, man of the parlor. No. When we were bachelors, we cooked, and that debate shouldn't start after marriage except you're marrying an househelp. You should lend an assisting hand. Be together in the kitchen. Teach your male children to help out in the kitchen. Everyone should learn basic survival skills -- culinary skills especially.

If you get home early before your wife, what's stopping you from preparing dinner? It's all about love. I love my wife enough to ensure she's not hungry. To pamper her. To satisfy her and make her happy. Will she be lazy because of that? No. She'd learn to appreciate and give her best too, which is what you'd expect from a wise woman.

sarrki:
All of a sudden we are not hearing zoo and Biafra anymore

Self deceit is worse than HIV

dominique:
Well, releasing people's nudes is a cyber crime and a punishable offense. But what is being done to the one bathing with blood in the middle of the night? They're making him the victim in all these.

trustyshoess:
I know the difference and I was in fact talking about the gender pay gap. Gender discrimination in employment is one of the causes of the gender pay gap

epelumi42:
I feel offended by this post and here is why:

Many Nigerian ladies don't understand the concept of feminism and that's fine. A plus for your post, but the fact that you chose to create a stereotype is crazy.

feminism does not indicate men-hating, it means giving women equal chances and opportunities as men. That women should not be assigned tasks just because they are women and men should not think they are superior because they are men. Feminism tries to remove the concept of man's world.

It is evident that many men here are threatened by the idea of having women who believe in gender equality. Feminism is about empowering women, not making them subjects. But does that mean you can't spend on a woman? So because a woman wants gender equality, you shouldn't help her out? That's basically what lovers should do for each other. They don't do it because they think they are superior to each other, but that they love each other.

This post is practically insinuating that feminism is nonsense and judging by the way people responded here, many men are threatened by the idea of women not submitting to their wills. jeez...

LabiTalks:
It is not laundering oga, dont say what you don't know. Even if you want to change it to that, was that the caption given to the post. Dont confuse people. Do a google search of what Money Laundering is, and try to understand it.

LabiTalks:
Please tell me where bribe was mentioned in the video. Give a better evidence. Why do we like making case with a deniable evidence. I am in no support of the guy, but common, dont just say He took bribe with this kind of video. As far as I am concerned, their is nothing incriminating about this. Most of these Governors move about with a lot of cash, so what is so special about it. I was thinking I will hear audio with matching lip movement. Please try with something better.