₦airaland Forum

AroleOduduwa:
How did People like sagay and Osinbajo got their doctorate of law? It baffles me because they sound dull most of the time and not articulated.

I disagree. Osibanjo is well articulated and tries his best to salvage the situations.

Sagay and Keyamo on the other hand are just stupid.

BeiFangLaye:
You should be ashamed of yourself

He is a disgrace to his profession to be honest.

You insult other contenders, belittle them and the debate itself.

At least GEJ's clueless-ness went hand-in-hand with his humility.

PMB's arrogance combined with his utter clueless-ness and borderline imbecility is nauseating.

Gandollar:
Infact all other presidential candidates should boycott too.

to be honest sagay has insulted bothe the candidates and the debate making the debate lose relevance.

I always knew PMB would avoid the debate

oyi1:

It is a generalised stereotype that blacks pull each other down and white's push themselves up.

no stat supports this narration

I doff my hats for Kemi. It almost seemed I was the one writing it.

That I respect your independence to make a decision does not mean i have to agree with the decision... and this includes both transactor and transactee.

Due to lack of discipline, I even do things i consider shameful and disrespect-worthy. does that mean i agree that those things are right? NO. Should i continue to consider them wrong/shameful even if I do them? YES
is this hypocrisy? NO

Daeylar:
But that's what I saw that MGTOW were trying to achieve.
I browsed out MGTOW on google and it said some even avoid talking to women.

lol I hear they are different levels. Those who avoid talking to women are just bitter.

I can understand not wanting emotional relationships with women but not talking to women will be crazy

TheMoniker:
Rape is bad we all know.
You don’t want to get raped?
[s]1. Stop collecting gifts from men that are not your family members.
2. Don’t go clubbing with men, save money and go to club with your friends (girls)
3. Don’t drink together with men and expect them to pay.
4. Don’t go visit someone you know or even barely know (men)
5. Stay on your lane.[/s]
No one can come to your fathers house and rape you if you are not a “thief” yourself.
I bet you it might be a deal go wrong thus she’s trying to play the victim. Motherfučkíñg bleaching b1tch.

We should simply stop raping those who do not obey your rules 1-5.

Flouting those rules does not amount to consent

Daeylar:
I thought the entire purpose of MGTOW was to stay away from women completely?
They avoid women, they avoid dating women, they avoid sex with women.

So i would think Men who consider themselves MGTOW would not even feature in this conversation since they have no business with women in the first place. After all they aren't interested in sex with any woman, transactional or otherwise.

well for many of them, it simply means, stay away from emotional relationships with women.

while for others, both emotional and sexual relationships.

It would be impracticable and near impossible to stay away from another gender.

seunmsg:
In what appears like a subtle shade, Rwandan President Paul Kagame took to Twitter to advice Ngozi Okonjo Iweala to write another book on, “Not fighting corruption is even more dangerous “.

This message also goes to all lovers of corruption like Peter Obi who feels we should concentrate on opening shops alone and allow rogues to plunder our resources without restrain. We cannot make any progress as a nation until we collective battle the menance of corruption.

One has to be really dishonest to be able to twist NOI's message or not so intelligent to be unable to understand that Kagame agrees with NOI.

GlorifiedTunde:
Thanks. I'll do that.

Is that be the case, then we may like to cut PMB some slack for engaging on a dangerous mission, even though it's still more one-sided

indeed

GlorifiedTunde:
True

And this is the NOI some people are shouting about?

Well, I'll need to read the book to understand the reason for this title.

she meant fighting corruption is a dangerous mission because corrupt elements will fight back. The book was about corruption fighting back.

Try not to twist her words when you read it

pocohantas:
I do not think a responsible girl would be fighting publicly. Looks like they have a history and she was unfortunate to be outnumbered.

would we ask this question if it were 4 guys gang beating her in the same scenario that looks like they have a history?

pocohantas:
Lol, so now it is not violence but defending his girl? What happened to taking his girl out of that place. He had to start fighting like a lovestruck ninja. What did his girl even do to be GANG BEATEN.



Lmao, Clash of the Titans.

are we going to be asking what people did to deserve violence?

Paxie55:
Lol.
Well, the attention light skinned ladies get is why ladies with low self esteem tend to bleach their skin.
Nothing concern me though, I called out the hypocrisy of some men.

but their skin will nbever be naturally light for most of them and these same guys can spot this and then they are still below light skin girls in the pecking order

MariaLavina:
Please let's call a spade a spade! Men aren't responsible for anything. The problem here is YOU! Any Lady that changes her skin colour because she wants to be seen and appreciated lacks self esteem! Her self value is zero!

So black skinned aren't appreciated, yet black women get married every weekends.Are they marrying themselves?
Black women aren't valued yet the rant and cliché' Black is beautiful' is everywhere. Abeg ii !
Black is neglected yet Agbani and that Angola lady won miss world.
Let's hear word jare! It's high time ladies start working on their inner minds than their bodies. No one can make you feel bad about yourself if you don't give them permission to.

QED !!!

Paxie55:
But truth be told, Nigerian men are hypocrites.
They will advice the dark ladies not to bleach, but keep going after the fair ones.

If they wanna do video shoot, na fair ladies.
Miss this or that, na fair ladies.
So, what encouragement are you giving the dark skinned ones.


My dad married fair woman cos he loves fair ladies, my bro wants to follow suit.
So,what options do you guys have for the dark skinned ones for encouragement.
Op, I think it's their body too, let's mind our business.

why should you live for someone else's encouragement.

For your last sentence, the problem is that the bleached ladies typically look worse than both the dark skinned ladies and the naturally fair ladies so the initial motivation of "Men prefer fair skinned ladies" does not hold water.

sassysure:
Wise saying.
Talk is so cheap. For an average dark skinned girl whom 10 guys have asked out for a date in a year, the fair skinned girl must have gotten the same requests from 20 and counting.
Yet, they love dark skin. Add those that asked the dark girl out too.
Quite hypocritical.

personally I am attracted to dark skin. A light skinned lady has to be very very beautiful to catch my fancy.

I reckon there's a lot of Nigerian guys like me out there. I would say 40% at least of Nigerian men between the ages of 20-40 prefer dark skinned ladies.

Awww !!! Love is a beautiful thing

you will find some self-professed feminists saying that the lady is a Misandrist and that change of surname after marriage has nothing to do with feminism.

... and then you will find others that will say this has everything to do with feminism.

So many different understanding of feminism.

My personal take is that there should be no coercion and peeps should be completely honest with their expectations regarding the change of surname. If you do not want to change your surname after marriage, say so. and if you expect your spouse to change her surname after marriage, let her know early so she knows if it is something she can cope with.

swiz123:
I was passing by a street which boasted of irritating brothels like week Sunday. Some dirty prostitutes rather accosted me with their stale "I go do you well".

I quietly told them that I wasn't interested but one of them had the nerve to squeeze my little nipples. I was so mad that I wanted beat her to oblivion.

But, what if I had done what I wanted to do, who would take sides with me? Heck!, they could even beat me up or even worse, hand me over to the police.

Men are seriously at disadvantage in this country.

True. Prostitutes are fond of touching (especially squeezing nipples) while wooing clients. They would get a slap from someone soon.

StOla:
It seems only the SouthEast and parts of the SouthSouth consider the 16yrs of PDP federal power as a success. Hence, the slavery to PDP servitude.

The same 16yrs where there was no electrical power, no good roads, no working refinery, no dignifying healthcare, Police and Military brutality, zero regard for human life, chronic corruption, comatose education that saw Nigerian students opting for Ghana, etc.

I am not saying APC has fared better in 3+yrs in those same factors, what I am saying is what manner of a self-hating people would have wanted the PDP to continue past its 16yrs of failure, yet are daily lamenting over APC's 3yrs of failure such that they are determined to have PDP back in power to do what they never did in 16yrs?

How people rationalise 16yrs of failure as the best the nation has to offer and should be reengaged with federal power, is the extreme of mass mental slavery.

well you consider Ganduje a success so I am not surprised. It is a Dog-Eat-Dog situation.

what makes us better rational beings is our capacity to discipline our passions or cravings.

Difficult for some passions but nonetheless possible. There are those who have lived chaste lives so it is possible.

Biglittlelois:
Preach!! they open their dirty mouth saying men are wired to cheat bla bla bla but when ladies go for only rich guys, they call them different kind of names, forgetting they themsleves are male oloshos

then please do call them (us) male oloshos

Biology + evolution + culture

Both male original poster and the female responder are right

Eponyeeboz:
If that lady starts an NGO campaigning against sexual harassment, she would go farther than any job can push her.

she is not the hero here.

The professor was tried for abuse of office: a crime against the state.

Let's not forget that Monica attempted to influence her marks positively by seeking an unprofessional audience with the lecturer. Unless i read the story false:

Phone call excerpts:

“... Me that agreed to do something. I know what I meant. If you don’t trust me forget about it. If I wouldn’t do it, why should I give you audience in the first place. If I am not interested in doing it, I won’t give you audience. “The other person has come and I told her straight away because there is nothing I can do to bail that person out and her mark is even better than your own. The person scored 39 while your own is 33...”

She finally failed the course amongst other courses and was de-registered from the school as she couldn't complete her degree in the stipulated time. That was her last year and was the desperation the randy Prof. wanted to take advantage of.

Nnemuka:
Only a mother knows the father of her child.
Stop masturbating over gift an Linda's post.

A mother might not know the father of her child if she had multiple sex partners in short time periods.

only DNA knows the father of a child.

dominique:
I wouldn't call her a rapist but she deserves to be arrested for releasing a sensitive video without consent of the other party. That's a cyber crime

It ain't rape. rape requires penetration. it is sexual harassment though.

Non consensual kiss is sexual harassment

CilicMarin:
On Lagos and the Igbos: The narrative that Lagos dislikes the Igbos is extremely false.

Oh yes, Lagos does not dislike the Igbos, your political establishment does. The royal utterance of 2015 is still fresh on the mind of the entire electorate.

the FashFromEgba guy is so wise and matured

FarahAideed:
Na lie ..your son must tot in that US jail , you should have thought of this when you radicalized him at home

how did he radicalise him at home.

He was the one that whistle blew

kolnel:
Nice

Pity that Nigeria is not ripe for people like this
This are people with manifestos
Unlike the fugitive from adamawa whose agenda is massive looting

well the other one from Daura hasn't even said anything sensible about his plans to talk of a Manifesto

pocohantas:
I honestly do not understand this new trend of bringing God into shameless acts. Like God is now a fancy word.

You will see a known runs-girls posting bible verses and how God is merciful. God is indeed merciful, if not... how do their vaginas withstand all that rigor.

Even yahoo-boys-ritualists will be praising God too. If God were like some NLders I know, so many people will be dead by now.

we all have different ideas and understanding of God