₦airaland Forum

seanfer:
They called PMB a tyrant, With what Mama Taraba said about Atiku she is still in the Cabinet, Udom should have let the man resign on his own, I see this as a plan to make the state Governor look like He’s pained about the defection, And Akpabio and his Men will use little things like this against him

it is within PMB's rights to fire his ministers. That is not dictatorship.

Definitely a step in the right direction by the Presidency and APC.

The impunity was getting out of hand

alhassanyusuf29:
your epistle is filled with "allegations",Buhari can't act or presume somebody is corrupt base on mere allegations,untill the court proves Akpabio is corrupt,Buhari can't stop Akpabio from decamping to APC

then saraki, tinubu, etc. are not corrupt

Ebuka2016:
Catholics have been doing certain things wrong from the onset. It is written, 'thou shall not carve for yourself images of stone or wood to bow down to/worship'. Catholics blantantly go against this in the name of showing reverence/respect to the person whose image is being revered. Even the Pope is considered Infallible (sinless). How is that? Pple should not swallow things said to them without thinking it through. Your salvation is in your hands, not in the hands of your Pope or religious leaders.

infallibility does not mean sinless-ness. The pope can (and i would bet does) sin. The catholics define infallibility as his exemption from error when he speaks ex-cathedra (in his capacity as head of the church) on a matter of doctrine

richeeyo:
Bro that's what i still don't get about the catholics, don't they see that part of the Bible?

they see it in the bible but as scriptures are subject to interpretation, they have an alternative interpretation of that scripture. they interprete it that the scripture does not refer to due worship to God or reverence for sacramentals that symbolize God. anything in the heavens could be an image of the moon or star etc.

The typical catholic man who bows before the cross bows to God and not the cross. He only uses the cross as a symbol. Symbolism is quite complex and a little of it is in all of us.

haven't you seen people using their bibles to block spiritual attacks. that is an example of symbolism. Many people will consider irreverence to the bible or a cross to be sinful. e.g. spitting on a cross or on the bible

kimbraa:
Why are you lot so hypocritical in what you say? A lady claims it's normal for men to cheat and that women should understand and keep being good wives simply because he isn't robbing it on her face, and you immature lot call that maturity? The question is, would you be comfortable if your wife is cheating and doesn't rob it on your face or would you be comfortable if your wife is cheating at all?

Where do you lot get this skewed mentality of what marriage is and what the vows does in the institution? I'm ashamed of exchanging words with that lady and your likes. And she lacks self-worth! Only a lady who lacks self-worth would make such a silly statement.

I think she was trying to paint a realistic picture but the problem with her statement was the word "normal". "Normal" makes it look both prevalent and right instead of just being prevalent. Normal makes it look like a common problem we should accept rather than one we should try to solve.

Cheating is men is prevalent but it isnt ideal and is a problem that should be solved.

Dami12345:
I really don't get it, so just because you didn't want to have sex and someone insisted you went and killed yourself?

Just stupid. Just stupid.
Men get raped nothing happens, men get into bad situation and they survive.
Even stronger. They lose homes , lives , friends, wives, limbs, everything and yet they still keep fighting.

Just because you weren't in the mood for sex and someone insisted you killed yourself?
Girls are really spoilt and weak.

What rubbish.

not everyone is the same. Becsuse some men handled their rape trauma better doesnt mean you should be insensitive to others.

sonsomegrigbo:
The pigs will not like this...












Igbos betraying their people since the time of Alexander the great!








Igbo amaka! Just give them food and you are good to go

Akpabio isn't Igbo.

Positivepoint:
Modu Sheriff was brought from another party; they said he had three jets; he had billions, but what did he do? He was taking the party down, but I, the ‘bush boy,’ with the support of others, I was able to make members close ranks, and today, we can all see”, he said

Not surprised, its always about money to PDP...Shame. We nigerian masses ve decided that any person or people that will put their interest ahead of nigeria must be resisted by all means.

ditto for APC. There are outsiders we can consider to be honest

buhariguy:
buhari is so humble.

OMG !!! You fell for the sarcasm. I now understand the meaning of the word "zombie"

pocohantas:
Monex why did you share this post? Are you planning to vote for Buhari? ?

definitely not. I however agree Buhari will win. He is a cult-like figure in the core-north. They have the numbers and the PVCs for the south seem to be stressful to collect unlike the north.

I am voting Kingsley Moghalu though. I prefer to vote my conscience irrespective of the person's chance of winning. I refused to vote either GEJ or Buhari in 2015 for same reasons too.

Born2Breed:
BREAKING: Court of Appeal has set aside the judgment of the FHC which nullified the Electoral Act Amendment Bill altering sequence of elections.


https://twitter.com/adeyanjudeji/status/1024653644879355904



https://www.google.com.ng/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2018/08/a-court-clears-coast-for-nass-to-re-order-2019-election-sequence/amp/

Daura ko Aso ni.

Buhari returns in 2019.

....Unfortunately for most of us

RexTramadol1:
In the beginning..... You pretended to be an agnostic




Later, you started showing your stand




You see, stand for what you believe in and stop pretending to be objective



You're APC apologetic, simple....



People will know ow to skip whatever you're typing since it's plainly not objective like that of some other BMCs like you e.g Sarrki.

indeed

Sparkle777:
Terrible, I have never encountered SARS in a negative way but the way guys dey complain abt dem don dey vex me. On a good side, I have seen them confront armed robbers,they did well that day.
Now to the Taxify driver, it is compulsory to have a sound car,he should have checked the car properly before going out. I would have also suspected them if i was the Alice woman too. He also has his blame..

it is rational to suspect him but it is also rational to allow normal investigations which include checking the airport.

Cars can mess up anytime

FriendNG:
Why didn't he invite a Christian for handshake also. That's what pigs will say.

only you would say that as the biggest bigot of them all. Even worse than the pigs

NgeneUkwenu:
Now we have a Chairman..

Let's see how Saraki will take over Kwara State without the instruments of the STATE..

Kwara, Benue and Sokoto States about to be liberated from bad leadership..

Wow ! so Tambuwal is no longer a good leader. Same Tambuwal you lots celebrated in 2014/2015. Anybody against your party's selfish interest is a bad leader. lol.

Pro-Buharists - Do not mistake your love for a Buhari or a Tinubu as Love for Nigeria.
Pro-Saraki/Pro-PDP - do not think fighting for Saraki translates to a fight for democracy.

It's a galore of selfish interests everywhere !!!

pocohantas:
Marriage is not the 'greatest' achievement of a woman. Though that post failed to respect choice, it had some truth in it. It doesn't mean marriage isn't desirable. Some of you just close your head to reasoning when you want to bash ladies, even when the implicit meaning of the post is easy for a foetus to figure out.

If you have any of your responsible friend that fits, connect her.
If you as a man, is aware of some tips that would help hook a brother faster, please share

Gbam !!!

Caseless:


amarabae, have you left your husband before coming to deceive other girls here?

That Marriage was important to her does not mean it should be a priority to other ladies.

Kindly respect peoples choices

Amarabae:
The Nigeria social media was recently rocked by the case of a popular newspaper carrying the headline - A mother of 5 declares for presidency
It reminds me of the chimamanda adichie "rift" with Hillary Clinton for starting her twitter bio with wife, mother.
Though the newspaper have apologized, but the incident keeps refreshing a lot of thoughts in me.
Why should marital status be a criteria to assess a woman's success?
Is marriage the greatest achievement a woman can achieve ?
What has her being a mother of 5 got to do with leadership?
The newspaper editors filled with victims of a patriarchial society felt that the only way she can be accepted by a misogynistic society is for her to sample her marital status and "mother of 5"like a World Cup trophy,
I felt bad reading that headline, inasmuch as I blame the men who love using marital status to assess a lady,
I also blame some ladies who love using marital status to judge themselves and other ladies,
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I also remembered asking 4 NYSC girls one thing they will want to achieve in the next five years, to my greatest shock, Three of them replied MARRIAGE.
And what if the marriage doesn't come, what will you do?
They kept quiet!
None of them had a dream of going for Masters degree or getting a job or starting a business ,
I don't blame them sha, they are also products of a fanatical partriachial society,
In their shallow mindset, a woman no matter how educated she is IS a failure if she is not married.
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I believe in social media activism,
To any lady reading this,
Marriage is good but not the ultimate achievement, Marriage is also not a criteria to assess your success in life.
Some women are breaking records now in academic fields, in business, in technology, in science,
You got to stand up and focus your attention on improving yourself,
If marriage comes and you are interested, fine you Marry.
But if does not come or you are not interested, hear this from me, you owe no one an explanation.
Go get those masters and PhD baby
Go start that business
Perfect yourself in that skills,
Hustle for those money, be happy sweetheart.
Condoleezza Rice is the first black to be a secretary of state and yet she is not married,
She didn't allow the "miss shaming " to get in her way, she is living her dreams.
Oprah Winfrey is the richest black woman and she is not married,
She is living her dream.
And so on,
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Let me rephrase it again, Marriage is good but should not be a criteria in which a woman should be judged with.
Stop cyber bullying single ladies,
Stop the shaming.
Answering MRS is not the greatest achievement for a woman.
Get it into your skull.
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.
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NB : stupid mentions and replies will be ignored.
Thank you.

I am assuming that this post was directed to those who single-shame others (both genders).

Beacuse it is not your place to tell a grown adult what her priority should be. if the NYSC ladies believe that marriage should be their priority then let them be. I understand Feminism is about the woman's right to choose shey? Respect her choice

pocohantas:
LOL, I feel the same way about them, but my views may be misconstrued as one coming from a place of pain[as a woman that I am na].

Marriage fails cost-benefit analysis tests for most men. I reckon same for a lot of women too. we are becoming more selfish, liberal and spoilt-for-options these days so we are likely going to see people refusing to enter commitments that fail such cost-benefit tests.

I am ok with the going one's own way ideology but they spend more time hating on women than going their own way.

pocohantas:

na only the red you see abi?

seunmsg:
Do you have access to the intelligence report at the disposal of the police and DSS? They have their reason for doing what they did and it is within their constitutional mandate. Lets wait till we hear from them instead of speculating out of political sentiments.

would you have said the same thing if it was a GEJ or some politician you dont like ? You would have called it tyranny.

you PDP & APC loyalists are funny sha

bakila:
Will the President of the Senate refuse the invitation of the police under you as President of France or Denmark?

he didnt refuse. The invitation was sent yesterday night and he was prevented from even going to report to the police.

mgtow:
Lol so everytime you need to have sex you count money to give to someone? How does that make you feel? It is financial leakages like this that make people not to progress in life even when they are seeing small change. So assuming you have sex 3 times a week you're gonna pay let's say 15k? Multiply that by 4 weeks in a month, and then a year, and see how much you throw away because of that thing you call a pènis. Do you feel smarter now?

Of course, this is the part where you form baba olowo and claim it's nothing. A sensibile person won't just dole out cash because he wants to release sperm. It's demeaning. To me at least. The only people that pay back to back for sex are those people that can't seem to get a regular girl to have sex with them. It's a little pathetic, but whatever rocks you guys' boat.

PS - I wouldn't pay someone 200k to fúck me. Why? Because I am not stewpid.

it is tough, especially when one isn't attractive, not to pay for sex and still be honest. There are those who do not want to deceive girls. The girls either have sex with them beacuse the girls want to or because the guy provides a monetary (or equivalent) payment

ibkayee:


I guess in a world where females place a high importance on the status & resources of their partner, they’re just appreciating the ones who weren’t so hung up on it and valued them as a person enough to stay.

Only time I think they ‘deserve’ it though is if they were actually instrumental in his success in some way. Otherwise, they don’t ‘deserve’ it per se in my opinion, but I guess it’s just a personal gesture of appreciation for a kind of ‘loyalty’ that isn’t commonplace

exactly. There is nothing wrong.

The question by OP should have been "is it wrong for a female to feel entitled to a reward because she stuck with her partner?"

the answer to that would easily be a "Yes it wrong"

khiaa:
Is this what MGTOW taught you? I really wish that you would stay away from their teaching. They seem so spiteful and mean.

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY is not a good idea.

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY might be a good idea but the MGTOW group is as hateful, spiteful and irrational as the women they claim to hate.

We will see more men and women going their own way in the nearest future. It seems rational to avoid emotional sexual relationships for one's sanity especially if you can do without it. What I don't like is deceit. You always need to be clear on what you would give and expect in any relationship. You can't pretend to have emotional feelings for someone when all you want is sex. That is not going your own way. That is manipulating others to help you in your path

tolufase:
Slapping another man's wife is not option. You can get her arrested and made to appologize for her wrong doing,

nope. You did not respond with disproportionate violence. he could actually slap her back.

Those saying his wife should slap her or her husband should remember that it then becomes multiple assault charges. Only the victim can respond with proportionate violence.

crafteck:
So a dream of hell is realistic to you, u probably slept in heat without electricity and your mind is playing tricks...

indeed. the question of whether Hell is a place or state is an open theological question.

However, this question is not very relevant. What is relevant is that Hell is an absence of the presence of God and that we will freely choose Hell and will not be forced into Hell.

A lot of scripture used context and imagination of the time. It is quite probable that the concept of fire used in scripture to describe hell was figurative

ebonflexy:
See the image below.
Obviously the reason she got slapped is because she decided to act like a spoilt brat in his home, throwing away his eggs after he asked her to use less. Obviously this female lacks home training and, above all, respect.

Let's be real, things are real in naija.
When you are a guest in someone's house, when you are asked to use less of something, THE APPROPRIATE RESPONSE is not to kukuma throw the whole thing away like a stupid fool. What if he wanted to use some? Did she buy it? Why throw his resources away to act stupid? Actions like that speak lowly of your upbringing and your ability to think before acting.

Make no mistake, the bitch had that slap coming.
Not because she wanted to eat 4 eggs,
Not because somebody is "broke",
Not because of poverty,
But because she clearly disrespected this man in his own home AND willfully destroyed/wasted his property over a simple cautionary request.

anything but violence as a response would have been fine.

and yes, I would say the same 9no to violence) if she slapped him for throwing her prized wig in the sewage.

Mystiquefia:
here is a simple question for you. what part of warri are WRPC, shell and chevron, Osubi airport and even shoprite located?? Is it in itsekiri land or urhobo land?

because the old warri town didnt include those parts. Those places belong to the Urhobo people.

even Airport junction, Jakpa and Enerhen is Uvwie and not part of the old warri