₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Tosyn the lucky guys on your list are the handsome and the brilliant guys...They are top on the ladder of men who do 'little' to have women chase after them. The rest are unlucky. If you need money, power and lies to get a woman, it's because you're most likely not her type all things being equal.

You forgot the influential guys. Women flock around this set for favours, e.g connections, jobs, contracts...etc.

"intelligence" can be acquired just like wealth.

heck even looks (maybe except height)

keacy:
Why will Morocco �� join the ECOWAS? Are they now in West Africa? There is a hidden Islamic agenda going on. West Africa is west Africa and not North Africa.

everything na islamaization. does islam cause you nightmares?

I hope you know there are more muslims than christians in West africa

ogaJona:
Why are they reviewing their position in ECOWAS, what threat does Morocco pose. I'm not understanding

A francophone developed country can easily monopolise the west african markets

Oyindidi:
Yes, that's what people fail to understand

well i just watched the video. This is not just faith. it is veneration. it is different from touching the cloak of Peter.

Veneration does not necessarily mean worship though. And bowing or kneeling doesn't auto-translate to worship else we will be worshiping parents and elders.

Oyindidi:
I know they sit on it to pray. I'll do same if I'm opportuned to.

ok thats faith then

johnnyn1:
daddy freeze or wettin Dem dey call you..
You are now liable to die Anytime soon...
You can't talk spiritual when you are not spiritual..

Let's all just watch and see..

Wow ! This is a direct threat. Police should be involved

Oyindidi:
Tosin, you know they are not worshipping him.
People go and sit on the chair of their Pastors with the mind of contacting the anointing/healing or whatever their problem is. Some do testify about what God did through that medium. The shadow of Peter healed the sick.

i didnt watch the video but did they kneel or bow to the chair?

validman7:
there was this argument I had with some folks way back in school that Catholics worships idol. many of them were Anglican, I happened to tell them the history of Anglican church, how King Henry left catholic to marry a 2nd wife in order to maintain his dynasty.. they couldn't believe at first. but u know google was there to help out.. they were perplexed. I told them if catholic is a sham then Christianity is also a sham.

I ain't a catholic BTW.

True. I started attending the catholic church in sec school. And I can say that, despite the fact that religion typically excludes logic and rationality, the catholic church is the closest in combining faith with reason/logic.

Most of the arguments against the catholic church are arguments against religion in general. If I weren't attending the catholic church, I might have been a theist but one who subscribes to no religion.

However, I am still not a Catholic even though I attend the catholic church as I don't agree with all the doctrines of the church.

locoman:
@I-man

I will give you a clear details on how Catholicism gave right hand of fellowship to the Islam. Catholicism could not stop Islam from springing up so they signed a treathing that Islam should help and eliminate the protestants that stands against the Pope supremacy. That is why Islam and Catholics have things in common. The Islam has one pattern of mosque, that is the pattern of the pope cap. And they also introduce chaplets to them, Catholic is the only church the Islam respect.

To confirm this why will Catholic have a parish they named our lady of Fatima ? who is this Fatima ? Fatima is the daughter of Mohammad. Why this relationship ?

Fatima is a city in Portugal where the marian apparition happened - it doesnt refer to Mohammad's daugther
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/F%C3%A1tima,_Portugal

Oziegbe2Reginal:
THINKING ABOUT TITHE PAYMENT TODAY

Scripted by Mike Udam and powered by Evangelismportal2017

brilliant submission. logical and yet relying on scripture. few questions however:

(1) which of the 4 types of tithes is mandatory and which is optional

(2) Type 3 and Type 4 tithes seem to refer to one and same.

(3) you made no mention of malachi chapter 3

pocohantas:
Tribalism on a rape thread? Pathetic!

thats Python and his cohorts for you.

Oildichotomy:
Let's give it to Freeze that he won the argument that tithing is wrong, My question is now that he is not paying, Is his finances better for it?

People that argue this tithing thingy come off as people with low self esteem and inferiority complex with high aka-gum mentality. One thing I know for sure is Freeze is doing this for the followership that this could bring to his pocket

once you give it to freeze that he won the argument that tithing is wrong, your other submissions become nullified.

Freeze never said not tithing will improve your finances.

and there is absolutely no correlation between arguing against tithing and low-self esteem/inferiority complex.

younglawya:
Quick advise for anyone. Use a lawyer. A lawyer can hardly ever run with your money. A father or brother will wack it and your family members will be begging you.

lol. lawyer can wack it too. unless you have someone trusted with integrity or you come around yourself, you can be duped.

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so they should trust you instead of their family.

wydmag:
the issue of inflation of contracts is a thing of national disgrace. it happens in offices everywhere in Nigeria, where a contract which can be executed at 10m is awarded at the rate of 18M.

indeed lekki epe express way is a good case study

Mynd44:
IVF.
Let people know so they can also get this kind of happiness instead of thinking it was a natural birth and them also waiting 20 years before doing the needful

indeed. if it is IVF then they should say so. We have gone past the stage of IVF stigma or hiding the means of birth.

MaziOmenuko:
Me ayam not understanding. How were you hacked just few days in existence? This begs the question of how secured your servers are. What stops the hackers from ending your operations once and for all instead of just a pop-up message? Abi na bobo una dey bobo us?

of course they are lying na.


they should just show us an MOU or contract excerpt showing they are authorised by BEIN to broadcast the matches.

sarrki:
Ipobs are criminal

besides your tribalistic posts, your posts are usually robotic

Onijagidijagan:
Potopoto will not b hAppy

for those who live and work in Lagos, why not?

Why should they be unhappy that their Governor is effectively (I hope) using their taxes?

Sapiosexuality:
They've got the right to. I'm not on the rights to think for yourself but on the right for healthy thinking. Their are some women who love to be beaten by their men and a make up sex followed afterwards. That is erroneous thinking and because it is your opinion or right doesn't make it right. It shows a worrisome level of mental incapacitation. You don't get beat up and say it doesn't affect you negatively.
We can't because equity and equality is not a matter of subjective thoughts. Like I wrote above, having love for canes and defending it with 'preference' is something we all should worry about. Whatever is right is right no matter how you look at it. It is not a matter of your opinion.

Great! so we are back to the question of the existence of an objective truth/good. The idea of an objective truth is an anti-thesis to the concept of liberalism - which is what feminism is based on.

The masochist derives pleasure from pain e.g. being whipped and the Liberal-ist will say the Masochistic person has a right to request pain as a means of his/her satisfaction. It would then be right for her to be beaten (if she requests it) to satisfy her pleasurable desire. The liberal-ist will argue why you think it is wrong when she wants it.We can argue so many things in this fashion.

However, since you believe in the concept of an objective truth, which I agree with, what is the objective definition of equality and equity for all humans?

Sapiosexuality:
Does your argument imply that we should leave men who think they have a divine right to beat their women to their own decisions?

I said as far as it does not affect another negatively. remember that this is the liberal school of thought that drives even feminism. Beating your wife affects her negatively. I know women who cannot marry a man who is not prepared to be the head of the home.

Are you saying those women do not have a right to think for themselves?

Sapiosexuality:
That is the crux of the matter. We can't reduce it to a subject of preferences

why shouldn't it be reduced to a subject of preferences/interests and the opportunity to pursue those preferences/interests.

As a woman, I want to be anything i want to be - from a CEO of a fortune 500, the president of a nation, a Bus driver, a full time house wife etc. Shouldn't I be allowed to? I shouldn't be forced into a box due to my gender. That's what I understand by the gender equality (equality in opportunities).

Sapiosexuality:
If a man doesn't like equity, we won't go down to his level but 'force' him to rise up.

please give me an example of this - a man that doesn't like equity? I hope you don't mean the man who wants to be responsible for finances while the wife is managing the home and nurturing children? He should have an opportunity to be financial provider and she should have an opportunity to be full time house-wife if that's what he wants and what she wants. do you think this is not equality?

wonlasewonimi:
The way exceptionally rich people live in Nigeria is the way ordinary low income people live in the US.

exactly cost of living in naija is cheap because quality of life is poor.

once you want to live a life as good as the average american, you would pay through your nose.

Imagine living in a 2 bedroom in lekki with 24 hrs power and kids in meadow hall. Thats a rent of 1.5 million, service charge + power of 1.5 million and school fees per child of 3 million. Thats 6 million naira for only rent and school fees so you need to earn like 10 million at least - which is bank manager salary.

Now similar quality of life in the US would only require a USD 40k salary which is above menial jobs but what the average engineer will earn.

timesup234:
well with 250k you can get a nice two bedroom in most states in Nigeria

you are not comparing equal standards of living. two bedroom where I stay in Lekki is about 1 million naira. The guy in america does not have have saving because there are bills and taxes which translate to a better quality life.

however i agree with you that there are exaggerations about how guys doing menial jobs in the US are better than Bank Managers here. I am usually like nor be the US wey I dey visit and the naija boiz wey I dey meet for there?

Also, I agree that doing a currency conversion does not explain taxes and other expenses.

Sapiosexuality:
How can chauvinism be feminism? Their can be either male or female chauvinism. The world we live in today has all the footprints of male chauvinism. Why should a man with Down Syndrome be considered the head of the family where his wife's thyroxine excited her IQ to over 160? That's what chauvinism is. An idiot decides what happens in the home simply because he is a man.

well marriage is a different ball game as we mostly take our definitions of marriage from religion. In most religions, head of the home does not necessarily mean smartest or that the head does not listen or take advice of others. it simply means responsibility. The leader is not necessarily the smartest. the CEO is not necessarily the smartest in the company.

Equality in dignity and equality in opportunities is what I stand for. I still do not call myself a feminist. I believe the genders are not the same. the genders are unique each with its own natural obligations. however I believe in outliers hence everyone should be afforded the opportunity to be what they want to be.

If a woman wants to go into a male dominated profession, she should be allowed. ditto for a male. if a woman wants to be the head of the home in her marriage, she should simply find a man who shares her sentiments. ditto for man too. No one should be limited by his or her gender but this does not mean we should ignore the fact that the genders are different physiologically and psychologically. everyone should be allowed to be what he or she wants to be as far as it does not affect another.

So if man believes in the concept of primary gender obligations and secondary/helper obligations in marriage, he should find a woman who shares his sentiments. Similarly if a woman believes in equal obligations in marriage, she should simply find a man who shares similar sentiments. the summary is that for marriage, both parties should simply discuss their views on marriage beforehand and agree or stop the relationship.

Daeylar:
So we now move misogynistic topics to FP, nice

please all those who don't want a girl child
remember to have you kids by a man like you, because another person's female child shouldn't carry your kids. F**k men like you, Get the egg and the womb from men like you and when you have your kids through these men, they better grow up to be homosexuals.
Peace.

Girl child this, girl child that, as if both genders are not capable of turning out badly.


Please let him know.

the article was written by a lady

Sirjamo:
No, I won't die before him, cos he's old enough to be my grandfather and he's my leader . It's you and your likes who are more likely to die early and untimely because of your unnecessary hatred and bigotry.
Take my warning for free: The nest six years might be the longest of your miserable life, cos it's going to be Buhari in Aso Rock ruling over your sorry ass, and you, an ordinary citizen and there is nothing you can do about it.

do you realise Buhari is to serve him and not the other way round.

He is Buhari's employer. It is this kind of civics we need to be teaching.

ibkayee:
Saw this trending on twitter yesterday, silly move on the girl's part, it's a nonconsensual violation and isn't funny smh

exactly. it is not criminal for him to cheat but it is criminal to invade his privacy and publish a nude of him.

Banter1:
stop generalizing.

are you minding the tribal bigot

Jesusloveyou:
so why will buhari order investigation if it was he that beg maina to return.
IPods sef

could be to save face. Not everyone who questions his government is IPOD. This (labeling critics as enemies) was what killed the previous government.