₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
Yup. What makes a first class king is his ability to treat his marriage partner like filth

You people are disgustingly deplorable

in africa, just avoid marrying these kings and princes.

the most backward and savage traditions are prevalent in royal houses. slavery etc.

Ginaz:
What of lies, cheating, adultery, love of money, not showing kindness to needy people, not looking out for the widow men and women? Not having love for our brothers and sisters... Are these not sins more greater than fornication?

See, I'm a realist and do not belong to the abstain bal bla bla and bla. I belong to those who does good in action and in heart. Cos the heart is what God searches for. What good will it do you to abstain from sex but lie with the very passion of hell?

When the world of Jericho fell down, who was saved among thousands of people? Probably there were lots of virgins too in Jericho. But A PROSTITUTE was saved!!!! A prostitute among them all!!! As in, when I read that verse of the bible my spirituality gets hot like fire. She believed in God and saved the spies of Israelite, at that moment her life changed.

Stop being holy holy people, mostly which Africans are guilty of. They will be wicked at heart but shiny as light outside.

You see how the whites acted in the mist of the recent Florida storm, didn't you see how genuinely caring they were? They helped with food, money, medicals, even saved mere chickens. How many of you here shouting abstain abstain shiit would saved a mere chicken in a face of a storm?

God sees the heart...not your actions. Please everybody let's have a Godly fear in everything we do. You that's abstaining from sex but have a cold blooded heart is not different from the one doing it.

When it comes to Christianity in Africa, there is misconception. That's why I hardly go to church.

Being a Christian is much more than abstaining from sex. Let's get a grip on our overbearing righteousness when it comes to sex.


Sex is not the only sin listed in the Bible.

fornication is a sin and we know it is not the only sin. What is your point exactly?

that we fornicate does not mean we shouldnt acknowledge is a sin in most religions

Freakypinky:
Going radio silent is the best way to break up.
Just create distance until you're no longer missed.
Thank me later.

would be the worst way for someone like me. I want to know why? My ears can take anything and you should tell me rather than going cold turkey on me

muller101:
I have said a lot . Luckily no regrets . I called a lady an harlot in secondary School after some days I regret calling her ashawo.but today the girl is a dirty prostitute.

are you a prophet?

the problem with the original post and many comments here is the generalisation of patterns in behavior


you think of dichotomies (good girls & bad/runs girls) when there are more than 1000 classes of girls and 1000 classes of men who prefer each type of the aforementioned 1000 classes.

classifying patterns in human personalities and behavior is not easy and two-class classification ain't enough. there is a financially-independent sexually-experienced lady somewhere who can fit into any of these two classes in OP's post.

pocohantas:
Fixed.

Fixed right. I actually left out a word in error. my word was "Chauvinist" though

pocohantas:
I really don't think the guy wants to fukc her at her place. The guy's problem is, he has met too many gold digging oloshos of this generation, so...it has affected his perception of the female folks.

When guys like that chyke you, you go just weak...

She sef get her own for body, she indulged him for far too long.

Indeed

ladies always beware of proud guys

guys always beware of proud feminist type ladies.

these two people bolded above have been heavily influenced by their experiences

Atlantia:
Hey! If you cannot understand her reply then don't expect me to educate you.

Oh and why do you have to resort to insults just to pass a message across?

There was a sarcastic intent in her response but she did not pass it well. Just imagine if the guy replied back and said

"Ow I get you. So how much for a night?"

Sabrina18:
Her husband leaking the tape is an infringement on her human right.

Your are right that Adultery is no criminal offence but threatening someone with Acid and recording the person's private moments is criminal.

The thing is if a woman caught her husband cheating and disgraced her and the other girl or even actually spilled acid on him, many women will hail the woman and say it serves the man right. This man has been verbally and psychologically abused throughout his marriage. This is why she even had the audacity to cheat on him. I hear it was in their home.

Stellie:
And who said she dated someone's husband..??. It cud hav being an accident or somtin else... Sincerly almost everyone here hav lost their conscience...haaa u guys dont even feel bad for her..hmm ....and d fact dat u r a gal surprised me i cudnt help buh mention u....

as in no empathy, just negative judgement and spurious accusations

missloluwa:
Hey guys,

I'm in my mid 20's and i've been working for a few years now, my current salary is very decent and i'm striving to earn more. Obviously at my age, i'm thinking of the long term which obviously includes my career but i'm also looking forward to and marriage and kids. However, the vast majority of guys i've met are either not ready for the long term, or they're still in their 'struggling' phase.

Is it bad that I want someone who is at least on the same level as me, or maybe even slightly below? Am I a 'gold-digger' because i don't really want to 'eat garri' with a guy before he blows? I've dated these guys before but even till now their level hasn't changed much despite all their talk about potential.

I don't mind having to split the bill once in a while or even contribute but i'm a lady that's used to certain tastes. My family isn't Dangote rich but we're doing quite well, and i'd like to continue living that life or at least not drop too far below. What do you guys think? Do I keep looking for these 'almost/made guys'(can anyone tell me where to find them? lol) or do I settle for a struggler.

you are no gold digger. you are a a realist. And in marriage, realism wins.

it is important to marry someone you would find easy to respect. You are young but you need to start early.

first know exactly what you want
then start actively searching for that. where do they hangout out? what are their interests? what do they typcially desire in their spouses.

A financially stable guy is not descriptive enough to answer the aforementioned questions.

I sense you might be picky even if you didnt say so. So it will be important to start early.

tit:
who cares!
this rotten pucci alhassan alias ashawo mecca, should go and seat down.
we know all her doings.
buhari till 2023

you guys branded her a woman of repute when she was for Buhari o

holatin:
the only thing loading for atiku is a bus for a journey.

baba iyabo is alive and well, atiku wount smell aso Rock. he should go and dit down. he is one of the thousand who ruin this country.

and his boss?

Cinderella5:
son of a madman, where did you see i ever talked about gender equality? i have never been of that opinion cos its not possible for both gender to be equal. God never made it so, there must be head.

equality indignity and opportunities is not against God's plan

Cinderella5:
you are a disgrace to manhood. you are not fit to be called a man, you are a weakling and a curse.

woman footing your bills? unbelievable.

the old culture brought about the patriarchy. A new mentality is gradually setting in. Unfortunately, this new mentality doesn't just talk about equality in dignity/opportunities but also equality in responsibilities and obligations.

this dude is of the new mentality

i am still in the old ways though.

Aufbauh:
Ipob always craving the attention of UN, ICC, Amnesty Int'l and Co by instigating unwarranted provocation as if these organizations can actually dictate for our sovereignty.

lets not let our hatred for IPOB make us ignore excesses of our military abeg

Gerard Pique raised and wore a catalan flag to celebrate spain world cup win on tv and in front of hundreds of thousands of people. He wasnt shot.

askseunoladele:
WHY YOUR HUSBAND IS CRAZY ABOUT HIS MISTRESS AND IS NOT READY TO LET HER GO...

I do not support an affair. Singles can also learn to prevent future adultery. But here are are the possible reasons your husband is crazy about his mistress and is not ready to let her go...

........

You are in real competition with the LovePeddler! Don't let her win. If she uses charm, you add prayer to your weapons and in no time you win your husband back. Read HIS NEEDS, HER NEEDS (How to build an affair proof marriage) by Gary Chapman, it will help you a lot. You will not lose your husband to another woman in Jesus name.I love you so much baby. Keep working at it. Feel free to share. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
www.askseunoladele..com

Trash

sarrki:
I kind of agree

Same youths that produced Gani Adams, Evans FFK,Asari dokubo, Nnamdi KANU and shekau to mentioned but few

not a very wise or logical rationale.

there good and bad elders.
and there are good and bad youths.


we can give thousands of names of bad elders

Safiaa:
Your penis and balls work together to function, therefore its seen as one. So its still the same thing to me. Im not comparing the vagina to a diick. All im saying is that it is NOT impossible for a mans intimate area to smell bad like some are claiming. And yes, its due to poor hygiene most times, like i said before. Let's stop acting like a dickk is immune to having a bad smell. It's annoying.

the particular dude most of you are disagreeing with has said nothing contrary to the bolded. I agree with the bolded too.

Bad smell from a woman's intimate area could also be from the groin area due to sweat/poor hygiene. but the focus of this thread was on vaginal odour

Safiaa:
Interesting thread

Just do what works for you. What works for A will not work for B. Nobody can tell me that i shouldn't use water to wash the inside of my vagina, because it works for me, but it may not work for others. All these arguments for nothing.

Dicks are not prone to have a smell compared to a vagina. But there are instances where the balls smell bad mainly due to poor hygiene. And I've personally experienced it. So people should stop acting like it's impossible for a dickk to smell. It's an intimate area and it needd to be cleaned properly, just as much as th vagina. Simple.

that's not the dick itself smelling but the balls and groin due to heat, sweat or poor hygiene.

the vagina on the other hand always has an odour which is not usually repugnant except if there are infections.

if you can compare the vaginal odour to dick then you should compare the vaginal odour to armpit odour.

Cinderella5:
my dear, I understand that just like lala something, you need to impress the foolish sex starved men here, but listen to me, a penis only smells fresh when washed. And it's the fact, it can't be like the hand or leg which is always exposed to light and air.

indeed. and that is not a smell internal to the joystick but is a smell coming from where the skin of the joystick spends time in - the heat area between thigh and scrotum.

a freshly washed vagina can still smell after a while even when exposed to air. the smell comes from the vagina which is internal.

I cant understand why you are still not getting this? Apologies for the insults from the other dude. I detest uncouth talk but he was right in his initial position about comparing the joystick to an arm in their both being external.

pocohantas:
Blindfold me and put the neatest dick in the world...maybe by GWR to my nose... I will tell you it's a dick
It could have a light natural musk, which should be sensual . Let me not talk of the unhealthy one, that one isn't my concern. If some ladies can say their vagina doesn't have any natural smell...why can't guys say same. Ahbegi...

you would not know if the scrotum area was covered air tight

Cinderella5:
I am not by any way comparing the vj with the dick in terms of smell, what I am saying is that the penis smells as well. It's not like the arm or leg like your carelessly asserted. The penis apart from retaining residue of urine which has an acidic smell, also smells stale, this is because the prick is trapped in between thighs, boxers and trousers, it sure stinks when it comes out to receive fresh air.
Stop dodging the issue at hand,the vagina naturally has an odour, yes, but to say the penis does not smell is telling bare faced lies.

thats an external odour from the region between the thigh and scrotum due to sweat, heat and dirty boxer shorts. If a guy takes his bath just before sex. that smell would become negligible.

for ladies, the odour is internal

ShyCypher:
...in which I was referrin' to the lady in OP's story.

Why are you contradictin' yourself?

baba i nor get time to explain. abeg re-read everything again

ShyCypher:
And she said it was without her consent or you made that up? Did you see/hear her sayin' that or protestin'?

Why don't we stick to established facts.

Thanks.

i wasn't referring to the lady in OP's story. I was referring to your hypothesis about "... her previous actions/conduct has invited such acts towards her. "

ShyCypher:
Wow!
And she collected it smilin'?!

Lord God. She is clearly sayin' "I'm an olosho, You Bleep me & pay me. That's my job". She's not even hidin' sh!t.

Damn. Now tell me how this 'lady' won't act porn if she gets the chance. If a guy sees her around that hood and playfully smacks her in the ass next week, she'll upload a video and rant online about how a pervert almost "raped" her when her previous actions/conduct has invited such acts towards her.

Later naw, our Slay Mamas Association of Nigeria, SMAN (Nairaland Chapter) will attack us when we say they lack dignity & deserve to be treated like the scum they are.

if you have sex with a known prostitute without her consent, it is RAPE

GeneralOjukwu:
The leg is already looking gangrenous (black / green)

She might die of infection soon.

Instead of getting to a Teaching Hospital, you are talking of Faith "Healers" and Witchcraft

as in, the thing tire me. Already that leg ulcer has developed so much that the foot will likely be amputated

ihatesycophant:
This illustration will only be hailed by his like minds, who cannot reason.
This is the same man that told them, Buhari is dead and they jubilated.
This is the same man that told them, Buhari is now a spirit ruling from UK and they jubilated.
This is the same man that told them, Buhari is already decaying and they jubilated.
This is the same man that told them, Buhari can never come back to Nigeria and they jubilated.
If in an atmosphere of sincerity and God's love, he suppose knelt down and ask forgiveness from his supporters for lying to them but in Nigeria they believe things that sweeten their minds.
Even in our separate houses, if left for a month, various rodent penetrate everywhere, even cockroach. Let alone an office left for over three months, we should expect such thing, if the office not opened to use in his absence.
However, the government need to be serious by doing always routine fumigation. It's not expected in a high power office like that to experience rodent attack.

i agree with you that no one should take FFK serious. he should normally be a Court fool/jester. However, the rats story isnt looking plausibe because:

it shouldnt require three months to fix the office
if our overzealous led us to organize parties and welcoming ceremonies, the office would normally have been prepared in waiting for him
FEC meeting cancellation sends the signal that the President doesn't want to be in public.

they should have the FEC meeting to dispel rumours

deedeedee1:
The Northern youths are beginning to reason. It is very good that the youths of today do not want to repeat their father's mistakes. You dont have to blame Buhari. He is an old man and was one of those men that "fought for Nigeria Unity" 50 years ago. Yet, nothing to show for it. The truth is that Nigeria has never been united and will never be. Since we have 3 majority ethnic groups in Nigeria, then let Nigeria split into three.
North for Arewa
West for Oodua
East for Biafra.
This is the easiest way to split Nigeria. We can become good neighbors.

using that split, you will have issues with south-south and Middle belt. Those regions will be divided

Bolustical:
Rats are one of the most annoying animals in the world HOWEVER Garba Shehu did a bad job by spilling that information out considering the type of country we are. We make politics out of everything.

Garba should learn to say the right things at the right time.

The issue is not that rats are in the office but that rats have taken over the office that the President needs three months at home.

Do the FEC meetings hold in that office? why was the FEC meeting for today cancelled? There is a big cover up of something. They should be careful not to allow good intentions turn out terribly awry.

The President himself needs to be speaking more, people need to see him in public again. Hiding him is making bad situations worse.

Many bad leaders actually do have good intentions.

ogawisdom:
First class crammer abi memorizer

Most first class ppl dnt excess in d practice of their area

Hw many first class in law make it to SAN jst frm practice.

So first class means nothing if d knowledge can't impact society positively

most first class are impacting society positively by lecturing and working in organisations. One does not have to be an entrpreneur to impact society.

GeneralOjukwu:
Yes...I make snide comments, but I don't preach no tribalism.

yeah exactly. for you, there is no hypocrisy.

GeneralOjukwu:
It's all being silly. Was the best man to my Igbo best friend. We have been friends for over 2 decades. He's the friend I trust the most.

I think it is more than just being silly. for a lot of people, being anonymous show their true nature. even if you are an exception, your comments will help others discover their innate tribalism.